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Not sure if it's the kind of town a person lives in, or it's a pneumonia that occurs simply because some folks are just controlling and bullish and feel that their view of importance should be yours, esp. with respect to your personal life, such as who you decide to date and marry.
So, do we really live in a free society? I know a guy who is so cool, he's originally from country-xyz and will soon marry via an arrangement done by women in his village, he recently turned down hundreds of pics and before he took the long journey there, expressed his sadness but out of respect for his religion, he is trying to "do the right thing". Seems sad to me, that a bunch of women would think they their view of beauty and class could somehow be important to another man's life, esp. marriage. I don't know if he comes from money, but if he does, I think it makes it all the worse for him. He's handling it pretty well, but I can tell he was sad about having to deal with the pressure of having to marry at a certain age, esp. with respect to a bunch of female requirements. I am female, and I have a brother that most women, of all races, find absolutely SEXY IT'S RIDICULOUS, but when he was going to marry and wanted my opinion, I learned from a long time ago (as I tried to set him up) that my taste in women, as a female, is different from his taste in women, and out of love for him, I respected his free will and didn't want to impose on it.
How far should women go to control another man's life? I've never heard or seen men do this to other men that much, only small instances but not as often as what I see from other females.
Do you feel your relationship is tried by the public or society (society is 3 or more people around you)?
I've had that happen to me, where I had others give looks or comments based on who I was dating, and I found that very instrusive and bullish, as I wouldn't impose on their life. I had one lady associate, who is very ignorant, nice but ignorant, make comments because I like a guy who is younger then me, and so, because she only knows that SMALL detail, she feeds on it and would make dumb comments about younger men being better. Howe stupid? So, if she knew me when I was 27, and I was dating a Jewish guy who was almost in his 50s, what would she say about me then? Very ignorant woman, nice, but ignorant, she takes small details and comes up with wrong distorted perceptions of my life, and to make it worse, she's a gossip.
I mean, who wants to pick a mate based on folks who will not be there for you when things go wrong? What can they say except, ops, and to make it worse, when cultures of women control who a man marries, guess how he tries to get back control of his life? quartazone/Prostitutes?Affairs/Geshias???
Can a man pick his own wife? That's what American is about, having a liberal culture so that people can have options. A free society.
So, do we really live in a free society? I know a guy who is so cool, he's originally from country-xyz and will soon marry via an arrangement done by women in his village, he recently turned down hundreds of pics and before he took the long journey there, expressed his sadness but out of respect for his religion, he is trying to "do the right thing". Seems sad to me, that a bunch of women would think they their view of beauty and class could somehow be important to another man's life, esp. marriage. I don't know if he comes from money, but if he does, I think it makes it all the worse for him. He's handling it pretty well, but I can tell he was sad about having to deal with the pressure of having to marry at a certain age, esp. with respect to a bunch of female requirements. I am female, and I have a brother that most women, of all races, find absolutely SEXY IT'S RIDICULOUS, but when he was going to marry and wanted my opinion, I learned from a long time ago (as I tried to set him up) that my taste in women, as a female, is different from his taste in women, and out of love for him, I respected his free will and didn't want to impose on it.
How far should women go to control another man's life? I've never heard or seen men do this to other men that much, only small instances but not as often as what I see from other females.
Do you feel your relationship is tried by the public or society (society is 3 or more people around you)?
I've had that happen to me, where I had others give looks or comments based on who I was dating, and I found that very instrusive and bullish, as I wouldn't impose on their life. I had one lady associate, who is very ignorant, nice but ignorant, make comments because I like a guy who is younger then me, and so, because she only knows that SMALL detail, she feeds on it and would make dumb comments about younger men being better. Howe stupid? So, if she knew me when I was 27, and I was dating a Jewish guy who was almost in his 50s, what would she say about me then? Very ignorant woman, nice, but ignorant, she takes small details and comes up with wrong distorted perceptions of my life, and to make it worse, she's a gossip.
I mean, who wants to pick a mate based on folks who will not be there for you when things go wrong? What can they say except, ops, and to make it worse, when cultures of women control who a man marries, guess how he tries to get back control of his life? quartazone/Prostitutes?Affairs/Geshias???
Can a man pick his own wife? That's what American is about, having a liberal culture so that people can have options. A free society.