ben_dover
I have a really good experience for others to learn from.
About 3 weeks ago I met this very good looking girl in my school. She liked me alot (or at least i think). She even admit some things that I wouldn't expect to hear from a 3 year relationship. One of the things she told me that she recently had sex with her ex and she said that it was a mistake. After a few days she gave me her phone number. I called her, we talked. She gave her feelings and said she loved me. WTF??? After two weeks?
Well we started acting like a couple. Not going out just yet. She told me that she think she is pregnant. And asked me if I would still want her is she was truly pregnant. I said yea, but with my baby.
The next day she called me, we talked and after a while I asked her if she would think that an abortion would be a good idea. Well, since she was only 15, she is not thinking straight. She started yelling at me why the **** would I do something that cruel. I told her that if she really loves me then she would get an abortion and we will get together. Before she hung up on me she said that she dont ever wants to see me or talk to me ever again.
At that point I still cared about getting with her but didn't want to deal with the baby of not my own.
The next morning(wich is today) she called me. She talked to me like nothing ever happened. She said that she wants me to be the daddy for her baby.
(I'm only ****ing 17 years old, and that little *** is not my own!!!)
So I'm acting all nice and acting like I would accept the baby as long as she will not repeat what she has done. Then she told me that she wants me to be her husband and we will have babys! I kind of agreed but deep inside I knew that it will not going to work out between us if she doesn't get an abortion. She had to go somewhere for a few hours. So we stopped talking for a few hours.
While she was gone I was thinking about all this shit I would have to put up with at such a young age with some dumb imatture girl.
After a few hours she called me back. She asked me how I'm doing.
(I didn't feel like lying.)
I told her that I'm a little depressed. She asked me why and she got her answer. I told her that I want to be with her but I don't think I can handle the preassure of a baby(especially not mine). She told me from this point we should stop totally talking to each other. She hung up. I didn't hesitate to call her back.
What I did was the best thing I could have done!
She wanted me to be the father of a baby that is not mine not yet sure if she really have broken up with her ex. She told me that after three ****ing weeks we known each other. I feel so bad for losing a girl that I think really loved me, but I know I did the smart thing. She was accelerating everything and I felt that I'm just gonna be used. I felt like I wasn't ready for a marriange to a 15 yr old while I myself 17. I can't even support myself yet and the preassure of supporting a baby that is not mine, a girl that I hardly know.
Now if I can get her to talk to me monday at school, I'll ask her to slow down, cause too much preassure was put on me at once.
There is much more to what happened but I just gave a summary.
I hope someone will give some advice or what would they do in a situation like this one.
About 3 weeks ago I met this very good looking girl in my school. She liked me alot (or at least i think). She even admit some things that I wouldn't expect to hear from a 3 year relationship. One of the things she told me that she recently had sex with her ex and she said that it was a mistake. After a few days she gave me her phone number. I called her, we talked. She gave her feelings and said she loved me. WTF??? After two weeks?
Well we started acting like a couple. Not going out just yet. She told me that she think she is pregnant. And asked me if I would still want her is she was truly pregnant. I said yea, but with my baby.
The next day she called me, we talked and after a while I asked her if she would think that an abortion would be a good idea. Well, since she was only 15, she is not thinking straight. She started yelling at me why the **** would I do something that cruel. I told her that if she really loves me then she would get an abortion and we will get together. Before she hung up on me she said that she dont ever wants to see me or talk to me ever again.
At that point I still cared about getting with her but didn't want to deal with the baby of not my own.
The next morning(wich is today) she called me. She talked to me like nothing ever happened. She said that she wants me to be the daddy for her baby.
(I'm only ****ing 17 years old, and that little *** is not my own!!!)
So I'm acting all nice and acting like I would accept the baby as long as she will not repeat what she has done. Then she told me that she wants me to be her husband and we will have babys! I kind of agreed but deep inside I knew that it will not going to work out between us if she doesn't get an abortion. She had to go somewhere for a few hours. So we stopped talking for a few hours.
While she was gone I was thinking about all this shit I would have to put up with at such a young age with some dumb imatture girl.
After a few hours she called me back. She asked me how I'm doing.
(I didn't feel like lying.)
I told her that I'm a little depressed. She asked me why and she got her answer. I told her that I want to be with her but I don't think I can handle the preassure of a baby(especially not mine). She told me from this point we should stop totally talking to each other. She hung up. I didn't hesitate to call her back.
What I did was the best thing I could have done!
She wanted me to be the father of a baby that is not mine not yet sure if she really have broken up with her ex. She told me that after three ****ing weeks we known each other. I feel so bad for losing a girl that I think really loved me, but I know I did the smart thing. She was accelerating everything and I felt that I'm just gonna be used. I felt like I wasn't ready for a marriange to a 15 yr old while I myself 17. I can't even support myself yet and the preassure of supporting a baby that is not mine, a girl that I hardly know.
Now if I can get her to talk to me monday at school, I'll ask her to slow down, cause too much preassure was put on me at once.
There is much more to what happened but I just gave a summary.
I hope someone will give some advice or what would they do in a situation like this one.
