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Whe does everything always have to change?

Why can't people who are in your life stay consistantly in your life?
Why do they always end up having to go away even though they say they never will?
Or why do they act at some times as if you were never even a part of their life when before they told you that they'd always be around no matter what?

I know that everything changes, and that no matter what, you can never stop it, because change is a part of life; but why?

Why is it that when things are going along so perfect and you are actually happy for once, that is when it all gets taken away?

I guess I just don't understand................................

That's what GOD wants...ALLAH AKBAR...

Change is inevitable Linds....it happens all the time. People grow, either apart or closer, but nothing ever stays the same, and nothing ever will...

The thing you need to remember is that everything will be ok in the end...and if its not ok, then it simply means its not the end yet...

But that's what things always are........

Just okay.

As soon as things get good, they go back to being okay again.

I feel like I put in all this effort to make everything great, but then it all crumbles and I have to start all over again.

Sometimes GOD wants to test your patience

Look, I get the point that you're religious, you don't need to preach it anymore.

ok as you want

Heho where are you?

sometimes not only masters but just other people can see more of your faults than you like ...
sometimes, they don't like your faults
sometimes, they don't think being friends would be a good idea cause of your and their faults could result in a bad ending

list goes on and on

but why you post this? what happened?

hmm well change can be hard to deal with, I certainly had it after I left High-School this year.

I believe it to be a combination of fear of the unknown and the loss of certainty. I also found out that the more I tried to keep everything the way it was, the less happy I got and once I came to accept the fact that things change in life I saw that with change came new great looking opportunities

don't worry, sweetie. Changes are nearly always for the better, in the end.

really? I don't miss high-school at all

but true, if you let it go, you can get happy again

I didn't miss school that much but I did/do miss the old gang

"And just when it hit me, somebody turned around and shouted:
PLAY THAT FUNKY MUSIC WHITE BOY!
PLAY THAT FUNKY MUSIC RIIIIGHT!"
- Kool and the Gang: Play that Funky Music

oh, there there FM... I'm sure Nathalie would LURF to see you again

it's a circle of life... deal with it!!

cheers mate!!

I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!


"AND THEY WAS DANCIN', AND SINGIN' AND MOVIN' TO THE GROOVIN'"

If you stop searching, you stop living, because then you're dwelling in the past. If you're not reaching forward to any growth or future, you might as well be dead. Reaching forward brings changes along.

ooooooooooooooh... philosophical...

*finds profound inner peace*

You sound down Linds, but have faith that I'll always be here.

until you fing out... cheers!!

can't help to think of it ... what if it's THAT that got her down in the first place?

To much depressive to stay here.
I stand up with depression thread but better do not post nothing here

Night! You'd please me even more without these stars
which speak a language I know all too well-
I long for darkness, silence,
nothing there. .

C.Baudelaire

Don't walk that way pls

huh?

Life is like surfing, sometimes you ride the wave, sometimes you dont bt inevitably you will get wet one way or another. You just got to keep going out there.

Life would be pretty boring without change.

True BF

If nothing ever changed. life would be boring, and monotonous.

Small changes are ok. So are good ones. It's the big and difficult changes that I don't like.

well Linds as I said before, only by accepting it and putting yourself over it can you make sure

Big negative changes suck, but you gtaa try and putup with em. Or you could even fight for better things.

It's just overwhelming. So many changes to deal with yet I live in denial and hope that everything will just go back to normal one day.

what exactly happened?

Took the words right out of my mind yerss!

I second that.

hmm, sometimes a small change for one person is a huge change for someone else so don't hope you will understand everything

well, after getting it from someone else ...
there is always the future, things can change back how they were once
that or read the first phrase of my sig, can help too

lol that is kinda untrue yerss

everything you see and do in life is subjective

true

But I think it's good to try to be as objective as possible.

And things change, that's just the way it is. Things may have changed in a way you didn't want, and that can be hard. But eventually things will get better

All conditioned things are in a state of flux or change, and thus impermanent. The ever changing nature of both mind and matter proves the insubstantiality of life, and the instability of existence.

- Buddha (Prince Siddartha)

And thats very true!

life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you gonna get...

- forest gump mother

cheers mate!!

hmmmm.... chocolate *drools*

I know how you feel I have lost quite a few people close to me in my life

yup same here...

cheers mate!!

everyone loses ppl in there life, I lost a lot of friends, gained a lot as well, but I try to keep the precious ones

it's inevitable, it's what you have to accept

true, but that can be hard

never said it was easy

There are some things in my life that change that I refuse to accept no matter what.

But you are gonna have to....its what happenes. When one door closes another window openes...but we tend to stare at the closed door too long wandering why it has shut, to notice that the open window.

care to expand, LISTK?

Linds?! What sort of stuff are you talking about?! KMC im guessing...

she's kinda ... tricky to find online these days

A small part of it is KMC, it used to be a big part, but now, there are other things as well............

care to say which other things?

Learning to deal with change is a part of everyones life, it's part of growing up and maturing.

*stops crawling around on his knees*
ma...turing?

of course some people will never mature

*smacks yerss' ass*

*giggles*
*jumps on BF*
POKE-FIGHT!

I'll poke you with something.

oh, you stallion
*smacks BF's ass*

Hey life changes...roll with the punches.....and you'll be ok