i have a problem (ladies and guys i need ur help)

ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

Been in that position, but the best thing is to play it out.

how did it end for u?

Originally posted by Eldon
ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

1. If she's falling in like (not love, love doesn't come until a long ways down the road) with you while only dating him a short time then they were never meant to be.
2. If she wants you and you want her, and he is cool with it, then test the waters by going on a couple dates before becoming exclusive. If he's still cool with it then go for it. However, if he seems uncomfortable then you may need to think of something else for sake of your best friend.
3. Why are you asking random strangers what to do? Do what you want actually, if that was a mistake you learn from it and go on with your life.

Originally posted by Eldon
ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

Nothing, wait for her to ask you, after they've broken up.

3. Why are you asking random strangers what to do? Do what you want actually, if that was a mistake you learn from it and go on with your life.

asking strangers is the only thing is sometimes the best thing to do if u ask ur friend they mite tell someone im just trying to get answers

Originally posted by Eldon
ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

Not to be rude, but first learn to spell. Perhaps that would lead to a possibly more credible story. But not to sound completely biased, thing to do would be to tell your friend of the conversation and talk to the girl about it. Maybe something along the lines of not meaning to be the reason she breaks up with him. Because if she is a "fleeting emotion" than come the next guy she "falls in love with" she will run after him and leave you.

Originally posted by Eldon
3. Why are you asking random strangers what to do? Do what you want actually, if that was a mistake you learn from it and go on with your life.

asking strangers is the only thing is sometimes the best thing to do if u ask ur friend they mite tell someone im just trying to get answers

If you ask a friend and they blab about it to everyone then why would they be your friend? There needs to be some semblance of trust. 😑 Ask them not to tell anyone, and if they do confront them and kick their ass if needed.

Originally posted by AOR
Not to be rude, but first learn to spell. Perhaps that would lead to a possibly more credible story. But not to sound completely biased, thing to do would be to tell your friend of the conversation and talk to the girl about it. Maybe something along the lines of not meaning to be the reason she breaks up with him. Because if she is a "fleeting emotion" than come the next guy she "falls in love with" she will run after him and leave you.

Exactly. ✅

theres only so much u can trust a person and im sory for not spelling very well

Ok heres what you do, well hopefully 😂:

You tell her how you fell, then she can tell your friend about this "somebody else" and it isn't working out... Tell your friend that she wants me, and seriously how COULD YOU SAY NO!?!?!? And I'm just tryin to live my life to the fullest and have fun so I'm goin along with it...

nvm ill figure it out tattoo was right

Originally posted by Eldon
theres only so much u can trust a person and im sory for not spelling very well

Meditate and breath. Allow the flow of the Universe to return you to the beat of your inner self. Trust in the oneness of the Universe...

Learn from your mistakes, and see if your friend is alright after awhile with her...

Originally posted by Eldon
3. Why are you asking random strangers what to do? Do what you want actually, if that was a mistake you learn from it and go on with your life.

asking strangers is the only thing is sometimes the best thing to do if u ask ur friend they mite tell someone im just trying to get answers

But to give advice, I would wait out the relationship and see what happens, don't go jumping into things most importantly. It may be like what someone else said, a fleeting emotion, and if that is the case, then i wouldn't bother. those kind of girls are some of the worst IMO, ones that just bounce around from boyfriend to boyfriend.

Originally posted by Eldon
how did it end for u?

Got the girl, and my friend and I are still cool, hope everythin works out for ya man.

Originally posted by Eldon
ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

Sounz like a recipe for a threesome! BAM! 😮‍💨

Originally posted by Eldon
ok my BEST friends girl friend have been only dateing for 1month maby 1 1/2 ok and i was friends with both for a while im starting to fall in love with my friends girl friend and she is starting to fall in love with me..i think she asked me a question that said if i broke up with bob(not real name) would u ask me out. i said yeah i told her i would like wait a month becasue i didt wana hurt my friends feelings but earlier that day my friend said i think shes goanan break up with me and if she dose she will probly date u..and iwas like really and he said yeah and he said he wouldt care if i did what should i do???

How do you start falling in love with someone? 😛

Either you do love or you do not 😇

ok well im glad it ended up good for u and well i think im goanna figure this out real soon thanks every one

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