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i was at my ex-girlfriends house because i was taking care of their yard and my buddy was with me. we broke up recently so their were still some hard feelings. after My buddy and I finished watering and taking care of things, we decided to go see if we could find her diary ( i know it was a bad thing to do but i was angry at her so i guess i wan't thinking things through). we were readong about a bunch of things like how she had been obsessed with my buddy before me and then i came to the stuff after she broke up with me (just a little background: she broke up with me a few weeks ago for another guy). turns out she had a thing for him for like 3 months before she dumped me. they started going out and had their first kiss before i knew anything was going on. i had suspected there was somehting going on the way she talked about him so much. i just thought i was being paranoid but i guess i should have been a little more careful. i really hurts to know that someone you had a serious, long term (10 months) relationship with was cheating on you.

does anybody else have any stories about/thoughts on the subject?

it sucks....but really.....confused



.....i love reading other peoples diaries

lucky i dont keep a diary...
why do girls keep Diaries?
i mean it just makes it easier for people to find out your secrets

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
it sucks....but really.....confused



.....i love reading other peoples diaries Same here, but I had a hard time reading my *ahem* diary disgust

Originally posted by BakaXero
lucky i dont keep a diary...
why do girls keep Diaries?
i mean it just makes it easier for people to find out your secrets i don't keep a diary

that sucks

a lot of girls keep diaries underneath their beds...i keep a baseball bat, one air soft gun, 3 hockey sticks...thats about it.

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
i don't keep a diary
i didnt say you did but there are many who do

Originally posted by Dr. Octagon
that sucks

a lot of girls keep diaries underneath their beds...i keep a baseball bat, one air soft gun, 3 hockey sticks...thats about it.

Originally posted by BakaXero
i didnt say you did but there are many who do they should keep their shit to themselves....but then again i do need to read something

Oh...diary's...I read my friends...she made up things then she wrote how she thought i was...really mean stuff...i replied it said 'stop trying to act popular so when your an older ****er you can show your kids to impress them and make yourself think you were a popular *****.' I was mad...

Originally posted by BakaXero
lucky i dont keep a diary...
why do girls keep Diaries?
i mean it just makes it easier for people to find out your secrets
Lol that's why I don't keep a diary

Originally posted by Coldfire
Lol that's why I don't keep a diary me too... I have sisters..blackmail

Originally posted by Puddin Pop
me too... I have sisters..blackmail
Yeah I have one too.... it'd be pretty horrible if she found out about certain things....

Hello y'all

Originally posted by Coldfire
Yeah I have one too.... it'd be pretty horrible if she found out about certain things.... Yeah...and i think diarys are way to girly.

so does anybody have an oppinion on cheating or anything that really matters about my dillema?

Originally posted by Kumar
so does anybody have an oppinion on cheating or anything that really matters about my dillema?

She should have told you her feelings

Get over it.....<-- my advice

tryed to keep a diary but it prevented me from sitting doing nothing

I have a journal but I mostly write about dumb shit

I got rid of the concept of diaries and journals when I was in Grade 4.

I was never enough of a pussie or Emo kid to keep a diary...

is it bad that i miss her?