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out of curiosity should you make some one wait after they ask you out?

I did it at one point and my way was kinda malicious but ya kno.... is you wanna kno bout that story just ask....

wait as in...

to tell them yes or no?

or to actually hang out with them?

Tell them yes or no

to give time mostly

i think that they should talk it out to see if each person is ready to date.

hmm who knows, i waited 3 years and never said a word but ah well, tho at the time i could have got her

Shouldn't leave anyone hanging around. Its wrong.

but did you ask her?

DP, trying to compete with my random 4th option on the poll thing...

no i never, i still think about her and cry, but hey its my regrets

no.. I just couldnt figure it out & had no more ideas so ya kno....

thats the thing.. ask... if she said wait for a little while would you do it or get mad?

I was joking.. You know you could've settled with 3 options.

I could have?

Yep, when you make a thread and you have a poll you can change how many colomns you have.

if you really want that person you would give him or her the time that they need to make their decision.

I did that.. but I was horrible about it


lol

i would sooo wait, but hey i never aksed and thats life , if i had another chance i woudl have waited yes, anything to at least be with her in the end

If I ask a girl if she wants to hang out sometime or go do something during the weekend, I most certainly would want a prompt response.

Make me wait just to hear yes or no....pfft.....i'd take back my offer in a milisecond

Damn right!

lol...not to hang out to seriously date

Hmmmm.......it depends then. If you've known each other and he/she says "I'll think about it" I'd show her the door.

huh.......


i never got that treatment......


I got my bf to wait 3 years b4 we dated... thing is I didnt think He was serious about me.....

well you can talk about the seriousness of the date once you determine yes or no.

most people say yes, then invite friends and crap along. If you're going to date, then just be more specific.

But no one should have to wait for a yes or no. They should just have to wait for a "when"

3 years......damn. He must've really liked you to wait that long.

yeah.. were dating now.. he hunted me down.. he wouldnt date ne one but me and wanted a strait answer... thats when I knew he wasnt kidding

yep 3 years and at least he had to guts to ask ya out

Sun Ce, this girl, you should just go for it, what do you have to lose? The worst thats gonna happen is that she'll say no and you'll feel awkward for about a week max.

so ask her out



he was asking me out for three yrs I just kept saying wait and I'll let ya know I didnt think he would really wait....

btw she moved out of town , never got to see her again

Oh.

like i said it depends on how bad you want that particular person

Dp- it is hard to wait but patience is a virtue and if ur afraid that by pushing a person u may lose them u'll wait. it still is hard to wait, i know.

u lost ur chance then? there r other grrls tho.

yep i lost the chance, there is no one else tho

I just felt..feel awkward around him... weird and jittery.. always did... still do so I wanted that feeling to go away first..I didnt.. I dont think it will...it drives me nutts!

have you let him know that you njoy his company? not exactly liking him although u do but that u like something about him or being around him. or have u alresdy told him that u like him

I do enjoy his company I just get all wierded out like I feel that I have to impress him even tho I kno I dont..... I get shy and giggly... thats just not hoo I am....

That shows you like him.

O_o ur f-ing me..........




thats imposible........

..........why the b*tchy sarcasm?

them just tell him some time that u enjoy his company. that leads to talking and talking is a good thing it leads to friendships and liking eachother, if ur unsure of him. u have to work extra hard at not being giggly to him. find a friend and go all giggly to them tell them all about the guy you like. and u dont have to tell him u like him in order to tell him how he affects u some times. thats a good thing to do. look closely at his replys to make sure u aren't going to far. show an intrest to yoursself in his fellings.

no... not being b*tchy..... just... I'm not sure.... I like him but.... why would i be all f-ed up around him..... I didnt mean to sond like a biatch or sarcastic b/c I was serious

mmm... I decided to date him tho so I'm gonna c what happens.....

You're all f-ed up because you like him so much, thats what I was trying to say.....
You clearly don't wanna lose him and thats where the nervousness etc. comes from.

i never tough of that... I thought I was just going crazt.. or stupid or some thing.......

It'll pass, once you get used to having him in your life, it takes longer for some than it does for others.

dp- cool- and i have to agree about the nervousness part that daedalus mentioned. that sounds about right.
do any of us know this mr. dream guy of urs. if u dont want to say it in front of everyone else u can pm me.

lol... hes not on the site so no... jOHNPARTAN117 KNOWS HIM ...but I didnt tell him who I'm dating......



this guy is just...... insane... hes a skater long hair... romantic as all hell.... and so nice to me and..... god hes just... I dont know... him

Then get to know him, maybe you're nervous because you don't know him as well as you like, I don't know.

Ive knonw him for three years.... we hang out and stuff... hes just...wow.....
I dont know I get all weird and all.....Its funny but can be annoying at times... just looking back at all the stupid stuff I said to him

lol

and I lost his hat the other day... his lucky hat.. on campus(i stole t from him and later droped it) it took me all day that next day to find it... I finnaly went to security and made them play ythe tapes back so I could find it for him

Awwww, thats really sweet.

stfu

!

To make them wait is mean, kinda like torture...

not you

cool
my guys a sk8er too, and sweet and romantic.
he told me that he loved me first in the most romantic way.
ahhh

gee thanx petersen.. I love u too.. ait till I cu in skool... I dont have to be quiet her ne hoo....

wait.. whats ur gender?

Glad to see you figured how to do the poll

lol..kinda

Female, obviously.

well.. I thought she was a dude... srry hun....no offense

To tell you the truth so did I. (sorry!)

lol.......

mmmm.. srry bout my friend.... he was telling me to stfu

yup, as always

YOU THOUGHT THAT I WAS A GUYYYYY???????????????
OH SUCH A STAB. I FEEL THE KNIFE GOING THROUGH MY HEART AS WE SPEEK. what ever gave u guys the impression that i was a guy.?????????? i'm so broken.

my brain links your name to that of Rogue Jedi, who is a guy

idk... i think every one is a guy........lol....



sniper... leave me alone.. your mean to me so just... bah.... not even worth yelling @ u......I hear whats said bout me and I just wanna be treated like a person not a whor*e its just... not right.. you guys thionk I do this and that but I dont... stop jumping to conclusions.. its soo high skool.

when was i ever 'nice' to you?

I thought you were a girl because I thought your name came from the X-MEN character.

just leave me alone!!!! my one safe place and you harass me here too..... y ppl make me wanna die some times!!!!

you shouldnt have stalked toth here. i was here, harassing people, long before either of you

thats where i got my name from shes my favorite x-man female character. im still heartbroken. a guy. the nerve. but i do forgive u guys.

Sniper!! JUST F****** BACK OFF ALRIGHT!!

I didnt stalk hin here... he did tell me bout it but I left him alone. I showed respect.. the moment I told him my name he and you pounced but at least he treats me like a person.

long standing issues, back off

!!!!

yea, even after the shit you put him through.
if you pay attention, im a lot darker than he is... he tries to stay good... i dont care anymore

long standing issus? well why dont you let me in on these issues b/c I have been left in the dark... when I defend myself I get my head chopped off.. when I stick up for some one or take the fall I am suddenly the bad guy.....

I didnt mean to put him thru n e thing... I dont like to hurt ppl but just b/c I broke up/him doesnt mean you can treat me like shite ok!

For **** sake, stop the ******* arguing!!

i was defending you, in the beginning, but i heard their stories, and i havent heard one story from you that dosent completely conflict with what you told somone else. who am i going to believe? at least their stories are consistant. you cant even keep lies straight

still want to meet me now that u know that i'm a girl. where did u get guy from?

the break up isnt what made me turn on you, it's what you've done to other people.

I do not lie... **** this... Im not coming back here... or any where else... I dont see why every one hates me... I just wanna die right now so just leave me alone!!!!!!!

I dont do ne thing to other ppl!!!!!!!!!
I help them then I get harassed.. I talk to them then I get blamed for sleeping around.. I dont do that!

im leaving anyway, but you need to look closely at things, and maybe even try to start over. then maybe oyu can fix your mistakes

O.o

i never said you did

o.k. guys be nice

i'll have to admitt..... i thought tht u were a guy at first.... sorry....

DarkPheonix!!!!!!, u better nto leave this forum!!!! , please don't!!! cry

*sigh* fine.. back on track now.......

stay too

k

hmmm...geez...maybe you should just ignore sniper...he takes pleasure in being an *******...

O_o.... oh my.... but it was my fault.....

what did ya do wrongs?

i yelled @ him....

it's okay....

It happens...besides, he'll get over it...

I hope so.. but I wont.. I feel bad..I dont like to upset ppl.... ever.

nobodies perfect...it happens...

Everyone gets upset sometimes....

k

don't be sad....

hey all im too lazy to read all 6 pages of posts so i skipped to the end but im here to let you know that it's ok to let the guy/girl wait but i'll warn you it's torture for them

you would know huh hun....

srry bout that.. i love you!!!!!!

it's alright love we're happy now

bananas

lol
jk



lmfao

ur too cute i don't think i've laughed that hard in a while