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Say you were seeing someone, and it was pretty serious, you thought you were "in love" if you will. This person seemed to you to be the right one for you, and you believed the relationship was moving towards happily ever after.



Then one day you found out this person was in fact with someone else, for longer than they were with you, be it they were married or just together. Their significant other had no idea you exist, and the cheating partner has no idea you know, would you continue the relationship knowing full well you won't get caught and hoping they'd leave the other for you, or would you end it because you felt guilty.


Honesty is key here

I'd stop.

I mean if he's cheating with you (not you ST just whoever), what stopping him from cheating on you with someone else?

I'd stop too...

If it was just a one time thing, I'd challenge her/him, but another relationship?! And I'd seriously consider telling the other person.

Originally posted by French Tip
I'd stop.

I mean if he's cheating with you (not you ST just whoever), what stopping him from cheating on you with someone else?

Very good point



But would the other person who you've never met or seen have any affect on your decision?
If you were truly in love with this person and you didnt believe they'd cheat on you, would you stop regardless?

Originally posted by silver_tears
Very good point



But would the other person who you've never met or seen have any affect on your decision?
If you were truly in love with this person and you didnt believe they'd cheat on you, would you stop regardless?

Ofcourse I would!

Obviously he would cheat on you!

I'd stop...call me selfish, but if I'm seeing someone that seriously, I'd prefer to be the only one... thanks

I'd stop. Cheating is the ultimate no.

-AC

I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?

Meaningless encounters are the future.

Originally posted by Lana
I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?


Cheating really shows the most craptastic qualities in people.......I mean not only are they cheating but lying about a TON of things to cheat "successfully."

Get out of that and don't look back unless of course your the cheater and living the "good" life lol.

Originally posted by French Tip
Ofcourse I would!

Obviously he would cheat on you!
Originally posted by Lana
I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?

not "would cheat"... he/she IS cheating on you... it's already happening!

but you shouldn't feel guilty in the slightest.... you've done nothing wrong

I would stop just out of self respect and not even have to ask the question. I'd also drop the bomb on the person that the supposed significant other was also cheating on in as tactful way as possible. But that's your call.

no trust.

no relationship.

period.

to elaborate .... even if one did think it was a relationship, it could only be so on a very superficial level.

I'd ditch em'.


Unless of course if it was silver. Whooooah momma. naughty

Hmm.

Much as I would say "I'd stop" if I were asked that question in general...

... that pretty much happened to me and I carried on.

Guess I suck.

Nuh-uh.

Ush is the man, and I won't have a bad word said against him. Even if it's from YOU.

Yeah! Ush-kicking time! We'll show him for insulting Ush!

(I don't actually know what I'd do... I might tell the other 'other' and see what happens. Probably the coward's way out.)

I think the sex was a very tempting part of the equation that is easy to forget about when talking only in theory.

Ok Mech, have your wicked way with me...

The problem with this thread is you said I would have feelings for this person. And when most people get that far, they want someone for themselves. I would leave.

Originally posted by silver_tears
Say you were seeing someone, and it was pretty serious, you thought you were "in love" if you will. This person seemed to you to be the right one for you, and you believed the relationship was moving towards happily ever after.



Then one day you found out this person was in fact with someone else, for longer than they were with you, be it they were married or just together. Their significant other had no idea you exist, and the cheating partner has no idea you know, would you continue the relationship knowing full well you won't get caught and hoping they'd leave the other for you, or would you end it because you felt guilty.


Honesty is key here
Id stop. Commiting Adultery is a sin and is dumb as hell anyway. What I believe, is that it really depends on how long the two of you have been dating that guy, say if you were with him longer than the other, or vice versa...but Id still end it.

Mmmmm, wicked way with Ush. naughty


Hee hee, I love that smilie.

If someone cheated on someone else...they sure as heck could cheat on you too

I think it's easy now to say you'd stop the relationship, but when you are really in love with a person, I think it would be a whole other deal.

I think what people also miss is the power of ego.

When you are IN that situation, your thoughts tend to be in the area of:

"Yeah, but she cheated on him in FAVOUR of me... hence I am better... hence she will not cheat on me because I am clearly what she wants."

And so on. You don't tend to think it will happen to you.

I also think it (the above) can only apply if you haven't been cheated on. If you have, then there I don't think any person would continue after having it done to them.

If you're not aware of what it's like to be cheated on, it probably won't seem as bad to continue.

Of course this is just my personal view.

-AC

I'd stop right away, because i believe in Karma! It's not right to cheat to someone you love!