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My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely

But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!

What should i do

well maybe you should just tell him, be honest. thats what i would do

If he loves you, he'll understand if you're not ready.

Bt he'll want someone who can give him what he wants and he sez what he wants is for me to be his first! Whatdoido whatdoido!Argh!

Hmm, he sounds like a shallow guy to me.

Maybe so...But hes MY shallow guy and i don't wana loose him!

If he makes a move on you, just tell him gently you're not ready yet, but you still love him.

And if that doesn't work....you'd probably be better off without him.

That mite work. Awww thank u Darlin' winkiss

You're welcome. I'll pray for ya.

Awww nice 2 know theres sum1 here who cares about me!Wuv u! winkiss

*nervous laughter*

Even over the frickin internet my knees go wobbly. Goddammit.

hehe! i need sum1 like u who really cares about my feelings... I'll be on the next flight out to Canada Hun xxxx Lol!

Aw. But seriously, everyone matures with time. Don't worry.

See ya.

Bibi XXXX

Yeah what DarkC said.....been there, heard that...

Originally posted by Darth Bloodlust
My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely

But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!

What should i do
You people are really, really...

I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).

Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.

Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.

If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.

Originally posted by FeceMan
You people are really, really...

I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).

Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.

Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.

If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.


Well said. These threads do get rather banal and tiresome.

"NO SOUP FOR YOU"...Soup Nazi...Seinfield......

ie...no more advise.

U guys are mean! cry

Don't cry....cause you got all the best advise....

Originally posted by debbiejo
Don't cry....cause you got all the best advise....
No, debbie, that would be 'STFU n00b'.

The only advice I could give you is; do not listen to any one on this forum.

I thought this was a revived thread from two (and three, and four, and five) months ago. Try searching for those - they say the exact same thing yours does.

Do your forum search after you get some booty from him tonight. That would be the best time, IMO.

I know you're very emotional and think this is somehow a large conflict. But it's not. Just tell him you aren't ready to go that far yet. He'll understand. What idiot would invest two years of his life into you or anyone if they were going to throw it all away just because you wouldn't sex them up? That's not thinking realisticaly.

And I know that sounds cold, but that's how knowledge is best served. Trust me, he's not going to dump you, he's not going to resent you, he's going to understand and when you are ready, you're going to grab that red hot meaning of life, and make some ironmen..

Look!...If he cares for you...he will respect your feelings....you are not any less than him....If he makes you feel any other way....dump the guy....Hes playing a game with you.....AS ALREADY SAID!


Don't you watch Seinfield?...NO MORE SOUP FOR YOU!!!!!!

Just Shut up and Do It! U mite Like it ;p

Originally posted by FeceMan
You people are really, really...

I hesitate to say stupid, as that would imply you have a sub-par staff in your mental faculty (that's a joke).

Perhaps 'lacking common sense' works better.

Yes, I like that. You people are really, really lacking common sense. Not the cleanest sentence ever written, but it does the job.

If your boyfriend will leave you because you will not do something with which you are not comfortable, he's an ass who needs to get over himself. Everyone deserves better than that. Leave him--that is, if he threatens to dump you or tries to force you to do something that makes you uncomfortable--or you will regret it in the long run.

True

Originally posted by Darth Bloodlust
My bf and i have been going out for the last 2 years and weve got rly close and we have a good time with the Kissing and The cuddling and the touchy-feely

But now i think he wants more and i'm not ready for that. But if i refuse him he might leave me and i don't want that...I love him so much!

What should i do
do em any ways its alot of fun or so i heard............................................................ Im Gay

Originally posted by Rocker2005
Just Shut up and Do It! U mite Like it ;p
/smack

Originally posted by Rocker2005
Just Shut up and Do It! U mite Like it ;p
How inconsiderate. If she says she's not ready, she means it!
Originally posted by kash$king
do em any ways its alot of fun or so i heard............................................................ Im Gay

Originally posted by kash$king
do em any ways its alot of fun or so i heard............................................................ Im Gay

Originally posted by DarkC
How inconsiderate. If she says she's not ready, she means it!



I'm not paid to be considerate!

And DONT bring back slipknot

Fece Man's post is the most credible in terms of advice. Sorry to burst your bubble. If he loves you, he'll wait. Just don't send him mixed messages, then he will be well within his right to be angry.

Originally posted by Kosta
Fece Man's post is the most credible in terms of advice. Sorry to burst your bubble. If he loves you, he'll wait. Just don't send him mixed messages, then he will be well within his right to be angry.

You bastard! I just noticed your sig
Ill get you for this























Crap, not enough room left.....disgust

if you have been going out with this guy for 2 years if your not ready by now will you ever be he sounds like a nice enough guy 2 wait this long then you have nothing to worrie about xx c xx

Given her birthdate is 1989.....she would only just be legal. Doesnt mean she is ready by now.