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Who would you choose:

1. Someone you're hopelessly in love with but could never share intimacy with, such as sex or any form of sex. That's right, no foreplay. None. Zero. Zilch. Nada.

or

2. Someone who knows how to drive you wild and send you in an arousing frenzy, but could never share the deep true emotions of love.

So which is it going to be? Sorry, but its either one or the other. There can be no both. Do you choose the one you love or the one that stimulates your body like you never knew possible? Love or Lust?

Love

Love!!

sex is for animals ....love is for humans!

uh...never known either so i wouldn't know...i'll go with lust just for the hell of it though

some people who have not experienced love might mistake lust for it...

I don't understand how u can have love without expressing it physically... if he couldn't have sex, but still kiss to express love, then my vote is for love.

If u can't kiss, then this poll doesn't make sense, because it's not reality.

I am in Love right now, and we aren't able to physically touch at all...are you saying my Love isn't reality?

no, you can't touch, there's a big difference there

Lance, are you saying you can't even kiss?

No, she lives in New Zealand, I live in America.

Oh, okay I see. I thought you were talking about a religious thing. And to answer your question BidMyBlood2Run, I never said you couldn't make any physical contact, I just ruled out sex and foreplay.

I mean, if you can't have sex, why even foreplay? Foreplay just leads to sex, and if you can't have sex why even bother? It just arouses you.

I choose love, because love is the deepest of all human emotion. It's what makes the world go round. You can love someone without having sex. Love has no boundries and limitations, and sex does. I strongly believe in love, and think that it makes anything possible, and if you truly loved each other sex and foreplay would not be the most important things to you!

Call me an animal but I got to go with lust, its just how I am!

damn!

I chose lust

am I totally shallow?

deffinatley not!

yay, thanks

my pleasure

Jedi, are you talking about like with a confessor in the Sword of Truth series who cannot deliberately touch in an excited state?

omg u scare me

LOL!

love is an illusion

stop quoting burly!

well, he IS right you know!

maybe..

maybe not

I would have to say Lust, but this is only because I've just had my heart broken terribly, as a lot of you know, and my faith in Love has been shattered.

I'm sure, in time, that my viewpoint will once again change, and I hope to God that it does or I am going to lead a very sad existence for the rest of my life, but at the moment the only part of me that seems to have any feeling are my physical attributes!!!

I've naturally distanced myself from any kind of deeper commitment, for fear of being permanently damaged, and this, I suppose, is my way of grieving. But it is working, slowly I am felling better, and I will trust again. But up until then I am listening to the pulsating and throbbing if areas OTHER than my heart!!!!

lol

Oh Yeah, and I got 74% on a **** Test I did in the OTF!!!!!

oh yeah..be proud!

Some ppl find pleasure in Love other ppl find pleasure in Lust. I choose both Love and lust.

can I change it Syren?

love........love lasts....
lust doesnt.....

love hurts....

lust doesnt

lust can hurt a lot.

if you look at it that way

tut-tut-tuthttp://images.killermovies.com/forums/moresmilies/nono.gif

me?

Woah...that is an odd one.

Maybe lust...

I mean how rustrating would be not be able to touch ever...EVER!!! or have sex or any intimacy of any kind...EVER! That would kill me. It would just be just frustrating..you might even drift apart...maybe.

not you, santa claus

aw ok

Actually, I saw this movie with Barbara Streisand and it was about a girl who had never been in a relationship before. She wasn't the type of girl most guys would ask out. But then she meets this guy and they hit it off. They eventually get married, but this guy, who has been married several times before, believes that the physical aspect of a relationship is unnecessary and eventually leads to marital problems (the decline of sex after several years of marriage) So he and the girl agree never to kiss or have sex. Though the girl has agreed to this, she is finding out more and more how hard this agreement has become. She's never been kissed by a guy before and has never experienced intimacy with someone. This, of coarse, causes problems between the two, so they decide to end the marriage. And the girl, who is desperate for love, looses weight, gets in shape, and gets a complete make over. Eventually the guy comes crawling back and they decide to throw out the "no intimcy rule."

A good example of this would be a relationship with someone bound to a wheelchair... and I choose love.

It's also not fair to push someone away just because they're in a wheelchair! (no PUN untended!)

I want to choose love, I really do, but to never experience intimacy with someone you love has got to be real killer. I don't know if I could do that. I think sex is very important in a relationship. It's a way of expressing your love. Then again, if you love someone so much, you are willing to give up anything for them.

So, I guess I choose love. It can't be that bad, can it?

I chose love cos whats sex without love. just one big messy thingy and i donno just ignore me......

im undecided...

what...? sex is for animals?...I know a lot more humans who would choose "lust" over "love" than I do animals....

anyways... that's a tough question... prolly love though

well I chose love on the terms that you can touch them just no sex
so basically you can fell and get close to them just not go all the way

so love all the way

Well yeah assuming that it's just sex you can't do definitely love

I know where you're coming from. I agree.

love

i should stop digging dewep in the OTF

i already have love.

fugg has new friend. fugg play with peter johnson.

besides that, i choose love. i 'm a lost casanova. women just don't want me to protect them.

i voted love.just coz...

but there is a lot of lust in my marriage. a lot!!!

good for you.

no

no? not good for me? why?

it is very good for me. dont hate just cuz you have neither.

dude i just psoted random stuff

i wuz saying no mostly to bananas

definitely love. physical relationship is good, but true love is much much deeper.

but to have both is awesome.

is this JediHm's first post in the OTF?

i think so.

but it ainmt i just checked

dunno

no...it's not my first post...why?

check his last post thing in hi profile

its just that we never see you here.

well...it is true, i spend most of my time here at KMC over at the Matrix forums, answering this question or solving that dispute...but i come here occassionally

well... hello again!

i dont get the matrix.

I dont know, i never loved, so I cant cchose something if I dont know what it feels like.

it is a great feeling.

Hopefully some day I'll find out. All I know is what lust feels like.

lust is good. love is great.

Love is the best

love

love

who do you love raz jr.

I'm not sure what love is

I've met someone here on KMC who stands out from everyone else I know - even IRL, but I can't really say I love someone I've never met cry

This is one of the fake dillemma questions "Your mother or your father?"

I can't answer
But I'd say that love lasts more, but without lust, it ceases to be the "man-woman" love kind of thing.

btw, dragonpisces> I LOVE your avatar! Starbucks Coffee are deliciously yummy

you dont know how true that is

who, me?

raz jr>i read what evy wrote and i decided that my message was ment for the both of you

aaah

so who do you like?

oh yeah thanks for the comment evy
raz jr.>i...dont..know if you mean KMC wise...im stuck with you on this one

Me?

or do you mean something else by that?

just a random post


and I like Fallen Jedi... obviously

LTA>that was such a mystery
raz jr.>i mean i dont know who i like here, like you but i dont mind being stuck with you it sounds weird doesnt it lol

oh, I know who I like here

In fact, as far as knowing someone online goes... I love her.

And I hope she's just as great IRL too

So who is it Dave/Raz Jr? Or You wish to keep it private?

its blatantly obvious, in every post I make... except this one

I'm sorry,
Ive been away from KMC for ages and dont know the goss that going around

Silver Tears

beh, I've only been here for a day.

I don't exactly have any friends ^^'

detective

*points to sig*

thurrrrrrrrrrp

AHHHHH ok. Many have liked Silver Tears.

I know

Something about her

that i dont see cuz I'm a snotty 13 year old brat

you're both right

*sarcastic laugh*

I used to have a lil place in her sig image and some text

cry not any more

Bummer, .

intersting


i think

love. long distance doesn't allow touching. yup yup. -sigh- lament lament. besides, i could always satisfy myself. heh. :P

thanx for... sharing... i err, think...

love makes peple go crazy so lust

Lust makes people go just as crazy, except in a sexual way

sadly you're right. long distance doesn't allow touching.

if only it did...

trust me, if it did, things would get really interesting here.

a bit o both is always good

Hmmm Lust..

Emotions is the toy of the Millenium.

Love is the cause of death for so many people, its beautiful, its essential, fascinateing, motivating, yes...

But im chaotic, and i like lust better.

I can't choose..........y

love...

love...i honestly think im in love w/my gf...which is scary cuz im 17...but every time im with her...i dont want us to ever be apart..n when we are..i know theres this huge hole inside of me...
(now according to ur poll...do kisses count against love?) cuz if it does...i'd have to choose lust...even tho i honestly dont care if i sleep w/her or not...thats really not sumthin i care about rite now...

love

I love my girl enough to know that she doesn't want to be around me all the time, and kisses are not against the rules, at least i don't think so. I think she means along the lines of bareing children and passing your name along with..... which i wouldn't mind having but can do without if i still got her..

just as long as the girl aint butt ugly im fine with love

A bit of both is fine with me. I would want to have it be a steamy relationship. i am a very passionate person.

I have to be pretty intense. I mean I am not half-hearted about many things. Might have something to do with the fact that I am a Scorpio.

how can it be love if you find the woman ugly? I think you mean lust.

Exactly mi-lady...

I jumped into the conversation midway. So it didn't come out the way I wanted it to.

I love beautiful women.

I love models even more. Hint hint.

Raventheonly>i didnt mean that i had to be around her all the time...but if ur in love then u should know the feeling like u wanna c her cuz she makes u feel good when shes around...at least thats how it is w/me...n i dont have to c her...talkin to her on fone or online is good too...as long as i know its her...

love i think but sometimes you can love someone so much that you don't want to lose them and then they don't love you back and you know that without them you are only half a person and only can get half the things you want from life

I choose Love. Passion will eventually fade, and so does lust. Love is being satisfied just by hugging, kissing, and looking into your significant other's eyes. Love will last until you are old and gray. Lust will only last but a short while.

I dont see why you cant have both

thats not true...nothin love can fade just as fast as lust...if love last till old and gray how come there are so many broken homes

it starts with lust but if its good it turns into love

no...it starts with love and if your lucky it turns to lust (passion)..coz if u lose the lust than u lose the love...that makes mores sense to me

Lust all the way! Love is overrated.

no its not

food

love













but lust has it's own advantages

havent you said that alrady?

most likely, what's it too you

nothing... except its hard to tlk 2 ppl on ur ignore list

I'm so happy for you
Please feel free not to speak at all to me