What's your locus of control?
Interesting article. I'm becoming more and more fascinated with psychology, since in my opinion if one learns to master their mind they hence become unstoppable. Try reading this article and then seeing what kind of locus of control you possess, then compare the article with other people in your life, particularly your parents, brothers and sisters, and then friends and see what kind they are. In my analyzed opinion it's all about choices. No matter what environment one person is in, and no matter what handicaps they are dealt, it's all about how the person chooses to either better or worsen their situation. There's no better example than myself, as I grew up with a twin brother in the same exact environment for the same exact time, yet we're miles apart in accomplishments. That would explain why some people's lives are the way that they are.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locus_of_control
Quiz on locus of control
http://itech.fgcu.edu/cgi-bin/lchallenges/survey/locus.html