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I think I'm in love . . .


That girl I kissed New Years . . . I've known her for three years and we are best friends, but I think this kiss changed everything. After it, we spent the rest of the night cuddling and she got jealous when this other girl sat on my lap and such.



The whole Male/Female best friend scenario always has a little bit of attractive tension, but everytime I see her, it makes my entire day. I cannot look into her eyes without feeling extreme happiness or bliss.

I think she feels the same way, but I'm not sure.


How should I approach this?

Ask her.

Don't approach the situation, approach her.

I fear rejection though. I'll feel absolutely and completely damaged if I get rejected.

It's sad, though. I cannot be her friend anymore . . . Because I cannot sit there and have a conversation to her as a friend. I wouldn't be able to look her in the eye without kissing her . . . I wouldn't be able to sit apart from her . . . I'd have to hold her or cuddle her.

It sounds insane and I don't know what the shit has come over me, but it's strange.

Originally posted by Vegas
I fear rejection though. I'll feel absolutely and completely damaged if I get rejected.

It's sad, though. I cannot be her friend anymore . . . Because I cannot sit there and have a conversation to her as a friend. I wouldn't be able to look her in the eye without kissing her . . . I wouldn't be able to sit apart from her . . . I'd have to hold her or cuddle her.

It sounds insane and I don't know what the shit has come over me, but it's strange.

Would you rather be certain? Or feel the uncertainty that you do now?

You'll never know until you talk to her. It's best to approach.

You present a good point . . .

Ugh, It's killing me inside. I feel so much pressure and I can't stop thinking about her. I wake up and I'm thinking about her. I'm having difficulties sleeping because I'm thinking about her.

It's maddening.

Originally posted by Vegas
You present a good point . . .

Ugh, It's killing me inside. I feel so much pressure and I can't stop thinking about her. I wake up and I'm thinking about her. I'm having difficulties sleeping because I'm thinking about her.

It's maddening.

Just keep the mentality that she may feel the exact same way. It helps.

I know how you feel.

I'm glad someone does. My family consists of cold-hearted, ignorant morons who I cannot talk to seriously.

They're all like "Ooooh, eat her out, dude just f*ck her, she wants your c*ck" and all this ridiculous bullshit that elevates my anger.

I can't keep that mentality. I naturally have a realist attitude and my cynicism is overly disgusting. I keep on thinking she will say no and then after I think about it, I get this overwhelming sensation of loss and fear . . .

It's so hard to think "Half Glass Full."

Wouldn't you much rather ask her & know for certain how she feels? Take the risk don't sit back and wonder, because you might miss out on something great....

and from what you've said, it sounds like she's really into you...so I wouldn't even call it a risk.

Originally posted by Vegas
I'm glad someone does. My family consists of cold-hearted, ignorant morons who I cannot talk to seriously.

They're all like "Ooooh, eat her out, dude just f*ck her, she wants your c*ck" and all this ridiculous bullshit that elevates my anger.

I can't keep that mentality. I naturally have a realist attitude and my cynicism is overly disgusting. I keep on thinking she will say no and then after I think about it, I get this overwhelming sensation of loss and fear . . .

It's so hard to think "Half Glass Full."

People with that set in their mind never go home happy. Just satisfied long enough to hold them off. All I can say is, you're walking down the right path.

It's best to just get it out of your hair, ask her so you know things for certain.

Originally posted by Roulette
Wouldn't you much rather ask her & know for certain how she feels? Take the risk don't sit back and wonder, because you might miss out on something great....

and from what you've said, it sounds like she's really into you...so I wouldn't even call it a risk.

I hope so . . . She has great chemistry with my family as well (She is able to stay in a room for ten minutes with the damn nutcases.)and everyone is always saying how we make such a great couple.

The kiss absolutely was the climatic point which eliminated the friend stage for me but I'm not sure If it's a new years kiss. Let me explain.


We were sitting outside on the patio in this hall twenty minutes after New Years (There is around fifty people there) and no one is outside with us. She was sitting on the flashing and I was standing against a wall. For New Years, she gave this little kid a peck on the check.

I said to her . . . "The kid gets a kiss and not me? Damn." I was trying to be funny . . .

She grabbed my collar and pulled me towards her and we began to kiss. She hopped down from the patio flashing and put her hand behind my head and I totally got into it. I stopped for a second and said "Whoa!" only to have her pull me back into the kiss less that two seconds later.

yeah... stuff like these happens all the time... girl and boy are best friends.. after a kiss... boy realizes something... girl, liked him ever since...

Originally posted by Vegas
I hope so . . . She has great chemistry with my family as well (She is able to stay in a room for ten minutes with the damn nutcases.)and everyone is always saying how we make such a great couple.

The kiss absolutely was the climatic point which eliminated the friend stage for me but I'm not sure If it's a new years kiss. Let me explain.


We were sitting outside on the patio in this hall twenty minutes after New Years (There is around fifty people there) and no one is outside with us. She was sitting on the flashing and I was standing against a wall. For New Years, she gave this little kid a peck on the check.

I said to her . . . "The kid gets a kiss and not me? Damn." I was trying to be funny . . .

She grabbed my collar and pulled me towards her and we began to kiss. She hopped down from the patio flashing and put her hand behind my head and I totally got into it. I stopped for a second and said "Whoa!" only to have her pull me back into the kiss less that two seconds later.

Wow....doesn't sound like a new years kiss to me, hehe. She pulled you back that's gotta mean something.

Originally posted by Vegas
I hope so . . . She has great chemistry with my family as well (She is able to stay in a room for ten minutes with the damn nutcases.)and everyone is always saying how we make such a great couple.

The kiss absolutely was the climatic point which eliminated the friend stage for me but I'm not sure If it's a new years kiss. Let me explain.


We were sitting outside on the patio in this hall twenty minutes after New Years (There is around fifty people there) and no one is outside with us. She was sitting on the flashing and I was standing against a wall. For New Years, she gave this little kid a peck on the check.

I said to her . . . "The kid gets a kiss and not me? Damn." I was trying to be funny . . .

She grabbed my collar and pulled me towards her and we began to kiss. She hopped down from the patio flashing and put her hand behind my head and I totally got into it. I stopped for a second and said "Whoa!" only to have her pull me back into the kiss less that two seconds later.
Doesn't sound like an ordinary new years kiss. You have two options, do what Storm suggests, which I recommend you do, or be direct and just ask her about what that kiss meant to her.

Originally posted by Vegas
I hope so . . . She has great chemistry with my family as well (She is able to stay in a room for ten minutes with the damn nutcases.)and everyone is always saying how we make such a great couple.

The kiss absolutely was the climatic point which eliminated the friend stage for me but I'm not sure If it's a new years kiss. Let me explain.


We were sitting outside on the patio in this hall twenty minutes after New Years (There is around fifty people there) and no one is outside with us. She was sitting on the flashing and I was standing against a wall. For New Years, she gave this little kid a peck on the check.

I said to her . . . "The kid gets a kiss and not me? Damn." I was trying to be funny . . .

She grabbed my collar and pulled me towards her and we began to kiss. She hopped down from the patio flashing and put her hand behind my head and I totally got into it. I stopped for a second and said "Whoa!" only to have her pull me back into the kiss less that two seconds later.

Sweetie having been in this situation way more than I can count. I can say maybe she played her hand and is looking for you to play yours. So just to be safe like Storm said you could always joke around with it at first just to see about it. It actually does work.

She has tactically avoided the joke method. I've used it before.

But then again, this was before the kiss and such.

Originally posted by Vegas
She has tactically avoided the joke method. I've used it before.

But then again, this was before the kiss and such.

Try it again. Also her jealousy is kinda an obvious sign she's into you.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Try it again. Also her jealousy is kinda an obvious sign she's into you.
batdude123?

I wonder if anyone even knows who he is. leftright

Originally posted by Vegas
I hope so . . . She has great chemistry with my family as well (She is able to stay in a room for ten minutes with the damn nutcases.)and everyone is always saying how we make such a great couple.

The kiss absolutely was the climatic point which eliminated the friend stage for me but I'm not sure If it's a new years kiss. Let me explain.


We were sitting outside on the patio in this hall twenty minutes after New Years (There is around fifty people there) and no one is outside with us. She was sitting on the flashing and I was standing against a wall. For New Years, she gave this little kid a peck on the check.

I said to her . . . "The kid gets a kiss and not me? Damn." I was trying to be funny . . .

She grabbed my collar and pulled me towards her and we began to kiss. She hopped down from the patio flashing and put her hand behind my head and I totally got into it. I stopped for a second and said "Whoa!" only to have her pull me back into the kiss less that two seconds later.

She's into you, ask her out, get married, have kids.

Hmm . . . I'll attempt to make a move wednesday.

Did you like her before this, or just as friends?

Originally posted by Slay
batdude123?

I wonder if anyone even knows who he is. leftright

He knows who he is. Does that count?tongue_ss

Originally posted by LethalFemme
He knows who he is. Does that count?tongue_ss
No. leftright

Originally posted by Vegas
I think I'm in love . . .


That girl I kissed New Years . . . I've known her for three years and we are best friends, but I think this kiss changed everything. After it, we spent the rest of the night cuddling and she got jealous when this other girl sat on my lap and such.



The whole Male/Female best friend scenario always has a little bit of attractive tension, but everytime I see her, it makes my entire day. I cannot look into her eyes without feeling extreme happiness or bliss.

I think she feels the same way, but I'm not sure.


How should I approach this?

Just be careful, Sometimes you can get caught up in the heat of a moment. Trying to make the leap from best friends to BF and GF is at best from what I've seen a 50/50 shot.

It really depends on how you see each other. You should talk to her, find out if it was just the emotion of the moment or if she really wants to get into a relaltionship.

DOn't do anything. Girls suck. All they do is tease you, wait until you pass out and then steal your wallet, even after you've paid them the agreed upon amount ALREADY!



Or....at least, that's what Mist told me....

Originally posted by ~Da Moose~
DOn't do anything. Girls suck. All they do is tease you, wait until you pass out and then steal your wallet, even after you've paid them the agreed upon amount ALREADY!



Or....at least, that's what Mist told me....

I never pay with money anyway leftright

Originally posted by Vegas
I've always had something for her, but not as elevated as now.


The heat of the moment? After the kiss, we pretty much cuddled for the entire night . . . Even on the ride to her house.


That's one long ass moment.

Have you seen her since then? Just muck around, set your clock back to Dec 31 again and say something like 'hey...look at that...New Years again....we should totally kiss again '

Originally posted by ~Da Moose~
I've sat here debating whether I want to know, and the cautious side of me was narrowly defeated by that sick inner self who craves knowing sickening facts....so, please, tell me, what do you pay with?

I havent thought of a good answer yetweep

If one thing that I have learned over the years is just ask her, don't worry about rejection because you could miss something very special. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be.

I'm so damn worried about rejection. It's terrible. I've tried SO HARD not to think about her, but I cannot stop.

I'm going to summon all available courage and talk to her this wednesday.

Originally posted by ThePittman
If one thing that I have learned over the years is just ask her, don't worry about rejection because you could miss something very special. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be.

In all honesty, I agree with this completely. If you wait, or don't act at all...you could miss out on the love of your life.

Originally posted by Slay
No. leftright

Uh huh.tongue_ss

Originally posted by ThePittman
If one thing that I have learned over the years is just ask her, don't worry about rejection because you could miss something very special. If it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be.

^^^^^

Ugh . . . I'm so fuzzlekuffed...

Originally posted by Vegas
Ugh . . . I'm so fuzzlekuffed...

Ask her soon while its still fresh in her mind too, otherwise she'll think it was a one off thing and be thinking the same thoughts you are now.

Originally posted by Vegas
Ugh . . . I'm so fuzzlekuffed...

Its okay you don't have to know all the answers and the fact you're THIS worried is proof that you really care about her as a friend at the least. You'll figure it out.hug

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Its okay you don't have to know all the answers and the fact you're THIS worried is proof that you really care about her as a friend at the least. You'll figure it out.hug

Hey LF, wanna ****?leftright

Originally posted by LethalFemme
So early in the morning?ermm

1am for me ermm But you know...you're awake...Im awake....wasting good **** time hereermm

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Okay PM me and we'll see what happens.ermm

Im sick of hiding, why cant we just do it out in the open for once, I dont care what the others thinkweep


















PM sent just in caseleftright

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Cause I'm not allowed to do it in public after that one time.ermm

It wasnt even that bad...who hasnt seen a nipple before..? Gosh, bloody whiners around here..ermm

Originally posted by LethalFemme
I know butt, what are you going to do?ermm

Defy the rules and do it anyway?lookaround

I can't stop thinking about her.

I don't know whether this is good or bad, but the feeling I have inside is somewhat terrible. I feel to throw up, yet I feel so happy.

I'm obsessed.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Butt, butt, you first.ermm

Stop saying butt, I am aware you are pointing at me, I dont need guidance, my hands can do it themselvesermm

*does it first* droolio

Originally posted by Vegas
I can't stop thinking about her.

I don't know whether this is good or bad, but the feeling I have inside is somewhat terrible. I feel to throw up, yet I feel so happy.

I'm obsessed.

You're in lovey-dovey landtouched

Call her, ask her out on a more-than-friends night out, and get a move on

Mist, Im is spelled "I'm". euro

Originally posted by Vegas
I can't stop thinking about her.

I don't know whether this is good or bad, but the feeling I have inside is somewhat terrible. I feel to throw up, yet I feel so happy.

I'm obsessed.

Awww, you obviously care about her a lot...that's very sweet ^-^

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
Mist, Im is spelled "I'm". euro

Its spelled with an 'I' and a 'M', making the word correct, however I chose to defy convention by not using an apostrophe. euro

It's very infectious! Don't know what to say to her . . .

I've known what to say to my Ex-Girlfriends and with them it was so much more simple.

With her, it's so awkward and different. I feel so much different about this girl . . . Like she's "the one".

I feel like such a moron . . . All drunken with love . . . It's ridiculous.


But I feel good. It's a new feeling. I don't actually think I've been in love before.

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
But the ' splits two words, instead of making it one word. euro

The spelling is still correct euro

You should listen man. You're getting all these positive comments from girls. That means she's totally into you.

Hope this all works out man. New years is how I met my lovely girlfriend. ^^;

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
Don't stay On-Topic. mhm pitt_fist

But I'm old and must share my wisdom old

Originally posted by Kongu Dude
The letters are correct. euro

And in correct order, making the spelling correct. I believe the word you're looking for in 'punctuation'. euro

a definate english term

And. We have a male suffering here. HE LOVES HER MAN HE LOVES HER!

We have to comfort him. Not talk about petty English corrections.. =|

What?

Nothing.. -.-

I've always had a philosophy that there is no harm in asking due to a simple mathematical equation.

X = Not Asking.
Y = Asking.


X = 100% No.

Y = 50% No - 50% Yes

Generally, I have a better probability to ask her, mathematically speaking.

Originally posted by Vathu
And. We have a male suffering here. HE LOVES HER MAN HE LOVES HER!

We have to comfort him. Not talk about petty English corrections.. =|

Yeah, jeez guys.

IT'S OKAY MAN. I'M HERE FOR YOU!

Ask her. Get it over with. I gurantee it'll turn out good.

You've had ten girls tell you she was into you. They would know. They're girls. We're just men. Men who like boobies.

Originally posted by Vathu

You've had ten girls tell you she was into you. They would know. They're girls. We're just men. Men who like boobies.


LOL.


I hope she is. I will report this wednesday on the outcome. Lolz.

LOL:llo:

Originally posted by Vegas
LOL.


I hope she is. I will report this wednesday on the outcome. Lolz.

Go get er done! x_z

Originally posted by Vegas
LOL.


I hope she is. I will report this wednesday on the outcome. Lolz.

Does she know about our frantic balloon ride?

Nothing ventured nothing gained

Originally posted by ~Da Moose~
Does she know about our frantic balloon ride?


Oh no3s!1


Jesus no!

._.

JESUS CHRIST THE ZOMBIES. ;Fled with his little sword and shield as the legions of zombies chased close behind him.;

Say what?

You'd have to check my profile to know the joke.. o_o

Originally posted by Vegas
I'm glad someone does. My family consists of cold-hearted, ignorant morons who I cannot talk to seriously.

They're all like "Ooooh, eat her out, dude just f*ck her, she wants your c*ck" and all this ridiculous bullshit that elevates my anger.

I can't keep that mentality. I naturally have a realist attitude and my cynicism is overly disgusting. I keep on thinking she will say no and then after I think about it, I get this overwhelming sensation of loss and fear . . .

It's so hard to think "Half Glass Full."

This (the above) may true anyway. But, like many others here have said, talk to her. The uncertainty of waiting and not having your answer is actually worse than rejection. On top of that, what if she is waiting to confront these same feelings? Also, your stalling may cause her to explore other options.

I have in faith in you, kid. Go get her. And if you crash n' burn, no biggie. ....builds tolerance to rejection, and you'll be more confident in the future in these circumstances.

You are in a win-win situation. Only good things can happen here, bud.

Originally posted by BobbyD
This (the above) may true anyway. But, like many others here have said, talk to her. The uncertainty of waiting and not having your answer is actually worse than rejection. On top of that, what if she is waiting to confront these same feelings? Also, your stalling may cause her to explore other options.

I have in faith in you, kid. Go get her. And if you crash n' burn, no biggie. ....builds tolerance to rejection, and you'll be more confident in the future in these circumstances.

You are in a win-win situation. Only good things can happen here, bud.

You gave good advice? Isn't that illegal or something?

Relax.

Originally posted by BobbyD
This (the above) may true anyway. But, like many others here have said, talk to her. The uncertainty of waiting and not having your answer is actually worse than rejection. On top of that, what if she is waiting to confront these same feelings? Also, your stalling may cause her to explore other options.

I have in faith in you, kid. Go get her. And if you crash n' burn, no biggie. ....builds tolerance to rejection, and you'll be more confident in the future in these circumstances.

You are in a win-win situation. Only good things can happen here, bud.

I guess so . . Thanks.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
You gave good advice? Isn't that illegal or something?

I normally charge for my services, LF.

shifty

Love or lust? ermm

Originally posted by BobbyD
I normally charge for my services, LF.

shifty

Still 99 cents a pop?

Originally posted by Lady Fianna
Love or lust? ermm

He calls it work.tongue_ss

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Still 99 cents a pop?



Hey, don't complain. I was a bargain when I was doing you at 75 cents. What nerve?

Originally posted by Lady Fianna
Love or lust? ermm

...whichever you prefer?

Originally posted by LethalFemme
He calls it work.tongue_ss

Tis true. I take a business like approach to all my affairs.

. . . ?

I'm just going to be useless and go with a big "What Dusty said"

Lol.

Vegas, so what's the skinny...any news to report?

Vegas, Love does not exist.

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Vegas, Love does not exist.

Listen to KoP, he knows what he's talking about.

Ha.


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Vegas, Love does not exist.

yes the closest thing to it is one-night stands

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Vegas, Love does not exist.
So what you are saying is that you don't actually love pie?

*Whips out little notebook and starts writing.*


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

Originally posted by SpadeKing
yes the closest thing to it is one-night stands

Yes, yes....3 hour marraiges are the best.

Originally posted by Vegas
I think I'm in love . . .


That girl I kissed New Years . . . I've known her for three years and we are best friends, but I think this kiss changed everything. After it, we spent the rest of the night cuddling and she got jealous when this other girl sat on my lap and such.



The whole Male/Female best friend scenario always has a little bit of attractive tension, but everytime I see her, it makes my entire day. I cannot look into her eyes without feeling extreme happiness or bliss.

I think she feels the same way, but I'm not sure.


How should I approach this?

I think you should tell her how you feel about her. This kind of reminds me of a thing happening in my life at the moment. Basciully I really like this girl the only thing she has a boyfriend. I have never truly felt this way about a girl before. Like you I can`t stop thinking about her. And even if I talk to her for a few seconds a day I feel really happy. She has shown me kind of good signs like smiling at me when ever I come and talk to her. And when I asked her to the prom she would not stop saying sorry to me when she said she could not go. What I am doing about this is just telling her how I feel about her. Sorry about going on about my own problem here but this is what I would do and you should to. And don`t worry I think you are going down the right route. I think she seems to really like you.

Good Luck.

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Vegas, Love does not exist.

Love is actually a little too existant.

Originally posted by Vegas
Love is actually a little too existant. Not what people actually believe love is. Infatuation, romance, it's just a reaction to Pheormones. There's no way for our sense of love to forever react in a positive way towards the repetitive pheormones.

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Not what people actually believe love is. Infatuation, romance, it's just a reaction to Pheormones. There's no way for our sense of love to forever react in a positive way towards the repetitive pheormones.

Infatuation doesn't exist, romance doesn't exist . . . That's if we play by your logic, of course.

You're defining love and vaguely saying it doesn't exist. That's so unproportionally illogical, it makes me want to throw up. Be rational, FFS.

Love is basically an overly intensive affection to another person. An abusive attraction. A will to do whatever it takes for that person to be happy and to die for that said entity. The fact that you slowly die inside when you're not around that person.

Yes! Date tommorow!

Oh my god . . . I don't know If I have the courage to ask her what's up . . . This sucks.

Originally posted by Vegas
I think I'm in love . . .


That girl I kissed New Years . . . I've known her for three years and we are best friends, but I think this kiss changed everything. After it, we spent the rest of the night cuddling and she got jealous when this other girl sat on my lap and such.



The whole Male/Female best friend scenario always has a little bit of attractive tension, but everytime I see her, it makes my entire day. I cannot look into her eyes without feeling extreme happiness or bliss.

I think she feels the same way, but I'm not sure.


How should I approach this?


Sorry to burst your bubble,but getting a kiss from a hoe on new years eve doesn't mean shit

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Sorry to burst your bubble,but getting a kiss from a hoe on new years eve doesn't mean shit

Kinda agree but kinda disagree.
Play your cards right and you will be kissing her vertical lips, and you she might do this to you. blowjob and then when she's doingblowjob to you, your face will be like this as if your about to explode. But you didnt make a move so too bad.

Originally posted by Smiter
Kinda agree but kinda disagree.
Play your cards right and you will be kissing her vertical lips, and you she might do this to you. blowjob



It's got nothing to do with playing cards, My girlfriends mum and her friend kissed me on new years eve,does that mean they want to **** me.........No

Im just giving him false hope ofcourse. He will learn it on his own.Kiss the lips and move on from there, and he said he cuddled all night? And you still didnt make a move? That was his chance to get bananasex

Originally posted by Smiter
Im just giving him false hope ofcourse. He will learn it on his own.Kiss the lips and move on from there.


Now you get my drift

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Now you get my drift

Great minds think alike?

Originally posted by Vegas
Yes! Date tommorow!

Oh my god . . . I don't know If I have the courage to ask her what's up . . . This sucks.

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Sorry to burst your bubble,but getting a kiss from a hoe on new years eve doesn't mean shit

Yes! I've found some ignorant sap who I can immensely pick on!

No offense, but you don't know shit, it seems. But it's okay; I do feel pity for the stupid.

You don't quite understand, do you? She didn't do this last year or the year before that and she's acting differen...

Oh my god, why am I even explaining this to you?

Originally posted by Vegas
Yes! I've found some ignorant sap who I can immensely pick on!

No offense, but you don't know shit, it seems. But it's okay; I do feel pity for the stupid.

You don't quite understand, do you? She didn't do this last year or the year before that and she's acting differen...

Oh my god, why am I even explaining this to you?

Lol.

LLVegas why didnt you make the move during cuddling. If she allows you to get close like that, that was the moment.

Originally posted by ~King of Pie~
Not what people actually believe love is. Infatuation, romance, it's just a reaction to Pheormones. There's no way for our sense of love to forever react in a positive way towards the repetitive pheormones.

this is the stupidest thing I ever heard you say


no offense ermm

We were at a New Years party . . . My family threw the party.

Originally posted by Vegas
Lol.

...

She totally said yes.

Oh my god. We have our first date tommorow.

thanks for the help guys. I do appreciate it.

Scoremistw00t

Originally posted by Vegas
She totally said yes.

Oh my god. We have our first date tommorow.

thanks for the help guys. I do appreciate it.
you're very lucky you know that! congrats

We talked on the phone for hours and hours. She finally said she felt something "Not so friendish" with our kiss and agreed to try to elevate this from a friendship.

Originally posted by Vegas
Yes! I've found some ignorant sap who I can immensely pick on!

No offense, but you don't know shit, it seems. But it's okay; I do feel pity for the stupid.

You don't quite understand, do you? She didn't do this last year or the year before that and she's acting differen...

Oh my god, why am I even explaining this to you?



Kids

Wow, an assumption.


Is that more ignorance? How utterly predictable.

Originally posted by Vegas
We talked on the phone for hours and hours. She finally said she felt something "Not so friendish" with our kiss and agreed to try to elevate this from a friendship.

Awesome! Gooooo Canada!

Its nice... feeling the heart strings being tugged on.

Originally posted by Vegas
She totally said yes.

Oh my god. We have our first date tommorow.

thanks for the help guys. I do appreciate it.

You did all the work, kiddo. We helped.

Hey, that kind of sounds like a Home Depot commercial.

Good luck, bud.

Now you must weigh what will happen if it blossoms into a relationship and, IF things go bad between you. Will you also lose a good friend, if the relationship is lost? You truly won't know this answer until that moment happens, if it does.

Originally posted by BobbyD


Now you must weigh what will happen if it blossoms into a relationship and, IF things go bad between you. Will you also lose a good friend, if the relationship is lost? You truly won't know this answer until that moment happens, if it does. absolutely agree here... I was recently in the same situation where he was a very good friend of mine I was having feelings for... but then I chose not to persue it... In my case though, there were other things going on too and I decided I valued my friendship more then if I woulda hooked up and lost him.

Don't go smashing his hope in the ground like that.

Congrats, by the way.

My little story wasnt told with the intention of smashing hopes.. I say go for it if you want it... some of the better relationships come form two people who were friends first but at the same time... not all cases are the same and you nned to be sure of how you feel because if it messes up and goes wrong.... sometimes being friends afterwards wont work as well as being friends before. Its toss up really.

Originally posted by stuwienl
Don't go smashing his hope in the ground like that.



Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
My little story wasnt told with the intention of smashing hopes.. I say go for it if you want it... some of the better relationships come form two people who were friends first but at the same time... not all cases are the same and you nned to be sure of how you feel because if it messes up and goes wrong.... sometimes being friends afterwards wont work as well as being friends before. Its toss up really.

Indeed. Nor was mine (intended to dash his hope). But, it's a reality he must know can happen.

Originally posted by Vegas
Wow, an assumption.


Is that more ignorance? How utterly predictable.


Stop trying to sound smart

good!

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