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I met a girl last night at the cinema. I like her alot, and we got on well. But now the morning after I text her my number.

She said "hi" in the text, but now I don't know what to say. My friend says that she really likes me, but I'm stuck for words.

Could anyone tell me how I should reply?

hmm... tell her hi... and how are you... something like that...

Already done that in the first message. I need to get talking more. See my friend told me to ask here about last night, but I don't know how to do that. You know talking about what went on.

I hope you enjoyed yourself last night?

I don't really know. I don't want to say that because she might just say "yeah I did, did you?"

I'd like her to open up and you know talk.

Well actually, what I would do is just telling her how I feel about her and see what her reaction is. Because otherwise, the both of you can run in circles for a long time.

Well thats a problem because I have only known her for half a day. I want to get to know her first of all. First impressions aren't everything. And If i was to tell her how I felt it would have to be in person.

I just want to send a text to her so we start talking. I don't want to jump straight in. All I want is something to say to her which will get her talking. I don't want hewr to think that I can't talk.

You could say 'I really enjoyed our time together, perhaps we could do it again sometime?'

Problem. There was about 15 of us. It was just that we got close and held hands and she held my hand when we were in the cinema.

Tch! sounds fun, and kinda' s!uty!

Just kidding!

that's cool... tell her how you feel?

I can't. we only just met. I just need something to say in a text message.

hmm.... i really enjoyed our day together?

Ask her out. Only way to get her to open up.

i say leave her.....it's obviously just a crush that youll get over soon enough cause youve only just met her.

and if she replies like that its either a polite way saying shes not interested
or she's a b!tch

sorry but thats what i'd do

I disagree. No regrets, no what ifs later.

that is a good point....but i think if you send someone a msg saying 'hi how are you' etc and they reply only to say 'hi' ..... i dunno to me it just seems like saying 'hey! i remember you, but i dont want anything to happen between us'

why dont u just tell her u liked last nite and ask her out, so she culd say no, thats the worse thing that culd happen.

but even if you were shy wouldnt you say a bit more then hi?

yeah... hey wow! another Aaron Stanford fan!

i was starting to think i was the only one!

of course not!

and ppl who just met would be... shy...

You grow more confident as time passes.

i understand the whole shy thing .... but if someone said all of that to you you wouldnt just say hi!?

anyway its really up to Time Of Evil - how much do you like her!?

yep...!

At this point, not anymore. Back then, yes.

oh really? i stand corrected then

where's TOE?

yeah... but he was the one who made this thread...

he's probably asleep or something
just cause he made it, like storm says, doesnt mean he has to be on it all the time

yah... you two are right...

I'm back. I've been talking to her for ages!

Alls good.

But you won't believe what happened. I wrote a message asking my friend for some advice. But I sent it to the girl! It was because she was all that was in my head. I totally freaked out! But now we can't stop talking.

I really like her and we're getting on good. I'm going to ask her if she wants to meet up next weekend, and we could go to the cinema by ourselves so we could open up and talk without the distraction of others around us.

lol, thats kinda funny!

well lucky you didnt listen to me then
hope all goes well

This might sound alittle forward but tell her that you had a good time last night too and you would like to met her again!jm

i think he already has

Well I will do that JM..... eventually.

Call me Jackie.If you tell her that you want to see her again then she will know you like her back.That is one of the reasons i suggusted it.JM

I think I might wait for a while until we go out as a group again. Then I'll tell her in person, ask her out, and take it from there. Thanks Jackie ,Misha, storm. Everyone who helped me grow in confidence.

Your welcome.I wish you the best of luck.JM

not that i helped really
sorry TOE!
but im glad you did it, its really strong of you

Hadn't it been for my stupidity I would not have succeeded.

go the stupidity

I'm all jolly now!

are you really really excited? all jumpy and stuff?

Yeah. I feel good about myself. I just hope it all goes well. She's a really nice person.

is she purdy?

What does that mean? I live in england.

its like...pretty...but purdy

very! my friend was always telling me about her and how I'd like her but he never believed that someone like her would be interested in me.

aw thats not very nice

NOT!

Inevitably another problem has arose. I have been told by my friend that the girl wants to go out with me. He is telling me to call her and ask her out as she is waiting for me.

But I want to be there in person. I want to ask her out face to face. Do you get where I'm coming from?

What should I do?

if you are not able to meet up in person to ask her then ring her up and ask her...not meaning to sound rude but how hard is it to figure that one out

I want to be there in person though. Face to Face.

Do you understand?