So here's a new one (to me anyway)

What do you do when somebody tells you they can't be with you unless you find yourself, and you don't want to find yourself without them? hmm

I'm mostly asking myself, but I thought I would invite the rest of you because I'm curious if you've been in a situation like this. ermm

Yes, the answer is obvious but... 😬 It's hard. I mean 3 years is a long time.

Tell him you found someone else. biscuits

That defeats the whole purpose though.

And it's a her. 😐

**** **** ****

Sorry, you tell HER to find someone else.

Originally posted by Ax3l
HER

Good one.

Seriously wtf do I do?

edit: Y'know what? Nevermind. Because it seems to be the only answer that I'll accept is to become an *******. That seems to solve most of the problem. 313

Originally posted by Itzak
Seriously wtf do I do?

Tons of guys out there.

Just let him go.

Originally posted by Itzak
What do you do when somebody tells you they can't be with you unless you find yourself, and you don't want to find yourself without them? hmm

I'm mostly asking myself, but I thought I would invite the rest of you because I'm curious if you've been in a situation like this. ermm

Yes, the answer is obvious but... 😬 It's hard. I mean 3 years is a long time.

Punch her in the face. When she comes to, tell her you found yourself. She'll have no memory of how much time had past.

Originally posted by Ahsoka Tano
Tons of guys out there.

Just let him go.

😬 *sigh*

It's even harder to let someone you love go when the rest of the world acts so dysfunctional, so retarded, so cruel...

or at least it seems to be.

Originally posted by gefallen_engel
you've been with her for 3 years?
and now she doesn't want to be with you unless you find yourself?
seems kinda odd to me but I am a bit of a cynical

We've been together for 2 years, it's 3 years she's going to be away.

Originally posted by Ax3l
Punch her in the face. When she comes to, tell her you found yourself. She'll have no memory of how much time had past.

haermm

I'll save that as a last resort. Thanks

Originally posted by Ax3l
Punch her in the face. When she comes to, tell her you found yourself. She'll have no memory of how much time had past.

You forgot, "molest her." I believe that comes after, "punch in the face."

Originally posted by Itzak
😬 *sigh*

It's even harder to let someone you love go when the rest of the world acts so dysfunctional, so retarded, so cruel...

or at least it seems to be.

We've been together for 2 years, it's 3 years she's going to be away.

haermm

I'll save that as a last resort. Thanks

oh, ok.

why does she say that you need to find yourself?

Originally posted by Itzak
We've been together for 2 years, it's 3 years she's going to be away.

And from what it sounds like she's not really feeling that devoted.

Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.

No matter how hard it seems or how much it will hurt i think its time to move on...

Originally posted by Itzak
What do you do when somebody tells you they can't be with you unless you find yourself, and you don't want to find yourself without them? hmm

I'm mostly asking myself, but I thought I would invite the rest of you because I'm curious if you've been in a situation like this. ermm

Yes, the answer is obvious but... 😬 It's hard. I mean 3 years is a long time.

This is just my guess or insight, but its coming off to me that she likes or even loves you, but isn't IN love with you

if that makes sense mmm

Here's one cliche quote:

"If you love her, let her go"

probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but time will heal the wounds 😬

Dude, what that really means is you're a failure at life. You're not motivated. You aren't accomplished. You're a floater. She wants to to do something with yourself. Have you seen Forgetting Sarah Marshall? Yeah, you're that guy.

Of course, I don't think that, but it would appear that she does. You're just another dude on the message board....you really never doing anything "dick" and you seem like a nice guy. "Nice guys finish last" does have truth in it, I suppose.

Is there another dude?

Also, Itzak, you're unbelievably attractive mmm I wonder whats going on in her mind

Originally posted by Itzak
What do you do when somebody tells you they can't be with you unless you find yourself, and you don't want to find yourself without them? hmm

I'm mostly asking myself, but I thought I would invite the rest of you because I'm curious if you've been in a situation like this. ermm

Yes, the answer is obvious but... 😬 It's hard. I mean 3 years is a long time.

There is more going on than she is telling you.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
That's a lame reason. Almost as lame as "It's not you it's me."

There is more going on than she is telling you.

Wants to let him down gently without saying it...then again just the way i'm reading into.

Originally posted by screwtheroses
Wants to let him down gently without saying it...then again just the way i'm reading into.

But hey, we men are the pigs, right?