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I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue

Originally posted by steverules
I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue

Lots of time.

You don't.
You simply learn to adjust and turn your focus onto another person.

Time hug

I'd use a ladder...


I'm so funny.

Originally posted by Ambience
You don't.
You simply learn to adjust and turn your focus onto another person.
I really, sincerely hope (pray) that we never have to get over each other.


For the question itself, it takes time and it's not something you can accelerate. It's a natural process.

I know I'd never get over Thomas

I also know I'll never have to

Was she your first true love?

I personally think you never get over your first true love, but like the others have said, it's pretty much time that will help you get over her.

Originally posted by DarkC
I really, sincerely hope (pray) that we never have to get over each other.


For the question itself, it takes time and it's not something you can accelerate. It's a natural process.

Me to baby.
kisses

Lots of chocolate a lots of time. And you don't really get over them, you just let time help you to think about them less, but everytime you do think about them it hurts.

Great...I feel worse

Not a lot you can do.. Let time take its toll and hope for the best.. A lot of heartbroken I know of did not get over it until newfound love..

I wonder who u found that with

I really need to learn to quote more

"God is closest to those with broken hearts."

hm..i wouldn't know. i find that i don't really get over people. i just learn to practice the meaning of their existence in relation to whatever the current state of my relationship with them is. this doesn't mean that i suddenly fell "out of" love with them. or that i hate them. i still appreciate them and all that they were, just from afar.

and yeah i'd agree with the rest above; time heals all wounds.

Originally posted by Barker
I'd use a ladder...


I'm so not funny.

Originally posted by steverules
I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue It was never love. You're way too young.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by InnerRise
It was never love. You're way too young.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

See I disagree. I know that what Leo and I have is real love. I'm only 16, and I know this. We've been going out for almost a year now, and I've never felt like this before. Yeah I've been in other long term relationships, but this one doesn't feel the same. This one is 100 X better. When we talk, nothing else matters. I think about him, every second of my life. I dream about him, every single night. And he's on the other side of the country. I know that we are in love, and I know we are soul mates. I am sure of it. We were meant to meet.

And I agree that usually, thats not the case with people my age. I think that its the maturity of the people, not the age. I know I love Leo, and that one day, I'll marry him. I am sure of it.

Originally posted by Sweet Escape
See I disagree. I know that what Leo and I have is real love. I'm only 16, and I know this. We've been going out for almost a year now, and I've never felt like this before. Yeah I've been in other long term relationships, but this one doesn't feel the same. This one is 100 X better. When we talk, nothing else matters. I think about him, every second of my life. I dream about him, every single night. And he's on the other side of the country. I know that we are in love, and I know we are soul mates. I am sure of it. We were meant to meet.

And I agree that usually, thats not the case with people my age. I think that its the maturity of the people, not the age. I know I love Leo, and that one day, I'll marry him. I am sure of it.
haermm

To ensure our kinship, I won't comment.

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Laugh at me, call me crazy. I don't care.

I know that I'm in love, and he loves me.

Stuff like this just doesn't happen

Usually one hollow-point is all it takes. In all seriousness though, time is the only thing that can help. A lot of time. A new girl helps too, but only if it's serious. Pointless one night flings do not solve it believe you me.

Originally posted by Sweet Escape
Laugh at me, call me crazy. I don't care.

I know that I'm in love, and he loves me.

Stuff like this just doesn't happen
haermm'd because you took the time to type that out for Innerrise.

I mean, who does that for Innerrise?

Originally posted by Barker
haermm'd because you took the time to type that out for Innerrise.

I mean, who does that for Innerrise?

Originally posted by Barker
haermm'd because you took the time to type that out for Innerrise.

I mean, who does that for Innerrise? funny

anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Kill her. leftright

A concussion...

Originally posted by steverules
I need to know how to do it...cause I have nooo clue
its tricky. in my previous relationshipd, i thought i was in love, but was mistaken. it hurt, but my friends were there to get me through it.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
its tricky. in my previous relationshipd, i thought i was in love, but was mistaken. it hurt, but my friends were there to get me through it.

Friends eh?? Boioioioioioioioioing!

You should ACTUALLY remain friends with her. It works. Trust me.

Originally posted by ~Flamboyant~
You should ACTUALLY remain friends with her. It works. Trust me.

No, it doesn't.

just find another girl and have sex with her.

Originally posted by PiruBlood
just find another girl and have sex with her.

The guy has a broken heart, a one night stand won't cure that.

Originally posted by PiruBlood
all he has to do is make himself look weak to the girl and capatilize on to get her to sleep with him.

Women can smell weakness. They don't go after the weak ones.

Learn to hate them.

Originally posted by Sweet Escape
See I disagree. I know that what Leo and I have is real love. I'm only 16, and I know this. We've been going out for almost a year now, and I've never felt like this before. Yeah I've been in other long term relationships, but this one doesn't feel the same. This one is 100 X better. When we talk, nothing else matters. I think about him, every second of my life. I dream about him, every single night. And he's on the other side of the country. I know that we are in love, and I know we are soul mates. I am sure of it. We were meant to meet.

And I agree that usually, thats not the case with people my age. I think that its the maturity of the people, not the age. I know I love Leo, and that one day, I'll marry him. I am sure of it.

This is a broken heart waiting to happen.

You have my sympathy in advance.

Originally posted by Sweet Escape
Laugh at me, call me crazy. I don't care.

I know that I'm in love, and he loves me.

Stuff like this just doesn't happen

I really really for your sake hope it all works

Time and distance is the best thing...... it works for me.

Originally posted by Sweet Escape
See I disagree. I know that what Leo and I have is real love. I'm only 16, and I know this. We've been going out for almost a year now, and I've never felt like this before. Yeah I've been in other long term relationships, but this one doesn't feel the same. This one is 100 X better. When we talk, nothing else matters. I think about him, every second of my life. I dream about him, every single night. And he's on the other side of the country. I know that we are in love, and I know we are soul mates. I am sure of it. We were meant to meet.

And I agree that usually, thats not the case with people my age. I think that its the maturity of the people, not the age. I know I love Leo, and that one day, I'll marry him. I am sure of it.

I love you.

And I will never leave you with a broken heart.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
I really really for your sake hope it all works

Nice sig Raven.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
I really really for your sake hope it all works

yeah me too.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
I really really for your sake hope it all works Originally posted by Punkyhermy
yeah me too.

Thanks you guys hug

Originally posted by Leo.M


I love you.

And I will never leave you with a broken heart.

I love you too, so much.

I know you won't.

Originally posted by ~Flamboyant~
Yes sir, it does.

It is not a good idea because what may, and usually ends up happening, is the person who initiated the break up gives the other person false hope that will just lead to more hurt later down the road.

Originally posted by ~Flamboyant~
I see what you're saying. I was put in the same situation and it worked for me though, so I'm speaking from experience.

It didn't work for me. So I was speaking from experience too.

Originally posted by BackFire
Learn to hate them.



This is a broken heart waiting to happen.

You have my sympathy in advance.
you're an outsider looking in. no one except for the two of them is in any position to make that call.

Originally posted by ~Flamboyant~
Then we neutralize eachother. 321

Yup.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you're an outsider looking in. no one except for the two of them is in any position to make that call.

Statistics are, and they're heavily against them.

1. Too young, a normal relationship when you're 16 most likely won't last, nor should it, you're far to young at that age to know yourself, let alone the other person.

2. Online relationships - Again, these just rarely work.

Me being an outsider just means I'm objective. They're talking with their hearts, not their brains, I'm using reason to come to the conclusion that what they have won't work out, they're using wishful thinking and naivety.

*sigh* weep closedeyes

Lotsa thinkin

There should also be a thread called, "How do you get over the good sex you had with your Ex".

Originally posted by Penelope
There should also be a thread called, "How do you get over the good sex you had with your Ex".

id lick the sweat off of your body

seriously, all these couples in my thread saying how they over each other and all that please stop cause your only making me feel worse...I was just like you once with my girlfriend and now I don't have that anymore and it just makes me feel worse

You'll be fine, Steve.

Everyone goes through heartbreak at least some point in their lives, it's part of growing up and becoming an adult. Take it as a learning experience.

I've got a good solution: Slit your wrists, and then take pictures and post them on Myspace.

But in reality, I agree with BackFire.

Originally posted by Raven Guardia
I really really for your sake hope it all works