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help!

it's been 3 years scince my parents started fighting for things that didn't matter... and they are still doing that!

today they started fighting again and my mom said that he should leave home and never come back!

sometimes I hear what they say when they r fighting and I always find my father right...

my mom sais that he has a girlfriend because she saw a prostitute type of woman working with him... (he is a bread making checker)

my mom always comes and tells me secrets against him but I never listen to her because I know she is lying...

and when I want to tell her that it's her fault she always tells me to go away with my father...

what should I do?

they want to get divorced!!!

i'm sorry
there is nothing you could do.
just try not to choose between them, most probebly they are both partly right

theres not really anything u can do just hope if they get divorched u get the nicest parent

dont be sad

I don't want them to get divorced!!!

they most probably won't.
i've been hearing stuff about divorce for few years already and it is all.

my father even said that he will quit his job because he can't stand my mother making up that he has a girlfriend...

my mother told everywhere that he has one but she doesn't know anything...

SEE! he loves your mum. so they won't divorce..

of coz if you are sure there is no 3rd person there

no I AM SURE THERE IS NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 3RD!!!!

it's just my mom's crazy mind!!

she thinks of something not true and things that it is true!!!!

at the moment you don't seem so sure about that.

you should talk with them about this whole matter

I did talk with them!!!

and the result:

mom said- you ****** go away with your ****** father and leave me alone

dad said- I can't stand her lies and her strange thoughts I will quit my job to see if she stops and if not I will leave

okay..
so your are taking your dad's side?

may i ask if your mum has some job or only spends days at home? maybe she has these thaughts coz she's bored

she works more that my dad she is an english-french teacher (has her own instutude and she earns more money than him

i have only one idea

they should go on holidays together... you know something like second honeymoon just themselves and have time to explain everything. and find a way to other person.

well yesterday they fought because my dad was offered to go to crete (greece) for work and my mom was afraid if he went there to meet girls
so she wanted to go with him...

maybe I can make them go together...

exacly
they'll spend more time together.
and your mum will be able to ensure she has no reason to worry about

I hope thanks I will try

you're welcome.
i'm glad if i was able to help anyway

I reckon parents getting divorced is better, my parents used to frigin be like cathlics vs prodos, wen they got divorced they were calm and nicer and i got two houses

dude your parents hate each other ...... sounds like a normal family 2 me

if getting divorced is a solution then

crybaby bawlingbag

omg... dont think that far ahead it might just work out fine.. and... stuff

I hope

parents always fight but sometimes prolonged fighting is bad my parents have been fighting for 7 years and said they were going to divorce like 20 times Mom accused my step dad of cheating several times but she is just paranoid you'll be fine

yeah I agree and I hope so

i can't really help much cause me parents are divorced

why are most families divorced?
I mean they wait until they make children and then get divorced and ruin their lives???

my dad left me and my mum when i was 2, i have been living with my mum ver since , he denies being my father to this very day, but thats a deadbeat father i guess, i hope things go okay with yours, but i have never had them problems so i can't help cry

poor you

nah its u were on abotu here, just i can't really help

thats bad feel sorry for u hug

I hope they are smart enough to realise that they are destroying their lives and their childrens' lives

most don't ......... today a lot of people do not realize what love is....... and they act too hasty

well helen things will probally go okay, since clovie give u that good advice, it shoudl be fine

yes

Aww cry I'm soo sorry

Talk to them about it See if they can't work anything out

I'll be thinking about you hun hug

thanks...