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Many people are sexually deviant When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one.

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Many people are sexually deviant When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

Once unwanted harm is caused to some party. Before that people should do as they wish.

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Many people are sexually deviant When though do games become problems in peoples lives? when you take it to work?

Originally posted by botankus
I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one.

Love that!!!!!!!!!!

I guess to answer the question, both should be into it.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Once unwanted harm is caused to some party. Before that people should do as they wish.

What about wanted harm e.g. "The Spanner Case"

http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/laskey.html

Originally posted by botankus
I'm glad you asked this from your regular Whirlysplatt ID and not the Princess Diana one.




I am thinking of being Jessica Alba next I see myself using lots of shower gel

What do you mean "What about wanted harm"? It's wanted, not unwanted.

-AC

Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous.

The woods too.......

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
What do you mean "What about wanted harm"? It's wanted, not unwanted.

-AC

A comment was made about unwanted harm being where the line is drawn. Wanted harm also causes problems not the least Doctors time etc. I'm sure you can see all the othe problems without me spelling it out AC.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Nah, work has been a fun place on occasion. Bathroom stalls can be a very interesting place to have a rendezvous.

Yes I'm sure there is nothing more exhilarating than breathing in microscopic airborne fecal matter at the point of orgasm.

Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

Deb, you naughty girl.

Originally posted by BobbyD
Deb, you naughty girl. But nothing but squirrels and birds in there....they won't tell anyone....LOL

Leaves can be a problem though.....It's not the Garden of Eden.

Kharma, I understand "the john" might not be the most appropriate place, but when at work and you and partner "want to go", your choices are very limited.

didnt a bunch of guys who loved to nail their own scrote bags to tables all get arrested for their sexual deviance?...i'm sure i remember that from some bizzare news story...goes to show that even consentual deviances can be legally dodgy

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

Ah but the sub note is when does it become a problem in peoples lives, I've left this general to promote debate.

Originally posted by jaden101
didnt a bunch of guys who loved to nail their own scrote bags to tables all get arrested for their sexual deviance?...i'm sure i remember that from some bizzare news story...goes to show that even consentual deviances can be legally dodgy

Yes that was the "Spanner Case" Jade I posted a link earlier mate.

I can't answer that. People's lives don't concern me, especially their sexual antics.

It becomes a problem when one of the involved humans comes to unwanted harm, as earlier stated.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Depends what you mean when you say "When does kinky become sick?".

To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky. To me, whilst I can understand the psychological attraction to it (degradation etc), I find it disturbing that you could gain anything sexual from it. I wouldn't call it sick because I find that a bit derogatory. To each their own if no harm is done.

On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.

Kinky can't become "sick" if you're involved and enjoy it, really. Because it becoming "sick" suggests that you don't like it.

-AC

oh and its sick if its a dirty sanchez by request! All these perceptions and so much understanding of english........so sick is only sick if it stops being kinky.....hmm interesting

Originally posted by KharmaDog
Yes I'm sure there is nothing more exhilarating than breathing in microscopic airborne fecal matter at the point of orgasm.

I thought "cottaging" was all about danger for those into it.

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Yes that was the "Spanner Case" Jade I posted a link earlier mate.

oops...my bad....strange case indeed though

Originally posted by jaden101
oops...my bad....strange case indeed though

It certainly was, truly strange.

I guess if you start messing with frozen meat...........then...

Then?

If someone does that, yes it's disturbing (to me at least). That said, if they're not harming anyone or anything, what is the problem? If it's done behind their locked doors and no one is being put to any harm, where's the problem?

-AC

Whirly- regarding doctors' time being wasted, I don't think that has anything to do with when 'kinky becomes sick'. It's not ideal, but what can you do. I'd rather smokers didn't drain medical resources, but they do.

Regarding the sado-masochism case, 'Brown', I think that is a case of the law interfering with the private lives of individuals unduly.

The problem is that in law (England and Wales anyway) you cannot consent to certain types of harm.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Whirly- regarding doctors' time being wasted, I don't think that has anything to do with when 'kinky becomes sick'. It's not ideal, but what can you do. I'd rather smokers didn't drain medical resources, but they do.

Regarding the sado-masochism case, 'Brown', I think that is a case of the law interfering with the private lives of individuals unduly.

The problem is that in law (England and Wales anyway) you cannot consent to certain types of harm.

Yes Laskey, Jaggard and Brown, but its commonly refferred to as the "Spanner" case.

http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/laskey.html

and your right on everything, however when I worked for the NHS a number of amusing tales were regailed to me where BDSM had gone to far.

Hmm. In legal circles it's known as Brown. Never heard 'The Spanner Case' before, in all honesty.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
Hmm. In legal circles it's known as Brown. Never heard 'The Spanner Case' before, in all honesty.

If you put it in a search engine you'll see a lot of results my friend.

So there are.

Weird.

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
So there are.

Weird.

yup, I think it was called the spanner case by the media at the time as I recall, however at my age you start to forget.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Then?

If someone does that, yes it's disturbing (to me at least). That said, if they're not harming anyone or anything, what is the problem? If it's done behind their locked doors and no one is being put to any harm, where's the problem?

-AC depends what kind of frozen meat.....Don't want to go there....

Originally posted by debbiejo
depends what kind of frozen meat.....Don't want to go there....

chipolatas most likely

Sexual sadism/masochism may result in manslaughter. This is bad.

I have contributed to this thread .

Well, to me its too much when one of the "doers" dissapprove an action probably because it hurts or unpolite ??

I **** everything! Why is that wrong?! I'm such a bastard!

I **** nothing! Why is that right?! I'm such a nihilist!

Originally posted by jaden101
chipolatas most likely Necrophilia..

Eeew.

two words, gary glitter

Originally posted by Darth Jello
two words, gary glitter

his name is gary glitter and he takes it up the ________

There's no point asking for any sense from me. I just sank a bottle or two of my good friend, Beaujolais Nouveau, and now I'm just contemplating a frantic romantic alliance with a drain-pipe.

Originally posted by Darth Jello
two words, gary glitter

Gary Glitter deserves everything he gets...for the name alone.

I don't want to be in his "gang" His not the leader

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
I **** everything! Why is that wrong?! I'm such a bastard!
Because it should be respiring?

Originally posted by Mr _Whirlysplat
Many people are sexually deviant When though do games become problems in peoples lives?

Probably when you become the parent of a girl who just turned sixteen.

Originally posted by GCG
Probably when you become the parent of a girl who just turned sixteen.

Your scaring me with this GCG

^ When does kinky become sick? Answer: When you're involved in it.

Originally posted by debbiejo
^ When does kinky become sick? Answer: When you're involved in it.

and you base this on what exactly bebbie jo?

^ The fact that you started the thread........

Please practice you enunciation....repeat after me...."D"..."D"......debbiejo....

Originally posted by debbiejo
^ The fact that you started the thread........

Please practice you enunciation....repeat after me...."D"..."D"......debbiejo....

I'm sorry bebbie jo sounds nicer bebbie it worked for Kojak

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
To some person, crapping on another person isn't sick. It's kinky.
On the other hand. Wanting to be blindfolded and spanked is "sick" to some people.


-AC

okay, this is obviously something new to me. ewww.

You've never heard of that? Odd (ironically).

-AC

now i feel so naive. i just never linked crapping and having sex in the same scenario.

for the longest time i thought oral sex was phone sex.

That's why I found it odd. Your flirtation levels lead me to believe you "knew" a lot.

Not in a bad way.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
That's why I found it odd. Your flirtation levels lead me to believe you "knew" a lot.

Not in a bad way.

-AC

Yes Scat is not just a stle of music

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
That's why I found it odd. Your flirtation levels lead me to believe you "knew" a lot.

Not in a bad way.

-AC



you learn something new everyday. though sometimes its stuff you're not sure you really wanted to know.

Originally posted by Ron Jeremy
Your scaring me with this GCG

Whats scray about that ?

My meaning in saying that is at a young age you dont pay too much attention on the limits of sexual exploration. Then you have a daughter, and as she grows older you become more aware of it and pre-occupied.

Originally posted by GCG
Whats scray about that ?

My meaning in saying that is at a young age you dont pay too much attention on the limits of sexual exploration. Then you have a daughter, and as she grows older you become more aware of it and pre-occupied.

are you preoccupied with your daughter? you said you had some royal blood in you

Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
for the longest time i thought oral sex was phone sex.

I thought "Do not Pass" signs on the road meant don't pass this sign...always wondered by everyone was passing them.

Originally posted by Fallen Jedi
you learn something new everyday. though sometimes its stuff you're not sure you really wanted to know.

knoledge is power always

Originally posted by debbiejo
I thought "Do not Pass" signs on the road meant don't pass this sign...always wondered by everyone was passing them.

The Clovie mkII bandwagon continued to roll.

When people use objects that really have nothing to do with sex (baseball bats, scissors, cereal, etc.)

Originally posted by Victor Von Doom
The Clovie mkII bandwagon continued to roll.

I know down deep inside you just can't resist me...

Sissors?.....WOW!.....YOU'RE MIND DOES WONDER

When it starts to interfere/take over the other aspects of one's life, it becomes a problem.

Originally posted by BackFire
When it starts to interfere/take over the other aspects of one's life, it becomes a problem.

Is this speaking from experience Backfire?

Please lie back on the couch and tell Siggy about it

Still Scissors?....What ya gonna give a haircut?...I'll never get that out of my head now....."Come here my mucho love, and bring the Scissors"....

No, unfortunately I've never found a partner willing to allow my kinky fantasies to fully bloom. If I ever did, it's very possible that it would interfere with the other aspects of life....by "other" I mean ALL aspects of life. I would not get out of bed, eat, drink, bathe, work, go to school, exercise or do anything other then just enjoy the hell out of it as long as I could.

Originally posted by BackFire
No, unfortunately I've never found a partner willing to allow my kinky fantasies to fully bloom. If I ever did, it's very possible that it would interfere with the other aspects of life....by "other" I mean ALL aspects of life. I would not get out of bed, eat, drink, bathe, work, go to school, exercise or do anything other then just enjoy the hell out of it as long as I could.


You will and it will but this is not sick it just happens - and eventually it wears off and stops interferring till you get to about 30 and your mind gets very dirty again, then it wears of again and come back it really is a natural cycle.

Originally posted by Ron Jeremy
Is this speaking from experience Backfire?

Please lie back on the couch and tell Siggy about it

I won't trust you, you can even pronounce you words correctly.

gee you might mean "give me some sex"...but it'll come out "give me a sax"....

Originally posted by debbiejo
Still Scissors?....What ya gonna give a haircut?...I'll never get that out of my head now....."Come here my mucho love, and bring the Scissors"....

You know who Siggy Freud is right Bebbie?

Originally posted by Ron Jeremy
You know who Siggy Freud is right Bebbie?

Yes....but I prefer..Jung...Princess.

Siggy always had sax on the mind.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Yes....but I prefer..Jung...Princess.

Siggy always had sax on the mind.

Both are outdated but then my views on the "Science" of the mind are unprintable Bebbie I might be The Queen Mother soon and not Princess Di

Originally posted by Ron Jeremy
Both are outdated but then my views on the "Science" of the mind are unprintable Bebbie I might be The Queen Mother soon and not Princess Di

Now maybe you should be "laying on the couch"...Tell oh debbiejo all about your fantasy world.....

Look at these animal crackers.....Do they look like they're having sex or are they Royalty?....Or royal sex creatures Princess...

Originally posted by debbiejo
Now maybe you should be "laying on the couch"...Tell oh debbiejo all about your fantacy world.....

Well I fancy having a sig with a hat and the Queen Mum had the best hats out - some even had veils - Its "fantasy" world Bebs not meant as a piss take as I do that sort of thing all thne time when I am typing.

Originally posted by Ron Jeremy
Well I fancy having a sig with a hat and the Queen Mum had the best hats out - some even had veils - Its "fantasy" world Bebs not meant as a piss take as I do that sort of thing all thne time when I am typing.

Hat

To see a hat in your dream, signifies that you are concealing something or covering up something. Alternatively, it may represent the role you play or the responsibilities you have in life.



Therapy is a wonderful thing.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Hat

To see a hat in your dream, signifies that you are concealing something or covering up something. Alternatively, it may represent the role you play or the responsibilities you have in life.



Therapy is a wonderful thing.

hats also keep heads warm and signify common sense Bebbie

And wanting to wear hats like the "Queen Mother?"...Hmmmmmm diva

Originally posted by debbiejo
And wanting to wear hats like the "Queen Mother?"...Hmmmmmm diva

they looked warm hats Bebbie Do you wear hats?

Nope, not usually....I have plenty of hair...and wrap a scarf around.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Nope, not usually....I have plenty of hair...and wrap a scarf around.

Your missing out.... hats are great