Do you think it's ok to move in with someone after...

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Morning_Glory
only 4 weeks.

My friend's boyfriend is moving in with her - they've only known each other for about a month. Actually she says they arent even dating but he's moving in... hmmm ..anyways..she lives in a one room studio place.

blah

DanteMayCry
cohabitation is the best way to know the person
because cohabitation you will observe them in action
if they believe they can trust each other
hopefully they fall in love to one another

knowing each other for month makes no sense
i think they are foolish but no offense
they are using their hearts and their love in that sense
but i believe they just dont have common sense.

2cent

Morning_Glory
using their hearts?? but my friend told me yesterday they arent even dating or having a relationship.. blah ..it doesnt make a whole lot of sense

he's not even going to help pay the rent, because he has alamony payments (from a previous marriage)...she's just not being very smart at all

Lana
How do you know she's even telling you the full truth about the situation?

Morning_Glory
because she's my friend... i believe her when she says he is moving in with her.

Lana
No...I mean, how do you know she's not telling the entire truth when she says they're not dating?

DanteMayCry
uh then my passages are wrong because i assumed that they like each other.

how bout as a friend. tell her that.
"im concerned about you. are you sure you wanna move in with this man?"
ask her some survey. let your friend know that it might be a mistake.
do you love him?
does he love you?
why do you wanna move in with him? hes not even gonna pay rent?
if you get pregnent are you ready to take care of the family?
do you guys have propinquity? (have in common other than being foolish)

numbers never lie and according to marriage family... and according to your friends situation. its as doomed to failure

good luck on your friend God have mercy on them.

i bet 2 months later they gonna seperate

Morning_Glory
Originally posted by Lana
No...I mean, how do you know she's not telling the entire truth when she says they're not dating?

she's probably sleeping with him if thats what you are getting at... but they were dating and she says they arent dating but that doesnt mean they are having sex.

DanteMayCry
just askem questions and tell her that they are making a big mistake

tell her as a friend.

Morning_Glory
Originally posted by DanteMayCry
uh then my passages are wrong because i assumed that they like each other.

how bout as a friend. tell her that.
"im concerned about you. are you sure you wanna move in with this man?"
ask her some survey. let your friend know that it might be a mistake.
do you love him?
does he love you?
why do you wanna move in with him? hes not even gonna pay rent?
if you get pregnent are you ready to take care of the family?
do you guys have propinquity? (have in common other than being foolish)

numbers never lie and according to marriage family... and according to your friends situation. its as doomed to failure

good luck on your friend God have mercy on them.

i bet 2 months later they gonna seperate

she would love to get pregnant... she wants a baby so bad, its really pathetic, she doesnt care about the guy she just wants the baby

i bet it will be over soon but i hate to see her go through a heartache, cause I can already see it coming

Morning_Glory
Originally posted by DanteMayCry
just askem questions and tell her that they are making a big mistake

tell her as a friend.

ok happy

dave123
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
she doesnt care about the guy she just wants the baby
If you're a good friend, you'll punch her in the face until that changes thumb up

Morning_Glory
Originally posted by dave123
If you're a good friend, you'll punch her in the face until that changes thumb up

ha ha eat

Quiero Mota
Originally posted by DanteMayCry
cohabitation is the best way to know the person
because cohabitation you will observe them in action
if they believe they can trust each other
hopefully they fall in love to one another

yes

Simon! I'm in my second marrriage, homes, and I believe you should live with the person for about a year before tying the knot.

DanteMayCry
how old is your friend?

gimme the demograph

Quiero Mota
Originally posted by DanteMayCry
how old is your friend?

gimme the demograph

good question

LethalFemme
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
only 4 weeks.

My friend's boyfriend is moving in with her - they've only known each other for about a month. Actually she says they arent even dating but he's moving in... hmmm ..anyways..she lives in a one room studio place.

blah

be prepared to comfort your friend when this is all over cause it will end and it will be messy erm lol

DanteMayCry
my advice to you morning glory is try to talk them out of it.
but i doubt that will happened so go to plan B

PLAN B
morning glory... stock some of them kleenex tissues and get lots of sweet foods around the table and rent a drama dvd because i can see

your friend crying on your shoulders and as she stuffs her self with icecream trying to fill the void / emptiness. or wallowing

Morning_Glory
Originally posted by DanteMayCry
how old is your friend?

gimme the demograph

she's about to turn 31... she thinks her time is running out to have a baby & get married..blah blah .

LethalFemme
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
she's about to turn 31... she thinks her time is running out to have a baby & get married..blah blah .

i was wondering if she was pregnant lol

Morning_Glory
naw shes not pregnant now... if she was she would be so excited...I wouldnt hear the end of it

DanteMayCry
31? yea go with plan B

plan C is do not intervene
31 she can make her decisions however her decision on this is not wise.

so mornin glory whats it gonna be?

Plan A: intervene
Plan B: prepare for the worst
Plan C: do not intervene

K.Diddy
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
only 4 weeks.

My friend's boyfriend is moving in with her - they've only known each other for about a month. Actually she says they arent even dating but he's moving in... hmmm ..anyways..she lives in a one room studio place.

blah


I think it's stupid

LethalFemme
Originally posted by Morning_Glory
naw shes not pregnant now... if she was she would be so excited...I wouldnt hear the end of it

well just be a good friend and be there for her yes

Morning_Glory
ok happy

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