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I left my gf, and not on good terms. One of my closest friend (known him for 8 years and would do anything for this guy) has known her for a year arround. And I've heard they still talk and sometimes see eachother.

Would that make me a douchebag if I asked him not to talk to her again, to just leave her be? I'm feeling uneased when it happens.

Yes, that would make you a douchebag.

Originally posted by Mandos
I left my gf, and not on good terms. One of my closest friend (known him for 8 years and would do anything for this guy) has known her for a year arround. And I've heard they still talk and sometimes see eachother.

Would that make me a douchebag if I asked him not to talk to her again, to just leave her be? I'm feeling uneased when it happens.

I would say that yes, you shouldn't do that. If they are just friends then you shouldn't interfere. Even if they liked each other as more than friends, if you're the one who left her, you have no say.

Yeah...as much as it hurts for you, it won't make you look good at all if you ask him that.

Sounds like a personal problem to me

My friend is gay, so it's not about that. You're right Mairuzu, it is a personal problem. It was a childish choose your side in my head. I called them this instant and told them I didn't bother. She was hurt in the break-up to, and she told me she felt good when she talked to him. So there, as much as I don't like it, problem is solved.

Thanks guys, I just needed to hear what I already knew inside myself.

Originally posted by Mandos
My friend is gay, so it's not about that. You're right Mairuzu, it is a personal problem. It was a childish choose your side in my head. I called them this instant and told them I didn't bother. She was hurt in the break-up to, and she told me she felt good when she talked to him. So there, as much as I don't like it, problem is solved.

Thanks guys, I just needed to hear what I already knew inside myself.

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Originally posted by Mairuzu
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Was I unclear?

So he's her gay friend?

Yeah, you'd be a dick if you did that.