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Can they work? If not, why not? If so, why? Which variations of threesomes are morely likely to work than others? (ex. Male/Male/Female ; Male/Male/Male ; Female/Female/Male ; Female/Female/Female)

Is it morally or ethical wrong? If so, why? If not, why not?

Discuss. And for god's sake discuss this rationally and without political allegiances.

no it can't, jealousy is inevitable

tell that to Hugh Heffner

Hahaha, that's true.

Though to be honest I wouldn't say his relationship/s work. He doesn't truly love those girls in my opinion. I can't say for sure, I don't know the man.

-AC

Isn't there one he's closer to than the rest?

yes indeed, he only sleeps with her one on one the other girls are just toys that get to play with Hugh and his main squeeze He must pop Viagra like Vitamin C

Hugh ****ing Heffner...my thread just died in three posts. That's gotta be a record.

Yes i do think it can work. You just gotta try make sure no one gets jealous. I had one for a while but distance got int he way.

Originally posted by Draco69
Hugh ****ing Heffner...my thread just died in three posts. That's gotta be a record.
Draco, does your sig have anything to do with this thread subject title?

Originally posted by botankus
Draco, does your sig have anything to do with this thread subject title?

No! Yes, I just realized the irony of my sig..but no.

There are some instances where they do work. My boyfriend and I both get invitations to be the third person in an "open relationship". Your average "open relationship" refers to two people, in a relationship, who are allowed to fool around outside the relationship. However, there are some couples who like to "play" together. Meaning that they only have third party relations while in each others presence.

It works for some, not for others. I have been the third party in an "open relationship", but it wouldn't work for me. When I participated, I was single.

I couldn't deal with it situation, while inside a relationship.

But, to answer the question, yes...it can work for some people. I've seen it.

Making any relationship work requires a dedication of time and effort, openness and communication, and there are never any guarantees. Every relationship will have some stumbling blocks, but I believe threesome relationships will have a few extra challenges.
But perhaps with an open mind and some rules that feel comfortable, those involved can develop a long-term situation that works for everyone.

i think its simple human nature to pair off, leaving the odd man/woman out.
in the long run i think any three way relationship is doomed.

I think jealousy spells the doom, especially when it gets more involved...

It cant work, two of the three will become really close and the other person will just become a third wheel.

If you think there's problems with 2 people....WOW, just imagine the complex problems with 3, if in a serious relationship, or threesome thingie....I'm sure many people would do this just for fun, but not for a long haul...can't imagine it working.

It would never work. I'm sure it would be great at first, but someone is bound to get jealous. Eventually someone would end up just being the third wheel because they won't get as much affection as the other person and it'll get all complicated. It just wouldn't work.

just keep that extra person as an emergency sex partner yeah know like break glass in emergency then just take them out to eat every once in awhile BAM no problem

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
There are some instances where they do work. My boyfriend and I both get invitations to be the third person in an "open relationship". Your average "open relationship" refers to two people, in a relationship, who are allowed to fool around outside the relationship. However, there are some couples who like to "play" together. Meaning that they only have third party relations while in each others presence.

It works for some, not for others. I have been the third party in an "open relationship", but it wouldn't work for me. When I participated, I was single.

I couldn't deal with it situation, while inside a relationship.

But, to answer the question, yes...it can work for some people. I've seen it.

Did you guys form a train?



Fin

Originally posted by Draco69
Can they work? If not, why not? If so, why? Which variations of threesomes are morely likely to work than others? (ex. Male/Male/Female ; Male/Male/Male ; Female/Female/Male ; Female/Female/Female)

Is it morally or ethical wrong? If so, why? If not, why not?

Discuss. And for god's sake discuss this rationally and without political allegiances.
It's not the fact of if they can work out or not, it's the fact that it's pretty disgusting. It's one guy for one girl, vice versa, one girl for one girl, or one guy for one guy; the way I see it.

It can work. You'd have to be smart and have a plan in case you get caught. You must have an exit strategy before you enter a 3some relationship. The chicks must not know eachother at all, except on rare occasions like mine where although i currently hook up with my x's bestfriend and I still hook up with my ex. They not talking at all again, like forever over something dumb. I took advantage of the situation. And had an exit strategy. I told my ex's now former best friend that if my ex ever finds out we hook up she'll pay the price as well by being revealed as a man stealer and all the stigma and rep that comes with stealing a guy from a chick you know especially I you knew her well. She has more to lose than I do. And if my ex does find out she cannot get mad because we're not a couple. Im not her boyfriend on purpose. 2's better than one. I've been doing fine the past 2yrs cause my plans foolproof. And again if by the severly odd chance that i get caught, I'll be the least impacted. Ill walk away unscathed. You have to be one careful and smart mofo. Make sure the other's name's not ever, ever mentioned in the other's presence. Ever. Other than that, it can work fellas. It's super fun. But I guess the more risk you take the better the returns, right?

That's....not....really....a threesome relationship. That's more of a "back-stabbing mother, cheatin' on my ass with another woman" relationship.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
Hahaha, that's true.

Though to be honest I wouldn't say his relationship/s work. He doesn't truly love those girls in my opinion. I can't say for sure, I don't know the man.

-AC

HAHAHA.

Hugh, your relationships don't work, as they aren't founded on a solid basis of reciprocated love and mutual understanding.

Possibly the funniest post of all time.

I don't know if three girls could work, but I'd like to carry out some investigations into that.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
It can work. You'd have to be smart and have a plan in case you get caught. You must have an exit strategy before you enter a 3some relationship. The chicks must not know eachother at all, except on rare occasions like mine where although i currently hook up with my x's bestfriend and I still hook up with my ex. They not talking at all again, like forever over something dumb. I took advantage of the situation. And had an exit strategy. I told my ex's now former best friend that if my ex ever finds out we hook up she'll pay the price as well by being revealed as a man stealer and all the stigma and rep that comes with stealing a guy from a chick you know especially I you knew her well. She has more to lose than I do. And if my ex does find out she cannot get mad because we're not a couple. Im not her boyfriend on purpose. 2's better than one. I've been doing fine the past 2yrs cause my plans foolproof. And again if by the severly odd chance that i get caught, I'll be the least impacted. Ill walk away unscathed. You have to be one careful and smart mofo. Make sure the other's name's not ever, ever mentioned in the other's presence. Ever. Other than that, it can work fellas. It's super fun. But I guess the more risk you take the better the returns, right? Aren't you the one in another thread that stated all you want is sex sex sex in that order?.Hmmmm

I donīt think it will work ! People tend to want the other person just for themselves, they donīt like to share ! The only thing I think that can make the idea of this type of relationship interesting for people, it is the sex they would have, and relationships based on sex never last long.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Aren't you the one in another thread that stated all you want is sex sex sex in that order?.Hmmmm

Yea, I said that, and? Your Point?

Why do you think I'm in that 3some. For the caring and nurturing feelings of comfort of dreamy love I get from the two cause I just adore just the closeness of it all?

Lolol, please....

It's all about the sex, sex, sex..what else is there

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
It's all about the sex, sex, sex..what else is there

I agree... Thats the reason of why many relationships exist, not just threesome.

Originally posted by whobdamandog
Did you guys form a train?



Fin


sometimes, yeah.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
Yea, I said that, and? Your Point?

Why do you think I'm in that 3some. For the caring and nurturing feelings of comfort of dreamy love I get from the two cause I just adore just the closeness of it all?

Lolol, please....

It's all about the sex, sex, sex..what else is there
Yeah because you have no life. Lame!

Hugh doesn't need to feel love, he can bank roll someone else to feel that 4 him.........now seriously what a low life.......keeping 3 girls to himself..........

Originally posted by DanieLs_4_Ever
Yeah because you have no life. Lame!

I have no life because I choose to be with both girls instead of one. I cause all I want from a woman is sex makes me lame?

I'll assume you're a guy since you have a guys name, so thats not what's in question. What is, is your S. orientation.

The way I see it, I'd rather have a one on one relationship based on trust and love - F*ck if anyone believes me but I don't even care if I get sex. But whatever floats your boat, I have no right to judge other people wrongly.

Originally posted by MC Mike
The way I see it, I'd rather have a one on one relationship based on trust and love - F*ck if anyone believes me but I don't even care if I get sex. But whatever floats your boat, I have no right to judge other people wrongly.

Really, you won't care. wow.

wow,

I couldn't do it. Like just sit there and not care about sex. But hey, you're right. What ever floats your boat.

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I have no life because I choose to be with both girls instead of one. I cause all I want from a woman is sex makes me lame?

I'll assume you're a guy since you have a guys name, so thats not what's in question. What is, is your S. orientation.

It's not a guy, it's someone that chooses to define themselves by relation to an arbitrary male human.

I think it'd work... sexually. But I really don't think you can love two people equally. That is of course if Draco69 means that everyone loves everyone in the relationship.
But, if Draco means just like a sexual thing, it'd work, yeah.

I think you could love to people, but the other 2 people won't love eachother for very long......

Originally posted by debbiejo
I think you could love to people, but the other 2 people won't love eachother for very long......

I don't you'll always prefer someone over the other.

Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic
sometimes, yeah. Don't make my mind go there... I'm a very visual person.........

I've had a few Three way relationships, but I can never get them to last more than a night or so....

Originally posted by FistOfThe North
I have no life because I choose to be with both girls instead of one. I cause all I want from a woman is sex makes me lame?

I'll assume you're a guy since you have a guys name, so thats not what's in question. What is, is your S. orientation.
Must not even have a 6th grade education either

Originally posted by DanieLs_4_Ever
Must not even have a 6th grade education either

lol really? Why are you so upset with me?



I seen you for the first time ever like 2 days ago the past 4, 5 posts have been nothing but insults to me on your part and I always just laugh back at you but now it's more a curious laugh..

Please reply, lol