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It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?

You can be a bit rude sometimes yourself you know....

You have an ignorant view of the internet, more like.

Either that or you've just been in situations where you had a stupid or obviously wrong opinion and were mocked for it.

Originally posted by Lana
You have an ignorant view of the internet, more like.

Do you think you get treated as an equal? Or have you found times when guys blatently belittle what you say because you are a girl or woman?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the Internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?

Generally speaking; everyone gets put down by some people (mostly male) on the Internet. Maybe young men wine about it less.

Originally posted by Shakyamunison
Generally speaking; everyone gets put down by some people (mostly male) on the Internet. Maybe young men wine about it less.

I see, so you think it's because more men regularly use the internet than girls?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Do you think you get treated as an equal? Or have you found times when guys blatently belittle what you say because you are a girl or woman?

Can't say I've ever been put down for simply being a girl and I've been using the internet for about...10 years and going on message boards for most of that time.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I see, so you think it's because more men regularly use the internet than girls?

No.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I see, so you think it's because more men regularly use the internet than girls?

So your just gonna ignore what I said...

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net? Shut it beeyotch and get the cooking done!!!


















Kidding, Couldn't resist

Originally posted by amity75
Shut it beeyotch and get the cooking done!!!




Kidding, Couldn't resist

I understand it's a joke and has no meaning but is it repressed misogyny?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I see, so you think it's because more men regularly use the internet than girls?

Here is part of your problem; someone jokes with you, and you take it wrong. I have no idea how you got the above from what I said.

Originally posted by Alfheim
So your just gonna ignore what I said...

No sorry Alfheim, I just think girls usually have to fight harder for things so sometimes they come over aggressive. I still see it as very much a mans world and I think the internet is an exaggerated picture of the real world.

nonesense.

if anything its generally assumed that a young girl is capable of some degree of maturity while its generally expected of young boys to be completely obnoxious.
i would say the sexist slant on the internet is more in favor of females in that respect, since younger boys tend to have to prove that they are not a typical adolescent idiot.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?

I respect them with my penis.

Originally posted by Mr. Sandman
I respect them with my penis.

You see My. Sandman this is what I mean and I know it's only a joke but it does sum up popular attitudes, now I agree some girls use of myspace etc doesn't help them.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
No sorry Alfheim, I just think girls usually have to fight harder for things so sometimes they come over aggressive. I still see it as very much a mans world and I think the internet is an exaggerated picture of the real world.

Well ok I can understand whats going on here, like you said you think you need to stick up for yourself, the problem is sometimes people are not picking on you because you are a girl, they are just disagreeing with you. Then you get mad and all hell breaks lose.

I think most people on this forum couldnt careless wether you are a girl, but some people on this forum can sometimes be quite rude.

Originally posted by Mr. Sandman
I respect them with my penis.


oh dear oh dear oh dear....

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You see My. Sandman this is what I mean and I know it's only a joke but it does sum up popular attitudes, now I agree some girls use of myspace etc doesn't help them.

How does someone using myspace not help them? What the everloving **** are you talking about?

Originally posted by Alfheim
Well ok I can understand whats going on here, like you said you think you need to stick up for yourself, the problem is sometimes people are not picking on you because you are a girl, they are just disagreeing with you. Then you get mad and all hell breaks lose.

I think most people on this forum couldnt careless wether you are a girl, but some people on this forum can sometimes be quite rude.




oh dear oh dear oh dear....

Pretty much. "I did something dumb and they were mean to me and it HAD to be because I was a girl!"

FFS people.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?
Most girls don't have strong opinions or if they do they are shit.

But I don't mind to be convinced of the contrary.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Well ok I can understand whats going on here, like you said you think you need to stick up for yourself, the problem is sometimes people are not picking on you because you are a girl, they are just disagreeing with you. Then you get mad and all hell breaks lose.

I think most people on this forum couldnt careless wether you are a girl, but some people on this forum can sometimes be quite rude.




oh dear oh dear oh dear....

Yes you see the irony in the post you quote.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You see My. Sandman this is what I mean and I know it's only a joke but it does sum up popular attitudes, now I agree some girls use of myspace etc doesn't help them.

My penis is laughing at you.

You're kind of uptight.

I haven't heard any complaints from women yet. Your fears are either personal or baseless.

Why are girls not respected on the internet?

They're actually a middle-aged man with too much time on his hands and some old bone to pick.

Oh wait. That's just you.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Most girls don't have strong opinions or if they do they are shit.

But I don't mind to be convinced of the contrary.

Originally posted by Lana
How does someone using myspace not help them? What the everloving **** are you talking about?



Pretty much. "I did something dumb and they were mean to me and it HAD to be because I was a girl!"

FFS people.

Seriously Lana, I don't know if anyone with or without seeing a picture of you has called you a fugly on the net or with or without seeing you immediatly tried to chat you up n the net. Thinking girl on a forum she must want sex.

The myspace comment was about how some girls don't help the female cause by almost prostituting themselves on the web.

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Why are girls not respected on the internet?

They're actually a middle-aged man with too much time on his hands and some old bone to pick.

Oh wait. That's just you.

You keep saying that....is Molly a sock?

Originally posted by kayakat


I'm sorry. But that's what I discovered talking on this forum.

Originally posted by Alfheim
You keep saying that....is Molly a sock?

No I am sock checked, people keep accusin me of being a sock.

It's weird.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Seriously Lana, I don't know if anyone with or without seeing a picture of you has called you a fugly on the net or with or without seeing you immediatly tried to chat you up n the net. Thinking girl on a forum she must want sex.

The myspace comment was about how some girls don't help the female cause by almost prostituting themselves on the web.

Okay, has it ever occured to you that guys get ugly and chatted up as well online?

And good god, you're one of those silly wannabe feminists that actually has no idea what feminism actually is, aren't you. If someone wants to put slutty pics of themselves on their myspace it's their decision to do so and it's not your place to tell them they're wrong for doing so.

Originally posted by Lana
Okay, has it ever occured to you that guys get ugly and chatted up as well online?

And good god, you're one of those silly wannabe feminists that actually has no idea what feminism actually is, aren't you. If someone wants to put slutty pics of themselves on their myspace it's their decision to do so and it's not your place to tell them they're wrong for doing so.

By the way..could you do me a sig....just kidding.....

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Thinking girl on a forum she must want sex.

This statement makes me realize what way you are thinking about all this, and I must say, it's completely wrong.

My penis is still laughing, by the way.

Originally posted by Lana
Okay, has it ever occured to you that guys get ugly and chatted up as well online?

And good god, you're one of those silly wannabe feminists that actually has no idea what feminism actually is, aren't you. If someone wants to put slutty pics of themselves on their myspace it's their decision to do so and it's not your place to tell them they're wrong for doing so.

You just noticed?

'Princess Powerful' hit me like a brick almost immediately.

It must be because you are a girl.

Originally posted by Lana
Okay, has it ever occured to you that guys get ugly and chatted up as well online?

And good god, you're one of those silly wannabe feminists that actually has no idea what feminism actually is, aren't you. If someone wants to put slutty pics of themselves on their myspace it's their decision to do so and it's not your place to tell them they're wrong for doing so.

So you have no problems with putting slutty pictures up Lana? What do you think feminism is and I don't mean Sue Sharpe type of stuff I get bored with that in Sociology, (I wish I'd never picked it, it's so boring).

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?

Sweetie the net is not so different from real life as most people would like to make it seem. No one has to respect your opinion and its not always because you're female. You could be too young did you ever think about that? There's always the possibility they just don't care for your opinion. Stop jumping to conclusions. Did anyone tell you without joking "you're female so your opinion is crap"?

Originally posted by Mr. Sandman
This statement makes me realize what way you are thinking about all this, and I must say, it's completely wrong.

My penis is still laughing, by the way.



You just noticed?

'Princess Powerful' hit me like a brick almost immediately.

It must be because you are a girl. You really need to get that checked out, if you have a mouth on your penis then you may have a siamese twin.

Originally posted by Bardock42
I'm sorry. But that's what I discovered talking on this forum.
mhm

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It seems Girls on the internet are often put down by older males for having an opinion. Is that because many men express latent misogyny repressed by modern equality laws on the net?


LOL equality LAWS on the net.

Where can I find these laws so I can read them?

Originally posted by kayakat
mhm

Okay. We could just argue about it. But I guess the hadn will do.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Sweetie the net is not so different from real life as most people would like to make it seem. No one has to respect your opinion and its not always because you're female. You could be too young did you ever think about that? There's always the possibility they just don't care for your opinion. Stop jumping to conclusions. Did anyone tell you without joking "you're female so your opinion is crap"?

It's just they seem to get angry that a girl is having an opinion and don't like it when hers is as valid as theres.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It's just they seem to get angry that a girl is having an opinion and don't like it when hers is as valid as theres.

Who? Didn't you say in a previous thread that you don't really chat on forums? Maybe they just don't like that particular girl. Its the same way for guys there are plenty that have opinions that mean shit to me. Sweetie don't try to make this a his or her issue.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
So you have no problems with putting slutty pictures up Lana? What do you think feminism is and I don't mean Sue Sharpe type of stuff I get bored with that in Sociology, (I wish I'd never picked it, it's so boring).

I myself would never put slutty pics on the internet...publically anyway. But do I care if other girls do? No, and it's perfectly within their rights to do so.

You seem to me to think along the lines that if anything ever happens bad to a girl, that it's because they're a girl and not because of other reasons which are more likely to be correct (ie you get mocked because of your opinion, chances are it's because you made an idiot of yourself, etc). Feminism is actually (and many people get this wrong which is why it has a bad reputation) is the desire to see ALL people seen as equal, regardless of gender, race, sexuality, etc. And claiming that people look down on you simply because you're a girl when in reality that is NOT why hurts this more than a girl liking how she looks and posting a pic of herself in a sexy pose.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It's just they seem to get angry that a girl is having an opinion and don't like it when hers is as valid as theres.

I have never, EVER come across that. Ever. Not once. So methinks it's simply you blaming it on that when it's actually other factors.

Originally posted by Alfheim
You keep saying that....is Molly a sock? Better question: Does the answer to your question really matter if the person in question is utterly inane?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It's just they seem to get angry that a girl is having an opinion and don't like it when hers is as valid as theres.

Nah, if it is as valid as mine it supports mine and I like it then.

I don't make a difference between a female idiot and a male idiot. The thing just is I didn't encounter an intelligent, knowledgeable, funny and just all in all worthwhile female regular in the GDF, yet.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Who? Didn't you say in a previous thread that you don't really chat on forums? Maybe they just don't like that particular girl. Its the same way for guys there are plenty that have opinions that mean shit to me. Sweetie don't try to make this a his or her issue.

I said i've only been on them about a year and a lot of the time people seem to just recycle the same things. It seems though if you have a mature opinion people get angry.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Nah, if it is as valid as mine it supports mine and I like it then.

I don't make a difference between a female idiot and a male idiot. The thing just is I didn't encounter an intelligent, knowledgeable, funny and just all in all worthwhile female regular in the GDF, yet.

So Lana is none of these things?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
So Lana is none of these things?

In all fairness I think thats because you expect it to happen. take the argument you had with ichi, its like you werent really listening to him...then you were rude to him then he called you a b***

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
So Lana is none of these things?

I don't regularly post in the GDF, I'm more of a lurker in here.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
So Lana is none of these things?

You are here for four days, why do you think you can judge all the angles my post stated?

Originally posted by Alfheim
In all fairness I think thats because you expect it to happen. take the argument you had with ichi, its like you werent really listening to him...then you were rude to him then he called you a b***

I did listen to him I just disagreed and then he called me a *****.

Originally posted by Bardock42
You are here for four days, why do you think you can judge all the angles my post stated?

By the way you can be a jerk sometimes.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I did listen to him I just disagreed and then he called me a *****.

He should not have done that, but at the same time you said something like he was a little boy. In all fairness he should not have called you that.

Originally posted by Lana
I don't regularly post in the GDF, I'm more of a lurker in here.

O.K. Why don't you post more in here Lana?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I said i've only been on them about a year and a lot of the time people seem to just recycle the same things. It seems though if you have a mature opinion people get angry.

Sweetie thats people period. You mean to tell me that no one in real life has acted that way towards you? I not as a female but, as a kind person am gonna give you some advice. KMC like the rest of the world can be cutthroat depending on who you are and how you present yourself. You're new and the fact you keep coming up with negative views of everything is going to make you what you don't want to be. You're gonna be that over sensitive girl that makes it seems like everyone is out to get her. Either toughen up or lighten up. Most of the sexist or sexual comments here are just jokes. If you were a regular you'd know this.

By the way I edited my post so look above Molly.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
O.K. Why don't you post more in here Lana?

Because I simply don't. I don't need a reason to not post in a specific forum.

Originally posted by Lana
I don't regularly post in the GDF, I'm more of a lurker in here.

That really helped me deciding whether he is Whirly (which he is) or not.

Originally posted by Alfheim
By the way you can be a jerk sometimes.



I assume that is true with certain definitions.

Matter of fact though is in this case you have no clue what's going on.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Sweetie thats people period. You mean to tell me that no one in real life has acted that way towards you? I not as a female but, as a kind person am gonna give you some advice. KMC like the rest of the world can be cutthroat depending on who you are and how you present yourself. You're new and the fact you keep coming up with negative views of everything is going to make you what you don't want to be. You're gonna be that over sensitive girl that makes it seems like everyone is out to get her. Either toughen up or lighten up. Most of the sexist or sexual comments here are just jokes. If you were a regular you'd know this.

Most people are nice to me in real life. I don't know you but you seem pretty in your pic, however do you think it sends a specific message?

Originally posted by Bardock42
That really helped me deciding whether he is Whirly (which he is) or not.


You seem to see enemies everywhere your friend puts an idea in your head and that's it I am not anyone else I a Carys or "Molly Hayes"

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Sweetie thats people period. You mean to tell me that no one in real life has acted that way towards you? I not as a female but, as a kind person am gonna give you some advice. KMC like the rest of the world can be cutthroat depending on who you are and how you present yourself. You're new and the fact you keep coming up with negative views of everything is going to make you what you don't want to be. You're gonna be that over sensitive girl that makes it seems like everyone is out to get her. Either toughen up or lighten up. Most of the sexist or sexual comments here are just jokes. If you were a regular you'd know this.

i agree 100%

now lets have intercourse

men often say things and dont think first. Though computers can be rather distuaghting with conversations.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Most people are nice to me in real life. I don't know you but you seem pretty in your pic, however do you think it sends a specific message?


LOL, if you mean double breasted party machine, then I hope so.

Originally posted by Bardock42
That really helped me deciding whether he is Whirly (which he is) or not.



I assume that is true with certain definitions.

Matter of fact though is in this case you have no clue what's going on.

Er... sounds like your being a bit of a jerk again.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You seem to see enimies everywhere your friend puts an idea in your head and that's it I am not anyone else I a Carys or "Molly Hayes"

Yeah, it's okay, lets go with that. I can accept your Internet persona.

Still, I give female members the same respect (plus sexual lust) I give the real members.

Originally posted by Soleran
LOL, if you mean double breasted party machine, then I hope so.

It's her physical appearance you notice first? Right?

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Sweetie thats people period. You mean to tell me that no one in real life has acted that way towards you? I not as a female but, as a kind person am gonna give you some advice. KMC like the rest of the world can be cutthroat depending on who you are and how you present yourself. You're new and the fact you keep coming up with negative views of everything is going to make you what you don't want to be. You're gonna be that over sensitive girl that makes it seems like everyone is out to get her. Either toughen up or lighten up. Most of the sexist or sexual comments here are just jokes. If you were a regular you'd know this.

By the way the fact that she was called a ***** and accused of being a sock several times evnthough shes been checked out doesnt help her feel secure.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Er... sounds like your being a bit of a jerk again.

Is that you answer to everything, my friend?

Even if I was a jerk, it doesn't make my opinions any less wrong. So, what about keeping the "You're a jerk" to yourself. Thanks.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Most people are nice to me in real life. I don't know you but you seem pretty in your pic, however do you think it sends a specific message?

Sweetie most of the people here on KMC didn't know what I looked like until about a month and a half ago. They've always joked around with me and still respected me regardless. Thats because of the way I present myself. I've always been friendly, kind and more than anything playful.

Hang on, I got lost. How did lana help you make up your mind for that, bardock?

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Sweetie most of the people here on KMC didn't know what I looked like until about a month and a half ago. They've always joked around with me and still respected me regardless. Thats because of the way I present myself. I've always been friendly, kind and more than anything playful.

O.K. but in being playful do you feel you have presented yourself as a woman?

Originally posted by Bardock42
Is that you answer to everything, my friend?

Even if I was a jerk, it doesn't make my opinions any less wrong. So, what about keeping the "You're a jerk" to yourself. Thanks.


Here we go.......

Originally posted by soin2cal
men often say things and dont think first. Though computers can be rather distuaghting with conversations.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

HA

Too funny.

Originally posted by Ushgarak
Hang on, I got lost. How did lana help you make up your mind for that, bardock?

S-she didn't.

Originally posted by PVS
i agree 100%

now lets have intercourse

OMG you just agreed with me and I'm female. I win thread closed.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Here we go.......

You see what I mean it's very hostile for no reason!

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You see what I mean it's very hostile for no reason!

Yes, you are right. Apologies.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
O.K. but in being playful do you feel you have presented yourself as a woman?

Yes because I've presented myself as me.

me = woman.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yes, you are right. Apologies.

O.K. Can we stop this Whirly (whoever they are stuff) I am Molly.

Originally posted by Bardock42
S-she didn't.

Why did you quote her then?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
You see what I mean it's very hostile for no reason!

Actually I can see what your getting at.....yeah I dont think its because you're female but yeah people on here can be jerks sometimes. Like people accusing you of being a sock and when you try to point stuff like that out people dont listen.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Yes because I've presented myself as me.

me = woman.

O.K. can we agree to have a differnt perception of how a woman should present herself. I'm cool with your view it's just not mine. O.K.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
OMG you just agreed with me and I'm female. I win thread closed.

actually it could be argued that im sexist and only agreed as a means of placation with hopes of you doing me...

Originally posted by Ushgarak
Why did you quote her then?

It was a joke. I tried to base it on "Molly" being here only 4 days therefore not being knowledgeable about who frequents which forums.

Obviously I can see the logical fallacies in that.

But it amused me at the time.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
O.K. Can we stop this Whirly (whoever they are stuff) I am Molly.

Yes, Molly. We can.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Actually I can see what your getting at.....yeah I dont think its because you're female but yeah people on here can be jerks sometimes. Like people accusing you of being a sock and when you try to point stuff like that out people dont listen.

It's true i've done nothing "sockish" because I am not a sock and have been sock checked and yet I am attacked.

Gotcha. Ok, carry on everyone.

Originally posted by PVS
actually it could be argued that im sexist and only agreed as a means of placation with hopes of you doing me...


See, now thats a pearl of wisdom.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
It's true i've done nothing "sockish" because I am not a sock and have been sock checked and yet I am attacked.

The similarities in the approach of a well known troll we used to have are striking.

But I will give you the benefit of doubt.

Proceed.

whats a whob?

let it go

Lana said she didn't frequent the forum and I asked her why? Paranoid, much!

Originally posted by Bardock42


Yes, Molly. We can.

Yeah and one of the people that keeps doing this to her is xmarks....im really sorry but hes another one that can be a real jerk and I have even tried sometimes not to get into converstaions with him or try and point out how horrible he can be, but he doesnt listen.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
O.K. can we agree to have a differnt perception of how a woman should present herself. I'm cool with your view it's just not mine. O.K.

Thats what this whole thing boils down to. Everyone has a different meaning of the word woman. You don't have to be prim and proper to be respected or viewed as what a woman should be. If you respect yourself above everyone else's opinion of you who gives a ****?

Originally posted by PVS
actually it could be argued that im sexist and only agreed as a means of placation with hopes of you doing me...

No different from real life.shrug

Originally posted by Alfheim
Yeah and one of the people that keeps doing this to her is xmarks....im really sorry but hes another one that can be a real jerk and I have even tried sometimes not to get into converstaions with him or try and point out how horrible he can be, but he doesnt listen. Boo hoo? Are you going to start another "I'm depressed" thread now? Zoloft up.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Yeah and one of the people that keeps doing this to her is xmarks....im really sorry but hes another one that can be a real jerk and I have even tried sometimes not to get into converstaions with him or try and point out how horrible he can be, but he doesnt listen.

...yes. Irony. And stuff.

Look dude, accuse people somewhere else. Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Lana said she didn't frequent the forum and I asked her why? Paranoid, much!

No matter, it had a logical reason in my mind.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Thats what this whole thing boils down to. Everyone has a different meaning of the word woman. You don't have to be prim and proper to be respected or viewed as what a woman should be. If you respect yourself above everyone else's opinion of you who gives a ****?


I think often girls flirt etc. because they want to use the path of least resistance with men rather than be accepted as equals on merit.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
No different from real life.shrug

yes you're right. and thats unfortunate...i think people shouldnt agree with women just because they find them attractive.











*unzips fly*

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Boo hoo? Are you going to start another "I'm depressed" thread now?

So you really are a "he" according to Alfiem your picture under your posts was fooling me.
Sorry.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think often girls flirt etc. because they want to use the path of least resistance with men rather than be accepted as equals on merit.

Their fault.

...I just recalled. The Omega is acceptable. Above average for certain.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Their fault.

...I just recalled. The Omega is acceptable. Above average for certain.

What?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think often girls flirt etc. because they want to use the path of least resistance with men rather than be accepted as equals on merit.

Or...maybe they flirt because they simply like to and it has nothing to do with being seen as an equal. I know that's why I flirt with people, because it's fun to do so.

And quite frankly it's completely irrelevant anyway. You can be the biggest flirt in the world yet still be very serious and know what you're talking about and be respected for that reason.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Their fault.

...I just recalled. The Omega is acceptable. Above average for certain.

she accepted my marriage proposal...and then she was gone cry

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think often girls flirt etc. because they want to use the path of least resistance with men rather than be accepted as equals on merit.


Thats a pretty mature response from a 17 year old with little credible experience in "grown up" culture.

Originally posted by Lana
Or...maybe they flirt because they simply like to and it has nothing to do with being seen as an equal. I know that's why I flirt with people, because it's fun to do so.

And quite frankly it's completely irrelevant anyway. You can be the biggest flirt in the world yet still be very serious and know what you're talking about and be respected for that reason.

Or you can choose to work harder and do better and win on merit?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
What?

It is their own fault if they don't want to be accepted as equals. Not men's fault.

The Omega was a memberess. Well, is, just hardly online.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think often girls flirt etc. because they want to use the path of least resistance with men rather than be accepted as equals on merit.

Okay now I have to speak to you on a woman to woman level. That was one of the dumbest comments I've ever heard in real life or on the net. You have an issue where you see everything that women do that you don't like or do as a sign of weakness. I'm bold always been bold always will be. The fact that I don't have to wait for a guy to make the first move or that I can joke around and flirt doesn't make me inferior in anyway. You make yourself weak by setting up limitations and making up imaginary rules.

Originally posted by PVS
yes you're right. and thats unfortunate...i think people shouldnt agree with women just because they find them attractive.











*unzips fly*

Whatever gets you laid.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Or you can choose to work harder and do better and win on merit?

Or you can pay attention to what I said and realize that the two things can be completely and totally unrelated?

Originally posted by Bardock42
It is their own fault if they don't want to be accepted as equals. Not men's fault.

The Omega was a memberess. Well, is, just hardly online.

I can just image the fun she'd have with this thread.

Originally posted by Bardock42
It is their own fault if they don't want to be accepted as equals. Not men's fault.

The Omega was a memberess. Well, is, just hardly online.

I sort of see but shoulfd the internet be another place where women are subservient to male acceptance.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I sort of see but shoulfd the internet be another place where women are subservient to male acceptance.

Why another?

There shouldn't be any.

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Boo hoo? Are you going to start another "I'm depressed" thread now? Zoloft up.

See what I mean. The fact of the matter a whole load of socks get deleted yesterday but Molly is still is here doesnt make you think you might not accuse her of being a sock?

Incapable of looking at yourself...because your always right.


Originally posted by Bardock42
...yes. Irony. And stuff.

Look dude, accuse people somewhere else.



See what I mean?

Originally posted by Lana
Or you can pay attention to what I said and realize that the two things can be completely and totally unrelated?



I can just image the fun she'd have with this thread.

They don't have to be exclusive Lana I agree, but I don't see the point of flirting on line for acceptance we should be equals regardless imo.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I sort of see but shoulfd the internet be another place where women are subservient to male acceptance.



Should it?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I sort of see but shoulfd the internet be another place where women are subservient to male acceptance.

yes.

you are dirt beneath a man's feet. a plaything to use at will, a servant, and a maker of babies. dont try to see it beyond that, since the rest of life is just a bunch of complicated man stuff.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
They don't have to be exclusive Lana I agree, but I don't see the point of flirting on line for acceptance we should be equals regardless imo.

Where on earth did you get this idea that people flirt for acceptance or to be seen as an equal?

Originally posted by PVS
yes.

you are dirt beneath a man's feet. a plaything to use at will, a servant, and a maker of babies. dont try to see it beyond that, since the rest of life is just a bunch of complicated man stuff.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
They don't have to be exclusive Lana I agree, but I don't see the point of flirting on line for acceptance we should be equals regardless imo.
For acceptance? A bit of lighthearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds.

Originally posted by Alfheim
See what I mean. The fact of the matter a whole load of socks get deleted yesterday but Molly is still is here doesnt make you think you might not accuse her of being a sock?

Incapable of looking at yourself...because your always right.




See what I mean?

You have soooo no clue what you are talking about.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
They don't have to be exclusive Lana I agree, but I don't see the point of flirting on line for acceptance we should be equals regardless imo.

But you are. You are.

Originally posted by Lana
Where on earth did you get this idea that people flirt for acceptance or to be seen as an equal?

I only flirt with people I am attracted to. I have a boyfriend though so I don't flirt to much.

Originally posted by Lana
Where on earth did you get this idea that people flirt for acceptance or to be seen as an equal?


The acceptance part is very common to see.

As for the equal, meh I don't think so.

Originally posted by Storm
For acceptance? A bit of lighthearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds.

Also, it's hot when it involves chicks like Storm.

Originally posted by Bardock42
You have soooo no clue what you are talking about.

wait wait didnt xmarks accuse Molly of being a sock?

Originally posted by Storm
For acceptance? A bit of lighthearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds.

Storm do you have social bonds here? Ism't it just a place to discuss ideas?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
They don't have to be exclusive Lana I agree, but I don't see the point of flirting on line for acceptance we should be equals regardless imo.

Okay now I have to speak to you on a woman to woman level. That was one of the dumbest comments I've ever heard in real life or on the net. You have an issue where you see everything that women do that you don't like or do as a sign of weakness. I'm bold always been bold always will be. The fact that I don't have to wait for a guy to make the first move or that I can joke around and flirt doesn't make me inferior in anyway. You make yourself weak by setting up limitations and making up imaginary rules.

or of being somebody else.

Originally posted by Alfheim
See what I mean. The fact of the matter a whole load of socks get deleted yesterday but Molly is still is here doesnt make you think you might not accuse her of being a sock? Naive or stupid. Probably both. Riddle me this: How many of those socks passed sockchecks?
Originally posted by Alfheim
because your always right. "You're"; and I'm glad we agree on something.

Vacuous people may as well be socks anyway.

Paxil time?

Originally posted by Alfheim
wait wait didnt xmarks accuse Molly of being a sock?
It is a possibility. You know that, right?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I only flirt with people I am attracted to. I have a boyfriend though so I don't flirt to much.

Well, that's you. But you're not everyone else, I hope you realize.

Some people are simply flirtatious by nature and don't even realize they do it, or it's just having a bit of silly and harmless fun between friends.

Originally posted by Storm
For acceptance? A bit of lighthearted flirtatious banter can brighten the day, raise self-esteem and strengthen social bonds.

Thank you, someone who understands what I mean.

Originally posted by LethalFemme
Okay now I have to speak to you on a woman to woman level. That was one of the dumbest comments I've ever heard in real life or on the net. You have an issue where you see everything that women do that you don't like or do as a sign of weakness. I'm bold always been bold always will be. The fact that I don't have to wait for a guy to make the first move or that I can joke around and flirt doesn't make me inferior in anyway. You make yourself weak by setting up limitations and making up imaginary rules.

I asked out my boyfriend, so I can make the first move. I just don't see the point of making an exhibition of myself.

Originally posted by xmarksthespot
Naive or stupid. Probably both. Riddle me this: How many of those socks passed sockchecks?


its very easy to get around a sock checker. in fact the ignorace to this fact astounds me.

Originally posted by PVS
its very easy to get around a sock checker. in fact the ignorace to this fact astounds me.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Storm do you have social bonds here? Ism't it just a place to discuss ideas?

This is a large website, including a very large social area. You're on here for any period of time and you're going to make friends and have people you chat with socially.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I asked out my boyfriend, so I can make the first move. I just don't see the point of making an exhibition of myself.

You see flirting as making an exhibition of yourself, but not everyone does.

Originally posted by Bardock42
It is a possibility. You know that, right?

All im saying is that if the person passed the test its not ok to give them the benefot of the doubt. That = I soooo dont know what im talking about.

Originally posted by Lana
Well, that's you. But you're not everyone else, I hope you realize.

Some people are simply flirtatious by nature and don't even realize they do it, or it's just having a bit of silly and harmless fun between friends.



Thank you, someone who understands what I mean.

I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.

Originally posted by Lana
You see flirting as making an exhibition of yourself, but not everyone does.

...and thats what this is all about isnt it? projection

Originally posted by PVS
its very easy to get around a sock checker. in fact the ignorace to this fact astounds me.


Ok my bad. All I know is a whole looad of socks got deleted yesterday and Molly is still here, so my stance is not unreasonable.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I know i'm pretty because people tell me.


Parents don't count.

Derp derp that was a great one.

Originally posted by Soleran
Parents don't count.

Lot's of people actually, but it's not an issue to me.

Originally posted by Alfheim
All im saying is that if the person passed the test its not ok to give them the benefot of the doubt. That = I soooo dont know what im talking about.

...that first sentence made no sense. Review it.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.

You say that like being seen as a sexual person is a bad thing. Which really, it isn't at all. The only way I can think of it being seen as such is if you are not comfortable with yourself or have low self-esteem.

And really, there's actually not that much of a difference between how people act online and offline.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I asked out my boyfriend, so I can make the first move. I just don't see the point of making an exhibition of myself.

There are some people who for very good and obvious reasons shouldn't make exhibitons of themselves or post slutty pics as you were saying earlier. The fact that some people do doesn't make them anything less. They ONLY seem less in YOUR eyes and people with eyes like yours.

Originally posted by Bardock42
...that first sentence made no sense. Review it.

Yes it does, dont waste my time.

Originally posted by PVS
...and thats what this is all about isnt it? projection

Pretty much; seems to me this whole thread is a case of someone thinking "acting differently than I do is wrong".

Originally posted by Lana
You say that like being seen as a sexual person is a bad thing. Which really, it isn't at all. The only way I can think of it being seen as such is if you are not comfortable with yourself or have low self-esteem.

And really, there's actually not that much of a difference between how people act online and offline.

I think that's a genralisation Lana, I am pretty happy with myself, in fact I would change nothing about me. I am pretty to other people, I work hard and am quite successfull in my studies and other areas of my life.
Anyway this thread is not about me and I don't want it to be.

Originally posted by Alfheim
Yes it does, dont waste my time.

No, dude. It really doesn't.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
Do you think you get treated as an equal? Or have you found times when guys blatently belittle what you say because you are a girl or woman?

I'm not saying you're wrong. But, how is this any different than the way women treat men?

Originally posted by Bardock42
No, dude. It really doesn't. Y-you're such a jerk. weep

Originally posted by LethalFemme
There are some people who for very good and obvious reasons shouldn't make exhibitons of themselves or post slutty pics as you were saying earlier. The fact that some people do doesn't make them anything less. They ONLY seem less in YOUR eyes and people with eyes like yours.

I'm not Judging you and please call me Carys, I just wouldn't do it myself, I wouldn't want people at school seeing it etc. As well as the other reasons.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think that's a genralisation Lana, I am pretty happy with myself, in fact I would change nothing about me. I am pretty to other people, I work hard and am quite successfull in my studies and other areas of my life.
Anyway this thread is not about me and I don't want it to be.

Can't the same be said of everything you say?

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.
As a woman deeply in touch with my sexuality, I' m very comfortable with expressing my desires to anyone, and am a proud and confident woman who exudes sensuality.

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I understand what you mean and I think real life is different, I don't want to be seen as someone sexual really except to special people. I know i'm pretty because people tell me.

Being sexual to unspecial people is no biggie either if they can handle harmless flirting, advances, and innuendos....meant to just have a good time. Heck, I flirt with everyone here and I'm married too!

Originally posted by Molly Hayes
I think that's a genralisation Lana, I am pretty happy with myself, in fact I would change nothing about me. I am pretty to other people, I work hard and am quite successfull in my studies and other areas of my life.
Anyway this thread is not about me and I don't want it to be.

Errr, you say I'm making a generalization when every post you've made in here is a generalization?

And it's true. If you're not comfortable with yourself or have low self-esteem, you're going to see things that are perfectly normal as being bad or wrong. It's called you need to learn to accept it, get over it, and move on.

I am confident with myself to accept and admit that yes, I am a very sexual person. It's simply who I am and there's no point in denying or hiding the fact because someone might think that's wrong or bad.

I was just in some chat-room for teens b4, and this guy pm'd me and said...

'Hi sexy ****, i want you to suck me.. please.. give me you'r hotmail add and go on webcam for me and show me your stuff you dirty little ****'

MEN...............

Originally posted by Bardock42
No, dude. It really doesn't.

Well lets put it this way you probably know what im talking about.

Originally posted by Storm
As a woman deeply in touch with my sexuality, I' m very comfortable with expressing my desires to anyone, and am a proud and confident woman who exudes sensuality.

Bingo!

Preach it sister.

Psst...hey, Storm what are you doing later?

Originally posted by Storm
As a woman deeply in touch with my sexuality, I' m very comfortable with expressing my desires to anyone, and am a proud and confident woman who exudes sensuality. I can feel it from here. You could cut through it with a knife. It would have to be a sharp one though.

whats funny is the direct connection implied between having a high self esteem and being pretty. care to explain that?