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well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.

wow.. that sucks.. truly... I feel for you...

my girl kinda did the same thing to me ...

hope you're doin alright.

thanks. i just don't know if i want tuesday to come or if i don't.

irrr. yeah... tough call....

what's more "worth it" to you? that's the most important question..

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave. I'm sorry to hear that, I JUST got out of a VERY traumatic relationship where it was the best thing in the world...
Then things changed, and got MORE and MORE traumatizing, but it was psychological...

Long story short, lots of lessons learned, and it had a big affect on everyone.

Originally posted by jinzin
irrr. yeah... tough call....

what's more "worth it" to you? that's the most important question..

I know the feeling.

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
I'm sorry to hear that, I JUST got out of a VERY traumatic relationship where it was the best thing in the world...
Then things changed, and got MORE and MORE traumatizing, but it was psychological...

Long story short, lots of lessons learned, and it had a big affect on everyone.

was it the girl you pmed me about?

he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave.

Originally posted by dark_angelz
I know the feeling.

you trying to make a tough desicion too?

Yea...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave.

don't think like that... that's irrational...

this whole love shtick's a hit and miss sorta game...

don't give up though...

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
Yea...

wow.. so.... trainwreck huh?

sorry man...

I'm guessing it was moreso her than you...

Originally posted by jinzin
wow.. so.... trainwreck huh?

sorry man...

I'm guessing it was moreso her than you... Like I said... totally psychological...

Originally posted by Tha C-Master
Like I said... totally psychological...

yeah.. I would have guessed as much...

wot should i do? i love him. and our last night together will be alone. to do whatever we like

13 weeks? That's...what...three months?

Come back when you've dated him a year before you can say 'Love sucks.' For now, stick to 'My boyfriend going to America for a whole two months sucks.'

Here's the hoping he doesn't meet one of our babes. Where in the States is he headed?

I'm not a person to do things I'd regret or that would lead to long term consequences... but thats just me...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
he keeps phoning me trying to tell me its ok but, well its just simply not helping. i feel like i should never get close to anyone ever again. like if i do they'll leave. Tell him to stop calling you because it really does cost an ass-load of cash. Trust me, I know

Originally posted by melinda_warren
wot should i do? i love him. and our last night together will be alone. to do whatever we like You've already made up your mind.

i have? and hes stinking rich he doesn't care about calling me costing him. he's travelling all over the states last time i asked he said he was in new york buying me my christmas present. which i now have

Huzzah.

Why is he traveling the States?

his parents got a bussiness trip. they dragged him along.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i have? and hes stinking rich he doesn't care about calling me costing him. he's travelling all over the states last time i asked he said he was in new york buying me my christmas present. which i now have If he's stinking rich, why not go with him?

school

...We have schools in America.

yes but i need to stay at my school

*shrug*

i don't want to fall to pieces. he just phoned me saying he can't wait till tuesday. hes older than me. help...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave. Love long distance is one of the hardest things in the world if its real, just make sure BOTH of you are strong enough to handle it...

i hope i am. wot do you think he is plannig for when i sleep round his?

huh?

Originally posted by melinda_warren
huh?
Well I believe that Snoopy and I pretty uch think the same as to what you want to do

ok now im confused, :'(

Originally posted by melinda_warren
ok now im confused, :'(

Right.

ok. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i feel like i'm dying inside.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
ok. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i feel like i'm dying inside.
Alright. Can you actually do anything aboot his staying or going (Reminds me of a Clash song...you should listen to the clash) ...anyways, no you can't really. You cannot leave school and he probably can't leave his parents either, right? So the only question is what will you do in the time left. And since by the way of your writing you already made up your mind (by the way that is only your choice) we can not really help we, now can we?

ok. so wot do you think i should do with him on our last night together on tuesday.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
ok. so wot do you think i should do with him on our last night together on tuesday.

Hey, I really don't know you. You have to decide what is the best for you. If you really like him, well you know...you have to decide.

Do i sound to much like someone who is not cynical and sadistic?

Originally posted by melinda_warren
well for me it does anyway. i want any opions on this plz.

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 13 weeks. and it's been great. i really love him and he announced 2 weeks ago he was going to have to go to america for 2 months, i was devistated. but it only got worse from there. about a week after he flew out he announced he may have to stay in america..... for good. i dont know what to do or say. i am practically in bits. he is coming bak for two days on tuesday. and im sleeping round his that night. his parents won't be there that night. it will just be me and him. this maybe the last time i see him. and i don't know what to do.

i love him and he loves me. this is tearing me apart. and my best friend moved away as well not long ago. everytime i get close to someone they leave.


Wow, this is pathetic. Look if you truly love him go to America, it's not that hard. Seems like another 12 year old girl trying to get attention...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i don't want to fall to pieces. he just phoned me saying he can't wait till tuesday. hes older than me. help... I was in a long-distance relationship. Maybe my experience was just crap, or the person wasn't right for that kind of a relationship, but I would suggest just getting over him as fast as possible, unless those vists are guarenteed to be frequent.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
ok. so wot do you think i should do with him on our last night together on tuesday. Everyone on the forums already believes you're going to have sex wtih him.

not particularly. hey do you know sanctuary?

Originally posted by AOR
Wow, this is pathetic. Look if you truly love him go to America, it's not that hard. Seems like another 12 year old girl trying to get attention... Yes, there are some holes to her story, but I'd rather not get into it at 4:14 AM in the feckin' morning.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Damn...that's what I should have said. You are my idol snoopy. I'm an idol.



Originally posted by AOR
it's 7:16 for me I haven't slept though, been re-installing Windows.

and 12:20 for me. everyone thinks wot!

Originally posted by melinda_warren
and 12:20 for me. everyone thinks wot!

Everyone thinks what?

Originally posted by melinda_warren
and 12:20 for me. everyone thinks wot! That. You. Will. Have sexual intercourse with him.

You know, where he sticks his penis in your vagina?

that i'm going to have sex with him. you don't think thats wot he wants do you?

Originally posted by melinda_warren
that i'm going to have sex with him. you don't think thats wot he wants do you?
I think he thinks that that is what you want

Originally posted by melinda_warren
that i'm going to have sex with him. you don't think thats wot he wants do you? of course it's what he wants, it's what I want, it's what AOR and Bardock want. That's what every normal human being want's, it's ingrained in your brain.

Whether he wants to take advantage of the situation... depends, I don't know him, but it's 50/50. In your case, it's better to play it by ear.

Originally posted by Bardock42
What an admirable way to put it. (put it...get it..you know cause you can put...well nevermind)

Originally posted by AOR
hysterical *cough*

i don't think so. i just want to be with him. one last night. i love him but im too young for that.

No you're not, 8 is too young. You should take your days like it's one life at a time. Instead of viewing "Maybe I"ll find someone later in life and get in bed with him", picture your life as a single day. Then have sex with him.

You know you have to do it, it's Microsoft endorsed.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i don't think so. i just want to be with him. one last night. i love him but im too young for that.
Well then. Whats the big deal? You want to be with him...be with him...I ean he (since he is ale ...sorry AC for generalizing) will want to have sex..but if you don't....I don't see your problem...at all...

Originally posted by Bardock42
Well then. Whats the big deal? You want to be with him...be with him...I ean he (since he is ale ...sorry AC for generalizing) will want to have sex..but if you don't....I don't see your problem...at all... She clearly wants to have sex but maintain the facade of innocence. It doesn't matter melinda_<insert rest of name here>, we're just a bunch of people on a message board. You love him apparently, so let him stick his penis in your vagina. *shrug*

so when did you lot first have sex then if 13 isn't too young?

he did phone me and say that tuesday night would be something i'd never forget

Originally posted by melinda_warren
so when did you lot first have sex then if 13 isn't too young? Tommorow is when I first had sex.

No, but seriously, If there is a great possiblity you'll never see him again, go for the chance to get a free-one night stand. If you do se him again, that's great, because then you have an actual relationship

Before anyone says anything about how those relationships don't work (Sexual ones), Katy and Bryan (katy is my best friend, btw) have been having sex for god knows how long and they've had a 3 year relationship.

she is my idol. lol. i want to be an actress.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
he did phone me and say that tuesday night would be something i'd never forget Maybe he's got an enema? Can't forget those.

Originally posted by Bardock42
You are just too much...I have to read more of your stuff..."Dr. Snoopy helps you have sex"

Anyways, Rose McGowan is hot. Isn't she that one "Paige" girl from Charmed? Oh how I hate that show

EDIT: 69 posts in this thread! That should be your first position!

Originally posted by melinda_warren
she is my idol. lol. i want to be an actress.
She's not my idol. I want to screw her

To Snoopy: Show sucks, girls are hot.

Damn straight

you have no tatse.

maybe he doesn't want sex. he doesn't seem that way. in a guys view do you think he does?

In a guys view I think Rose McGowan is hot.

Oh, and if I were him, no. But since most people aren't me, yes. But then again, maybe no.

I'll go start that thread....

Originally posted by melinda_warren
you have no tatse.

maybe he doesn't want sex. he doesn't seem that way. in a guys view do you think he does?
Yes. Although depends on your age and how you look.

ok thats agreed. so do you think he does? if this is our last night together i don't want to get this wrong!

If you don't want to get it wrong, I suggest reading up on the Kama Sutra.

lol. you all think i am going to have sex with him don't you? odds plz.

it is?

because we are giving an underaged girl sex advise

Originally posted by melinda_warren
lol. you all think i am going to have sex with him don't you? odds plz. If it's your last night together, for all you know he could die the next day, then you'll regret not having intercourse with him.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Good one. Why is this thread jsut so funny. Dunno

yeh i guess it is kinda weird.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
lol. you all think i am going to have sex with him don't you? odds plz.
Indeed.

Like I said, have intercourse. It's better to take the path with fewer regrets.

Oh, make sure it's protected sex.

so do you think i'll go ahead with it?

Yes. It's not so much what you think now, but how caught up youa re in the moment. Like I said, keep a condom on you just incase. If you can't get one, fashion one out of tomatoe skin, orange peels, salt, and small razors.

yeh good point.

The decision to have sex should never be taken lightly.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by Storm
The decision to have sex should never be taken lightly.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam. Intercourse is never a light decision

i say love sucks. but i love him. and i couldn't think of anything better than that. he says he loves me and i think he does. we've kissed and made out before. but i never thought i would even consider sex so soon.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
so do you think i'll go ahead with it?
Whoa. You actually listen to the advice of some guys fro teh internet...

Made out and intercourse are two different things. If it's your last night together you will undoubtedly be so caught up in the moment you won't think, and even if you did, at the time, would you really want to stop yourself? So, keep a condom on. Not on, but on your person, just in case. If you can't get one, fashion one out of tomatoe skin, orange peels, salt, and small razors.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i say love sucks. but i love him. and i couldn't think of anything better than that. he says he loves me and i think he does. we've kissed and made out before. but i never thought i would even consider sex so soon.

Maybe it's just part of a greater sheme to get in your pants.

most of the people on this forum are some of the smartest people i've ever talked with. but of course i don't rush into any desison.

i'm young not supid.

Ask yourself if the situation "feels right" and if you really trust those feelings. Ask yourself how well you know the person you are thinking of being with, and if you care for them and trust them. Know your reasons. Whatever your reason, be sure it is worth giving something away that you will never get back.
If you have any second thoughts stop immediately until you are completely sure. Sex is not bad, dirty or wrong, but it is a big step to take. If you can' t be mature about protecting yourself from risks, you shouldn' t be "doing it".


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

told you. some of the smartest people iv'e ever met.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i'm young not supid. *cough* We... know.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
told you. some of the smartest people iv'e ever met. You haven't met any of us.

so wot are the odds for this will i won't i? i'm just intrigued.

...YOU know the odds. Keep some fecking protection on you just in case.

I can' t believe you' re making a game out of it. You are anything but ready.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by Storm
I can' t believe you' re making a game out of it. You are anything but ready.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam. Maybe she isn't. Maybe she's playing us. Maybe he's running a social experiment for the government.

yeh cause this is the sound of sanity

I was pulling a Deano. Now you've gone and hurt my feelings.

he phoned again. his phone bill is gettin big.

Originally posted by Storm
She' s 13.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam. 14 actually, according to something they get to set. It doesn't really mean that's what their age is. Too be honest I've been wondering if it isn't someone just lieing about their age and screwing with us.

Originally posted by Storm
She' s 13.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

She was born in 92? I can even remeber 92......holy shit.

Anyways maybe she's lying.

i've made my desison

what i'd say, WHAT DID I SAY?!?!

http://www.hype-publicity.com/Images/epk/carlosmencia1_hires.jpg

What a relieve


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

i'm not lying. im friends with sanctuary at school. year 9

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i've made my desison
Tell us, I am anxious to know.

i am 13

That's your decision? Awesome.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i am 13

Ia m bored. Nice to meet you.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Ia m bored. Nice to meet you. My name is Bong. James Bong. Nice to meet you.

i have decided. that i am too young. and although i love him and vice versa, i'm not mature enough to understand the importane behind sex. if we both decide together when i am at his, that we both want to have sex. then maybe then. as i said i am not stupid.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i have decided. that i am too young. and although i love him and vice versa, i'm not mature enough to understand the importane behind sex. if we both decide together when i am at his, that we both want to have sex. then maybe then. as i said i am not stupid.

Good for you...bad for him...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i have decided. that i am too young. and although i love him and vice versa, i'm not mature enough to understand the importane behind sex. if we both decide together when i am at his, that we both want to have sex. then maybe then. as i said i am not stupid. Importance behind sex: To procreate. Recreationally, it's also to have some fun.

The importance behind it is in your head. As is men's fixation on removing virginity. Actually, pretty much everything is your head.

Now, go watch Underworld and sleep some.

wow, apparently your a lot more mature than was shown . So tell us again why you just staked your entire future on a couple of utter and complete strangers?

Because, his name is von croyt mishanshapner and he is attempting to kill us alL!!!!!one one lawlz!

thats the less mature thing. plus its mainly cause sanctuary wasn't online. shes been helping me through this. shes an incredible friend

go ahead. if it helps you get over insanity

Originally posted by Bardock42
I think we should have made a blowjob joke at some point. This thread title just asks for it.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
thats the less mature thing. plus its mainly cause sanctuary wasn't online. shes been helping me through this. shes an incredible friend Hmm...

Originally posted by melinda_warren
go ahead. if it helps you get over insanity

I think the moment has passed....although mentioning it could count as half a joke. And Snoopy laughed so ....

GAH! The only thing about love that sucks is the hookers outside my street.

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh k

Originally posted by Bardock42
Bada-BIIIIING Zing!

burnt toast

zOMG

ewwwwwwwwwch

Originally posted by melinda_warren
burnt toast No.

no?

Pig skin!

burnt pig skin

Originally posted by melinda_warren
i have decided. that i am too young. and although i love him and vice versa, i'm not mature enough to understand the importane behind sex. if we both decide together when i am at his, that we both want to have sex. then maybe then. as i said i am not stupid.
A wise choice.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by melinda_warren
burnt pig skin This isn't the word game!

Originally posted by melinda_warren
ewwwwwwwwwch

Yes that's the sound it makes...well you will know on thursday...or was it tuesday ...

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yes that's the sound it makes...well you will know on thursday...or was it tuesday ... *cough* wednesday actually.

tuesday

Originally posted by melinda_warren
tuesday

UIt was just a joke..I don't actually need to know the exact day...