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angiel
in theory, how do you stop seeing a girl when you realize you don't like her anymore? i-- in theory of course-- just stop calling her. ireally don't know what to say. and this is the awkward part... we work together. i mean, i do talk to her when i see her... i don't avoid her completely. but how do you do it nicely. i don't wanna come off as a jerk... i'm just clueless... in theory of course

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SessomaruLover1
That's a tough situation you have. Hmm... you could say that you want to be just "friends". I dunno. Sorry. I don't do good in this area for advice...

§pearhead
Never say let's just be friends no

Hit"Em"Up
start off by taking her out.


let her know what your feeling.


and if she still dont get a clue just tell her the truth.

angiel
when women say let's just be friends, it means this is all your fault and i don't wanna see you ever again...

when men say let's just be friends, it means can i give you a booty call sometime...

Hit"Em"Up
oh shit in speaking of botty call i godda call this lady girl from work.


thanx for reminding me angiel

shellie
do her a favor and tell the truth .

if you just stop calling w/out an explanation then you will look like a bigger jerk .

will she be upset ? maybe but she'd rather know and deserves to know .







wouldnt you want the same concideration ?????

SessomaruLover1
sorry. Like I said I'm not good in this area. Cause 1- I'm not a guy
2- I've never been dumped
3- I've said that to guys and it's worked for me.

I think that's good advice HeU smile

angiel
this is a hard situation... what if she gives the table flip. what if she said she never wanted more when she clearly did? self preservation i guess.

the ego has landed

tomcat

shellie
well it ould be nicer if you talked to her about it to find out . easier said then done im sure .

if it were the other way around would you want her to get over her "ego" to talk to you ???

angiel
that's why they call it self preservation, sweetie...

angiel
how could you?!? mad

Hit"Em"Up
how could i what?

angiel
forget a booty call...

shellie
i realize that sweetie....


im just speaking from a girls point of view .

angiel
i see...

i told you... totally cluelessbag

...sweetie...

Hit"Em"Up
im kinda stoned that could be why

angiel
laughing funny sh!t...

shellie
stick out tongue



big grin

angiel
this is all in theory, you all know that right...nosweat

shellie
sure




in "theory" only roll eyes (sarcastic)

angiel
it's actually a friend of friend's sister's cousin's friend... twiced removed. maybe three times, i'm not quite surenosweat

Hit"Em"Up
my boss at worked hokked me up with an 8th i smoke some earlier and the shit is awsome

wuTa
this is why i dont date coworkers..either way it looks like your gonna get b*tched out no matter what u do so if i where you i would tell her the truth as soon as i can and get it over with

angiel
i hear you. i actually did it 3 times. and all the girls work together. the last thing i need is a reputation... or is it too late?

hang

angiel
i hope you saved some for tomorrow smokin'

Hit"Em"Up
i work 2morrow so were gona be pretty damn baked after like 3pm

shellie
laughing


of a great uncle on your grandmas side of the family........

Hit"Em"Up
i swear to god my boss has the best weed.


i think its white rhyno or some shit like that

shellie
never had weed before


*wonders what it is like*

angiel
nothing special... everything is just funny. unless you get paranoid. after a while you get the munchies...

Hit"Em"Up
white rhyno is some crazy weed.


i swear if you take one hit i guarente that you'll start sweating and your heart beats fast like hell.


other than that i was smoking it and watching star wars and man that was trippy

angiel
try watching the matrix... first one...

Hit"Em"Up
i watched spiderman 2 wile trippin and holy f*ck.


it got me all tweeked out.

angiel
maybe i should toke up before talking to this girl... hypothetically...

Hit"Em"Up
i agree.


get stoned as hell and maybe she'll dump you because she may not like you all tweaked.

angiel
laughing

Hit"Em"Up
hey it worked for me when i tried breaking it off with this one hoe who is still stalking me.

shellie
*sighs*



typical

angiel
you can't be so radical now, can yah? smokin'

Hit"Em"Up
shellie i broke up with her cause she a stalker.


i tried putting a restraing order on her but the chicago cops are bull headed.


so my female cousin kicks her ass cause i never hit women i dont believe in that.

Lydia
how nice

shellie
mmmm............i see

angiel
in under no circumstance you should... unless your life depended on it.

Hit"Em"Up
still i could never hit a lady man.


if a lady needs to be smacked let another chick do it.



i respect women even if they are psycho or nutz.

m!$hA
just say to her
'sweety i really like you and id love for us to still be friends...but i dont think this is working out....i went out with you because i really like you....but things have changed since we've been going out and i preferred it when we were just friends!"

angiel
that's a good one^^^

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