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Hi all or whoever checks this out. I am in a bad way. I miss my wife dearly we have been married for two years together for four and at the start of it all we where seperated for six months which was torture even though we saw each other every two weeks now I am in britain and she is in Canada and we won't be seeing each other for a long long time how do I cope with this it is so hard to deal with, I just want to sit and cry I miss her so much!!

sit and cry friend, dont bottle up your emotions, you'll just explode oneday and hence forth persues hectic situations concurring onto mental councelling.... been there

i am in the same position as you, it is so difficult, my gf in asia, im in ireland, i think of her constantly, i havent seen her in so long, but to be honest the best thing to do is let it all out.

Long distance relationships are very difficult to do...

they are very very hard...

I am in one...but not as far as you

You should talk this out with a friend, let it out, it will make you feel better

all im gonna say is porn

porn isnt the solution to everything u kno......but in this case it might help the poor guy out.

Distance broke my long term gf and I up. But don't let me drag you down. Just stay strong. Call a lot. Write her a letter.

yeah a cheap thrill...

and it is very degrading too

porn

Thanks alot peeps
and the reason i am here is for counselling (screwed up child hood lot's off anger) and I do contact her almost daily it is just really hard that is actually when I want to cry the most because I can't just hold her in my arms which really hurts.

and I actually don't like porn all that much but what the hey right

Following her to Canada is not an option?

just phone her alot tell her how much u miss her

long distance relationships are always hard
i advice you sit and cry until you cant no more, then try ... as hard as it may be, but TRY ... to go out and have some fun to get your mind off it.
then at night you can think of her all you like
might help

I just left canada and want to go back I miss all my friends out there and That is where my Wife lives we have been together for four years living together in canada.

I deffinetly do do that and we try to chat online as much as possible

*just joined the club* my Girlfriend left for uni this morning... i feel likemy heads been taken clean off by a wrecking ball, an old chef used my brain for some sort of pie, stuck my head back on and told me to find the equation of E x F>G - A = Z...

porn

I miss you too baby. Don't ever be afraid or to ashamed to cry or tell me what you are feeling. I love you and have never judged you for cring. It cleanses the soul. We will be together again sooner than you think. Just keep strong and know that there is someone on the other side of the world who loves you more than life itself. Not to mention someone who's really horney and might take that person's advice about getting some porn.

Long distant relationships don't work. Either find a way to be with her on a regular basis or it will fail. Harsh, but it's true.

Back fire you need to read my first post bud and realize that we made it work at first and we can do it again

And thanks Baby doll I really needed to hear that you really mean the world to me

As long as you love each other like you say you do...it'll deffiently work out. she is worth everything to you, just remember that it's the same way for her.

Love has no boundaries, and it may seem like forever before you see her again, it won't be that long.

So wait, I don't get it. Did you have to go to Britain for work or something? Or . . .. I don't get why you left her.

for personal reasons and to try to fixed my screwed up Head

To in effect save the marriage

Have you ever met your wife in person?

I mean, this isn't like some internet marriage thingy, is it?

yes Hiker we lived together for almost Four Years I think that we met once or twice in that period of time!!

LOL

I did say that in the first post here

Oh yeah. I'm a bit confused today. I haven't eaten yet.

I don't believe in internet marriages or proposals, unlike 2 kmc members. I feel sorry for them for thinking that it will really work out. Like C'mon, they've never met each other and they've only been talking for a couple months. What do you think about that Darth Midal?

that's allright boss Just got a good laugh out off the query I needed it thanks

blowupwallbash
that about sums it up baby doll

For those of you out there that arent already married listen up to Turbo-Cajun's Advice on long distance relationship. I know about them, i've been in 2 of them....

Turbo-Cajun's Long Distance Relationship Advice:

1) Don't be stupid, don't do it. It won't work, the dumb ***** is going to fool around with other guys when your gone and its going to end shitty.

2) Follow Rule #1

Sorry, I was going to write more advice, but I've lost my train of thought.


Dude, just make sure you talk on the phone and write and communicate often.... i stress often, but I m sure your already doing that...it sucks dude, i hope you have better luck than i do. My parents did, they were long distance for a while... and there still together so who knows.

Suck it up man.

you guys are making me sad...............the person I love lives on the other side of the US,...and just reading this makes me cry because now I have sad thoughts. damn you negative thinkers, you have made me sad cry

I'm not being negative I believe in me and my wife I know it's hard but we believe in each other and can make it sorry that it made you sad

Just thought I would write and let you know you're not alone. I just dropped off my wife today at the airport, she is going to school in North Carolina. She will be there for 3 months, she's in vet school. It's a temporary setup, she was going to st. george's university in grenada, but the island was so badly damaged by hurricane ivan they had to finish the semester in the US. So she'll be heading back to grenada in January.

The reason we can't be together, is that we just can't afford for me to be out of work. I have a good job in san francisco, and I was not able to find work in Grenada. It also didn't really make sense to go to NC for only a few months, and then have to move again in january.

Anyway, today is my first day without her after 3 months of being together almost every day, and the separation is torture. i feel so lonely, and have such a bad pit in my stomach. i know we will get through it, but man it hurts. so hang in there. i don't know if this helps or not, i suspect not really, but i know i'm compelled to find others in the same situation, i guess i do find some small comfort in it.

then move to her, or she moves to u, or get a divorce and remarry

It's good to know that I'm not alone as you just described what I am feeling!!