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...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.

So any females willing to answer my question?

Well, some girls are stuck up. They're just naturally.....bitches.

I really didn't want to think that. But come on. This makes it really difficult for a nigga who's just trying to have fun.

Some women don't want to dance with strange men they don't know.

They may not like you.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I really didn't want to think that. But come on. This makes it really difficult for a nigga who's just trying to have fun.

Well, some girls honestly think, "Oh, I'm too good for any of these people, blah blah blah, my vagina smells like pine blah"

So, you can't help it. If you're trying to have fun, hey, go rub it in their face that you can have fun without them!

Then why bother going to a party or nightclub? You know guys will be there...Ya know, I it is their right. But I mean, come on. When I go to a party, I have my heart set on dancing with several different ladies. It's not like I'll be groping them or like they'll catch an STD or anything.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
Then why bother going to a party or nightclub? You know guys will be there...Ya know, I it is their right. But I mean, come on. When I go to a party, I have my heart set on dancing with several different ladies. It's not like I'll be groping them or like they'll catch an STD or anything. so... your a dance whore...

What is the question?

Originally posted by LethalFemme
They may not like you.

It's not about liking me or not. Chances are I won't even know many of them. I mean, I can take no for an answer. I like to dance with lots of girls whether they're fat, skinny, pretty or ugly. It's just dancing. Everyone just wants to have fun.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
It's not about liking me or not. Chances are I won't even know many of them. I mean, I can take no for an answer. I like to dance with lots of girls whether they're fat, skinny, pretty or ugly. It's just dancing. Everyone just wants to have fun.

Damn right! I love to dance. I'd dance with you, and I don't even know ya.

seriously...I don't know what the problem is. I'm dork and I am not afraid to admit that and I rarely got turned down...you sound like a smooth brotha so your chances would be better than mine...maybe it is the club you are going to...try a different one.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
What is the question?

You're the only person that didn't recognize the question. I'm asking why some girls are so standoffish in a party setting. That shit is cool for day to day life, but at some point, you gotta cut loose. That's just my humble opinion.

Originally posted by dadudemon
seriously...I don't know what the problem is. I'm dork and I am not afraid to admit that and I rarely got turned down...you sound like a smooth brotha so your chances would be better than mine...maybe it is the club you are going to...try a different one.

I'm not smooth. It's not about being smooth; it's about having fun, man. No strings attached. I wine up on you, you wine up on me and then, I move on. I'm not trying to pick any chicks up. Ya feel me?

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I'm not smooth. It's not about being smooth; it's about having fun, man. Not strings attach. I wine up on you, you wine up on me and then, I move on. I'm not trying to pick any chicks up. Ya feel me?


Well, that doesn't change the fact that I am a dork. Like I said, it might be the dance club...

Or it could be a group of man haters who specifically go to dance clubs so they can turn down men....yes... yes...that's it!

I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable.

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable. then GTFOhaermm

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I go out dancing. But I won't dance with guys that ask me. I don't feel comfortable.


I have a suggestion, try a gay male bar. You can dance and no creepy, scary guys will be asking you to.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I have a suggestion, try a gay male bar. You can dance and no creepy, scary guys will be asking you to.

Yeah right dude...gay men know how to party.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
You're the only person that didn't recognize the question

I guess that makes me the dumb blonde then

What? Alot of women don't feel comfortable. There's no reason a woman should have to dance with some stranger at a club.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
I have a suggestion, try a gay male bar. You can dance and no creepy, scary guys will be asking you to.


I do go to gay bars. And I love it there. Atleast then I don't have men forcing booze down my throat and dragging me all over the dance floor.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I guess that makes me the dumb blonde then Like I said before,nonsensehug

Try alcohol ..

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
What? Alot of women don't feel comfortable. There's no reason a woman should have to dance with some stranger at a club.

Then whats the point of going if you're not going to dance with anyone?

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
What? Alot of women don't feel comfortable. There's no reason a woman should have to dance with some stranger at a club. then don't go dancingOriginally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I do go to gay bars. And I love it there. Atleast then I don't have men forcing booze down my throat and dragging me all over the dance floor. what the hell are you talking about....GTFO

Originally posted by Naz
Then whats the point of going if you're not going to dance with anyone? Exactly

Originally posted by SelphieT
Damn right! I love to dance. I'd dance with you, and I don't even know ya.

Well, you sound like a fun loving gal. It's comforting to know that there a still some girls that are willing to have a good time on the dance floor with a man, stranger or no. As long as he's gentle and respectful, it's all good.

Originally posted by Naz
Then whats the point of going if you're not going to dance with anyone?

Spank you, Naz.

Originally posted by Naz
Then whats the point of going if you're not going to dance with anyone?

I do dance. I didn't say not to dance. I said there's no reason a woman should have to dance with a stranger.

I've been there with my boyfriend and a guy has come up and asked me to dance and kept trying to persuade me while I'm sitting with my boyfriend and I told him "No thank you, I'm here with my boyfriend."

When someone says No Thank You. Just move on.

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I do dance. I didn't say not to dance. I said there's no reason a woman should have to dance with a stranger.

I've been there with my boyfriend and a guy has come up and asked me to dance and kept trying to persuade me while I'm sitting with my boyfriend and I told him "No thank you, I'm here with my boyfriend."

When someone says No Thank You. Just move on.

Well it's different if you're there with your boyfriend, but if you're there alone, or just with friends, why dance by yourself? That's so boring.

Originally posted by BeautiflDisastr
I do go to gay bars. And I love it there. Atleast then I don't have men forcing booze down my throat and dragging me all over the dance floor.
So you'd say no if I asked you to dance because you automatically assume that I have stupid and perverted thoughts on my head?


Right, you're a girl that is exactly one that I wouldn't want to dance with anyways. Thanks for warning me in advance.

Originally posted by DarkC
So you'd say no if I asked you to dance because you automatically assume that I have stupid and perverted thoughts on my head?


Right, you're a girl that is exactly one that I wouldn't want to dance with anyways. Thanks for warning me in advance.

Ditto.

Originally posted by TRH
Like I said before,nonsensehug

Just craving attention hug

I am too smart to think I am dumb even though I am blonde

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
Just craving attention hug

I am too smart to think I am dumb even though I am blonde hehe,again have fun Mariehug

Thank you hug

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
Thank you hug Oy, Marie, dance with me.

You are a taken man and I am a held up woman! It would never work dear hug

It was actually meant as an example question, but okay.

Mine was meant as a rejection example

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
Mine was meant as a rejection example


Like most of us need examples in rejection.

I dont dance because I have no rhythm. ermm
Im happy enough drinking a few drinks, listening to the music and watching my friends dance.
I make a pretty wall flower.

But what if a guy with no rythem asked you to dance?

Originally posted by Shelbert Lemon
I dont dance because I have no rhythm. ermm
Im happy enough drinking a few drinks, listening to the music and watching my friends dance.
I make a pretty wall flower.

My god Shellie, we should meet downtown one night and do the no pants dance.

I dont dance at clubs because I have no rythm(sp?) whatsoever. And I dont want to make a fool of myself. There have been a few times when I was sh*tfaced and I actually got out and danced.

If I danced, I'd be all, Water sprinkler dance. lookaround

Originally posted by BlackSunshine
I dont dance at clubs because I have no rhythms(sp?) whatsoever. And I dont want to make a fool of myself. There have been a few times when I was sh*tfaced and I actually got out and danced.

Everyone has rhythm when there drunk, or think they do.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.

So any females willing to answer my question? I am man, but I know what this is about. they are on display. And you weren't good enough for them. If they stood there all night, they saw no one worth talking to.

best thing to do is pretend they are not there, intrigue them.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
Mine was meant as a rejection example

ZOMG!!!11!!1!! ZING!! LOL!!

You would be great in those meetings with those a-holes I work with...

Anyway,

Grinning Goku, I saw your pictures in the picture thread...you look like a smooth fella...nothing wrong with smooth.

Okay. maybe I should put it a different way. You look like a handsome fella and you can put your words together well. You shouldn't be having problems dancing with anyone who actually wants to dance.

Try wearing deodorant. If you do that already...are you sweatin' your balls off? Girls will automatically think "get the hell out of here sweaty man" if you approach them, looking like a pool party.

Also, how's your breath? The worse your breath is, that further away it can be smelled.

If you have done all of that and they still reject you, try pumping some iron for about a year...the added muscles will at least attract a few girls...if that still doesn't work, join a dance class...then everyone will dance with you!!! HOORAY!

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.

So any females willing to answer my question?

maybe that particular lady doesn't like or don't trust you..we don't usually talk or dance with guys which we don't trust or like..but bitches do...so next time try to ask some bitches to dance..they would definitely welcome you...

Originally posted by Secretus
My god Shellie, we should meet downtown one night and do the no pants dance. Ever been to Rum Runners, City Limits or the Reel Cafe/Roof Top?

heres what you do....walk into the club, and pay the hot women no never mind. they are so used to being fawned over, they will definitely notice you not giving them the eye. they will be intrigued, "whats so special about this guy?" and sometimes they will approach you.

this is a tried and true method, I have used it several times. success rate? 50/50.

Originally posted by Grinning Goku
...OK, this has been bothering me terribly, as of late. Whenever I got to a party or a nightclub with one or two of my boys or alone, there are several females that just spend the entire night posturing. You ask them politely to dance and they're like "No thanks." And please, ladies, don't get angry, I said SOME women do this. They just stand up the entire night and refuse to dance with anybody or simply refuse to dance. It's not like we're expecting to take you home after a few dances and bought drinks. So, c'mon and dance, ladies. We're here to have fun. Oh, and I expect many people to say that lots of dudes don't even ask the ladies to dance and while that might be true, that's not the issue right now.

So any females willing to answer my question?

Dancing is fun! Chances are the girls that stand around all night are the ones that are too shy or they have amazingly jealous prat type boyfriends that spend most of the night spiking other peoples drinks.

Of course it could be that they think you look weird

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
heres what you do....walk into the club, and pay the hot women no never mind. they are so used to being fawned over, they will definitely notice you not giving them the eye. they will be intrigued, "whats so special about this guy?" and sometimes they will approach you.

this is a tried and true method, I have used it several times. success rate? 50/50. 50? I don't know about that one.

But, I can personally tell you the greatest burn ever pulled on a girl, who thought she was the s**t, and kept turning guy after guy down......

Originally posted by BobbyD
50? I don't know about that one.

But, I can personally tell you the greatest burn ever pulled on a girl, who thought she was the s**t, and kept turning guy after guy down...... well, it worked half the time for me, anyways.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
well, it worked half the time for me, anyways.

You a lucky man, RJ.

Want to hear about the burn? It's a classic...

bring it.

This girl was hot...she was smoking, RJ. And the worst part is she was sending out "the vibe"...as if "boys, someone talk to me, I'm pretty cool; and it just might be your night".

Anyway, I told my friends that she needed to come back down to earth...very similar to the "you lost that loving feeling" scene in Top Gun, but not NEARLY as dramatic.

After each guy would make a pass, she would roll her eyes in disdain, as if to say, "ugh, please". You know the look. All guys do, that have been turned down by a hottie who perceives you to NOT be in her league. Plus, when she's with all her friends, it makes you feel that much worse, when you start hearing her friends chuckle as you walk away. Witnessing this, I thought it was time for us guys to turn one around on her....

My firends and I had been doing this gig for quite some time too.

Anyway, me and my boys slowly position ourselves around her and her friends...discretely, inconspicuously as if we don't know each other.

I slowly walk up, giving her the Bobby D charm, and you can even smell her vanity and my rejection coming from a mile away. Inside she's saying: "oh God, please".

This must take place in a bar/club with real loud music so she can barely hear your question, which is the key.

I ask her to dance, knowing full well she going to say no, right.

Sure enough, I get turned down. And my reply:


"No....no I didn't ask you to dance". The next line must come out loud: "I said you look fat in your pants!" That's the cue for my boys to bust out laughing at her, AND her friends.

BOOM-SHAKA-LAKA!

They all walk away knowing they've been just totally burned, especially when they think we're all strangers.

Works like a charm, RJ.

The shame, RJ.

The shame! It's so f'n beautiful!

Gosh, I can't tell you how humiliating it is. But, what comes around goes around.

Now who's dancing, huh?

well, she probably got laid that night.

women rule us, you know why?

Yeah, she probably did.

And the answer to your question......

because they have VAGINAS.

I thought you were going to give me some earth shattering news, I didn't already know, silly.

and BOOBIES.

Originally posted by C. C. Cowgirl
I guess that makes me the dumb blonde then

That's not how you spell blond. Proven.

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Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
and BOOBIES.

(To me), they're just a bonus.

indeed...I am more of an ass and leg man.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
indeed...I am more of an ass and leg man. Baby got back

Originally posted by PITT_HAPPENS
Baby got back front back and side to side.

9BPPEnOiKhg

too much ass.

Originally posted by Tattoo
That's not how you spell blond. Proven.
Blond and Blonde are the same thing! Duh! Both are right!

Who's the dumb blond/blonde now?

Ken had a blond moment?