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If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts?

because when someone gets park place AND broadway, you are screwed.

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts? Not every relationship is a loving one.

people get bored, their partner loses their appeal. think about it this way. their new partner is a new car. new car smell, new tires, new upholstery, etc;...over time, like a vehicle, the partner loses their luster.

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts?
Because some people are too blinded by greed to see that what they have can't be replaced...until it's too late.

Originally posted by Disturbed Angel
Because some people are too blinded by greed to see that what they have can't be replaced...until it's too late. greed AND self ambition.

Because their sex drives don't match one anothers

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
people get bored, their partner loses their appeal. think about it this way. their new partner is a new car. new car smell, new tires, new upholstery, etc;...over time, like a vehicle, the partner loses their luster.

And what he said

Originally posted by ~Bun Bun~
Because their sex drives don't match one anothers mmm....Thats a problem that is easily fixed.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
mmm....Thats a problem that is easily fixed.

Explain

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
mmm....Thats a problem that is easily fixed. ..easily?

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
greed AND self ambition.
yes

Originally posted by ~Bun Bun~
Explain If one person has a higher sex drive than the other, you meet them halfway. or use porn. there are numerous ways to excite your partner.

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts?
People who cheat aren't really in love with the person they're cheating on.

Dumbshit****damnasskramer.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
If one person has a higher sex drive than the other, you meet them halfway. or use porn. there are numerous ways to excite your partner.

Well yes but then that does lead to what you were saying. Things getting old. In all honestly you wanna find someone who matches your sex drive. Coz your hand or toys can only do so much for some people and they will end up straying.

Simple, people cheat b/c they have no self control no self respect for themselves or respect their significant other.

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

In my case it was because the person was selfish.

But I'd have to apply that to everyone who cheats, they only care about themselves and what they can get.

Fear of commitment, for the thrill of it (it' s challenging and exciting), out of revenge, as an emotional escape, ego boost, lack of fulfillment, ...


Ceterum censeo OTF esse delendam.

People cheat because people want something new. They get tired of just loving one person, when this other person is what they have always wanted, blah blah blah, you know the deal.

Originally posted by SelphieT
People cheat because people want something new. They get tired of just loving one person, when this other person is what they have always wanted, blah blah blah, you know the deal. Isn't it funny how they sometimes, a LOT of the times, wanna come back to the person they cheated on, and expect them to be cool with having their more recent ex as a friend? A guy was telling me his story last night, MAN he thought that was hilarious.

I believe people cheat because there is not enough love in their relationship

If it is true love, then there will be no cheating

Originally posted by Diamond Kisses
I believe people cheat because there is not enough love in their relationship

If it is true love, then there will be no cheating could be...maybe....you think?

I do

Originally posted by Diamond Kisses
I do well, the blonde one is correct. beauty AND brains.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Isn't it funny how they sometimes, a LOT of the times, wanna come back to the person they cheated on, and expect them to be cool with having their more recent ex as a friend? A guy was telling me his story last night, MAN he thought that was hilarious.

Oh you've just got to laugh when they tell you they just want to be friends.

Originally posted by SelphieT
Oh you've just got to laugh when they tell you they just want to be friends. he was telling me they had been apart for a year, and she came back, but wanted to be friends with the guy she left him for. and when he said no, she didnt understand.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
he was telling me they had been apart for a year, and she came back, but wanted to be friends with the guy she left him for. and when he said no, she didnt understand.

OH my god, I just remembered this story my old friend Joe told me, where he had sex with this one chick, and he found out she was married after it, and she had said she was single. So she called off the wedding, and came back to Joe's front porch, expecting him to take her in, and he totally shut the door in her face

Originally posted by SelphieT
OH my god, I just remembered this story my old friend Joe told me, where he had sex with this one chick, and he found out she was married after it, and she had said she was single. So she called off the wedding, and came back to Joe's front porch, expecting him to take her in, and he totally shut the door in her face I dont blame him.

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts?
Unsatisfaction in the bedroom can sometimes be the case.

Originally posted by Kelly_Bean
Unsatisfaction in the bedroom can sometimes be the case. there is an infinite list of possibilities.

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts?

Because you touch yourself at night.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
there is an infinite list of possibilities.
Of course!

sometimes someone jumps feet first into a relationship, thinking they are ready.

I've never cheated, never even thought about it while being in a relationship, but all of my boyfriends except one that I know of, did cheat on me. shrug Am I really that bad? I'll never really know. Sucks.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
people get bored, their partner loses their appeal. think about it this way. their new partner is a new car. new car smell, new tires, new upholstery, etc;...over time, like a vehicle, the partner loses their luster.

If you didn't understand that.

He means womens titties and ass sag and get wrinkles. haermm

Originally posted by Vathu
If you didn't understand that.

He means womens titties and ass sag and get wrinkles. haermm thats half of it.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
thats half of it.

If I was a woman, then I could say mens penises not getting hard anymore.

So what you're saying Vathu, is that people cheat because their partners get old. . .?

Originally posted by Vathu
If I was a woman, then I could say mens penises not getting hard anymore. not an issue with me. 30, 40 years from now? maybe....

sometimes when a woman has a child, the man doesnt like the way her body is afterwards, and cheats.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
not an issue with me. 30, 40 years from now? maybe....

sometimes when a woman has a child, the man doesnt like the way her body is afterwards, and cheats.

I hope, that never happens to me, thats so terrible. Or a guy cheats/leaves when his partner is like, 8 months pregnant......So terrible.

Originally posted by SelphieT
I hope, that never happens to me, thats so terrible. Or a guy cheats/leaves when his partner is like, 8 months pregnant......So terrible. I've seen it happen time and time again.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I've seen it happen time and time again.

The thought of it makes me so glad I'm single. Not like I am going to get pregnant anytime soon, but damn. I couldn't imagine having to take care of a little Selphie with no dad.

when I find the woman I wanna have a baby with, I will worship the ground she walks upon. Plus I am not a cheater.

Unlike some guys, if I knocked up a teen while I'm still in high school. I'll ditch an elective and take Child development. haermm

Then I would be able to know what the hell I'm supposed to do with a baby.

Having a baby/toddler version of me would be pretty kickass, but I couldn't imagine having one alone. Hopefully I'll find a guy like you RJ,

Or me.

I'm only turning 17.

I'd be a lot better than a 30 year old. haermm

Besides. I'd be forced to get a job, because where I go to school, My uncle works there.

And like. We just had an issue with his son, had an affair with his wife a year or two ago, the chick he cheated with came to my uncles house and was like. "This is your granddaughter." And everyone was like, "Whooooa."

And then My uncle called up his son and bitched at him and was all. "Until you grow the **** up and take responsibility for this child, don't talk to me. And if I hear that you call up anyone in this family, I will discourage them from helping you."

haermm

oop wrong thread i dont cheat its just falls in....lmao

Originally posted by SelphieT
Having a baby/toddler version of me would be pretty kickass, but I couldn't imagine having one alone. Hopefully I'll find a guy like you RJ, theres alot of us out there. I get so sick of women saying there are no nice guys available.

Originally posted by Vathu
Or me.

I'm only turning 17.

I'd be a lot better than a 30 year old. haermm

Besides. I'd be forced to get a job, because where I go to school, My uncle works there.

And like. We just had an issue with his son, had an affair with his wife a year or two ago, the chick he cheated with came to my uncles house and was like. "This is your granddaughter." And everyone was like, "Whooooa."

And then My uncle called up his son and bitched at him and was all. "Until you grow the **** up and take responsibility for this child, don't talk to me. And if I hear that you call up anyone in this family, I will discourage them from helping you."

haermm

You want me to bear your children? We'd probably have some good looking babies together.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
theres alot of us out there. I get so sick of women saying there are no nice guys available.

Thats because they like the sexy guys.

Who turn out to leave them..

Then when they whine to me I laugh at them.

Then they do it over and over.

And never realize I'm the one listening to their ****ing whining asses.

One day I'll be all. "STFU YOU ***** AND ****ING THINK ABOUT IT."

Did you know *random addie fact coming up* a Muslim man can divorce his wife by saying I divorce you three times, but a woman has to go through a long laborious court case.... SEXIST!

Shut the **** up.

No one cares what they do in Iraq.

We're going to blow it off the face of the Earth some day.


And then re-attempt to 'Make the country into a democratic government.'

Originally posted by SelphieT
You want me to bear your children? We'd probably have some good looking babies together.

I don't know, when did everyone say I was good-looking? haermm

Originally posted by Vathu
I don't know, when did everyone say I was good-looking? haermm

Well, with at least my half of the chromosomes, they'll look at the very least decent if you ruin the other half

Originally posted by SelphieT
Well, with at least my half of the chromosomes, they'll look at the very least decent if you ruin the other half

I have a habit of attracting unwanted female attention.

I.E

12 and 14 year olds. haermm

Originally posted by Vathu
I have a habit of attracting unwanted female attention.

I.E

12 and 14 year olds. haermm

ECK!

12 boys are the worst. Little pervs. Just want to kick them all in the face.

Originally posted by Vathu
Thats because they like the sexy guys.

Who turn out to leave them..

Then when they whine to me I laugh at them.

Then they do it over and over.

And never realize I'm the one listening to their ****ing whining asses.

One day I'll be all. "STFU YOU ***** AND ****ING THINK ABOUT IT." well, I am sexy AND reliable.

I don't know.

But the girls in middle school dress so slutty now.

I remember when I was in middle school, like 4 years ago.

Nothing was as bad then as it is now.

Mostly every girl had a skirt going to at least their knees, jeans that didn't go above the knees, skorts, or whatever. They had ****ing short-shorts, the kind that reach like the beginning of your thighs.

But now short shorts go to like, your ****ing crotch. As well as skirts. I saw a chick in a skirt so short the other day you could see her ****ing panties when she wasn't sitting down. And I'm like ****ing 5'11" I'm huge. haermm

Originally posted by Vathu
I don't know.

But the girls in middle school dress so slutty now.

I remember when I was in middle school, like 4 years ago.

Nothing was as bad then as it is now.

Mostly every girl had a skirt going to at least their knees, jeans that didn't go above the knees, skorts, or whatever. They had ****ing short-shorts, the kind that reach like the beginning of your thighs.

But now short shorts go to like, your ****ing crotch. As well as skirts. I saw a chick in a skirt so short the other day you could see her ****ing panties when she wasn't sitting down. And I'm like ****ing 5'11" I'm huge. haermm

I don't get.....how your height.....has anything to do with it.....

Mostly every girl I've ever met is shorter than me?

wai..bun bun is here

Originally posted by Vathu
Mostly every girl I've ever met is shorter than me?

Yeah but.......

Dammit, forget it, you make no sense.

Originally posted by Vathu
I don't know.

But the girls in middle school dress so slutty now.

I remember when I was in middle school, like 4 years ago.

Nothing was as bad then as it is now.

Mostly every girl had a skirt going to at least their knees, jeans that didn't go above the knees, skorts, or whatever. They had ****ing short-shorts, the kind that reach like the beginning of your thighs.

But now short shorts go to like, your ****ing crotch. As well as skirts. I saw a chick in a skirt so short the other day you could see her ****ing panties when she wasn't sitting down. And I'm like ****ing 5'11" I'm huge. haermm zomg! you're such a sterotype! Knee lenght skirts are... kinda... weird. But you can't see our pants unless we're being really random, fashions change, accept it. Maybe we've just got nicer legs than girls in you year.

Originally posted by miss_swann
zomg! you're such a sterotype! Knee lenght skirts are... kinda... weird. But you can't see our pants unless we're being really random, fashions change, accept it. Maybe we've just got nicer legs than girls in you year.

If I wanted to mention that girls had bad skin problems in middle school,, I would have.

But that chicks skirt was shoooort...

Originally posted by SelphieT
Yeah but.......

Dammit, forget it, you make no sense.

It was really short. I could see it even though I was taller.

Originally posted by Vathu
If I wanted to mention that girls had bad skin problems in middle school,, I would have.

But that chicks skirt was shoooort...



It was really short. I could see it even though I was taller.

Oh.

Originally posted by miss_swann
zomg! you're such a sterotype! Knee lenght skirts are... kinda... weird. But you can't see our pants unless we're being really random, fashions change, accept it. Maybe we've just got nicer legs than girls in you year.

Also. How am I a stereotype. Explain funny typo woman. 131

Originally posted by SelphieT
Oh.

Yes. I thought I typed it so everyone could understand.

I guess the F-bomb makes everyone forget what happens mid-sentence.

Originally posted by Vathu
Also. How am I a stereotype. Explain funny typo woman. 131



Yes. I thought I typed it so everyone could understand.

I guess the F-bomb makes everyone forget what happens mid-sentence.

Nah.

Originally posted by Vathu
Yes. I thought I typed it so everyone could understand.

I guess the F-bomb makes everyone forget what happens mid-sentence.

Or it didn't make sense in the first place.

Originally posted by Vathu
I bet you got it.

No, not really.

Oh.

You get the general idea.

Forget the skirt thing at the end.

Originally posted by Vathu
Mostly every girl I've ever met is shorter than me? I LOVE short women.

Originally posted by Vathu
Oh.

You get the general idea.

Forget the skirt thing at the end.

Right.

I found a picture that could sum it up.



Imagine clothing though.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y154/cadyb08/Random/ProofofGlobalWarming.jpg

Yeah, I don't want to date a guy shorter than me. That's scary. He should be AT LEAST my height.

Originally posted by Vathu
I found a picture that could sum it up.



Imagine clothing though.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y154/cadyb08/Random/ProofofGlobalWarming.jpg

Originally posted by Vathu
I found a picture that could sum it up.



Imagine clothing though.

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y154/cadyb08/Random/ProofofGlobalWarming.jpg and 2000 you forgot that

Originally posted by MR.Grum
and 2000 you forgot that just a lil string

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I LOVE short women.

I know. I like short women, just not.. Short short..

Like up to my crotch.

That's kinda odd.

But kind of useful at the same time.. But let's not go there.

But I understand how you feel, RJ.

A lot of women like taller men, so I guess it's some kind of adaptation. hmm

Originally posted by MR.Grum
just a lil string

2000?

Yeah. It's a string in the back and the front of a thong.

haermm

Those are what were invented in 2000.

G-string. haermm

because they don't love the person they're with.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
because they don't love the person they're with.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
because they don't love the person they're with.

If that's the case, then why do they stay with that person and cheat on them? Why not break it off without having to hurt the other person?

They love more than one person.

Originally posted by Piggle Humsy
Sometimes I guess they care about the person they're with but they also have feelings for the other person.. and they don't think about the hurt it causes or something.
srug

Still, I think if you are going to cheat, break it off with whoever you're with. Why cause more hurt, I've been cheated on and I would have rather been dumped then cheated on.

word, i feel you man.. I guess i havent technically been cheated on it, cause we lived far apart, and we werent together that long anyway, and she was whore, who was even using her best friend to take her places to meet other guys ...(of course I didn't know any of this shit at the time) and it turned out she was just using me for the thing in my pants, like all the other guys she had been with...but one thing that killed me was how she kept trying to pull me back..despite having like 4-5 guys on the side... its like why pull me back into the circle?

Bump

OK.....

There are many many reasons for it to occur, some are very simple and idiotic, while others are complex and intricate... you'll never get them all, but some of the most common ones are that they are adventurous, or lack will and control of their implulses, some simply don't think their own actions through before violating their relationships = (Perhaps the most common of all.)

You'll hear from guys all the time that "Sorry baby! I didn't mean it!" while it's technically true, what he's really saying is 'Help me, I'm a moron who can help but to think with my D!ck! Pity me!'

Others start getting more and more elaborate and unbeleivable... I won't bother to list those because ome that I've heard of are absolutely outrageous and unbeleivable, and sound like something found in a hollywood flick...

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
There are many many reasons for it to occur, some are very simple and idiotic, while others are complex and intricate... you'll never get them all, but some of the most common ones are that they are adventurous, or lack will and control of their implulses, some simply don't think their own actions through before violating their relationships = (Perhaps the most common of all.)

You'll hear from guys all the time that "Sorry baby! I didn't mean it!" while it's technically true, what he's really saying is 'Help me, I'm a moron who can help but to think with my D!ck! Pity me!'

Others start getting more and more elaborate and unbeleivable... I won't bother to list those because ome that I've heard of are absolutely outrageous and unbeleivable, and sound like something found in a hollywood flick... there are indeed some lame excuses used.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
there are indeed some lame excuses used.

Personally, I don't have a GF right now, and thats simply because of the job/s I do, I don't want anyone I care about to worry wether or not I'm even going to come home...

Thats a choice though, not a commitment, I cannot understand guys who simply take their relationships for granted, and then get all torn up when they collapse like a 5 cent house built out of poker cards.

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
Personally, I don't have a GF right now, and thats simply because of the job/s I do, I don't want anyone I care about to worry wether or not I'm even going to come home...

Thats a choice though, not a commitment, I cannot understand guys who simply take their relationships for granted, and then get all torn up when they collapse like a 5 cent house built out of poker cards. or the ones who dont even give a rats ass as it crumbles down around them.

Yeah... or the ones that get abusive and become control freaks....

I feel you on the abusive part.

That actually makes me more angry than almost anything else to do with relationships... I had a friend, well... an EX-friend who actually abused his fiancee and his son right in front of me...

I ended up putting him through his plaster wall from the lounge room into his bedroom for it...

alot of people dont agree that there are different types of cheating.

Mature, fighting solves everything.

-AC

Oh, I myself beleive their is... Everyone is entitled to their oppinion though.

We encourage people to get out of abusive relationships, but at the same time discourage cheating.

Some people are very afraid of their current partner and need the support of their fling to help them escape the abuse.

But other than that, I can see no reason to cheat at all, since outside of abuse, it's all the choice of the cheater then.

hmmmm.....peer pressure, maybe?

Doubtful, since that STILL requires one to make a choice based on their own principals... the only difference is that someone wants you to conform to their way of thinking, and that creates a desire not to dissapoint.

Thats all peer pressure is really, the need to fit in and not dissapoint.

Some young hottie may end up being the uggo - they despised all those hot years ago.

maybe. still, though.

Huh?

I didn't understand the words "Uggo" or the context of Despised...

Thast a level 3 'WTF?'

just jumped to level 4.

Young sexy person grows old, and becomes ugly. Uggo - Doctor Kelso, from Scrubs. End o story.

Originally posted by Nivvy
Young sexy person grows old, and becomes ugly. Uggo - Doctor Kelso, from Scrubs. End o story. never gonna be a problem for me. both My gramps always looked 15 years younger than they were all their life.

and men age more gracefully than women do.

Oh... I don't watch Scrubs...

But now I have my answer...

"Ugly people need love too! thats why Beer was invented!"

Hahahahh. OH Mystery Men quote

"There's not enough beer in the World, Spleen - i'm sorry"

My older brother once had these ANCIENT rolling posters that beer messages on them... at the time I didn't understand, but now that I'm 26, I most definitely do.

The first one said:

"Beer, helping ugly me have sex since 1820"

And the 2nd one simply said:

"By me another Beer, your still ugly."

Originally posted by Nivvy
Hahahahh. OH Mystery Men quote

"There's not enough beer in the World, Spleen - i'm sorry" I used to have a crush on her.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I used to have a crush on her.

:O:O:O:O:O

If this was some sort of comedic movie
i'd totally come out of the closet
and declare my crush on her also

But alas....

She does have a nice nose though
My whole nose facination began with her

A crush on her nose?

That brings to mind all sorts of depraved and extremely strange arousing mental images...

:P

Well, when you put it so delicately!

I can't help it!

I gotta say things nice!

Even if they sound incredibly wierd!

Hahahh, fair 'nuff.

Heh... I just don't have a mean bone in my body......

How'd that get there... *Looks around*

I didn't say anything...

Originally posted by Nivvy
:O:O:O:O:O

If this was some sort of comedic movie
i'd totally come out of the closet
and declare my crush on her also

But alas....

She does have a nice nose though
My whole nose facination began with her

Is it the same facvination you had with Pinocchio's nose?

a vibrating nose?

"Tell a lie... Tell the truth... Tell a lie, Tell the truth"

Pinnochio da Playa.

Yeah... you know he pimpin...

It's hard out there for a pimp.

Thats the reason they invenmted their patnet "Pimpslap" technique, and the 9mm "John Woo" firing stance.

I saw a hooker last night. she had huge knockers.

Yeah, they'll be saggy and wrinkly by the time she's 30.

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
Yeah, they'll be saggy and wrinkly by the time she's 30.

The sad blunt truth I'm afraid... Hookers arn't known for looking after themselves anyway.

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
The sad blunt truth I'm afraid... Hookers arn't known for looking after themselves anyway.

Poor girls do the deed,to make the money, buy drugs to escape reality... rinse and repeat... thats no life at all.

depends.

On what?

How long she last before her brain says "Sorry honey, but this peice of Grey matter can't take another round of crack, drugs or otherwsie" before she keels over?

Originally posted by DARKLORDCAEDUS
If love exists, then why do people cheat? Thoughts? Because its ****ing funny.

Originally posted by Reverend Axel
Because its ****ing funny.

..................................

To each their own.........

I think you'd be bawlin if your GF was cheating on you, not laughing like it was funny...

Thats My oppinion though.

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
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To each their own.........

I think you'd be bawlin if your GF was cheating on you, not laughing like it was funny...

Thats My oppinion though. How can you have an opinion on someone you don't ****ing know?

Originally posted by Reverend Axel
How can you have an opinion on someone you don't ****ing know?

*Shakes head and sighs*

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
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To each their own.........

I Think you'd be bawlin if your GF was cheating on you, not laughing like it was funny...

Thats My oppinion though.

I guess your not very adept on reading the ENTIRE thing are you?

Originally posted by Darkstorm Zero
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To each their own.........

I think you'd be bawlin if your GF was cheating on you, not laughing like it was funny...

Thats My oppinion though.