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Ok. Let's say you're dating a girl and vice versa for the females, and she sees a friend of yours, and finds him highly attractive, perhaps more attractive than you. And says I want you to introduce you to him/her because she looks good/fine w/e. Should or do you feel threatened? I mean I know it depends on how serious the relationship is but what if you have just started dating and really like the person? I really need to stop coming to you guys with these dilemmas don't I?

The solution is simple, beat the crap out of your friend so he's no longer physically desireable anymore, that should solve everything!

I would be offended if someone I was dating wanted to be introduced to a friend for that reason...especially if they actually said it out loud.

icecream

yeah id keep a very close eye on her from now on

i agree

Will do. But I will sever ties if it comes to that because I refuse to play the jealous beau.

do u trust her?

Yea I do.

so wheres the problem

C'mon dean, you know there is always that air of doubt and besides what if we break up and she runs to him? That would be awful for me. It would blow hard.

say if u broke up with her....if she cares alot about u..i think she might think twice about going out with your friend

i don't think any woman that could say that out loud to you would care about you that much...

f*ck her, she's not worth the hassle...

any woman that has the gall(sp?) to say something like that should seriously think before she speaks...

she could of said it in a joking way though

since when does a girl ask her boyfriend to introduce her to his friend because he's good looking? even in a joking way...

The way I see it, some girls are way more insensitive than others in that they say things out loud that should never be said. Take it from someone who knows.

She might have meant he was good looking and then asked you to introduce with no corrolation. However, it's just a bit shit. I know how you feel. Don't go on the defensive, just watch how she acts around him and if she brings him up randomly in conversation or what not.

-AC

Thanks Alpha, very good advice.

Dude, whats the problem? If this girl is the real deal, and if she loves you so much, she wouldnt do that to you. If she does, then you would know what kind of a ******* she is. You should only go for a girl who wont dump you, and start going out with your friend.

You shouldnt even have to worry about some shit like that... if she wants to go hoe'in with your friend.. let her... she obviously will just be a gigantic pain in the ass if she decides to run off with your friend... ditch her (I know I wouldnt put up with nonsense like that)

i dont think this has ever happened to me, but i must admit i have done it before
what i would do, if someone did this to me, was (yeah id probably get a bit angry/offended etc) just let it go, introduce them etc, but keep an eye on them and make sure no flirting occured!
i mean just because someone finds another persn attractive, doesnt mean they like them

No man wins anything without a fight!!! (I don't mean beating each other up)

Fight!! and you shall win... hopefully...

Sometimes what we need is a vaccine, just so we can cure the virus. If there was no conflict between you and her, how can she cherish you more?

You shouldnt have to fight for someones attention , thats usually a sign they're getting bored of you

If you mean having struggles in the relationship.. those are always going to be there

How can someone be bored of you?? It has to do with effort/personality... conscious or subconsciously...
Having another conflict is like strengthening the bond.. ( I don't mean in purpose)

making attempts to keep things fresh is way different than having to struggle to keep the relationship together because they're lookin interested in your friend or whatever

Conflict does strengthen, but Im pretty sure you dont want the conflict involving having to tell someone that they shouldnt be looking elsewhere if they want to be with you.. thats just straight up common sense.. you cant have your cake and eat it too (at least thats how the saying goes... )

Everyone seems to be of the same mind here. If this chick actually said that she wanted you to introduce her to your friend because he was hot, then that was clearly not taking your feelings into consideration. If you have leapt to the conclusion that she has these feelings because she asked that you introduce her...maybe it was just that.


But, like I said, if she actually said this to you, then she wasn't being considerate of your feelings...or your happiness. I don't think that's how you should exist in a relationship.

What a harlot, in my day she would have been burnt at the stake for uttering such things, if i where you i would make like michael jackson and beat it

I wouldn't know....depends how strong your relationship is to begin with

I always do that

Still with the girl Napalm?

-AC