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Ok, there's this gir lthat I like. I'm planning on asking her out, but the problem is I don't know how to...I mean I don't know what to say. Should I start a conversaation and then ask her or just ask her? As I'm not really to confident when it comes down to this sort of thing I really need her to be on her own, which won't be for long so I'll have to ask her quickly. Also I don't want to say anything too embarrassing as I'm not too confident she'll say yes anyway.

So far what I was going to say is: "Hi, I don't suppose you'ld like to go out with me....see a movie or something"

Now can anyone help me out here?

i would not know.cause guys are the ones who ask me.

if someone took my hand and kissed it, give me a rose, and then asked me out...i would so say yesdroolio
(i hope thats advice )

do you talk to her often or would this be the first time talking to her.


I always start talking then when i have to leave or go somewhere i say "hey would you maybe wanna hang out sometime? Like go see a movie or something"

Then if she says yes, hit her up for her number....smile...and walk away.

Well we used to work together, but I'm not sure if she's been fired or something as she hasn't been there for ages. Other option would be to play it smooth...

Oh and Aqua, if the plane tickets weren't so damned expensive....

i think you should have ,well some thing i would like is if some one were to ask me out don't start off like"can i talk to you?"cause then it is way obivious. but like take them by the hand,an take them were no one else is,and then ask her.

yeah dont do the "can i talk to u" yes

Yep, not a good line!

Got it

Not that i've ever asked anyone out on a date - but I wouln't advise anyone to start any kind of conversation with "I dont suppose you would" - makes you sound like you are expecting to be turned down.

Try "yO! i expect you'd like for me to ask you out - b!tch" or something similar.

When guys ask me out it's usually starting up a conversation like where they're going on the weekend and stuff, and then they ask if i wanna go too.

I was planning on asking her out tomorrow, as she goes to a different bus stop that's usually quiet and hardly anyone goes there. But knowing my luck I'll go there and find out she's gone to the othe one

Ask her if she would like to hang out at the movies or something.
you could also use some chloroform on her and lock her in your basment.

luckily for me... im still with my first gf, and we met through a friend... on msn!!! lol

I say forget about it. Relationships don't last anyway. In the end you'll be asking yourself, what's the point?

geting laid
nah only jokin
but really its nice to have some one care for even if it only for a short while

I don't have a basement

use your attic. all houses in the uk have attics... very few have basements

all my g/fs have been freinds, and my most recent one i met in a club...so it was sorta, drink drink drink, dance dance dance, talk, kiss, dance, drink, ****

My attics rubbish, everythie you go up you have to be careful not to fall through. The best I could do is a cupboard with a chair on the other side of the door

yeah... thats really weird... the few bits of our attic that aint filled with crap are so weak you cant even go near them - theres already a big hole in the bathroom

well u could start off by finding out a movie she wants to go to. . .then talk to her about it. . .then ask if she wants to go see it with you

yeah... err... find out what kinda stuff she likes and just start talking about it within earshot of her

you should walk up to her with you leather pants and say lets go out and then take out a gun and then get into a cabin and...

Do something cute. Girls like cute stuff. Dont just ask her out, thats just boring. Make it kind of nice, and special then you will score more points with her.

i just ask. that way, i can only expect two responses... a sweet sounding yes or an emphatic kick in the nuts... give it a shot.

Note to self: buy cup

if a girl retaliates hostily when you simply express your feelings in a sincere, polite, verbal manner (ie. , she kicks you, finds other ways to ruin your life). I suggest going down to you local county offices, filling out a simple form, and having her committed for 48 hours. Or maybe I just have a tendancy of attracting murderous nutcases.

does she like kinky stuffe?

Just ask her, after all what's the worst that could happen?

aqua ... darling, how oftern is that going to happen? only in our dreams are guys that sweet!

(we can keep dreaming though droolio)



and as for you Spike ... my advice is to just talk to her and all, even if its not for that long. just about anything it could even be 'so what are you gonna do this weekend?' then if shes not busy, just simply say 'do you wanna go out or something?'
keeping it casual is always the best way (unless you wanna be a sweety, like aqua said but not many girls expect that)
and in that case, IF she does say 'no, sorry' it shouldnt be too awquard or anything just smile and be like 'thats cool! dont worry about it!'
then if she says 'maybe next week?' just keep it cool 'yeah sure!' or whatever
keep it casual boy
xxoo misha!

*keeps dreaming* droolio
becides Sky well most likey do that

*enters your dream* naughty

soo many hot guys huh Misha?

sure is droolio the phrase now cmes to mind "so many boys, so little time"

*creates a time machine* droolio

just what i needed!
just make sure you keep dreaming girl

ooo a half naked fireman droolio

where? i was too busy occupying myself with the half naked body builder droolio

sorry to be weird in my dream but...*stares at cute german sheperd*

Trust me, I've had bad experiences with girls in the past

never had girl trouble myself , girls had a load of trouble with me though