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I was wondering if it is possible to truly love someone that you have never met in the flesh. Does anyone out there have any input on the subect? Has this ever happened to you?

There's a lot to be said for actual real conversation.

And what if you actually have spoken, and heard the other persons voice? What then? What happens if you have seen them as well, just not in person, but on camera?

I personally, can't have that sort of relationship, I know that people can and good on 'em.

But to me the best bits about the beginning of a relationship, are everything from getting butterflies, to walking with each other, to watching films, etc. I'm a person that needs to be around people a lot, and just talking on the phone, or on the net isn't enough.

I personally can't, at least not in the boyfriend/girlfriend kinda way if that's what you meant.

Sure, why not? If by way of the Internet you've exchanged pictures, have had conversations, and have talked on the phone, I don't see why you can't.

I voted no, even though you phrased the option quite poorly.

I have a close friend that's currently doing the long distance relationship, and apparently it's working very well for them, and they've been dating ever since last Valentine's Day.

I don't think I could love them, but I think anyone can get at least certain feelings for someone far away. And I'll admit I have before.

yes, I love several people I have never met in the flesh. you fall in love with the person they are, not the way they look.

Yes its possible.

I believe it's possibly to love someone you haven't met in the flesh purely by conversation and such. However, that kind of stuff isn't for me. I need to be with that person in the flesh. It feels more real to me that way, otherwise it doesn't feel like a relationship. I put it in this sense basically, all I can really do over long distance is say how much I yearn that person how much I love them, etc. I'm limited to saying things, and that disappoints me because if it were a physical one I would be able to do much more. So basically, for me, long distance relationships aren't really for me.

Originally posted by Kram3r
I believe it's possibly to love someone you haven't met in the flesh purely by conversation and such. However, that kind of stuff isn't for me. I need to be with that person in the flesh. It feels more real to me that way, otherwise it doesn't feel like a relationship. I put it in this sense basically, all I can really do over long distance is say how much I yearn that person how much I love them, etc. I'm limited to saying things, and that disappoints me because if it were a physical one I would be able to do much more. So basically, for me, long distance relationships aren't really for me. but you said you loved me.

No. Unless you're some KMC nutjob, than maybe.

Originally posted by botankus
No. Unless you're some KMC nutjob, than maybe.

You lonely bastard.

Originally posted by botankus
No. Unless you're some KMC nutjob, than maybe.

I love Gwen Steffani. I'd love a bit of ebony on ivory action with her!!

Originally posted by Futureman
I love Gwen Steffani. I'd love a bit of ebony on ivory action with her!!

You like aliens!?

Originally posted by Futureman
I love Gwen Steffani. I'd love a bit of ebony on ivory action with her!!

Maybe you could "white guilt" her into it. Ask FoTN, he'll tell you all about it.

Originally posted by Robtard
Maybe you could "white guilt" her into it. Ask FoTN, he'll tell you all about it.

I'd rather she loved me for me, or failing that my black stereotype in my jeans. Move over Prof. Watson.

Yes i think its possible but very rare. Love in general is a hard thing to find. sometimes when people have the internet, phone or mail to rely on. They take on a more confident persona that is not truly their personality, but whom they want to be. honesty and physical attraction are the two things i believe that allow a relationship to persist. If you are able to be truly honest over communication outlets then sure, you can fall in love with that person. Understanding whether you legitimitely love that person or the idea of that person is hard to identify though.

Knights used to court maidens from far off lands that they never met

Originally posted by Futureman
I'd rather she loved me for me, or failing that my black stereotype in my jeans. Move over Prof. Watson.

Or course that would be ideal, loving you for you. If she would only love you for the "large penis" stereotype though, she'd probably be intelligent enough to not give you the time of day, due to your other black stereotype. The abandoning her and walking out on your responsibilities once she was pregnant.

Originally posted by Robtard
Or course that would be ideal, loving you for you. If she would only love you for the "large penis" stereotype though, she'd probably be intelligent enough to not give you the time of day, due to your other black stereotype. The abandoning her and walking out on your responsibilities once she was pregnant.

That's a Jamaican thing. I am an African American Christian.

Originally posted by Futureman
That's a Jamaican thing. I am an African American Christian.

The large penis or being a deadbeat?

Originally posted by Robtard
The large penis or being a deadbeat?

The leaving women thing. It's ingrained in the Jamaican culture. All black men have a large penis.

Originally posted by Futureman
The leaving women thing. It's ingrained in the Jamaican culture. All black men have a large penis.

Disgusting how you belittle Jaimacans, I thought you were here to spread the thought of non-judgement and unity among all, you hate monger.

Originally posted by Robtard
Disgusting how you belittle Jaimacans, I thought you were here to spread the thought of non-judgement and unity among all, you hate monger.

I was waiting for you to accuse me of that. No I don't belittle Jamaicans. I belittle a system that prevents the majority of them having enough of a stake in society to act in a fashion we would call appropriate. When they move from Jamaica to the U.S.A. many bring with them the problems they had in Jamaica. I pray for them.

It's not all jamaican men either, merely those that come from poverty and have been socialised that way. Given appropriate education and quality of life they would gain a normal morality, like any other white or black individual given those advantages. In the end it's all about economics.

Originally posted by Futureman
All black men have a large penis. LoL'd... so not true.

Originally posted by Futureman
I was waiting for you to accuse me of that. No I don't belittle Jamaicans. I belittle a system that prevents the majority of them having enough of a stake in society to act in a fashion we would call appropriate. When they move from Jamaica to the U.S.A. many bring with them the problems they had in Jamaica. I pray for them.

It's not all jamaican men either, merely those that come from poverty and have been socialised that way. Given appropriate education and quality of life they would gain a normal morality, like any other white or black individual given those advantages. In the end it's all about economics.

Back-peddle all you, you said the Jaimacan culture, is a culture of deadbeats, i.e. it's "ingrained" in them. Dusgusting.

Originally posted by Robtard
Back-peddle all you, you said the Jaimacan culture, is a culture of deadbeats, i.e. it's "ingrained" in them. Dusgusting.

Infer generalisation from my comments if it pleases you, that was not the intention. My clarification should be enough for you.

Originally posted by Futureman
Infer generalisation from my comments if it pleases you, that was not the intention. My clarification should be enough for you.

http://img124.imageshack.us/img124/3186/feltpedalplatformcncud9.jpg

Originally posted by Robtard
My resorting to a picture speaks volumes about my ability to respond to your post.

I thought so.

Religion Forum?

Originally posted by Futureman
My back peddling speaks volumes about my supposed sincerity.

I thought so.

Originally posted by Robtard
I imitate because I am incapable of originality, my posting of pictures shows this, It's what all the kids do.

I thought this also.

Originally posted by Futureman
My inability to diverge from repeatedly failed tactics despite my numerous accounts, shows that I completely lack imagination.

Relax you fat bastard, don't beat yourself up over it, maybe next time.

Originally posted by Robtard
Relax you fat bastard, don't beat yourself up over it, maybe next time.

What are you talking about. I certainly am not fat. You are some weird crazy. Every forum has one.

Originally posted by Robtard
Back-peddle all you, you said the Jaimacan culture, is a culture of deadbeats, i.e. it's "ingrained" in them. Dusgusting.

Do you have an accent?

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Religion Forum?

Ouch! I got that. I think.

Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone you've never met in person.

Originally posted by Devil King
Do you have an accent?


Not really, I can imitate one though, I've watched the "Little Mermaid".

Originally posted by Robtard
Not really, I can imitate one though, I've watched the "Little Mermaid".

You strike me as someone who might have a lsip, i mean lisp.

No.

Originally posted by Futureman
You strike me as someone who might have a lsip, i mean lisp.

No, I occasionally stutter, mumble and speak faster than the "Micromachine Man" though. Yourself, any sort of speak irregularities?

Originally posted by Robtard
No, I occasionally stutter, mumble and speak faster than the "Micromachine Man" though. Yourself, any sort of speak irregularities?

No irregularities, I have a very dark voice though, very african.

Originally posted by Futureman
No irregularities, I have a very dark voice though, very african.

LoL @ "African voice". You fat bastard, good for a laugh, sometimes.

Originally posted by Robtard
LoL @ "African voice". You fat bastard, good for a laugh, sometimes.

You keep calling me fat. I work out 3 times a week and walk regularly. I also play some squash usually about once a week. What are you talking about? Yes i have an african voice.

yeah, he's trying to work on that gut and i think he's making great progress...for a fat bastard

Originally posted by Schecter
yeah, he's trying to work on that gut and i think he's making great progress...for a fat bastard

Another forum crazy. So strange. This is the twilight zone. I only have a 33 inch waist. I see what you are both doing. Attacking the new guy.

Yes you can.

faily

Originally posted by Schecter
faily

yes you phail, Mr forum crazy.

This sock account has no personality. Not that any of them are really funny or entertaining, but at least they've got a certain quality that this one seems to be lacking. It just doesn't pop.

relax

Don't force it?

whats a whirly?

I am certainly not a sock account. What a silly thing to say.

Originally posted by Schecter
whats a whirly?



A helicopter? I would need a context first. Am I supposed to say i don't know and then you provide a punchline? You really are very strange.

girlysplat's on a crybaby fit because capt rex bans his accounts quicker than the other mods and thus spoils his fun.

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&postid=9694502&highlight=whirly+sock+checker#post9694502


since i probably hit a nerve i guess we can expect a visit from 'cyber tuff guy', which is whirly's tantrum account.

What are you talking about?

Originally posted by Devil King

Ouch! I got that. I think.

Yes, it is possible to fall in love with someone you've never met in person.

Yeah, the title struck me as a Jesus thread.

LOL, was it the flesh part?

The whole thing.

Has it come up yet? I really would rather have secular reasons though

It was a minor dig. Nothing more. Jesus really has nothing to do with the thread.

Originally posted by CaptainStoic
I was wondering if it is possible to truly love someone that you have never met in the flesh. Does anyone out there have any input on the subect? Has this ever happened to you?

Yes.

I dunno....

See, how can you love someone whom you've never gotten to know very well?

I mean, I always say "Damn! I love Flower Tucci! She's a freak! Wooooo!!! Go baby go!!!!!"

All I see is her gorgeous curves and those nice feet and those boobs and....eh, well...you get the picture. So, yeah, I've never met her personally. I can't really fall in love with her...I take her as a fantasy. Damn! I just want to go home and jerk....

....what the hell are we talking about?

Originally posted by CaptainStoic
I was wondering if it is possible to truly love someone that you have never met in the flesh. Does anyone out there have any input on the subect? Has this ever happened to you?

I don't believe so. People are different and for some it might be entirely possible.

Nope, you can't.

That is one vital aspect of love that can't be overlooked...........well it can..........but then it isn't real love.............just make believe.

People then began mistaking the "IDEA OF LOVE" for actual "LOVE."

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

That poses another question, can you love a culture you've never experienced?

Originally posted by InnerRise
Nope, you can't.

That is one vital aspect of love that can't be overlooked...........well it can..........but then it isn't real love.............just make believe.

People then began mistaking the "IDEA OF LOVE" for actual "LOVE."

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Very deep also true.

whirly is in deeply in love with me, and never met me.

Originally posted by Schecter
whirly is in deeply in love with me, and never met me.

Good for her, i take it this Whirly is a she, although i'm only guessing but it might be your nickname for that backfire guy as you and he seem to be at it hot and heavy in that other thread. If Whirly is someone else, you seem to like this online stuff. I guess thats why you had the picture of the sister with the hot booty.

dont get angry

Originally posted by InnerRise
Nope, you can't.

That is one vital aspect of love that can't be overlooked...........well it can..........but then it isn't real love.............just make believe.

People then began mistaking the "IDEA OF LOVE" for actual "LOVE."

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

In your opinion.

-AC

Originally posted by Schecter
dont get angry

I thought we were talking about your online relationships, why should they get me angry? Tell me more about these online things you do, i'm interested. You were very graphic in that other thread, please continue.
You can post more hotlinks to sisters if you want, she was a fine strong woman.

Originally posted by Futureman
I thought we were talking about your online relationships, why should they get me angry? Tell me more about these online things you do, i'm interested. You were very graphic in that other thread, please continue.
You can post more hotlinks to sisters if you want, she was a fine strong woman.

relax

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
In your opinion.

-AC Nah..

But...

Originally posted by Schecter
dont get angry And....

Originally posted by Schecter
relax

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by InnerRise
Nah..

But...

And....



Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Well, I love you InnerRise. And I don't care if you don't love me back, but I love ya anyways.

So in my opinion, yes, you can. Not always romantically, but in a certain way for everyone.

I can understand having a crush on a celebrity, but actually loving someone you've never even said hi to makes no sense. In fact it almost seems impossible.

It wasn't stated that you'd never spoken, just never met.

-AC

Yes, I have.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
It wasn't stated that you'd never spoken, just never met.

-AC

Ok, the statement still applies.

How?

Originally posted by SelphieT
Well, I love you InnerRise. And I don't care if you don't love me back, but I love ya anyways.

So in my opinion, yes, you can. Not always romantically, but in a certain way for everyone. Awww...blush2

Anata wa wakarimasu ka.....

Originally posted by Quiero Mota
Ok, the statement still applies.

How is it more or less impossible, then?

I'm just curious.

-AC

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
How is it more or less impossible, then?

I'm just curious.

-AC

I don't understand how someone can love someone they've never met. Having a crush on them or wanting to bang them is perfectly understandable, but not loving them.

If anything, I'd classify it as infatuation or the illusion of love.

Yes, it's possible.

yes i thing you can love without meting some one that how my friend meant his wife. they talk for almost 6 mouth always saying that hey loved each other

before they meat

Originally posted by CaptainStoic
I was wondering if it is possible to truly love someone that you have never met in the flesh. Does anyone out there have any input on the subect? Has this ever happened to you?
Sigh well this has happened to me twice, and both times I wasn't looking for it, mind you. Both times, when I realised what was happening, I tried to avoid it, but in the end, my feelings won me over. Best to just go with it and see where it leads you.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
How? some people need more to go on than others. me personally, I fall hard and fast, and am open to anything, so yes it is possible to fall in love with someone over the net.

I wasn't asking how people fall in love, RJ.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
I wasn't asking how people fall in love, RJ. I was using me as an example, I am more open minded. some people arent, so its not feasible to fall in love online. it relates to the thread.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I was using me as an example, I am more open minded. some people arent, so its not feasible to fall in love online. it relates to the thread.

I know, I was questioning how Quiero could use his original statement, to question the feasibility of internet love.

I wasn't questioning ho people can fall in love over the internet, it was about a specific statement.

Originally posted by ragesRemorse
Yes i think its possible but very rare. Love in general is a hard thing to find. sometimes when people have the internet, phone or mail to rely on. They take on a more confident persona that is not truly their personality, but whom they want to be. honesty and physical attraction are the two things i believe that allow a relationship to persist. If you are able to be truly honest over communication outlets then sure, you can fall in love with that person. Understanding whether you legitimitely love that person or the idea of that person is hard to identify though.

Knights used to court maidens from far off lands that they never met


You totally hit the nail on the head bro. I met a woman online that is in love with me, and I love her too she asked me to marry her... I accepted, I know it seems crazy but sometimes you have to gamble in life right?

Can anyone that reads this dig down really deep, and ask themselves what the definition of love is to them? I mean what is love? Is it the pleasure of sex? The arguments? Is it how much you are willing to sacrifice for the person that you love? By the way instead of the word flesh that I used was simpler to use, as I thought that everyone would get the picture.

I have never been so afraid in my life of meeting someone, than I am of meeting what could truly be my wife in the future. This is a picture of her. We also talk daily and I see her too via webcam, but it feels like a prison sentence. You know what I mean? Like I'm on one side of the glass and she is on the other. In January I'll see her in person for the first time. Anyways it's taken a lot of courage to let everyone see what she looks like, but whatever.

Nope this thread belongs here not in the Religion section.

Originally posted by chillmeistergen
I know, I was questioning how Quiero could use his original statement, to question the feasibility of internet love.

I wasn't questioning ho people can fall in love over the internet, it was about a specific statement. I gotcha.

Originally posted by Schecter
relax

Don't be coy, tell me about your online relationships. You started this. I won't cyber with you though. Black men don't cyber!

Originally posted by Futureman
Don't be coy, tell me about your online relationships. You started this. I won't cyber with you though. Black men don't cyber!
oh boy

i guess i should apologise for making you angry. it wasnt my intention.

so calm down, ok?

Originally posted by Schecter
oh boy

i guess i should apologise for making you angry. it wasnt my intention.

so calm down, ok?

Stop dodging, I've given you a little attention, i'm not into cyber like you though.

no need to be such a poor sport.

maybe you just need to step away from the keyboard and find a way to calm your nerves. this cant be healthy for you.

dont worry, be happy

Originally posted by Schecter
no need to be such a poor sport.

maybe you just need to step away from the keyboard and find a way to calm your nerves. this cant be healthy for you.

dont worry, be happy

Look just because i don't cyber, tell me about your online interests, you started then stopped and got all shy.

i dont want to ruin your thread with off topic posts and make you more angry. i feel bad enough as it is.

sockie

Originally posted by Schecter
i dont want to ruin your thread with off topic posts and make you more angry. i feel bad enough as it is.



Originally posted by Schecter
ive taken a recent liking to squirters. well...for pure fascination really

Look you obviously are transferring your own anger because black men like me don't cyber.

mmmmmmmmm yummy droolio


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v499/PVS/tears.jpg

Originally posted by Schecter
Originally posted by Schecter
droolio *squirts* mmmmmmmmm yummy droolio


To much information

Relating to the question on this thread.

Yes. Instantly.

But its only cause falling in love is what we biologically do to convince ourselves that all the hassle and pain (both ways) in a relationship might be worth it or that we shouldn't feel guilty for all the disgusting acts of unhygenicness and the arguments so vicious that it illustrates how screwed up a lot of peoples perceptions of love are if thats how they treat each other...

Falling in love is more or less like a permission slip we give ourselves to go totally mad and turn all the power over to someone in life and unneccesarily live at constant risk of being ****ed over.

When you fall instantly in love, is it a coincidence that as you are attracted to someone and fall in love, that your logic-dealing part of your brain is surpressed at that time. I think not.



But then Im the romantic type at the moment.

it is possible.

Originally posted by Punkyhermy
it is possible.

As long as they are honest or gets honest.