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Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped?

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped?

Do I have the option of being the rapist in scenario B?

Pretty dumb question if you ask me

*Rapes Whirly for the tears*

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Pretty dumb question if you ask me

Mine or his?

Originally posted by smoker4
*Rapes Whirly for the tears*

What are you talking about? All you seem to do is talk about gypsies and whirlies crying. Are you talking in code?

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Pretty dumb question if you ask me

Why don't you try and answer it then, what would your preference be?
Would you rather be the victim or would you rather someone else was?

if my girlfriend cheated i would prefer it if whirly was raped in her place and anally injected with fresh hot aids.

Well I wouldn't want to dictate the truth of the situation.
So I guess if I'd rather my girlfriend was cheated on me than was raped. because though it'd hurt, at least she wouldn't be hurt.

Its not sommuch I'd rather be the victim. It's that I don't want other people to hurt.

Originally posted by Schecter
if my girlfriend cheated i would prefer it if whirly was raped in her place and anally injected with fresh hot aids.

That's because you're at home alone obsessing about whatever or whoever this whirly thing is. Right? Of course it is, still on invisible mode? Working late? Didn't think so.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
That's because you're at home alone obsessing about whatever or whoever this whirly thing is. Right? Of course it is, still on invisible mode? Working late? Didn't think so.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped?

They are both equal in my mind. I wouldn't be able to handle my wife getting raped, nor my wife cheating on me.

I told my wife that if she ever cheated on me, I would beat the shit out of her.(I am dead serious.) If my wife gets raped, I will hunt that person down and slowly torcher them to death. (Again, dead serious and pun intended.)(No matter what anyone says, I would track them down.)

Originally posted by Schecter


I can see you love me. It's sweet.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
That's because you're at home alone obsessing about whatever or whoever this whirly thing is. Right? Of course it is, still on invisible mode? Working late? Didn't think so.

He must work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week because that guy is here every time I get on (and this summer I've been on a lot).

Originally posted by dadudemon
They are both equal in my mind. I wouldn't be able to handle my wife getting raped, nor my wife cheating on me.

I told my wife that if she ever cheated on me, I would be the shit out of her.(I am dead serious.) If my wife gets raped, I will hunt that person down and slowly torcher them to death. (Again, dead serious and pun intended.)(No matter what anyone says, I would track them down.)

You'll set fire to them? Isn't that a bit much?

Raped.

I'd still break up with her though.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
He must work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week because that guy is here every time I get on (and this summer I've been on a lot).

Yes he is, he seems to be on all the time. I think that's why he uses invisible mode, poor guy.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
He must work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week because that guy is here every time I get on (and this summer I've been on a lot).



how about all three of us get together and take turns playing the circus seal?

Originally posted by Bardock42
Raped.

I'd still break up with her though.

Amen... rape victims are way too f*ked in the head.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Raped.

I'd still break up with her though.

I think you're joking.

Originally posted by Schecter


how about all three of us get together and take turns playing the circus seal?

Or not.

homophobe

Originally posted by Schecter


how about all three of us get together and take turns playing the circus seal?

WOW, does your wit have any fathomable limits?

Originally posted by Schecter
homophobe

Not a phobe exactly, more never been curious.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Well I wouldn't want to dictate the truth of the situation.
So I guess if I'd rather my girlfriend was cheated on me than was raped. because though it'd hurt, at least she wouldn't be hurt.

Its not sommuch I'd rather be the victim. It's that I don't want other people to hurt.

Dude, you are a really nice guy. Man, I can't believe how nice you are.

Yeah, come to think of it, your way sounds the best. I would rather my wife cheat on me because I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to her. Shame on me for thinking other wise.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
I think you're joking. Did you see me laugh.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Not a phobe exactly, more bi-curious.

stop altering your posts. thats lame.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Did you see me laugh.

I have Sattelites everywhere.

Originally posted by Schecter
stop altering your posts. thats lame.

Maybe he cant see the keyboard because of the tears?

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
I have Sattelites everywhere.

quick edit your post. if you do yours fast enough, I will edit mine too. Satellite is how you spell it.


EDIT-k, it doesn't look like he will edit it fast enough. I like it when people clean up their posts. It actually pisses me off when there are so many screwups in a post...to me, it is better if you edit the post then looking like a dumbass...but that is just my opinion.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Raped.

I'd still break up with her though.

Winner.

Originally posted by smoker4
Maybe he cant see the keyboard because of the tears?

OOOOO FUNNNY.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
OOOOO FUNNNY.

Pet pet little side kick!

Originally posted by dadudemon
quick edit your post. if you do yours fast enough, I will edit mine too. Satellite is how you spell it.

Good for you Chuck

Originally posted by smoker4
Maybe he cant see the keyboard because of the tears?

Just explain these tears and where they come form? It's like if I said you are unable to stand because your incontinent pants were full.

Perhaps that's what you mean?

http://redwing.hutman.net/~mreed/Assets/bigdog.jpg

Originally posted by dadudemon
Dude, you are a really nice guy. Man, I can't believe how nice you are.

Yeah, come to think of it, your way sounds the best. I would rather my wife cheat on me because I wouldn't want anything bad to happen to her. Shame on me for thinking other wise. I know at the time I'd be hurt, but whats a little heartbreak as compared to the emotional damage that would be done to the person you're supposed to love?

I don't presently have a GF, but I know I could live through being cheated on. As I have before.

Originally posted by smoker4
Pet pet little side kick!

And you'd know all about that right?

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped?

That's one horribly stupid question.. Who in the world would want their girlfriend to be raped? Edge of maximum stupidity..

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Good for you Chuck



Just explain these tears and where they come form? It's like if I said you are unable to stand because your incontinent pants were full.

Perhaps that's what you mean?

again, lets wait for the edit.....

nope dont mean that at all.

Originally posted by Darth Extecute
That's one horribly stupid question.. Who in the world would want their girlfriend to be raped? Edge of maximum stupidity.. Because all people want their girlfriends to cheat on them.

Originally posted by Schecter
http://redwing.hutman.net/~mreed/Assets/bigdog.jpg

I'm assuming you're saying you are in the stripey top and Smoker 4 is on your shoulder? Is he your sock?

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
I'm assuming you're saying you are in the stripey top and Smoker 4 is on your shoulder? Is he your sock? Ha. That's funny.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Because all people want their girlfriends to cheat on them.

Very good

Originally posted by smoker4
Pet pet little side kick!

You take cum-shots in the face from Schecter all day and I'm a "sidekick". Umkay you're awesome.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Ha. That's funny.

I know.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
Take take cum-shots in the face from Schecter all day and I'm a "sidekick". Umkay you're awesome.

It's also funny because it's true, anyway goodnight, it's been fun for all I think.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
And you'd know all about that right?

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
I'm assuming you're saying you are in the stripey top and Smoker 4 is on your shoulder? Is he your sock?

ZOMG he's using that reverse psychology!

Originally posted by smoker4
ZOMG he's using that reverse psychology!

....oh I see, THAT is what you call it...

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
You take cum-shots in the face from Schecter all day and I'm a "sidekick". Umkay you're awesome. Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
....oh I see, THAT is what you call it...

there there, you can be my little sugar b1tch!

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
You take cum-shots in the face from Schecter all day and I'm a "sidekick". Umkay you're awesome.

are you implying that my cock stretches across the atlantic or that i shoot my load like superman?

either way: yes

I am choosing 'Cheat'

Originally posted by dadudemon
They are both equal in my mind. I wouldn't be able to handle my wife getting raped, nor my wife cheating on me.

I told my wife that if she ever cheated on me, I would beat the shit out of her.(I am dead serious.) If my wife gets raped, I will hunt that person down and slowly torcher them to death. (Again, dead serious and pun intended.)(No matter what anyone says, I would track them down.)

Oooppps! She's overdue for a beating then... my bad.

Edit: "Our bad", it takes two to tango. If you like, I'll hold her down while you dispense your justice.

Originally posted by dadudemon
They are both equal in my mind. I wouldn't be able to handle my wife getting raped, nor my wife cheating on me.

I told my wife that if she ever cheated on me, I would beat the shit out of her.(I am dead serious.) If my wife gets raped, I will hunt that person down and slowly torcher them to death. (Again, dead serious and pun intended.)(No matter what anyone says, I would track them down.)

I would leave you

Originally posted by dadudemon
torcher them to death

Is that a new word for fire torture?

Originally posted by Robtard
(more) Failed sarcasm for the win!


Oh look, another champion of KMC .

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
Oh look, another champion of KMC .

Oh look, more of the same schtick.

Originally posted by 2D_MASTER
Oh look, another champion of KMC . You know for not defending your ego you sure defend your ego alot.

Originally posted by Creshosk
You know for not defending your ego you sure defend your ego alot.

Prepare yourself for his line of uncaring sarcasm.

Why do you guys just try to outwit each other. I mean, it is funny for me to watch...but is there any other reason...cause, you know, I can get my laughs from somewhere else, you don't have to do it for me.

I'd prefer it if she cheated. Rape is a horrible, horrible ordeal, I imagine. I'd either dump her and get on with my life or forgive her and forget about what she did (sorta).

Originally posted by Bardock42
Why do you guys just try to outwit each other. I mean, it is funny for me to watch...but is there any other reason...cause, you know, I can get my laughs from somewhere else, you don't have to do it for me.

You'd prefer we'd have a manly scat-orgy, I know; It won't happen though, sorry.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped?
This is actually an interesting moral dilemma.

On the one hand, one sacrifices one's own wellbeing in order that one's partner might be spared; the relationship is, presumably, lost. On the other hand, one spares one's feelings so that one's partner might suffer; the relationship is, presumably, not lost.

Then again, how much would one suffer if one's partner were raped? It would depend on the emotional attachment, I suppose.

I can tell you what the right response is, but I can't tell you which is less devastating to oneself.

Originally posted by Robtard
You'd prefer we'd have a manly scat-orgy, I know; It won't happen though, sorry.

See, now you are attacking me

Originally posted by Bardock42
Why do you guys just try to outwit each other. I mean, it is funny for me to watch...but is there any other reason...cause, you know, I can get my laughs from somewhere else, you don't have to do it for me.

stop being camp and use more concentration

Originally posted by Robtard
You'd prefer we'd have a manly scat-orgy, I know; It won't happen though, sorry.

The mention of scat took 4 minutes this time, unacceptable.

Originally posted by Robtard
Prepare yourself for his line of uncaring sarcasm. I'm just hope its better than his last attack on me.

Sanctuary says:
If you were raped what would you do? hmm
Bardock42 says:
Get over it
Sanctuary says:
Then I would rather you were raped than cheated on me

Originally posted by Bardock42
See, now you are attacking me

...and the only reason you're upset is because it isn't anally with a large blunt object.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Sanctuary says:
If you were raped what would you do? hmm
Bardock42 says:
Get over it
Sanctuary says:
Then I would rather you were raped than cheated on me For some reason after the question a different conversation played out in my mind. But not knowing what all's going on its probably for the best.

Originally posted by Creshosk
For some reason after the question a different conversation played out in my mind. But not knowing what all's going on its probably for the best.

Yeah, we are cybering now.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, we are cybering now. Awesome... I think? I have no idea who Sanctuary is.

Originally posted by Bardock42
Sanctuary says:
If you were raped what would you do? hmm
Bardock42 says:
Get over it
Sanctuary says:
Then I would rather you were raped than cheated on me
Pedobear says:

droolio

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, we are cybering now.

Going to try for cyber-anal this time?

Originally posted by Robtard
Going to try for cyber-anal this time?

Yeah, I love that e-ass-sex

Originally posted by Bardock42
Yeah, I love that e-ass-sex

What kind of cyber-lube do you use?

Originally posted by Robtard
What kind of cyber-lube do you use?

L...lu...what?

Originally posted by Robtard
What kind of cyber-lube do you use?

I always imagined him as more of a spit-rub type of guy!

Originally posted by smoker4
I always imagined him as more of a spit-rub type of guy!

"Brokeback Mountain" style, I can see that in him.

Originally posted by Robtard
"Brokeback Mountain" style, I can see that in him.

Lolz, they use the tried and tested method in that? i'll have to check it out!

Originally posted by smoker4
Lolz, they use the tried and tested method in that? i'll have to check it out!

Yea, Ennis (Heath Ledger) spits into his hand and skewers Jack (Jake Gyllenhaal), who's the gayer one of the two...

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I would leave you

I am a really nice guy and you can be the biggest f-ed up mess on the planet and I would still treat you like my queen, but if you betray my trust, it really pisses me off. Anway, did you read my second post about that? I told Creshok that he was right and that his way is the best way.

Besides, not very many women would be able to put up with me anyway...that is why my wife is the one for me. (I am crazy by most people's standards...no joke.)

Originally posted by Robtard
Yea, Ennis (Heath Ledger) spits into his hand and skewers Jack (Jake Gyllenhaal), who's the gayer one of the two...


heehee

Originally posted by Bardock42
Is that a new word for fire torture?

LOL!!!!

I get it now.

I misspelled torture.

P.S. I almost just misspelled "misspelled". (My boss said it's a common mistake.)

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped? B, then I would only have to kill one person.

Neither.I never dated anyone who went around sleeping with other girls.For one thing I like dating someone who is a virgin and does not do that sort of thing.
If they do then it is possible that they will cheat on you!jm

Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
Neither.I never dated anyone who went around sleeping with other girls.For one thing I like dating someone who is a virgin and does not do that sort of thing.
If they do then it is possible that they will cheat on you!jm

Why do you continually do that?

"Neither" isn't an option in the hypothetical scenario he proposed.

Originally posted by ADarksideJedi
If they do then it is possible that they will cheat on you!jm Smart girl.

C-can't it be both?

Seriously, what would any of you do if you walked in on your BF/GF having sex with someone else?

Originally posted by Violent2Dope
Seriously, what would any of you do if you walked in on your BF/GF having sex with someone else? Been there, done that. I'd flip out at first but eventually calm down and remain friends with her but the relationship would end.

It was my best friend. They got married. I'm very happy for them.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Been there, done that. I'd flip out at first but eventually calm down and remain friends with her but the relationship would end.

It was my best friend. They got married. I'm very happy for them.
Nice friend you have there.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Been there, done that. I'd flip out at first but eventually calm down and remain friends with her but the relationship would end.

It was my best friend. They got married. I'm very happy for them.

Up until "It was my best friend.", I could understand, because that's what I'd do.

But yeah, that's an awesome friend.

What is the expression--"With friends like that, who needs enemies"?

It's ironic he is happy for them.

Originally posted by FeceMan
More like, it shows his complete lack of spine.

That too.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Been there, done that. I'd flip out at first but eventually calm down and remain friends with her but the relationship would end.

It was my best friend. They got married. I'm very happy for them.

Pussy.

I don't know how anyone could be friends with someone who betrayed one in such a manner.

It shows a complete lack of respect on their part for Creshosk's feelings, and, with his submission, they know they can walk all over him.

Good times, good times.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Been there, done that. I'd flip out at first but eventually calm down and remain friends with her but the relationship would end.

It was my best friend. They got married. I'm very happy for them.

Tell me, how did I taste?

So what was I supposed to do break down and cry like a little *****? Get pissed and do something to ruin my life, or get the **** over it and not let it effect me because its only one part of my life?

If you can't be friends with your significant other then you shouldn't be in the dating game. They're happy and I cared about their feelings then even though it hurt.

If you can't be treasure your significant other's happiness above all else then you're not really in love with them.

Some of us know how to think with our heads and not our dicks.

Originally posted by cyber tuff guy!
Would you rather A they cheated on you
or B they were raped? I would prefer that they have sex with my alter ego.

Originally posted by Creshosk
So what was I supposed to do break down and cry like a little *****? Get pissed and do something to ruin my life, or get the **** over it and not let it effect me because its only one part of my life?

If you can't be friends with your significant other then you shouldn't be in the dating game. They're happy and I cared about their feelings then even though it hurt.

If you can't be treasure your significant other's happiness above all else then you're not really in love with them.

Some of us know how to think with our heads and not our dicks.

How are we thinking with our dicks?

Your best friend ****ed your girlfriend, someone who should never do some shit like that, he betrays you and steals your girlfriend all at the same time. Your best friend is supposed to be there for you, not **** you over. I would get over it, but those two would be out of my life.

Oh and the moment they cheat on you, you should never refer to them as your significant other.

yeah, when someone pretends to be your friend, then the whole time they are scheming to steal her/him away, or at least taking advantage of their vulnerability, it sucks.

they should be castrated with rusty piano wire.

Originally posted by Creshosk
Or whatever body part would cause you to think of violence and not the consequences of that violence.

Yeah it hurt, and it took me a year to be able to talk to them again. and I still don't talk to them as much as I used to. but I'm glad that I did. Because I've still benefited from remaining in contact with them.

No obviously not. at that point she wasn't. But I still cared about her feelings and her well being.

Way I see it he also did me a favor and took her off my hands. I was thinking of marrying her at that point. better the betrayal then than later.

I never said I'd do violence. lol

Man I could never forgive a betrayal like that. I've remained friends with one of my ex's but if my best friend had done that I would cease all contact with both of them.

I guess I see your point there, but still...... sounds like he was thinking about himself then about his friend.

Originally posted by Creshosk
By the reverse of the same token, I was his best friend. Would I have been much better if I had only thought of myself?

Yeah it hurt like hell, but what's harder? To be able to face them again, to forgive and move on? Or to run and hide, cut them out of your life and pretend they don't exist?

But this friend of yours totally stabbed you in the back and hurt you in the worst way imaginable. You should have had every right to think about yourself. You were the one who was hurt.

That shouldn't come up in your mind when that happens, he knew what he was doing. He knew that if and when you found out it would hurt like hell, yet he went along and did it. You have been a good guy to forgive him but what does that say about your friend?

If your GF has a hot lesbian friend and they do oral on eac other, is that cheating or is it hot?

Originally posted by Creshosk
Indeed I was. and I decided to be the bigger man... after a year...

Not very nice things. But meh, I got over it. It took a year, but I didn't let it stop me.

I guess looking at it, I could forgive them, but my trust factor would be shot down.

Well that's awesome you could do that man, I would have to take a long time to decide if I wanted to do that.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
If your GF has a hot lesbian friend and they do oral on eac other, is that cheating or is it hot?

Depends.

Did you masturbate to it?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
never happened to me, but....you walk in, they are going at it. what do you do?

I'd be like "The hell?"

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
never happened to me, but....you walk in, they are going at it. what do you do? If they're keeping it secret from you its cheating. If they tell you about it and invite you to watch or at least ask permission...

what if they were cheating, and you walk in, and the third girl is Carmen Electra?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
what if they were cheating, and you walk in, and the third girl is Carmen Electra? Third girl?

third person, sorry. you walk in on your girl and Carmen doing 69, and they beckon to you, "come on, big boy."

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
third person, sorry. you walk in on your girl and Carmen doing 69, and they beckon to you, "come on, big boy." Well if they invite you it cancels out the it being secret now doesn't it?

yes sir it does.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I am a really nice guy and you can be the biggest f-ed up mess on the planet and I would still treat you like my queen, but if you betray my trust, it really pisses me off. Anway, did you read my second post about that? I told Creshok that he was right and that his way is the best way.

Besides, not very many women would be able to put up with me anyway...that is why my wife is the one for me. (I am crazy by most people's standards...no joke.)

Beating someone up is never nice ermm

If you get cheated on it is for a reason

If your partner get raped it is just terrible mhm

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
Beating someone up is never nice ermm Agreed

yes, they are a ****

If you get cheated on there is a reason

If you get cheated on then the other person probably have something you do not Either sexually or something with their personality

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
If you get cheated on there is a reason

If you get cheated on then the other person probably have something you do not Either sexually or something with their personality Justifying infidelity makes me not like you for some reason.

A real shame I know. But what would you do if someone cheated on you?

Dump them without any second thought and probably hate them for the rest of my life

That of course depends on who he/she cheated me with, how often, why and when

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
If you get cheated on there is a reason

If you get cheated on then the other person probably have something you do not Either sexually or something with their personality CRAPOLA....UTTER CRAPOLA.....if your partner cheats on you, all it shows is that they have no sense of loyalty whatsoever. they should break it off with you if they desire someone else.

I do NOT defend those who cheat and I sure as water do not hope it seems that way oh

I am just saying that rape is a way worse thing to deal with than cheating ermm

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I do NOT defend those who cheat and I sure as water do not hope it seems that way oh

I am just saying that rape is a way worse thing to deal with than cheating ermm That's exactly the way it seems:

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
If you get cheated on there is a reason

If you get cheated on then the other person probably have something you do not Either sexually or something with their personality

They have reasons for cheating on you: You're lacking in some department so obviously that makes it okay.


Sure as water? Well that's an interesting thing to say... where does that saying come from?

I made the saying up Usualy it goes 'Sure as hell' but I believe not in Hell I believe in water though

I am not defending one that cheats but I preferably have my girl/boy cheat on me than get raped. By cheating it is by their own choice as well as the choice of the partner If it involve raping it may be a scar for life oh

Some wounds never heal.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I made the saying up Usualy it goes 'Sure as hell' but I believe not in Hell I believe in water though It's pretty clever actually.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I am not defending one that cheats but I preferably have my girl/boy cheat on me than get raped. By cheating it is by their own choice as well as the choice of the partner If it involve raping it may be a scar for life oh

Some wounds never heal. Yeah, I feel the same way. If I get cheated on only I get hurt. If they get raped, well that hurts all their friends and family including me. So I'd much rather other people not get hurt.

Being cheated at can be healed with ease

Raped can scar you for life as I mentioned ermm

I am glad we got an understanding Because I do not think cheating is right mhm

if someone cheats on you, its not a question of if they will do it again, but WHEN they will do it again.

Cheating is cheating and I would dump them right away

My point of when and such was how hard of a punishment they would get from me in the way I act against the person in the future

"lets be friends"....sure.

That depends on who and how often If it was for a weekly basis for many months then there is not a chance of friendship there mhm But I would probably be able to tell after not a very long time

I am a smart person and I have read on human psychology and human behaviour

what am I thinking now?

I have not read internet psychology I kind of need facial and body language and sometimes other things to relate too Voice, Eyes, number of actions a minute and you know all those stuff

Besides I probably could not tell anyway. I am no mindreader

then the force is non existent in you.

I am pretty weak in the force, yes

no worries, just eat your wheaties and all will be well.

Oh I do

I drink my milk and always empty my plate too Mom told me I would grow up to a successful woman if I did

What if she cheated on you, and then was raped?

It would still be a horrible thing! First of all I would not ever date a complete idiot or a criminal and therefore he would not deserve the raping in the first place, not even after cheating mhm

Cheating first would not change my view of how bad rape is

Originally posted by Creshosk
So what was I supposed to do break down and cry like a little *****? Get pissed and do something to ruin my life, or get the **** over it and not let it effect me because its only one part of my life?

If you can't be friends with your significant other then you shouldn't be in the dating game. They're happy and I cared about their feelings then even though it hurt.

If you can't be treasure your significant other's happiness above all else then you're not really in love with them.

Some of us know how to think with our heads and not our dicks.

You're right, you shouldn't have cried like a b!tch or attacked them, that isn't the issue. You did the right thing by walking away.

The question is, how can you be friends with them (if that is the case), especially your "best friend" after he back stabbed you? The girl doesn't really matter, girls will come and go in your life; **** her... but a best friend ****ing you over like that?

What I'd do; I know it isn't the right or moral thing either... I'd lay in wait, bidding my time, when I sensed their marriage was going through a rough stretch (which it will at times), I'd wine, dine and charm her into ****ing me; I'd also secretly film it and then mail it to their house when they're back into a good run of the marriage. Basically return your "best friends" friendship and kindness back to him.

A mature person could be friends or at least cordially. Some things are meant to be, others are not. Why hold on to hate, when there could be someone better out there for you. I know I would have a hard time with it, but as time went on, I'd okay seeing the bigger picture.

Originally posted by debbiejo
A mature person could be friends or at least cordially. Some things are meant to be, others are not. Why hold on to hate, when there could be someone better out there for you. I know I would have a hard time with it, but as time went on, I'd okay seeing the bigger picture. well lets say you and your partner split. lets say you guys decide to be friends. when he/she leaves to go home, isn't it going to break your heart all over again? knowing they are going to go home and be intimate with her/him?