long distance realtionship; i need your help
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Antoinette
I have felt so depressed lately. I keep thinking negative thoughts. I m 16 and right now its the summer time and its expose to be fun. my senior year is coming up and i m taking courses i really like and are easy.
My boyfriend lives 40 mins away and hes always working and hes 16 too. We text alot and talkk on the phone everyday. But when hes at work, i just get so stressed out and start thinking bad. like what if i get an f on my report card and my parents wont let me see him. My boyfriend corey, promised we he'd still be with me even if he couldnt see me for a year. He said dont worry. he hates seeing me worrying. hes the sweetest thing alive and i couldnt picture my life without him. I know how people are like your to young to be in love, but no i m not. Hes so major and i love him stronger everyday. I just get sick to my stomcatch thinking my life without him.. I know he loves me.
He told me about how he was going to date a girl in canada which of course is like 10 000 miles away from him, but somehow that brought joy to me. Because knowing if he can date a girl in canada without seeing her he wont have a problem with not seeing me that much. His mom is really nice and will take him down here sometimes as well as my mom.
but idk i just get so stressed out.. I m home alone in the mornings and my mom gets home at 12 in the afternoon.
idk why i m thinking this.
I know he loves me and i know he'll always be there. and i m taking easy courses next year. and even if i get an f on my report card my parents will only take away the computer not my hanging out privleges.
but i think happy knowingi have someone who loves me.
i only get to see corey maybe twice every other week.
but someone help me coup with my feelings.
make me feel likke i m not alone i nthis.
tell me everything is ok.
thank you
Vinny Valentine
No.
Say no.
Drug's **** you right the hell up, look at Mist.
Röland
Relax. Breathe. Don't worry so much about the situation.
If he says he loves you then believe him.
As far as your report card, just study and work hard on your school work and you won't have to think about it.
Darth Extecute
Your not having much of a long distance relationship, miss
I do..
And if my relationship is working, if the love is strong enough, yours surely can too..
Wild-Cherry
Awh hug
Well, Just to throw it out there, I have a wonderful relationship with a boy who live's about 40,000 miles away xP
In any case, I know its hard sometimes, but he seems like a really nice guy, and Im sure if both of you really want it the two of you will be fnie
I also know it gets very hard sometimes...Just keep little reminders of him to cheer you up.
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Darth Extecute
Your not having much of a long distance relationship, miss
I do..
And if my relationship is working, if the love is strong enough, yours surely can too.. Damn, you beat me disgust
Storm
Fire and I live more than 40 minutes away from each other, and we' re together for more than 4 years now.
Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Antoinette
this means alot, thank you
Vinny Valentine
Originally posted by Storm
Fire and I live more than 40 minutes away from each other, and we' re together for more than 4 years now.
Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.
sly
Yeah well you two are super hot with each other.
Did you hotness bonds ever release you from your state of being?
That's what I thought Sexy mhm
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Storm
Fire and I live more than 40 minutes away from each other, and we' re together for more than 4 years now.
Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam. Indeed. 40 minutes? thats nothing. take a damn bus and quit crying about it.
Darth Extecute
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
Damn, you beat me disgust
Is that a sign that my love is stronger?
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Darth Extecute
Is that a sign that my love is stronger?
No, it's a sign that I'm very ill and mentally slow
Darth Extecute
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
No, it's a sign that I'm very ill and mentally slow
And that my love is stronger?
Get well soon mhm
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Darth Extecute
And that my love is stronger?
Get well soon mhm No mhm
I'm trying
Tattoo
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
Awh hug
Well, Just to throw it out there, I have a wonderful relationship with a boy who live's about 40,000 miles away xP
In any case, I know its hard sometimes, but he seems like a really nice guy, and Im sure if both of you really want it the two of you will be fnie
I also know it gets very hard sometimes...Just keep little reminders of him to cheer you up.
*brings out his inner geek*
Thomas lives in outer space? detective Earth is only 24,901.55 miles all the way around, and he's less than half that distance from you. detective
*puts the geek away*
Röland
Originally posted by Tattoo
*brings out his inner geek*
Thomas lives in outer space? detective Earth is only 24,901.55 miles all the way around, and he's less than half that distance from you. detective
*puts the geek away*
Pwnt. jockey
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Tattoo
*brings out his inner geek*
Thomas lives in outer space? detective Earth is only 24,901.55 miles all the way around, and he's less than half that distance from you. detective
*puts the geek away* Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
No, it's a sign that I'm very ill and mentally slow
Darth Extecute
New York is about 6380 kilometers away from here.. You feel free to continue the math
Naz
I'm embarrased to be 16 now.
BobbyD
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Ditto. But at 16 years of age, I suppose it is-unless you have your own wheels.
Röland
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
Pwnt. jockey
Pfft. mhm
Originally posted by Naz
I'm embarrased to be 16 now.
Why so Nazzy? haermm
Tattoo
Originally posted by Darth Extecute
New York is about 6380 kilometers away from here.. You feel free to continue the math
3964.35 miles
Mr. Bacon
20,931,768 feet ermm
Röland
Originally posted by Naz
If that's a reflection of everyone else my age...can you understand why? haermm
Yeah. haermm
TheMercurial
Originally posted by Antoinette
I have felt so depressed lately. I keep thinking negative thoughts. I m 16 and right now its the summer time and its expose to be fun. my senior year is coming up and i m taking courses i really like and are easy.
My boyfriend lives 40 mins away and hes always working and hes 16 too. We text alot and talkk on the phone everyday. But when hes at work, i just get so stressed out and start thinking bad. like what if i get an f on my report card and my parents wont let me see him. My boyfriend corey, promised we he'd still be with me even if he couldnt see me for a year. He said dont worry. he hates seeing me worrying. hes the sweetest thing alive and i couldnt picture my life without him. I know how people are like your to young to be in love, but no i m not. Hes so major and i love him stronger everyday. I just get sick to my stomcatch thinking my life without him.. I know he loves me.
He told me about how he was going to date a girl in canada which of course is like 10 000 miles away from him, but somehow that brought joy to me. Because knowing if he can date a girl in canada without seeing her he wont have a problem with not seeing me that much. His mom is really nice and will take him down here sometimes as well as my mom.
but idk i just get so stressed out.. I m home alone in the mornings and my mom gets home at 12 in the afternoon.
idk why i m thinking this.
I know he loves me and i know he'll always be there. and i m taking easy courses next year. and even if i get an f on my report card my parents will only take away the computer not my hanging out privleges.
but i think happy knowingi have someone who loves me.
i only get to see corey maybe twice every other week.
but someone help me coup with my feelings.
make me feel likke i m not alone i nthis.
tell me everything is ok.
thank you
Not really long distance, my last relationship was with a girl on a different continent.
That was long distance.
Forty minutes is an inconvenience, thousands of miles is an obstacle.
You'll be fine. If the love is there, distance wouldn't make any difference anyway.
Tattoo
Originally posted by Naz
If that's a reflection of everyone else my age...can you understand why? haermm
16 year olds are stoopid. durlaugh
Naz
Originally posted by Tattoo
16 year olds are stoopid. durlaugh
Na hur...I r a smartie durlaugh
Tattoo
Originally posted by Naz
Na hur...I r a smartie durlaugh
Lyk da candie? durlaugh
Röland
Originally posted by Naz
Na hur...I r a smartie durlaugh
You ate 2 yr old candy. Enough said. durlaugh
Naz
Originally posted by Tattoo
Lyk da candie? durlaugh
Yeah, but betta durlaugh
Tattoo
Originally posted by Naz
Yeah, but betta durlaugh
Neting iz betta den thos chalkie tings! durlaugh
PONG_MASTER
HA.
40 minutes....
Darth Extecute
15 hours by flight faint
Mywi
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Shika
40 minutes? God please don't tell me you're complaining about 40 minutes!
Walk to his house
Ride a Bus
Stop spending money on all those girly products and buy a used car
Ride a bike
You could see him every single day if you really tried to.
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Darth Extecute
15 hours by flight faint in exchange for two weeks of ecstacy
Punkyhermy
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Röland
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
That's been quoted so many times I know it by heart. haermm
Mr. Bacon
well its true
Röland
Originally posted by Mr. Bacon
well its true
I know, but just making a joke out of it.
Barker
Ilovedanielorwhatevermynameisthesedays' boyfriend had to ride 6 hours on a bike to his girlfriend, now that's love. haermm
40 minutes? I'm not sure he's too serious about that relationship. haermm
Röland
Originally posted by Barker
Ilovedanielorwhatevermynameisthesedays' boyfriend had to ride 6 hours on a bike to his girlfriend, now that's love. haermm
40 minutes? I'm not sure he's too serious about that relationship. haermm
crylaugh
Sanctuary
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Mr. Bacon
Originally posted by Barker
Ilovedanielorwhatevermynameisthesedays' boyfriend had to ride 6 hours on a bike to his girlfriend, now that's love. haermm
40 minutes? I'm not sure he's too serious about that relationship. haermm
hysterical
so fitting
Röland
Originally posted by Punkyhermy
LMFAO!!!!
oh rolly and barker!
*muahs!*
hug
blush2
silver_tears
Your baby avvy is hitting on me. weep
Barker
Mine? Or the other baby avatar? 13
silver_tears
Originally posted by Barker
Mine? Or the other baby avatar? 13
There's another? shocking
Barker
The one the people in your avatar are going to make. 131wank
silver_tears
Originally posted by Barker
The one the people in your avatar are going to make. 131wank
You did not just imply that Joey and Dawson are going to make a baby!!
Did you not watch every single episode of Dawson's Creek while eating ice cream out of the tub and bitching about how fat you were just last week with me?!?!? mhm
Barker
Originally posted by silver_tears
You did not just imply that Joey and Dawson are going to make a baby!!
Did you not watch every single episode of Dawson's Creek while eating ice cream out of the tub and bitching about how fat you were just last week with me?!?!? mhm
I.. well... uh..
I was fat with you last week?
Or I was... with you last week? 131
silver_tears
Originally posted by Barker
I.. well... uh..
I was fat with you last week?
Or I was... with you last week? 131
Errr....both. haermm
Röland
Originally posted by silver_tears
You did not just imply that Joey and Dawson are going to make a baby!!
Did you not watch every single episode of Dawson's Creek while eating ice cream out of the tub and bitching about how fat you were just last week with me?!?!? mhm
NZjLGwX210Y
Barker
Originally posted by silver_tears
Errr....both. haermm
Peter Griffin likes fat secks. haermm
silver_tears
With his hand? haermm
Kram3r
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
Yeah, I was going to say the exact same thing.
chillmeistergen
Originally posted by Antoinette
i only get to see corey maybe twice every other week.
thank you
He's called Corey? Get rid of him.
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Mr. Bacon
20,931,768 feet ermm Bacon beat me to it.
Antoinette
HAHAHAHa well its good to not feel so alone now.
but idk its just been my depressiion right now. its ****king summer i should be happy.
i have everything going for me. and idk i just keep thinking about bad things that just havent even happened and that might now even happen..
so but today is a good day.
we text everyday and talk on the phone everyday.
but it sucks when hes at work and i cant talk to him.
but i can make it.
thanks
Rogue Jedi
welcome to the world of relationships. mind the step.
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Antoinette
HAHAHAHa well its good to not feel so alone now.
but idk its just been my depressiion right now. its ****king summer i should be happy.
i have everything going for me. and idk i just keep thinking about bad things that just havent even happened and that might now even happen..
so but today is a good day.
we text everyday and talk on the phone everyday.
but it sucks when hes at work and i cant talk to him.
but i can make it.
thanks
My boyfriend is comming to see me in 20 days
He loves me
Thorrin
Originally posted by Kram3r
Yeah, I was going to say the exact same thing. But you didn't. ermmhappy
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Thorrin
But you didn't. ermmhappy he is an aussie, they are a bit slow.
Thorrin
And they're criminals.
Rogue Jedi
and they shag kangaroos.
Darth Extecute
Originally posted by Wild-Cherry
My boyfriend is comming to see me in 20 days
He loves me
You bet I do
Rogue Jedi
you guys are a cute couple.
Bardock42
Originally posted by Antoinette
I have felt so depressed lately. I keep thinking negative thoughts. I m 16 and right now its the summer time and its expose to be fun. my senior year is coming up and i m taking courses i really like and are easy.
My boyfriend lives 40 mins away and hes always working and hes 16 too. We text alot and talkk on the phone everyday. But when hes at work, i just get so stressed out and start thinking bad. like what if i get an f on my report card and my parents wont let me see him. My boyfriend corey, promised we he'd still be with me even if he couldnt see me for a year. He said dont worry. he hates seeing me worrying. hes the sweetest thing alive and i couldnt picture my life without him. I know how people are like your to young to be in love, but no i m not. Hes so major and i love him stronger everyday. I just get sick to my stomcatch thinking my life without him.. I know he loves me.
He told me about how he was going to date a girl in canada which of course is like 10 000 miles away from him, but somehow that brought joy to me. Because knowing if he can date a girl in canada without seeing her he wont have a problem with not seeing me that much. His mom is really nice and will take him down here sometimes as well as my mom.
but idk i just get so stressed out.. I m home alone in the mornings and my mom gets home at 12 in the afternoon.
idk why i m thinking this.
I know he loves me and i know he'll always be there. and i m taking easy courses next year. and even if i get an f on my report card my parents will only take away the computer not my hanging out privleges.
but i think happy knowingi have someone who loves me.
i only get to see corey maybe twice every other week.
but someone help me coup with my feelings.
make me feel likke i m not alone i nthis.
tell me everything is ok.
thank you Forget it. Long distance relationships are not worth it.
Wild-Cherry
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
you guys are a cute couple. Thank you
Thorrin
Originally posted by Bardock42
Forget it. Long distance relationships are not worth it. Says the guy in a long distance relationship.
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Thorrin
Says the guy in a long distance relationship. well, if one of the two parties is willing to move to be with the other in the near future, then it has a chance.
Shelbert Lemon
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
well, if one of the two parties is willing to move to be with the other in the near future, then it has a chance. and you beat me to that one
DigiMark007
Originally posted by Lana
Yeah, I can't quite get over someone calling 40 minutes 'long distance'.
My last girlfriend lived in Boston. I'm in Ohio.
...but I guess it's different at 16.
Anyway, distance things don't work. He'll eventually find someone new...or you will...and the distance will make things tense as f*ck regardless. 40 minutes is easy enough to work around and see each other regularly. But if that doesn't work, just hang an "Available" sign around your neck and you'll be set by next week. Statistically speaking, the chance of a relationship lasting any length of time at that age anyway is pretty slim. Morbid, i realize, and impossible to fully accept when you're in the relationship...but true much more often than not.
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
and you beat me to that one
like a red headed stepchild.
Röland
Originally posted by DigiMark007
My last girlfriend lived in Boston. I'm in Ohio.
I'm in Ohio too.
Yeah.....
Freakin' sweet.
http://www.geocities.com/r_w_psp/peter_griffin_sitting.jpg
Rogue Jedi
with acne and freckles.
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
crylaugh
131
Thorrin
I had a long distnce relationship once, but it couldn't work because I refused to walk the five blocks to her house. 13
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
I had a long distnce relationship once, but it couldn't work because I refused to walk the five blocks to her house. 13
crylaugh
Did you keep her around for the weekends? 31
C. C. Cowgirl
There is not a chance in the world any long distance relationship in the world will ever work mhm
Lana
Originally posted by DigiMark007
My last girlfriend lived in Boston. I'm in Ohio.
...but I guess it's different at 16.
Anyway, distance things don't work. He'll eventually find someone new...or you will...and the distance will make things tense as f*ck regardless. 40 minutes is easy enough to work around and see each other regularly. But if that doesn't work, just hang an "Available" sign around your neck and you'll be set by next week. Statistically speaking, the chance of a relationship lasting any length of time at that age anyway is pretty slim. Morbid, i realize, and impossible to fully accept when you're in the relationship...but true much more often than not.
Ush and I live on opposite sides of the ocean.
*shrugs*
Things could work out well and as you want them to, but simply going "I hope this goes the way I want" isn't going to make it happen. And you also have to recognize the fact that as much as you want to say that the distance isn't going to be an issue, it IS. And it'll be a HUGE one.
Röland
Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
There is not a chance in the world any long distance relationship in the world will ever work mhm
Not true, but I still wouldn't put much hope into having a successful one.
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Thorrin
I had a long distnce relationship once, but it couldn't work because I refused to walk the five blocks to her house. 13 you too, eh? funny how they get mad at shit like that. she lived on westheimer, me on post oak.
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
Yeah. For emergency use only though. 13
Because she's a bit rough.
Rough? Send her my way. 31
Shelbert Lemon
Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
There is not a chance in the world any long distance relationship in the world will ever work mhm They can work. It takes a lot of commitment and communication though. Ive been in 2. The first one lasted around a year and obviously wasnt meant to work out long term. The 2nd one that Im in now has worked out.
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
Will do, but if she breaks anything "sensitive", not my problem. 13
No worries, I'm made of liquid metal. 31
Thorrin
T1000? herbtouched
Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Thorrin
Yeah. For emergency use only though. 13
Because she's a bit rough. Westheimer. *** central. haermm wanna go gay bashing tonight?
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
herbnowai Nah. 13
I tried. thorinnsrug
haermm
Thorrin
Not hard enough? haermm
Röland
I see what you did there. haermm
Thorrin
*pulls out Kram3r buttsecks picture*
Rogue Jedi
mmmm.....the lycan
Röland
Originally posted by Thorrin
*pulls out Kram3r buttsecks picture*
Should have posted the one with the dick drawn on his face with your name in it. haermm
Antoinette
people can disagree of agree all they want.
I know i m young and some people may be saying your too young to love.
screw them.
your never to young to experience anything in life.
I know I love corey and i know he loves me.
If we are this strong now, we will be even more stronger in months and years to come.
We will make it through, no matter what anyone says.
Hense, them being 30 or 10 it doesnt matter.
I believe in what i believe in and that is, I love him and he loves me and we will make this through alright.
The distance is a bit rough since i dont have car but he does which makes it easier but with his work, hes busy.
but he promised me we will be alright.
and dont say" hahahha o hes so young, boys always make promises"
well you obviously have never been in love.
Love is hard and difficult but its worth the ride.
So i guess i ll just enjoy the ride, the speed bumps, the ups and downs, and than finally the relaxing part of it.
so seriously dont rain on my parade.
I know that i will marry my boyfriend
no now or anytime soon but when we're much older.
so learn a little.
BeautiflDisastr
Originally posted by Antoinette
I have felt so depressed lately. I keep thinking negative thoughts. I m 16 and right now its the summer time and its expose to be fun. my senior year is coming up and i m taking courses i really like and are easy.
My boyfriend lives 40 mins away and hes always working and hes 16 too. We text alot and talkk on the phone everyday. But when hes at work, i just get so stressed out and start thinking bad. like what if i get an f on my report card and my parents wont let me see him. My boyfriend corey, promised we he'd still be with me even if he couldnt see me for a year. He said dont worry. he hates seeing me worrying. hes the sweetest thing alive and i couldnt picture my life without him. I know how people are like your to young to be in love, but no i m not. Hes so major and i love him stronger everyday. I just get sick to my stomcatch thinking my life without him.. I know he loves me.
He told me about how he was going to date a girl in canada which of course is like 10 000 miles away from him, but somehow that brought joy to me. Because knowing if he can date a girl in canada without seeing her he wont have a problem with not seeing me that much. His mom is really nice and will take him down here sometimes as well as my mom.
but idk i just get so stressed out.. I m home alone in the mornings and my mom gets home at 12 in the afternoon.
idk why i m thinking this.
I know he loves me and i know he'll always be there. and i m taking easy courses next year. and even if i get an f on my report card my parents will only take away the computer not my hanging out privleges.
but i think happy knowingi have someone who loves me.
i only get to see corey maybe twice every other week.
but someone help me coup with my feelings.
make me feel likke i m not alone i nthis.
tell me everything is ok.
thank you
....wow...that's pathetic. My (now ex) boyfriend moved to Australia for 2 years (I live in USA)
Don't complain about 40 minutes. It makes you look like a cry baby
Faith27
Long distance relationship is really hard...don't worry girl,your not alone...I think both of you should have trust to each other. and if he's busy with other things he does like studying or work..don't get too jealous..but its ok to get jealous (sometimes) for him to feel that his important to your life.
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