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think about it

Yes.

Yes,I do

I think 3 is too old.

ya

Originally posted by Alley
think about it

well it depends on how mature the person is.

Yes! cuz you don't really know what you want.

yes.

hell yes.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
well it depends on how mature the person is.

No it doesn't, My girlfriend got married when she was 18,to some guy that was a religous freak, he couldn't get it up and he had a small penis,it lasted a year

Originally posted by Bun Bun
Yes! cuz you don't really know what you want.

what do you mean?

yes, 20 at the least

Originally posted by K.Diddy
No it doesn't, My girlfriend got married when she was 18,to some guy that was a religous freak, he couldn't get it up and he had a small penis,it lasted a year

wow..

*stares at the screen, baffled*

Originally posted by K.Diddy
No it doesn't, My girlfriend got married when she was 18,to some guy that was a religous freak, he couldn't get it up and he had a small penis,it lasted a year



i said a mature person, not a religious freak, your religious does'nt mean your mature.

18? Jesus, that's far too young. At 18 you're only just starting to explore relationships on a mature level. I'd say give it some time before you nose dive into things.

Originally posted by Nevermind
18? Jesus, that's far too young. At 18 you're only just starting to explore relationships on a mature level. I'd say give it some time before you nose dive into things.

EDIT

Nope...perfectly legal....so why not?

2 4 you

2:04 am...Am I?!

Originally posted by Prabhodh
nah mate nah youre just not ready for it

Wow an in-joke from school that no one is going to get on this forum. Congrats.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Nope...perfectly legal....so why not?


Words of a true fool

i think 21 is still young.

25+ is perfect.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
what do you mean?

I mean at 18 you are so young still and just starting to mature from a child. And there is so much out there and at 18 your life is just beginning.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Words of a true fool

What is wrong with getting married at 18? If you both love each other, and you're ok with it, whats bad?

Originally posted by BakaXero
i think 21 is still young.


I think any age is too young, **** marriage it doesn't change how much you love a person

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
What is wrong with getting married at 18? If you both love each other, and you're ok with it, whats bad?


Do it and then tell me the answer to your question a couple of years later

Originally posted by Nevermind
Wow an in-joke from school that no one is going to get on this forum. Congrats.

thats why i eidited.

even if u kno u wanna spend the rest of ur life w/that person? &u love that person.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Do it and then tell me the answer to your question a couple of years later

And Ill ask again, whats bad about it?

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
What is wrong with getting married at 18? If you both love each other, and you're ok with it, whats bad?

Whatever works for the person.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
I think any age is too young, **** marriage it doesn't change how much you love a person

He auctally has a point. Becides all the benifets it shouldn't change the way you feel toward the person.

Originally posted by Alley
even if u kno u wanna spend the rest of ur life w/that person? &u love that person.

No

Originally posted by Bun Bun
I mean at 18 you are so young still and just starting to mature from a child. And there is so much out there and at 18 your life is just beginning.

yer i guess your right and at 18 you propably wont be able to support yourself and with a wife it would be hell.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
yer i guess your right and at 18 you propably wont be able to support yourself


Another good point

its too old

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
And Ill ask again, whats bad about it?

What i can see thats "bad" about it is that it could end badly.. like i said at 18 you are just noticeing what is out there. and their are lots of temtations.

Originally posted by Bun Bun




He auctally has a point. Becides all the benifets it shouldn't change the way you feel toward the person.


What benefits do males get from it?

Originally posted by Prabhodh
thats why i eidited.

It was stupid posting it in the first place.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
I think any age is too young, **** marriage it doesn't change how much you love a person

Marriage shows your commitment to a person by bonding with each other and your worldly possessions.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
What benefits do males get from it?

I think it is like life insurance and health benefits..?

Originally posted by Nevermind
It was stupid posting it in the first place.



Marriage shows your commitment to a person by bonding with each other and your worldly possessions.

Actions speak louder than words my friend.

Originally posted by Nevermind




Marriage shows your commitment to a person by bonding with each other

No, I show my commitment to a person

Originally posted by Bun Bun
I think it is like life insurance and health benefits..?

Oh, okay

Originally posted by Bun Bun
What i can see thats "bad" about it is that it could end badly.. like i said at 18 you are just noticeing what is out there. and their are lots of temtations.

Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...

If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.

I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste

Originally posted by K.Diddy
What benefits do males get from it?

there are no in marriage man

its just a way to legally bond your relationship (how i see it).

this thread should be in the GDF right?

Originally posted by K.Diddy
What benefits do males get from it?

um boredom and fights after 3 months of it, no more sex, and you're stuck with that girl

Originally posted by Nevermind
It was stupid posting it in the first place.



Marriage shows your commitment to a person by bonding with each other and your worldly possessions.

he's not use to sarcasm I see

Depends on the financial situation... if there's no money to support them both, then it more often than not won't work.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
No, I show my commitment to a person

Fine, let me be more precise. It shows a higher level of commitment.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...

If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.

I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste

Well i see your point. If they are settled and have money and a great job then go ahead do what you please. But the experience level will most likly be a big bump in the road for them. I mean at 18 you are not even at your prime yet.

ur going 2 end up old & alone

I still think marriage is a little pointless.

marriage works best when you're not good in the bed anymore cause after marriage you dont get none anymore, my friend prooved it to me

Originally posted by SpadeKing
he's not use to sarcasm I see

I doubt he's being sarcastic.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Then...your relationship probably isnt going to work out marriage or not if thats the case...

If you found someone who you love beyond anything else, both were financially secure, had somewhere to live, and all the rest, and you were 18, why would you not just go ahead? Whats stopping you, apart from 'not having enough experience in the world and so on'.

I know someone who's 20 and married, at first I thought it was too young, but then I realised they are both 'set' in life, job wise, and so on, and that actually, they're both very lucky to have settled as early as they have. Why wait until you're in your late 20s to get married, I'd consider that a waste

how many 18 year olds do you know settled down in life, with a job to support a family and a place to live in?

Originally posted by Ladyluck
I still think marriage is a little pointless.

As do I but society seems to think its "required"

Originally posted by Ladyluck
I still think marriage is a little pointless.

For some one I'm sure gets a lot of proposals it must be!

Originally posted by SpadeKing
marriage works best when you're not good in the bed anymore cause after marriage you dont get none anymore, my friend prooved it to me

yer right.

so your saying the millions of married couples dont have sex anymore?

Originally posted by Nevermind
I doubt he's being sarcastic.

he is always sarcastic except about his issues with his STDs and BDsermm

Originally posted by Bun Bun
Well i see your point. If they are settled and have money and a great job then go ahead do what you please. But the experience level will most likly be a big bump in the road for them. I mean at 18 you are not even at your prime yet.

But whats the difficulties of lack of experience? Lack of experience for what? The only difference is that you both wear a ring and sign a piece of paper, theres no difference than if you were bf/gf, except you have a secure life together once you've committed to each other. Plus the difficulties, you would face together...not too hard.

Originally posted by Ladyluck
I still think marriage is a little pointless.

Maybe...like I just said, nothing but a ring and a legal binding piece of paper, but if you love each other, you'd want that 'official' bonding of each other right?

Originally posted by Prabhodh
yer right.

so your saying the millions of married couples dont have sex anymore?

most of them like 90%, 100% of the ones I've seen dont

Originally posted by Bun Bun
As do I but society seems to think its "required"

Yeah I just think a little peice of paper doesn't prove you love someone more or are more commited to them. It's silly. But if people want to get married, they can go right ahead.

Originally posted by Nevermind
For some one I'm sure gets a lot of proposals it must be!

Haha no way

I see it as too young, it just depends on who you ask.

Personally, I decided I will wait until I'm done with college to get married. But, I am 17, and I am in a very serious relationship right now. I don't see a problem with that, I'm just waiting until I finish college to get married, and he respects that.

Originally posted by Nevermind
Fine, let me be more precise. It shows a higher level of commitment.


No it doesn't

Originally posted by SpadeKing
marriage works best when you're not good in the bed anymore cause after marriage you dont get none anymore, my friend prooved it to me

One sample proves nothing

At 18-25 at least, you'd still both be pretty sexually active..

Originally posted by Prabhodh
how many 18 year olds do you know settled down in life, with a job to support a family and a place to live in?

Just an example. If you had all those things and were set in life, would you do it?

It only comes down to personal preference anyway.

Originally posted by Ladyluck
I still think marriage is a little pointless.
For some people... I mean some people can't seem to stay with the same person for very long... so it's not convenient for them... Whether it's 'pointless' or not depends on a person's views of committment and such...

Originally posted by SpadeKing
most of them like 90%, 100% of the ones I've seen dont

i dont think you have met enough couples to come up with such a comclusion.

Use your own authority...get married under your terms and continue under the same terms. No laws, No restrictions, No limits...no signing!

Originally posted by PeterGriffin

Just an example. If you had all those things and were set in life, would you do it?

It only comes down to personal preference anyway.

possibly, i dont really think marriage is neccesary but if the other person wants to and was settled down and i was sure i could spend the rest of my life with her.

i would say yes.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
But whats the difficulties of lack of experience? Lack of experience for what? The only difference is that you both wear a ring and sign a piece of paper, theres no difference than if you were bf/gf, except you have a secure life together once you've committed to each other. Plus the difficulties, you would face together...not too hard.



If it works out for the person then sure go ahead.

But as you grow up you change. You are not the person you were 10 years ago. Your views change and everything. And the experience i am talking about is getting to know the world. Getting to know thts its not as easy as you see. I don't know about other people here but I see it as the more experience you have and all the situations you go threw make you a stronger person and make you who you are. All I am saying that if you relly think you are ready go ahead, but their will be some big time bumps.

Originally posted by SpadeKing
he is always sarcastic except about his issues with his STDs and BDsermm

Yeah, that's what I'll believe.

Originally posted by redcaped
Use your own authority...get married under your terms and continue under the same terms. No laws, No restrictions, No limits...no signing!

you sound like a control freak right now.

Originally posted by redcaped
Use your own authority...get married under your terms and continue under the same terms. No laws, No restrictions, No limits...no signing!

True for some

Originally posted by Prabhodh
possibly, i dont really think marriage is neccesary but if the other person wants to and was settled down and i was sure i could spend the rest of my life with her.

i would say yes.

Cool

On the flipside, what would your reasons for not doing it be? Out of interest..

Originally posted by K.Diddy
No it doesn't

How doesn't legally binding each other not show a higher level of commitment?

Yeah, I just have to find my female freak!

Originally posted by Nevermind
How doesn't legally binding each other not show a higher level of commitment?

It is just a peice of paper. In my view anyway

if ur married u kno ull come home 2 some1 who loves u.

Originally posted by Bun Bun
If it works out for the person then sure go ahead.

But as you grow up you change. You are not the person you were 10 years ago. Your views change and everything. And the experience i am talking about is getting to know the world. Getting to know thts its not as easy as you see. I don't know about other people here but I see it as the more experience you have and all the situations you go threw make you a stronger person and make you who you are. All I am saying that if you relly think you are ready go ahead, but their will be some big time bumps.

Yep, but would you rather face issues in the world by yourself, or with a partner you've made a commitment to?

I didnt see if you already posted, but what would be your ideal age to get married, and why that age?

Originally posted by Nevermind
How doesn't legally binding each other not show a higher level of commitment?

Beacuse I dont give a shit about whats legal, how you show your commitment to your partner is up to you

Originally posted by PeterGriffin

On the flipside, what would your reasons for not doing it be? Out of interest..

not knowing her enough, i mean if you were 18 there's a huge chance that you didn't spend enough time with that person to be absolutely sure that you can live them for the rest of your life.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
not knowing her enough, i mean if you were 18 there's a huge chance that you didn't spend enough time with that person to be absolutely sure that you can live them for the rest of your life.


Another good point

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Beacuse I dont give a shit about whats legal, how you show your commitment to your partner is up to you

yes but just to make your partner understands that commitment.

Originally posted by Alley
if ur married u kno ull come home 2 some1 who loves u.

no it doesn't your wife/husband could've been in the room with a whore for all you know

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Another good point

Originally posted by Bun Bun
It is just a peice of paper. In my view anyway

It is, but it's a piece of paper with legal connotations attached to it. Also, in the eyes of God (or whatever religion you may or may not believe) and society it shows that you are an item.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
not knowing her enough, i mean if you were 18 there's a huge chance that you didn't spend enough time with that person to be absolutely sure that you can live them for the rest of your life.

Yeah true, but I dont think many people would rush out into a marriage without knowing the person they're spending their life with. How long do you think it would be good enough before you develop that knowledge of you are in a relationship with?

Originally posted by redcaped
Yeah, I just have to find my female freak!

best of luck

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Beacuse I dont give a shit about whats legal, how you show your commitment to your partner is up to you

Of course you wouldn't care what's legal you smoke weed.

Originally posted by Nevermind
It is, but it's a piece of paper with legal connotations attached to it. Also, in the eyes of God (or whatever religion you may or may not believe) and society it shows that you are an item.


1. **** legal connotations

2. **** religion and even if god was true, you think he cares about a peice of paper?

3.Society would know you were an item anyway, also who gives a **** what other people think?

Originally posted by Nevermind
Of course you wouldn't care what's legal you smoke weed.


Word up

Originally posted by K.Diddy
2. **** religion and even if god was true, you think he cares about a peice of paper?

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Yeah true, but I dont think many people would rush out into a marriage without knowing the person they're spending their life with. How long do you think it would be good enough before you develop that knowledge of you are in a relationship with?

yer but at 18 you tend to rush into things and i would'nt set a time period as to how long you need to know a partner to be certain, i guess you'll just know and i think it is very much possible at 18.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
1. **** legal connotations

2. **** religion and even if god was true, you think he cares about a peice of paper?

3.Society would know you were an item anyway, also who gives a **** what other people think?



i wish it were that simple diddy but its not.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
1. **** legal connotations

2. **** religion and even if god was true, you think he cares about a peice of paper?

3.Society would know you were an item anyway, also who gives a **** what other people think?

1. Pfft, yeah let's just forget the entire legal system and live in anarchy. Great idea Diddy.

2. I'm not one for religion but others are. Christian's get married not because of paper but because of what's in the bible and what they believe.

3. Society in the legal sense. It's a different game.

Originally posted by Prabhodh
yer but at 18 you tend to rush into things and i would'nt set a time period as to how long you need to know a partner to be certain, i guess you'll just know and i think it is very much possible at 18.

True, I probably would'nt have at 18, but a year later I would probably say yes now, everything after school has settled, Im in routine with life, I feel comfortable to begin the next step with someone I loved.

All it comes down to is personal choice, theres no right or wrong. Its like a 15 year old having a baby, obviously they will have trouble financially/emotionally, but if they want to, ok for them. Speaking of, what's legal for a having a baby for you? Here I think its 16, so what would you say is more unstable, having a baby and driving a potentially lethal car at 16, or getting married at 18?

Originally posted by Nevermind
1. Pfft, yeah let's just forget the entire legal system and live in anarchy. Great idea Diddy.

2. I'm not one for religion but others are. Christian's get married not because of paper but because of what's in the bible and what they believe.

3. Society in the legal sense. It's a different game.

1 **** yeah

2 Well,If they want to do everything a book tells them,thats their problem

3 Not really

Originally posted by Nevermind
3. Society in the legal sense. It's a different game.

Yes, forgot about that part before, theres so many things like tax and so on that you would need to have an official marriage document or else they screw you

Originally posted by K.Diddy
1 **** yeah

2 Well,If they want to do everything a book tells them,thats their problem

3 Not really

1. No, not f*ck yeah. F*ck No.

2. Fine, I'm just pointing out the use of marriage to others.

3. Yes really since that's what I talking about.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
True, I probably would'nt have at 18, but a year later I would probably say yes now, everything after school has settled, Im in routine with life, I feel comfortable to begin the next step with someone I loved.





Originally posted by PeterGriffin

All it comes down to is personal choice, theres no right or wrong. Its like a 15 year old having a baby, obviously they will have trouble financially/emotionally, but if they want to, OK for them.

exactly as long as you think its OK that all that matters.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Speaking of, what's legal for a having a baby for you? Here I think its 16, so what would you say is more unstable, having a baby and driving a potentially lethal car at 16, or getting married at 18?

its 16 for us as well, and having a child at 16 is probably the most unstable thing.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Yep, but would you rather face issues in the world by yourself, or with a partner you've made a commitment to?

I didnt see if you already posted, but what would be your ideal age to get married, and why that age?

Well persoinilty i would like to be married late 20's maybe eairly 30's. If i feel it's right. And that age because of what i have said before. I would of been able to have my fun and then i would (most likly) be able to settle down a bit.

And yes in my opinion there are some things in life you have to learn on your oun. Becuase there may not always be someone by your side so you need to learn to fend for yourself before you can fend for others.

Say you picked 30....10 years is a long time to just have fun Wouldn't you miss having a secure relationship?

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Say you picked 30....10 years is a long time to just have fun Wouldn't you miss having a secure relationship?

Well I am not saying I wouldn't have one. But a having a secure or serious relationship does not mean I am going to marry them. Yes 10 years is a longtime but then you have learned something about life (hopefully). And for some people 10 years is not long enough.

Originally posted by Bun Bun
Well I am not saying I wouldn't have one. But a having a secure or serious relationship does not mean I am going to marry them. Yes 10 years is a longtime but then you have learned something about life (hopefully). And for some people 10 years is not long enough.

thats true, take you time, may it be 10 years or 20.

anyway this is a huge topic and varies from person to person.

18 is way too young, 21 or 22 at least.

Well, i just turned 18 myself. Me and my boyfriend did talk about marriage, but i told him that i want to finish college first.

thats good and I also want to finish college before I get married.

Yes, 18 is too young to get married. I think I wont get married until I finish college and I'm at least 22 years old.

I think it depends on the relationship and the maturity of you both!

Marriage at age 18 is foolish for the most part, not that it won't work but your better off to grow on your own for awhile. 18 your still a baby in the world!

i am 18 and i think it is too young. Though two of my friends (not long ago turned 18) are engaged

but it's there choice i guess..but it's one i wouldn't do at 18

if you get married at 18-24 chances are its not gonna last 5 years. unless your hindu/sikh (arranged marriage last a lifetime)

if you get married at 25-35 it last 5 years to 10

35+ its 50% chance of you find the 1 and it last a lifetime.

well to tell you the truth it varies from culture to culture; couples themselves,

Originally posted by K.Diddy
No it doesn't, My girlfriend got married when she was 18,to some guy that was a religous freak, he couldn't get it up and he had a small penis,it lasted a year

I don't believe you. I'm pretty sure that you said in a thread that was either by her or about her, that she was still 18. Which means if she got married shen she was 18, and the marraige lasted a year, shewould be 19 or older now.

dude, I personally think getting married at 18 isn't right. How can you find the "love of your life" at age 18!? The couple will probably end up hating each other after 2 years. Tooooooooooo young, commitment is a big thing, and two eighteen year olds are going to have a hard time with commitment. Just don't do it.

Nah. Whatever floats your boat or finds your lost remote.

i think marraige is highly overrated

Originally posted by Soleran
Ever been married?

probably not.........but I can tell you that sex is overrated, and I'm a virgin.

Originally posted by SelphieT
probably not.........but I can tell you that sex is overrated, and I'm a virgin.

Sure of course you can tell me that however, based on your level of experience I'll take that into consideration and would weigh that accordingly with other opinions.

Originally posted by Soleran
Ever been married? nope....i just don't see the reason for it really. other than the financial benefits and the companioship and all that blah blah blah...but other than that, why?

Originally posted by Alley
think about it
For the most part, yes. Why?, are you thinking of it? Do you even have the right money for a wedding or were you thinking of eloping or a quick, cheap wedding? Well, the biggest issue is the fact that you're really young and this person may or may not be the person you will be spending the rest of your life with. I'm not saying that he isn't, but maybe waiting a year or three will help you determine. Build your relationship up.

*shrug* dunno, I guess it all depends on the people involved, and how they feel about the situation. But i would never get married at 18

Originally posted by Raphael Sorel
if you get married at 25-35 it last 5 years to 10



Mhmmmmmm.........proof?

Basically from your whole post, no one can ever get married and have it last.

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
For the most part, yes. Why?, are you thinking of it? Do you even have the right money for a wedding or were you thinking of eloping or a quick, cheap wedding? Well, the biggest issue is the fact that you're really young and this person may or may not be the person you will be spending the rest of your life with. I'm not saying that he isn't, but maybe waiting a year or three will help you determine. Build your relationship up.

She told me in pm she is engaged....she said they both also have their work and everything set out. Maybe a quick cheap wedding is what they want? Not everyone has to have a big fancy, $20,000+ wedding. Plus (Im guessing this based off pm and thread), Im pretty sure she wants to get married at 18, which would give them the extra time you're mentioning before they do it. Im not posting her age...thats her business.

It depends on the maturity of the bride and groom, and the legitimacy of their love.

I was married at 17.

Doesn't bother me.

Originally posted by Alley
think about it No. I want to get married at 20 but 18's a grest head start on you old people... havin kids when your 50...

I dont know well it depens on how long you guys where going out and you have the anser right in sid eof you are you going to stay with that person for the rest of your life and love them for ever?I would have proble say no because if you rush into it you proble will later on get a devorse you think about it.Your old enof to think if 18 is to younge to get married.

Originally posted by PeterGriffin
Mhmmmmmm.........proof?

Basically from your whole post, no one can ever get married and have it last.



She told me in pm she is engaged....she said they both also have their work and everything set out. Maybe a quick cheap wedding is what they want? Not everyone has to have a big fancy, $20,000+ wedding. Plus (Im guessing this based off pm and thread), Im pretty sure she wants to get married at 18, which would give them the extra time you're mentioning before they do it. Im not posting her age...thats her business.
Well it's cool with me I'm not insulting her or anything, I was just saying. And no, a big wedding isn't always right but when my time comes I want my family there and it to be at our church with some decorations. Please don't get so defensive.

Yes.

Originally posted by Barker
I was married at 17.

Doesn't bother me.

I was married at 11.

That whore does kind of bother me, though.

Yes.

Originally posted by Alley
think about it

yes.

dont care...

Originally posted by MadMel
dont care...

I think you're a little too apathetic for these forums.

lol.theres a difference between being lazy and apethetic
lazy people care..we cant be bothered to do anything about it ...

Originally posted by MadMel
lol.theres a difference between being lazy and apethetic
lazy people care..we cant be bothered to do anything about it ...

are you tryin to say I'm lazy ermm

I'm sorry but I think 18 is a bit too young to get married. At least wait until you're 21... then again that's just my opinion.

Originally posted by SpadeKing
are you tryin to say I'm lazy ermm
is that a trick question?

You can get married at 18 if you want sure...

But don't expect it to last long.

Statistically speaking, nearly every marriage at that age (in Western societies) fail within a few years. Simply put, the spouses simply aren't mature enough for such a deep commitment.

For god's sake, most teenagers can't commit to their cell phone bills on a monthly rate much less an actual marriage...

Originally posted by MadMel
is that a trick question?

maybe
is that a trick answer

i think its ok if they are trully inlove and think know thgat they are ready to be married, but wate on haveibng kids =\ wate tell ur in ur low or mid 20s, im just saying....

Originally posted by Draco69
You can get married at 18 if you want sure...

But don't expect it to last long.

Statistically speaking, nearly every marriage at that age (in Western societies) fail within a few years. Simply put, the spouses simply aren't mature enough for such a deep commitment.

For god's sake, most teenagers can't commit to their cell phone bills on a monthly rate much less an actual marriage...
Umm... that's not necessarily true...
Originally posted by Cpt.Morgan
i think its ok if they are trully inlove and think know thgat they are ready to be married, but wate on haveibng kids =\ wate tell ur in ur low or mid 20s, im just saying....
That's a good point. A lot of people can't afford to have kids at that age.

Originally posted by Coldfire
Umm... that's not necessarily true...

That's a good point. A lot of people can't afford to have kids at that age.

well not only not being ab le to afford it but the preasure too, i mean c'mon ur 18 married for a few months ur workin 2 jobs just to strugle for a house or aprtment, and then have kids keeping u up all night? i would say wate tell u "get on ur feet" as some say.

Originally posted by Cpt.Morgan
well not only not being ab le to afford it but the preasure too, i mean c'mon ur 18 married for a few months ur workin 2 jobs just to strugle for a house or aprtment, and then have kids keeping u up all night? i would say wate tell u "get on ur feet" as some say.
Yeah me too... I think I'd go insane if I was in the situation you described haha

yea i think about stuff like that and other stuff and some other stuff too all i do is think, yet i when im at school i dont think =\

Originally posted by Cpt.Morgan
yea i think about stuff like that and other stuff and some other stuff too all i do is think, yet i when im at school i dont think =\
lol that's so weird

yea i kno, i am very wierd, thats y ur my friend, come to think of it idont have many friends 0.0 just leme count... some wher between 7 or 10 =\

Originally posted by H. S. 6
I was married at 11.

That whore does kind of bother me, though.


I'm on my 4th Marriage, by the way.


I'm 18.

Originally posted by Barker


I'm on my 4th Marriage, by the way.


I'm 18.


Enough said

Originally posted by Cpt.Morgan
yea i kno, i am very wierd, thats y ur my friend, come to think of it idont have many friends 0.0 just leme count... some wher between 7 or 10 =\
aw lol hug
Originally posted by Barker


I'm on my 4th Marriage, by the way.


I'm 18.

Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Well it's cool with me I'm not insulting her or anything, I was just saying. And no, a big wedding isn't always right but when my time comes I want my family there and it to be at our church with some decorations. Please don't get so defensive.

Sorry, but everyone so far is posting negative impacts about it She is already engaged, so it'll just put her into a negative mood about it....there really is nothing wrong with getting married at 18, if she has found her life partner already and is planning to marry at a young age, then good for her. And if it doesnt work out, well shit happens, right? She'll have learnt. At least its not having a baby at a younger age, can't just make that go away if it doesnt work out.

Originally posted by Barker


I'm on my 4th Marriage, by the way.


I'm 18.

I'm on my 12th break now and I'm not givin a f*** beer wait til I get married