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Yesterday my Niece (who is 16 1/2) called me and asked me if I could do her a favor. I sighed, knowing what she was going to ask, but said what.

She said "I got the parking ticket today and I was wondering if you could take care of it for me?" I said no and she got pissed off at me and told me I was a terrible aunt, because i wouldn't help her out.

First off the ticket was only 5 dollars, second...it's her responsibility.

Alot of my siblings and nieces and nephews ask me to do that for them. And they get mad at me when I tell them that it's wrong.

Is this normal?
I feel like my family is trying to take advantage of me.

the ticket will end up being more than $5... I mean on her insurance will go up... but you were right ... it's her responsibility.. and if she acts that way about then that's her problem not yours

Just let them.

Problem Solved.

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
the ticket will end up being more than $5... I mean on her insurance will go up... but you were right ... it's her responsibility.. and if she acts that way about then that's her problem not yours

Agreed.

They got the ticket they should pay it. They will never learn that it is wrong if people keep paying it for them.

I would if I was 16.5 too Maybe she didn't understand a parking ticket isn't a big deal just pay it and get on with life, could be she thought it was a significant offense?

They're family, its gonna happen. Anyway I thought you greek, catholic types were tight and helped each other out no questionswhistling

o just a parking ticket... oops thought it was a speeding ticket, I was gonna say thats really cheap for a speeding ticket ...

OMG! a parking ticket someone should smack her over her head..tsk

Originally posted by Zebina
Yesterday my Niece (who is 16 1/2) called me and asked me if I could do her a favor. I sighed, knowing what she was going to ask, but said what.

She said "I got the parking ticket today and I was wondering if you could take care of it for me?" I said no and she got pissed off at me and told me I was a terrible aunt, because i wouldn't help her out.

First off the ticket was only 5 dollars, second...it's her responsibility.

Alot of my siblings and nieces and nephews ask me to do that for them. And they get mad at me when I tell them that it's wrong.

Is this normal?
I feel like my family is trying to take advantage of me.
Yeah I think she needs to take responsibility and pay for the ticket herself instead of asking you. She's the one that got the ticket afterall and has to pay for it.

Originally posted by soleran30
I would if I was 16.5 too Maybe she didn't understand a parking ticket isn't a big deal just pay it and get on with life, could be she thought it was a significant offense?

They're family, its gonna happen. Anyway I thought you greek, catholic types were tight and helped each other out no questionswhistling

ha ha ha funny....I'm not helping her out anymore, I've always tried to help her out, but enough is enough. It just hurts my feelings that she called me a terrible aunt because I wouldn't take care of a parking ticket.

She new what it was, She got one before.

you would be wrong for not helping them...if they were like dirt poor and had no money

where do they get off asking you to pay their tickets anyway? don't let them make you feel guilty for not paying their tickets; you need to lay down the law and tell them it's ridiculous for them to expect you to do that for them

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
you would be wrong for not helping them...if they were like dirt poor and had no money

where do they get off asking you to pay their tickets anyway? don't let them make you feel guilty for not paying their tickets; you need to lay down the law and tell them it's ridiculous for them to expect you to do that for them
Yes Mommy! *Saluts*

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
you would be wrong for not helping them...if they were like dirt poor and had no money

where do they get off asking you to pay their tickets anyway? don't let them make you feel guilty for not paying their tickets; you need to lay down the law and tell them it's ridiculous for them to expect you to do that for them


I have before!

I mean I could get into serious trouble for doing that! They don't care. My mom and Dad are the only ones on my side.

I mean I feel like if I did it once, they'd think that all they had to do is push and push and I'd finally give in

Originally posted by Zebina
I mean I could get into serious trouble for doing that!

how could you get in trouble?

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
how could you get in trouble?

I work for the law. They're not wanting me to pay for the ticket, they're wanting me to get rid of it.

Don't succumb. She's responsible for her own actions and regardless of whether it's $5 or $50, she needs to pay for it herself. You're not there to bail her out every time she does something stupid, she really shouldn't see you as someone she can take advantage of. She's lucky it's only a small fine and she shouldn't be pissed at you for saying no.

Originally posted by Zebina
I work for the law. They're not wanting me to pay for the ticket, they're wanting me to get rid of it.

Hey, do me a favour.

Get "rid" of this parking ticket. Thanks.

Originally posted by Zebina
I work for the law. They're not wanting me to pay for the ticket, they're wanting me to get rid of it.


oohhh, wow

that's asking a lot. I'd be pissed if I were you...having your niece ask you to do that.

you should tell her how upset she made you feel and demand an apology.















rule of thumb….family doesn’t ask family to break the law for the sake of parking tickets

Originally posted by Syren
Don't succumb. She's responsible for her own actions and regardless of whether it's $5 or $50, she needs to pay for it herself. You're not there to bail her out every time she does something stupid, she really shouldn't see you as someone she can take advantage of. She's lucky it's only a small fine and she shouldn't be pissed at you for saying no.

That's what I'm saying!

If I help her now, what's stopping her from thinking I'd help her out of anything!?

What if she stole something, or (god forbid) killed someone, she'd do it with the expectations that her FBI agent auntie would come to her rescue.

Originally posted by Zebina
I work for the law. They're not wanting me to pay for the ticket, they're wanting me to get rid of it.


Wait don't they give you traffic detail for that offense, I thought thats what they did in Kindergarten cop!

No seriously take your little cousin to the jail cell where all the indigents and crack heads are locked up! Then tell her this is what happens when you don't learn responsibility as a youth you take crack and defecate on yourself in public!

Originally posted by Zebina
That's what I'm saying!

If I help her now, what's stopping her from thinking I'd help her out of anything!?

What if she stole something, or (god forbid) killed someone, she'd do it with the expectations that her FBI agent auntie would come to her rescue.

you're an FBI agent...? scared




*hides the stash and the loot*

Originally posted by soleran30
Wait don't they give you traffic detail for that offense, I thought thats what they did in Kindergarten cop!

No seriously take your little cousin to the jail cell where all the indigents and crack heads are locked up! Then tell her this is what happens when you don't learn responsibility as a youth you take crack and defecate on yourself in public!

I've thought about it, but I didn't want to hear my bitchy sister chew my ass off for doing it.



nono Bad boy!

unfortunately family members love to mooch off

i do it sometimes too...with food

Originally posted by a1hsauce
unfortunately family members love to mooch off

i do it sometimes too...with food


umm...are you gonna eat all that? pizza

Originally posted by Zebina
That's what I'm saying!

If I help her now, what's stopping her from thinking I'd help her out of anything!?

What if she stole something, or (god forbid) killed someone, she'd do it with the expectations that her FBI agent auntie would come to her rescue.
FBI agent at 21?


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Dana Scully

Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
umm...are you gonna eat all that? pizza dont touch my pizza

Originally posted by Storm
FBI agent at 21?


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

actually, she's only 20









































....she's good

Originally posted by Storm
FBI agent at 21?


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
It's not as far fetched as it seems, my brother got offered a job in the FBI at 19.

doing what filing papers?

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
It's not as far fetched as it seems, my brother got offered a job in the FBI at 19.

probably not to be an agent though

I got a job as Director of the FBI. When I was still sperm.

Originally posted by a1hsauce
doing what filing papers?
Computer work.
Originally posted by Morgoths_Wrath
probably not to be an agent though
No, computer work, but hey that's still an awesome job. And it's still working for the FBI.

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Computer work.

No, computer work, but hey that's still an awesome job. And it's still working for the FBI. so in reality..you could actually be your cousin...and be spying on each and every one of us on KMC now

Originally posted by a1hsauce
so in reality..you could actually be your cousin...and be spying on each and every one of us on KMC now
Where does my cousin come into this?
And oh yes, I'm glad someone finally figured it out. I have to hand it to you a1, you'd be a great agent yourself!

yess...i would...now go to my office so that we may have a *cough* proper interview

Originally posted by a1hsauce
Dana Scully

X-Files was my favorite TV show

Originally posted by Zebina
Yesterday my Niece (who is 16 1/2) called me and asked me if I could do her a favor. I sighed, knowing what she was going to ask, but said what.

She said "I got the parking ticket today and I was wondering if you could take care of it for me?" I said no and she got pissed off at me and told me I was a terrible aunt, because i wouldn't help her out.

First off the ticket was only 5 dollars, second...it's her responsibility.

Alot of my siblings and nieces and nephews ask me to do that for them. And they get mad at me when I tell them that it's wrong.

Is this normal?
I feel like my family is trying to take advantage of me.

that is not your responsibility at all forget her if she got pissed of at you

mine too...i hear theyre making another movie

Originally posted by a1hsauce
mine too...i hear theyre making another movie

ooh the saucy one

Originally posted by a1hsauce
mine too...i hear theyre making another movie

Yep

They've been talking about doing so for like...6 years now? But I think it's actually in pre-production or something now.

Originally posted by Lana
Yep

They've been talking about doing so for like...6 years now? But I think it's actually in pre-production or something now.

hey girl

didnt they all die at the end of the season..

Originally posted by LethalFemme
hey girl

Hey

Originally posted by a1hsauce
didnt they all die at the end of the season..

No....

Originally posted by a1hsauce
yess...i would...now go to my office so that we may have a *cough* proper interview
Ooohh! Describe to me this, "interview"...

Originally posted by Lana
Hey



No.... didnt that damn helicopter shoot amissle up everyones arse at the end.... oh now i remember didnt they end up gettin away and making out at the end

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Ooohh! Describe to me this, "interview"... its a more of a close contact interview...i need to find out what your skills are

Originally posted by a1hsauce
didnt that damn helicopter shoot amissle up everyones arse at the end.... oh now i remember didnt they end up gettin away and making out at the end

its a more of a close contact interview...i need to find out what your skills are
Well I guess we'll see!

Originally posted by Zebina
That's what I'm saying!

If I help her now, what's stopping her from thinking I'd help her out of anything!?

What if she stole something, or (god forbid) killed someone, she'd do it with the expectations that her FBI agent auntie would come to her rescue. FBI? is J. Hoover really die or did he just get a sex change and go undercover for the Radio City Rockettes??

Originally posted by Lana
Hey



No....

love the sig I need to get a new one

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Well I guess we'll see! we'll have all the time you need

Originally posted by a1hsauce
we'll have all the time you need
How much time do you need, my dear sir?

i like two hour long interviews

Originally posted by a1hsauce
i like two hour long interviews
Two hours? Make it three.

the ticket only being 5 dollars and she wants you to pay for it? for a normal family no its not normal.For an oddball character with an oddball family -and I know one because my best friend and his family are,yes its normal.

Originally posted by Syren
Don't succumb. She's responsible for her own actions and regardless of whether it's $5 or $50, she needs to pay for it herself. You're not there to bail her out every time she does something stupid, she really shouldn't see you as someone she can take advantage of. She's lucky it's only a small fine and she shouldn't be pissed at you for saying no.

exactly.

They can afford to drive a car, but cant afford a $5 ticket...

Somebody needs a slap...

I know.she sounds like my best friends brother.Everybody that meets him,they all say the same thing about him that he is the biggest oddball character they have ever met in their whole life.Example-He can afford to buy an expensive mercedes car but when my best friend asks him if he can get $5.00 from him to chip in for his nieces birthday,he says-Man I dont have that kind of money. your niece and my best friends brother should get together.

I would say her and my Best friends brother rival each other as the funniest oddball character in the world wouldnt you?

Originally posted by Zebina
Yesterday my Niece (who is 16 1/2) called me and asked me if I could do her a favor. I sighed, knowing what she was going to ask, but said what.

She said "I got the parking ticket today and I was wondering if you could take care of it for me?" I said no and she got pissed off at me and told me I was a terrible aunt, because i wouldn't help her out.

First off the ticket was only 5 dollars, second...it's her responsibility.

Alot of my siblings and nieces and nephews ask me to do that for them. And they get mad at me when I tell them that it's wrong.

Is this normal?
I feel like my family is trying to take advantage of me. are you a cop or something.


oh, and if they give you shit about it, just tell them ****ers to piss off.

it's what i do.

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Two hours? Make it three. i might pass out after 3

Originally posted by Morning_Glory
you were right ... it's her responsibility.. and if she acts that way about then that's her problem not yours

Originally posted by a1hsauce
i might pass out after 3
Okay...four. Just kidding. Okay, okay if you want two then two it is!

if im tempted to....i might do 4....lets push it to the next level

get a room you two

wanna join

hmmm....tempting

i got all the cherries, chocolate and whipped cream we'll need

I'm allergic to strawberries sorry

strawberries? whered you get strawberries from i said cherries

You meanie *pinches* Don't mess with my head!

im very ticklish...

oh really

yes...are you..we can have a ticklefest..

Yes...extremely

where are you the most ticklish?

my sides

You?

ribs anywhere else

my neck

ohh the neck..very soft spot

Yes indeed.

i like fleshy spots

oh realllly

im kind of a master with that general area

Really,

A Master? I love a man with experience

maybe we should both try out our skills in the training room

maybe

just dont do any probing with me!... i know you work for the governmentglare

But I like to Probe!

no...

cry

my bootys exit only

Originally posted by a1hsauce
my bootys exit only

lol I'm just playing

glareyou government people

Heeyyyy....don't be mean. I know where you live!

im moving!

lol you're funny.

I love your 24 sig

thank you your sigs pretty hot too

thanks

Originally posted by a1hsauce
maybe we should both try out our skills in the training room
cry What about me? What about us?

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
cry What about me? What about us? you take too long

Sauce, you saucy devil

soo I see you've turned in a resume as well

Originally posted by Zebina
Yesterday my Niece (who is 16 1/2) called me and asked me if I could do her a favor. I sighed, knowing what she was going to ask, but said what.

She said "I got the parking ticket today and I was wondering if you could take care of it for me?" I said no and she got pissed off at me and told me I was a terrible aunt, because i wouldn't help her out.

First off the ticket was only 5 dollars, second...it's her responsibility.

Alot of my siblings and nieces and nephews ask me to do that for them. And they get mad at me when I tell them that it's wrong.

Is this normal?
I feel like my family is trying to take advantage of me.
They're snobs, serves 'em right.