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A girl that has been my friend for as long as I can remember has a huge crush on me. Well I am taken and I don't want to ruin my perfect relationship. Well I went to the movies alone and a bunch of my friends were there including this person. Well anyways after everyone else left it was me and her because I had to use the restroom. Well I came out and she like pounced on me and I was backing away giving her all the reasons I can't and blah blah blah. Well she is my best friend and I dont want to hurt her as a friend. So can anyone get me out of this perdicament?

Tell her she's ugly, that'll do it

Originally posted by silver_tears
Tell her she's ugly, that'll do it Hey she is a friend and I couldn't do that.

I was kidding.



Whether you want to admit it or not, the friendship's already ruined, it'll never be the same, and it'll never go back. So why waste time and energy trying to think of ways to "save her feelings, and stay friends," and just give it a shot, it could be the bes thing that ever happened to you both.



Although seeing as she pounced on you, she sounds like a whore.

Originally posted by silver_tears
I was kidding.



Whether you want to admit it or not, the friendship's already ruined, it'll never be the same, and it'll never go back. So why waste time and energy trying to think of ways to "save her feelings, and stay friends," and just give it a shot, it could be the bes thing that ever happened to you both.



Although seeing as she pounced on you, she sounds like a whore. No I am already in a relationship that I dont want to ruine for anything.

Ah well then she's a ***** too


No offense since you seem to care about her and such, but we women have enough trouble without other girls trying to sabotage our relationships.

Originally posted by silver_tears
Ah well then she's a ***** too


No offense since you seem to care about her and such, but we women have enough trouble without other girls trying to sabotage our relationships. yeah I know but she doesn't seem to understand.

Make her understand...you might have to be mean to get out of this cleanly.

Originally posted by Spearhead
Make her understand...you might have to be mean to get out of this cleanly. Hey I might have to try that but I will be less mean as possible.

if she's not insane, she would understand the situation

hey irene

It's a shame you guys are friends

Yep, you need to just be straightup with her "I'm in a relationship, I'm happy with my relationship, so please stop.." it's simple, to the point, and doesn't insult anyone. She can get pissy all she wants too. I think the only reason you've been so leniant so far is because you find her cute, lets face it, would you be this slow to say to a big hairy man "we're just friends"? Hell no..

If you trust in your relationship, and or really think of her as just a friend, you'll see her as a big hairy man..

Originally posted by Dr. Octagon
if she's not insane, she would understand the situation

hey irene


well hello eyes

Originally posted by Spelljammer
Yep, you need to just be straightup with her "I'm in a relationship, I'm happy with my relationship, so please stop.." it's simple, to the point, and doesn't insult anyone. She can get pissy all she wants too. I think the only reason you've been so leniant so far is because you find her cute, lets face it, would you be this slow to say to a big hairy man "we're just friends"? Hell no..

If you trust in your relationship, and or really think of her as just a friend, you'll see her as a big hairy man.. ok then

Originally posted by silver_tears
I was kidding.



Whether you want to admit it or not, the friendship's already ruined, it'll never be the same, and it'll never go back. So why waste time and energy trying to think of ways to "save her feelings, and stay friends," and just give it a shot, it could be the bes thing that ever happened to you both.



Although seeing as she pounced on you, she sounds like a whore.

she's right...it won't be the same...

Originally posted by Phoenix Aska
she's right...it won't be the same... no probably never be the same but I hope we stay friends.

Originally posted by Zatch
A girl that has been my friend for as long as I can remember has a huge crush on me. Well I am taken and I don't want to ruin my perfect relationship. Well I went to the movies alone and a bunch of my friends were there including this person. Well anyways after everyone else left it was me and her because I had to use the restroom. Well I came out and she like pounced on me and I was backing away giving her all the reasons I can't and blah blah blah. Well she is my best friend and I dont want to hurt her as a friend. So can anyone get me out of this perdicament? They should make an Love Affairs thread.

Hit her. Smack her right in the face.

Originally posted by slim_thug
They should make an Love Affairs thread. yeah that would be a good forum.

Originally posted by Zatch
yeah that would be a good forum. Why don't you ask Raz if you can make one.

Originally posted by slim_thug
Why don't you ask Raz if you can make one. I just mite do that.

Originally posted by Zatch
A girl that has been my friend for as long as I can remember has a huge crush on me. Well I am taken and I don't want to ruin my perfect relationship. Well I went to the movies alone and a bunch of my friends were there including this person. Well anyways after everyone else left it was me and her because I had to use the restroom. Well I came out and she like pounced on me and I was backing away giving her all the reasons I can't and blah blah blah. Well she is my best friend and I dont want to hurt her as a friend. So can anyone get me out of this perdicament?

you know what you do?? if YOu dont want to hurt her...you let ME hurt her...which you know i am more than ready to do. *glares*


sry hunni, but i dont take kindly to chicks pouncing on my boyfriend.

Im sry that was really mean....lol

if she is really ur friend shell understand.....i mean she should

Originally posted by Zatch
A girl that has been my friend for as long as I can remember has a huge crush on me. Well I am taken and I don't want to ruin my perfect relationship. Well I went to the movies alone and a bunch of my friends were there including this person. Well anyways after everyone else left it was me and her because I had to use the restroom. Well I came out and she like pounced on me and I was backing away giving her all the reasons I can't and blah blah blah. Well she is my best friend and I dont want to hurt her as a friend. So can anyone get me out of this perdicament? Well if you had to ask, means you want her. So dump the other broad and make like a pig with this one!

You only live once, may as well enjoy it while you can!

Originally posted by RaeRox
you know what you do?? if YOu dont want to hurt her...you let ME hurt her...which you know i am more than ready to do. *glares*


sry hunni, but i dont take kindly to chicks pouncing on my boyfriend. I bet you are.

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Originally posted by NunYahBidness
Well if you had to ask, means you want her. So dump the other broad and make like a pig with this one!

You only live once, may as well enjoy it while you can!

OMG Nunya do you realize that you just told my bf to dump me and hook up with some OTHER chick???!!! Make like a pig?? Im not even going to ask........(fyi this is rae..alicia is being a whore and refusing to log out of her account and get onto mine...)

Originally posted by Commando Queen
OMG Nunya do you realize that you just told my bf to dump me and hook up with some OTHER chick???!!! Make like a pig?? Im not even going to ask........(fyi this is rae..alicia is being a whore and refusing to log out of her account and get onto mine...) First of all...I didn't know he was your boyfriend!! And had I known, I'd probably would've said the same thing!!

If a friend of mine did that sort of thing, I'd either go...LET'S GO!!! or tell her to f'ck off for doing that and we're no longer friends!!!! Because if THAT'S all she ever was and knew, her doing that is not being a good friend or she was given hints and innuendos!!! Take your pick!

If you're that important, then your bf would not have to question/wonder/ponder/be confused as to what he needed to do. He'd just do it!!! Tell her to f*ck off and THAT would be the end of it!!!! But then that's me! And I'm sorry if I've caused you any irritation!

Just have a threesome.

Originally posted by Tired Hiker
Just have a threesome. Or that!!!

Why couldn't you have given it a try at least, Zatch?

Originally posted by DarkC
Why couldn't you have given it a try at least, Zatch?
You mean the threesome, right?

Originally posted by Tired Hiker
You mean the threesome, right?
No, the relationship.

Originally posted by DarkC
Why couldn't you have given it a try at least, Zatch? I am already in love and I don't want to end it. never will either. The one I have right now is fine enough for me. I wont ever break up with her not unless she cheats but I dont think she would do that.

Originally posted by Commando Queen
OMG Nunya do you realize that you just told my bf to dump me and hook up with some OTHER chick???!!! Make like a pig?? Im not even going to ask........(fyi this is rae..alicia is being a whore and refusing to log out of her account and get onto mine...) rae I am not going to dump you.

Hoylcrap! I didn't know your grilfriend was Commando Queen! 0_0

Luckiely for me I always saw her posts but remained neutral thinking "eh..", yes, stay with her and I've listed what you should do before.

Because frankly, I don't want to hear the bickering if you two DO breakup. It would be slipknot all over again..

Originally posted by Spelljammer
Hoylcrap! I didn't know your grilfriend was Commando Queen! 0_0

Luckiely for me I always saw her posts but remained neutral thinking "eh..", yes, stay with her and I've listed what you should do before.

Because frankly, I don't want to hear the bickering if you two DO breakup. It would be slipknot all over again.. No rae was on her name. My girlfriend is RaeRox. Get it strait.

Awww, aren't you two adorable.. wait, no.. *blocks out Zatch with his hand* Awww. ^ _ ^

Originally posted by Spelljammer
Awww, aren't you two adorable.. wait, no.. *blocks out Zatch with his hand* Awww. ^ _ ^ Yeah RaeRox is my girlfriend and sunday it will be 2 months.

Originally posted by Zatch
Yeah RaeRox is my girlfriend and sunday it will be 2 months. and it is so great.

dead this thread is.

Originally posted by Zatch
rae I am not going to dump you.

better not.

Originally posted by RaeRox
better not. I wont.

Awwwwwwwww your sig is so sweet.

Thank you for being sarcastic.

You're very welcome.

You know I smell bullshit

Turn on a fan then.

There isn't one available.

Open a window.

that I can do.

Get out from behind the cow.

I didn't know there was a cow.

How could you...never mind.

Hey now give me a break havent been up that long.

The humor was obviously too advanced for you.

Originally posted by EsteemedLeader
The humor was obviously too advanced for you. pretty much.

I am so glad this problem is solved.

Originally posted by Zatch
I am so glad this problem is solved.

Ditto

Originally posted by RaeRox
Ditto Oh i know that was all the way back in september though odd that long ago.

Originally posted by Zatch
Oh i know that was all the way back in september though odd that long ago.

I still hate her....

Oh you shouldn't hate her still. Oh oooooh lips are sealed. I just remembered something.

Originally posted by Zatch
Oh you shouldn't hate her still. Oh oooooh lips are sealed. I just remembered something.

O NO YOU DONT. DUSTIN ANTHONY SPILL THIS INSTANT

Spill about what?

Originally posted by Zatch
Spill about what?

What your lips are sealed about...

OH nothing nothing at all just don't worry about it.

Originally posted by Zatch
OH nothing nothing at all just don't worry about it.

Spill now. *getting annoyed*

Originally posted by RaeRox
Spill now. *getting annoyed* I swear it is nothing big.