Originally posted by jaden101
i've got my big brother's wedding next weekend and i'm the best man...anyone done this or heard any good speeches with good jokes?
any good ways to cope with nerves?...except for the obvious one which will include me getting drunk...as i'll probably be doing that anyway
Just talk about how happy you are for him, what a good brother he is, and how he would make a good husband and father, or something like that.
Be natural.
Smile, stand up / walk up to the mic or whatever, and greet the audience. Perhaps start off with a "Hello, most of you know who I am, but I'll introduce myself again in case some of you have forgotten me,"
Be honest, and speak clearly. That's what makes a good speech. Make it interesting, and don't go on and on about similar points, but make it short and catchy, ya know?
If you get too nervous, remember that you can do this, it's just a matter of getting over your fear of embarassment, etc. Drink a glass of warm water, stay calm and watch how you pronounce your words, body language and try making some eye contact with the audience.
Best of luck!