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OK, my boyfriend is being very bombastic. I told him not to be like that, but now he wants me to go camping with him and his irritating family. The more i say no, the more he carries on about it.

What must i do???

Electrocat, you must dump your greedy-ass boyfriend!!!

You reckon??

1. This is a reali weird thread.

2. why dont you want to go..?

3. sit donw and tell him, tell him to back down, tell him that if he doesn't stop pushing you then you will leave, plan and simple!

Or you could be sensible, be mature, grit your teeth and bare it. Just make sure you express after that you don't wanna go again, in a polite way.

No wonder you all have relationship problems, your methods of solving issues are deplorable.

-AC

tru tru...

But i still don't get why you don't want to go!!

because his family drives me mad. They are so childish it makes me want to scream. I am not used to people like that. And I have told my boyfriend in an adult way many times i dont want to go. And he keeps nagging

Well as I said, Tell him that you don't wish to go because you don't get on with his family..... if he doesn't respect your opinions and thoughts then drop his ass!

Apparently, it is important to her boyfriend. You can twist the tables and argue that she doesn' t respect his opinions and thoughts and that he should drop her.

At one point or another, we all have to do things we don' t like to do.

Jesus, camping sucks. Chances are if he forces you to do this, he'll continue to try to force you to do other things that you don't want to do.

allright, say i don't go, he's going to toss me and make me look like an ass probably, cos he knows almost everyone in town

If he breaks up with you because you don't give in to what he wants, despite the fact that you've told him numerous times you don't want to go, then he's not worth your time.

Originally posted by Electrocat
allright, say i don't go, he's going to toss me and make me look like an ass probably, cos he knows almost everyone in town Deal with it!! thats life sweetie, some times you have to do things that you don't want to do, but never get pushed or forced into anything!!!

Originally posted by Electrocat
OK, my boyfriend is being very bombastic. I told him not to be like that, but now he wants me to go camping with him and his irritating family. The more i say no, the more he carries on about it.

What must i do??? If you don't want to go, don't go! If he lovess you then he will understand....

so every one thinks i should toss the bastard?

No, I think you should make sure he knows that you really don't want to go. If he continues to try and force you into it, then yeah, lose him.

Originally posted by Electrocat
so every one thinks i should toss the bastard? Who cares what everyone else thinks, do what you think is right!

*whispers*..IMO, he seems a bit of a pushover though...

Try to make him understand why you don't want to go, but also listen to why he really wants you to go with him. If you still don't want to go after that talk than don't go.

allright. Im tossing him tonight.

Why are you tossing him? because he annoying you about this?

how old are you anyway electrocat?

because of this one little thing? :s

First thought that springs to mind is that it can't be that strong of a relationship for "tossing" to manifest itself so easily anyway.

-AC

same here AC

Originally posted by Electrocat
OK, my boyfriend is being very bombastic. I told him not to be like that, but now he wants me to go camping with him and his irritating family. The more i say no, the more he carries on about it.

What must i do???

he's OBVIOUSLY not worth it

and what do you mean "toss him" that can mean two (very opposite) things

i think she means dump him!! get rid of him!

17 according to her profile spidergrl

Originally posted by spidergrl
i think she means dump him!! get rid of him!

i thought so ... but was just checking bag

hahah what did you think misha?

well, kind of reminded me of the term "tosser" whistling1

"tosser"

not a term i hardly use

Originally posted by Electrocat
OK, my boyfriend is being very bombastic. I told him not to be like that, but now he wants me to go camping with him and his irritating family. The more i say no, the more he carries on about it.

What must i do???

Talk to him and tell him how you feel.If he does not understand then tell him that you do not care for him anymore and that you are breaking up with him.JM

Thats the way JM hug

stay at home ^^

or get rid of him! *shrugs*

^ I agree.
Or if that's not what u wanna do, just stay home regardless.
Wonder if I spelled that right?

Blow him off for the weekend. Make up a story as to why you can't go, and when he comes back you 2 need to sit and have a long talk about your relationship and what that entails.

If you're asking strangers as to what you need to do then you should think about why you're with him in the first place if you can't figure out the relationship.

tru.

if your asking other people that you dont know, it seems that that isn't a real relationship...

by the way, LW, loving that av!

tell him no

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri


No wonder you all have relationship problems, your methods of solving issues are deplorable.

-AC

I completely agree.

Seriously pack a bag and go, if you're not willing to spend a few days camping to be with him, you really shouldnt be his girlfriend. Plus calling his family irritating is rude to say the least.


I on the other hand love it and would jump at the chance to go camping with my boyfriend

Originally posted by silver_tears
Plus calling his family irritating is rude to say the least.

Yeah! You can't do that when you're going out...only when they are your in-laws can you call them irritating.

Originally posted by silver_tears

I on the other hand love it and would jump at the chance to go camping with my boyfriend

i would as well..... If i had a bf