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... i know this is no ones fault but my own, but please hear me out... and suggestions are greatly appreciated...

well theres this guy that ive messed around with a few times before.. now, he's a jerk. he uses me, and before now i was using him too.. but now i have feelings for him, and he hits on every other girl, and even likes another girl. i try to tell myself no but everytime he comes onto me i cant resist..and now i think i...i dont want ot admit it but i think i love him. i shouldnt. but ..i..i cant help it cry please help..

I'm so sorry Jill hug
i can in some ways relate but....if he likes someone else maybe you should get over him confused

forget about him... I know it will be hard but you need to get over him... simple as that

it hurts...really bad

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
it hurts...really bad

I know hug

but you really need to get over him

sigh i know.. i hate myself for getting attached.. i always do too...cry

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
... i know this is no ones fault but my own, but please hear me out... and suggestions are greatly appreciated...

well theres this guy that ive messed around with a few times before.. now, he's a jerk. he uses me, and before now i was using him too.. but now i have feelings for him, and he hits on every other girl, and even likes another girl. i try to tell myself no but everytime he comes onto me i cant resist..and now i think i...i dont want ot admit it but i think i love him. i shouldnt. but ..i..i cant help it cry please help..

how old are you?

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
sigh i know.. i hate myself for getting attached.. i always do too...cry

aww

hug

this is so classic ;

you dont want him to be a jerk cause you love for him.

eventually its gonna have to take the both of you to make it work by putting the past in its place and act on the present by making everyday that goes by a memorable one. That is by doing different things whenevr you meet up.

well at least thats what lenghtens the relationships

Originally posted by Phoenix Aska
how old are you?

WOAH!! I haven't seen you in forever!!

Originally posted by Ladyluck
WOAH!! I haven't seen you in forever!! ditto

Originally posted by Phoenix Aska
how old are you? just a freshman ( im not proud of everything ive done) and...where have you been?Originally posted by GCG
this is so classic ;

you dont want him to be a jerk cause you love for him.

eventually its gonna have to take the both of you to make it work by putting the past in its place and act on the present by making everyday that goes by a memorable one. That is by doing different things whenevr you meet up.

well at least thats what lenghtens the relationships we dont have a relagtionship though

Originally posted by Ladyluck
forget about him... I know it will be hard but you need to get over him... simple as that
I agree, even tho it hurts hun hug

Originally posted by Coldfire
I agree, even tho it hurts hun hug weep i want him to love me back so bad.. but it cant happen..and i set myself up for it...cry ..damn...

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
just a freshman ( im not proud of everything ive done) and...where have you been? we dont have a relagtionship though fresh man in college or highschool?

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
fresh man in college or highschool? high school

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
weep i want him to love me back so bad.. but it cant happen..and i set myself up for it...cry ..damn... i want a certain someone to love me confused....but hell i doubt it'll happen hug you'll find someone better

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
high school whoa you come off older to me shock but it so doesn't matter to me....what ever things you do that you're not proud of hug

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
weep i want him to love me back so bad.. but it cant happen..and i set myself up for it...cry ..damn...
I know, it sucks

hug

Originally posted by GuitarBunny
whoa you come off older to me shock but it so doesn't matter to me....what ever things you do that you're not proud of hug i do to most guys too sigh i really need to watch myself... im losing control ..but..hm. i can pull myself through this.. if i can do it with families i can do it with a guy.....hug

Originally posted by Coldfire
I know, it sucks

hug cry yea, it does hug

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
cry yea, it does hug
It'll all be ok in the end hun, have faith

Originally posted by Coldfire
It'll all be ok in the end hun, have faith i really hope so

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. This is indeed a sticky situation. Well this is actually a common thing. tath's why there's so many women being beaten, and coming out crying and....well u know the whole dealy. Girls gotta have will-power! Yall gotta fight the good fight! Good guys are VERY UNCOMMON. We are a rare-breed.

Well Jill, the doctor is in.

*clears throat

So tell me my dear, when pray-tell did you BEGIN to feel this way about this lad?

Don't worry about it your only like what 15....there are other fish in the water, and I know it's hard let someone you love go ....but I'm sure your knight in shining armor is somewhere out there

Originally posted by TheQuincy
Well Jill, the doctor is in.

*clears throat

So tell me my dear, when pray-tell did you BEGIN to feel this way about this lad? i dunno...Originally posted by Leo.M
Don't worry about it your only like what 15....there are other fish in the water, and I know it's hard let someone you love go ....but I'm sure your knight in shining armor is somewhere out there .. but it still hurts now

What makes this guy so appealing anyways?

how much do u love the guy

Originally posted by TheQuincy
What makes this guy so appealing anyways? i really dont know.. what he's done to me is nmothing new, he's not incredibly attractive..i just..i love the way i feel in his arms.. it makes me feel bettyer then i ever have.. when he kisses me it sends chills through me.. it feels so right.Originally posted by Leo.M
how much do u love the guy .. a whole lot weep

WOAH!!!!!!!!! That isn't right Cherry. I'm sure his arms feel the same as any guys. I can guarantee there is a nicer guy in ur school who likes you even more than that dude. And he is upset inside cuz UR upset cuz this other DUDE is "playing the field".

Originally posted by Wild Cherry
when he kisses me it sends chills through me.. it feels so right. .. a whole lot weep

wow...you really love him. have you talked to him about how you really feel about him