Is it perverse to have a crush or obsession over a fictional character?

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LordFear
I have a friend that has a mad on for certain anime chicks.
The dude is bordeline insane over it. Walls, notebook, car, everything covered with anime babes. Is that healthy?

Scoobless
are you calling us..... THOSE....... i mean those guys perverts??? lol

some animated or drawn women are hot........ i used to have a thing for Jasmin from Disney's Aladdin

http://disclas.narod.ru/DC-Al/Jasmin.gif

you know what i mean??????

embarrasment

LordFear
Jasmine????lol
Yeah I could see that dude!!!!!
Romancing here while Aladdin is away/lol

Lord-of-Dreams
That is GROSS. Man!

Wrong room, dude. Auughg!!

Scoobless
i always liked the Black Cat too....... stick out tongue

http://fanlistings.org/black_cat/images/kiss_of_death.jpg http://www.spidermedia.ru/characters/marvel/original/images/black_cat.jpg

Victor Von Doom
Did you know, roughly half of the adult human population of Earth consists of real women?

Lord-of-Dreams
And about three thirds of them are bound to be attractive to the general 'you'!!

whobdamandog
Originally posted by Lord Fear


Answer: Yes...ya no pun tang getting pervert...laughing laughing

Scoobless
Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Did you know, roughly half of the adult human population of Earth consists of real women?

i actually did know that......... smile

but i'm secure enough with myself to admit that i found/find some fictional characters attractive

nigel45
Looking at a character and thinking they are attractive is different than obsessing over them.

Scoobless
Originally posted by nigel45
Looking at a character and thinking they are attractive is different than obsessing over them.

that's what i mean........ i never OBSESSED over any fictional character, i just found a few attractive

what about semi-fictitious characters.......... you ever find them attractive?

ie...

Mider
Look if you think a fictional character is attractive so what and why do you care what these morons think i mean half of them think that The Hulk is immortal and that LT is like the last word in ultimate power.....in all truth finding anyone or anything attractive is pretty normal i mean the only diffrence is that the girls on anime and stuff like that arent able to interact with you but what if in the future somehow they could........so how can it be perverse to like them.......anime women are made that way to specificaly call for guys to look at it especially insecure types why do you think you find in anime the geekiest guys with like the hottest women Tenchi Muyo having all those babes........yeah rightttttt, or the kid in Steel Angel Kurami......wow thats weird O.o but still a good example.

Scoobless
i'm not really into anime myself and there are a LOT of women i like in real life, some have even brought themselves down to my level.....LOL

DigiMark007
I always thought the girl bunny from Space Jam was pretty cute....

love

-DM

King Burger
Noting wrong with finding a piece of art (I am using the term
in its braod meaning) attractive. Like how a woman can find
the statue of David attractive.

Besides, these drawn/animated women are drawn to be
near-perfect, in that they have no real wrinkles (unless they
are old characters) or skin blemishes or spots.

whobdamandog
Finding attractive is one thing..having a crush/obsession is another...I've always preferred the real thing...but hey...to each his own...

Victor Von Doom
Originally posted by Mider
Look if you think a fictional character is attractive so what and why do you care what these morons think i mean half of them think that The Hulk is immortal and that LT is like the last word in ultimate power.....in all truth finding anyone or anything attractive is pretty normal i mean the only diffrence is that the girls on anime and stuff like that arent able to interact with you but what if in the future somehow they could........so how can it be perverse to like them

Put...down the keyboard. Step...away from the keyboard.

Arachnoidfreak
wrong forum. though...not sure where it would go. GDF?

Cosmic Cube
Originally posted by Mider
Look if you think a fictional character is attractive so what and why do you care what these morons think i mean half of them think that The Hulk is immortal and that LT is like the last word in ultimate power.....in all truth finding anyone or anything attractive is pretty normal i mean the only diffrence is that the girls on anime and stuff like that arent able to interact with you but what if in the future somehow they could........so how can it be perverse to like them.......anime women are made that way to specificaly call for guys to look at it especially insecure types why do you think you find in anime the geekiest guys with like the hottest women Tenchi Muyo having all those babes........yeah rightttttt, or the kid in Steel Angel Kurami......wow thats weird O.o but still a good example.

lol Can you make a post without expressing how much you hate LT? Get over it.

ScarletSpider
Here's what you do. While he's sleeping, print out, and replace all of his anime pictures with this:


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v62/MarchToFuzzMH/20050406l.jpg

kgkg
Originally posted by Scoobless
i always liked the Black Cat too....... stick out tongue

http://fanlistings.org/black_cat/images/kiss_of_death.jpg http://www.spidermedia.ru/characters/marvel/original/images/black_cat.jpg

bad boy .

But anime girls common that's wrong get some real human chicks.

hentai watching pervs

Heracles
The way Psylocke. Jean Grey and Emma Frost were drawn in the bathing suits in the early 90s was border line soft core porn so I could see why some 12 year old kid discovering women for the first time might have a crush.

Cosmo Kramer
This place gets more perverse by the month.

Paola
moving...

Sadako of Girth
I think thats interesting... As sometimes crushes and some obssesions we develop around living people are kind of rooted in about as much reality as this example portrays.... And these chararcters are just blank canvasses for that I'd imagine....

The haver of the crush/obsession has often built up their own picture and perception of the object of their admiration instead of faceing the reality that they actually dont know the person... So they build their own version of the person in thier minds... Besides.... So many people fancied Betty Rubble didn't they.... wink

Klogz
No. But it's okay to like fictional characters played by real women. Angelina Jolie as Lara croft for example. It's wrong to lust after Digi lara, but Angie-Lara. That's hot.

IceWithin
I guess...

Korri
Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Put...down the keyboard. Step...away from the keyboard.

laughing out loud

Its kinda scary guys messed.

finti
not perverse just lack of reality

pr1983
i blame joe madureira... the guy draws some stunning women...

Arsenal
When you look out how much anime porno is in Japan you won't feel so bad.

pr1983
Originally posted by Arsenal
When you look out how much anime porno is in Japan you won't feel so bad.

laughing that is true...

finti
talking out of experience here or?

pr1983
Originally posted by finti
talking out of experience here or?

I've seen it... some of that shit is weird to say the least...

finti
I would say, animated porn sounds pretty corny. If animated porn was to be a turn on, then it must be most womens dream to sit on Pinocchio's face urging him to tell lies

pr1983
Originally posted by finti
I would say, animated porn sounds pretty corny. If animated porn was to be a turn on, then it must be most womens dream to sit on Pinocchio's face urging him to tell lies

laughing

and no, it wasnt really a turn on at all...

Arsenal
I think it's funny how they're drawn.

pr1983
Originally posted by Arsenal
I think it's funny how they're drawn.

Some are so cartoony its not even funny...

peterKSL
Originally posted by finti
I would say, animated porn sounds pretty corny. If animated porn was to be a turn on, then it must be most womens dream to sit on Pinocchio's face urging him to tell lies

Roflmao... how can you even think of something like that?? laughing

King Burger
Originally posted by Korri
Its kinda scary guys messed.


Why?

No one is talking about marrying a damn drawing or
animated character.

One can have a drawing of a beautiful women be
sufficiently realistic that it can be appreciated as an
attractive, if unreal, woman.

It's like looking at those ancient Greek statues and
sayng that they have good bodies. Is that perverse?
Ofcourse not.

Or go over to the "X-Men" forum page, and see all
those female posters defending Gambit as a real
"charming" character. Are they sick? No, they're
just stating that as he is presented, Gambit is indeed
made to be charming to women.

If one can't appreciate artistic representaions of a
woman's face or body, then why have artists in the first
place. No one should be allowed to draw a female
at all, atleast not a realistic one, since to draw one is to
try to get viewers to judge "her" by real standards.

Bottom line, unless and until someone begins to prefer
the drawings/animations over the real thing, then I
don't see a problem.

If I see a well-made drawing of a woman, and I find
the women pretty, then I'll say so.

Clovie
Originally posted by LordFear
I have a friend that has a mad on for certain anime chicks.
The dude is bordeline insane over it. Walls, notebook, car, everything covered with anime babes. Is that healthy? i'd call it fascination...confused

botankus
Does the fictional character have to be animated? 'Cause about 10 years ago I used to have a crush on Clarissa from Clarissa Explains it All. The character on the show, not Melissa.

pr1983
When you open your comic and something like this is in it:

http://img202.exs.cx/img202/1253/jean18qe.th.jpg or this http://img202.exs.cx/img202/5858/psy17ke.th.jpg

of course its ok to say its attractive, why not, its drawn for that specific purpose... no its not real, its a comic...

jplatinum
I ain't trying to beef or rain on your parade, but Personally, Ithink that some of the little chicks are cute.
But!!!!!!!!! I don't advise you to obese over them..That is sick!!!!

They are anime,nothing more, man. Don't turn into some D#@n wierd-a$$ dude with all kind of anime chick posters and stuff.
That is not healthy for you, man.
If you have a problem getting REAL CHICKS, just spit game to girls with low-self esteem. Trust me, it works like h#ll, man.


stick out tongueeace:
be cool

pr1983
Originally posted by jplatinum
I ain't trying to beef or rain on your parade, but Personally, Ithink that some of the little chicks are cute.
But!!!!!!!!! I don't advise you to obese over them..That is sick!!!!

They are anime,nothing more, man. Don't turn into some D#@n wierd-a$$ dude with all kind of anime chick posters and stuff.
That is not healthy for you, man.
If you have a problem getting REAL CHICKS, just spit game to girls with low-self esteem. Trust me, it works like h#ll, man.


stick out tongueeace:
be cool

huh

jplatinum
Pr1983,
why are you confused?

I was simply telling the brotha that it is okay to think that the little chick is attrctive-looking cause that is what they are drawn to be, but don't turn into some weirdo over them.

That is bad for him, un healthy for him.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some advise, man.
Pr1983, don't be a smart-allic all your life,dude.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some good advise.


Btw. Whats' wrong with spitting game(macking) to a girl with low-self esteem. H#ll, at least shes' REAL. At least its gets me some po tang.
As long as you treat the girl right, its' all good.


Stop being such a smart-allic.

stick out tongueeace:
Be cool

LordFear
Dudes, I just wanna make this clear that I am NOT the one having this issue. I have a girl (flesh and bone) and do the nasty with her whenever I please(anyway I digress) But I do KNOW someone, a friend who by today's standard would be termed a geek, and he is obsessed with anime and some comic book chicks. I mean he would rather surf the net downloading pics and building websites honoring these cyber chicks then hang out at 7/11 or go to the mall to try and pick REAL babes. I am kinda scared for him, you know???But I posted this just to make sure that I wasn't the one tripping and that this might turn into something real unhealthy.

jplatinum
Hey Lord fear,
I wasn't talkin' about you, dude.
I was talkin' about your friend/any other cats like him.
I believe you when you say you got friends who be obesed over the chicks. I wasn't talkin' 'bout you, man.

You know what I'm sayin'.
Btw.
LordFear, try taking your homeboy to somewhere where there aren't alot of people to hate on his game. Spot a chick by herself that seems to be pretty down-to-earth and run interfernce for him(meaning put in a good word for him with the girl) show her your friend and tell her he is looking at her, but he is intimated to talk to her cause she is so beautiful. Then, she'll start blushin' and sh#t, Then, She'll go over to him on her own out of curiousity and flattery. Once she is over there, its' up to him to seal-the-deal.

Teach your boy how to pit game to the ladies,man.
cool

lil bitchiness
Why would it be perverse?

I dont think so - its a phrase and it will pass.

LordFear
One thing though jplatinum!!!
How can I teach him to seal the deal?
He is a true geek who really knows nothing but Star-Trek, Internet, Math and The Wonderful world of insects and creepy crawlers.
You think there is hope for him?

Jackie Malfoy
Originally posted by LordFear
I have a friend that has a mad on for certain anime chicks.
The dude is bordeline insane over it. Walls, notebook, car, everything covered with anime babes. Is that healthy?

It can be unhealty but a upseccison is fine if it is loving a cartoon or a movie or a chactor very much.I see nothering wrong with that.JM love

pr1983
Originally posted by jplatinum
Pr1983,
why are you confused?

I was simply telling the brotha that it is okay to think that the little chick is attrctive-looking cause that is what they are drawn to be, but don't turn into some weirdo over them.

That is bad for him, un healthy for him.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some advise, man.
Pr1983, don't be a smart-allic all your life,dude.
I'm just trying to give the brotha some good advise.


Btw. Whats' wrong with spitting game(macking) to a girl with low-self esteem. H#ll, at least shes' REAL. At least its gets me some po tang.
As long as you treat the girl right, its' all good.


Stop being such a smart-allic.

stick out tongueeace:
Be cool

i didnt understand who you were talking to, thats all... i was not being a smart alec... at all... so dont accuse me of it...

Lord Shadow Z
It's not fair to criticise people who have low-esteem when it comes to meeting real women. Especially people who may not have the confidence or the looks to catch attention from women. People like this having obsessions about unreal characters are merely escaping from the depression of having no-one and having to suffice with a personality or look created on the page rather than face the truth that they won't find anyone who will love them for who they are.

pr1983
Originally posted by Lord Shadow Z
It's not fair to criticise people who have low-esteem when it comes to meeting real women. Especially people who may not have the confidence or the looks to catch attention from women. People like this having obsessions about unreal characters are merely escaping from the depression of having no-one and having to suffice with a personality or look created on the page rather than face the truth that they won't find anyone who will love them for who they are.

thats cold dude... stick out tongue

Linkalicious
They draw these girls with enormous, exposed breasts, tight butts, and nearly flawless facial features because they want you to be attracted by them.

Being obsessed isn't healthy, but finding them attractive is perfectly human.

Broken Wing
^agreed

Having a crush is normal. I had a crush on Inuyasha embarrasment
and spongebob but it's just weird to have an obsession over something that not real.

Linkalicious
Spongebob....messed


Right...and I'm the one who smokes crack.

Broken Wing
He makes me laugh!

LordFear
Why, huh Broken Wing, listen people tell me I have a killer sense of humor. Let's hook up and I'll make you laugh all the time, dollface.
No but seriously, SpongeBob???
Well anyway my friend does have a low-esteem issue like LordShadow said.
I feel like he is growing increasingly more distant from reality and is actually developing some kind of phobia of the opposite sex.
I think he has a genuine fear of women or being in close proximity to them.
Reason why????I don't know because he comes from a well rounded family at least to me it appears well rounded.

SimpleSeduction
I'm sure you have a great sense of humor big grin

Mainstream
my obbession with all the female xmen characters between the ages of 16 to 40 is completely normal...my invisible pet dinosaur told me so.

Filth
If is pure filth, huanity populates enough of this damed planet to containe there lust, but they fail badly.

King Burger
Originally posted by SimpleSeduction
Having a crush is normal. I had a crush on Inuyasha embarrasment
and spongebob but it's just weird to have an obsession over something that not real.


Originally posted by SimpleSeduction
He makes me laugh!

leonheartmm
i had a crush on KID from the video game chrono cross

Lord Shadow Z
Originally posted by pr1983
thats cold dude... stick out tongue

I fail to see how thats cold. Some women don't give guys with a certain way of life or a certain look a chance and that to me is cold. These people are conflicted everyday with people walking around with their perfect relationships and it makes them believe there is no hope for them. So they open up a book, or a comic, or play a game and there is a fictional character that appeals to them (either due to personality or looks, who cares?) because that character can't judge them, won't reject them because of the imperfections they believe they have because of how the world treats them.

LordFear
Good point.
So it's unanimous then. We all agree that it's society's blame, right ?

ZephroCarnelian
To find a drawn character attractive is absolutely reasonable. Y do you think they make the female characters so attractive? It's so you remember them.

But once you start lusting over them - if you know what I mean - u've gotta get a grip on reality lol...

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