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Here's the situation.

I had arranged to go out tonight with a woman i know and another friend i know. She asked if it would be ok to ask her new boyfriend or whether it would be "weird"...I said no...it'd be fine.

Then this morning i had an issue come up with a family member that needed sorted....namely my little cousin's boyfriend had been beating shit out of her so she moved back with her parents (along with her 2 year old son) until he moved out their flat...he kept refusing to go. He finally agreed so my uncle went along to be in the flat while he was getting his stuff. they ended up having an argument and the guy ended up knocking shit out my uncle. So i had to cancel to go up to my cousin's flat to kick the guy out

So i cancelled...i didn't want this lady friend of mine to know the full details because, quite frankly it's none of her business. so i text the following

"not going to be able to make tonight. something's come up. sorry."

i get the usual text of concern asking what's wrong and whether it's because she'd invited her new boyfriend and telling me that he couldn't make it anyway

i said "can't be helped. can't really talk about. hope you can get someone else to go"

she then said it was ok and that she'd cancelled the reservations at the restaraunt because she didn't want to go just with our other friend who happens to be married because going out alone with a married man is a gray area

i said that was understandable and that we'd get something else organised soon.

so...i went straight from work to deal with the issue i mentioned...it took about an hour...so now i'm home and low and behold i'm online...she sees i'm online and i get a message through bebo saying this..

Gary what;s going on with you? I'm pretty pissed off after sitting like a plum phoning round places and booking a table with you not even wanting to suggest a place to eat?? Then you cancel at the eleventh hour - the restaurant was pissy with me on the phone and now you're sitting on Bebo????? What the ****???? Why don't you and Bradley just head out cause I've had enough of the shitey treatment off men this year....why are you making me feel like I've done something wrong?

seriously people...how the **** to do even respond to a total self centered attitude like that?

Don't tar us all with the same brush just cause you attract psychos mhm

sounds like she's not worth a f*cking second of time

Must be my great personalities

Both of you should calm down, she just jumped the gun and thought you were flat out lying, should have been more clear to her and she shouldn't be assuming.

She was probably upset that it was cancelled in the first plac which is why she reacted that way

Originally posted by Piggle Humsy
Don't tar us all with the same brush just cause you attract psychos mhm

uhuh


Though I find it odd you wouldn't share you family troubles with a concerned friend, but rather told us all. haermm

Tell her to build a bridge and get over it. its not like the whole world revolves around certain persons (women) as they think. You had your stuff to do and one day she might have hers too.

Just explain that your computer just happened to be online during a crisis.

Either that or she doesn't trust you awehuhs

Don't assume that girl is self centered just because all women are psychos mhm

Originally posted by Toku King
Just explain that your computer just happened to be online during a crisis.

.......i see what you did there.

Originally posted by silver_tears
uhuh


Though I find it odd you wouldn't share you family troubles with a concerned friend, but rather told us all. haermm

good point haermm

Well, we guys will likely never meet him or deal with his family...she on the other hand is in the area and apparently a friend that might know or meet his family...so...it's different.

Originally posted by GCG
Tell her to build a bridge and get over it. its not like the whole world revolves around certain persons (women) as they think. You had your stuff to do and one day she might have hers too.

Exactly...i have had girlfriends less clingy than this...I don't ask for explanations from friends when they text me saying they can't make it to nights out for whatever reason.



Cause you lot are all a bunch of scandel loving yet completely anonymous internet beings...not real people.



I could see trust being an issue if we were going out...but feck...she has a boyfriend.

anyway...i responded with this

"i really don't see where you're getting that from. I did what i needed to do earlier. family stuff that you don't want to know about. I apologised but it couldn't be helped. I don't see how i'm making you feel like you've done something wrong"

i don't know what else i can say. I've already apologised for cancelling...i have nothing else to apologise for so any issue she has with it she'll have to deal with.

Originally posted by jaden101
Exactly...i have had girlfriends less clingy than this...I don't ask for explanations from friends when they text me saying they can't make it to nights out for whatever reason.



Cause you lot are all a bunch of scandel loving yet completely anonymous internet beings...not real people.



I could see trust being an issue if we were going out...but feck...she has a boyfriend.

anyway...i responded with this

"i really don't see where you're getting that from. I did what i needed to do earlier. family stuff that you don't want to know about. I apologised but it couldn't be helped. I don't see how i'm making you feel like you've done something wrong"

i don't know what else i can say. I've already apologised for cancelling...i have nothing else to apologise for so any issue she has with it she'll have to deal with.

Originally posted by Toku King
Just explain that your computer just happened to be online during a crisis.

definitely the best choice, I believe

She just didn't understand why you canceled, and was afraid it was because of her.

Sounds logical kinda. Pass the bong around and everyone will calm themselves.

Originally posted by jaden101
Gary what;s going on with you? I'm pretty pissed off after sitting like a plum phoning round places and booking a table with you not even wanting to suggest a place to eat?? Then you cancel at the eleventh hour - the restaurant was pissy with me on the phone and now you're sitting on Bebo????? What the ****???? Why don't you and Bradley just head out cause I've had enough of the shitey treatment off men this year....why are you making me feel like I've done something wrong?

seriously people...how the **** to do even respond to a total self centered attitude like that?

While I think you didn't do anything wrong, see it from her POV, you cancelled abruptly, you were very vague as to why and not long after she sees you online chatting (or thinking you were). I wouldn't tell her to ****-off just yet. Explain that you had a serious family issue (don't have to give details) and that you took care of it right after work, then went home to cool off.

Tell her it was nothing against her and if she likes, you'd love to take her out soon. If she still acts pissy, then boot her to the curb.

How did the ass-kicking go? Can't stand women-beaters.

Beat her with a sack of oranges. They're hard enough to hurt, but they won't leave a mark.

Originally posted by Impediment
Beat her with a sack of oranges. They're hard enough to hurt, but they won't leave a mark.

You sound like a pro haermm

Originally posted by jaden101
Here's the situation.

I had arranged to go out tonight with a woman i know and another friend i know. She asked if it would be ok to ask her new boyfriend or whether it would be "weird"...I said no...it'd be fine.

Then this morning i had an issue come up with a family member that needed sorted....namely my little cousin's boyfriend had been beating shit out of her so she moved back with her parents (along with her 2 year old son) until he moved out their flat...he kept refusing to go. He finally agreed so my uncle went along to be in the flat while he was getting his stuff. they ended up having an argument and the guy ended up knocking shit out my uncle. So i had to cancel to go up to my cousin's flat to kick the guy out

So i cancelled...i didn't want this lady friend of mine to know the full details because, quite frankly it's none of her business. so i text the following

"not going to be able to make tonight. something's come up. sorry."

i get the usual text of concern asking what's wrong and whether it's because she'd invited her new boyfriend and telling me that he couldn't make it anyway

i said "can't be helped. can't really talk about. hope you can get someone else to go"

she then said it was ok and that she'd cancelled the reservations at the restaraunt because she didn't want to go just with our other friend who happens to be married because going out alone with a married man is a gray area

i said that was understandable and that we'd get something else organised soon.

so...i went straight from work to deal with the issue i mentioned...it took about an hour...so now i'm home and low and behold i'm online...she sees i'm online and i get a message through bebo saying this..

Gary what;s going on with you? I'm pretty pissed off after sitting like a plum phoning round places and booking a table with you not even wanting to suggest a place to eat?? Then you cancel at the eleventh hour - the restaurant was pissy with me on the phone and now you're sitting on Bebo????? What the ****???? Why don't you and Bradley just head out cause I've had enough of the shitey treatment off men this year....why are you making me feel like I've done something wrong?

seriously people...how the **** to do even respond to a total self centered attitude like that? She thinks you blew her off. Your excuse to her was pretty vague. You dont have to tell her details, but you could have explained it better.

Punch her in the face, I hear women love that.

Yup...then shoot in her mouth.

Originally posted by Impediment
Beat her with a sack of oranges. They're hard enough to hurt, but they won't leave a mark.

That's prison guard experience then?

Originally posted by jaden101
Here's the situation.

I had arranged to go out tonight with a woman i know and another friend i know. She asked if it would be ok to ask her new boyfriend or whether it would be "weird"...I said no...it'd be fine.

Then this morning i had an issue come up with a family member that needed sorted....namely my little cousin's boyfriend had been beating shit out of her so she moved back with her parents (along with her 2 year old son) until he moved out their flat...he kept refusing to go. He finally agreed so my uncle went along to be in the flat while he was getting his stuff. they ended up having an argument and the guy ended up knocking shit out my uncle. So i had to cancel to go up to my cousin's flat to kick the guy out

So i cancelled...i didn't want this lady friend of mine to know the full details because, quite frankly it's none of her business. so i text the following

"not going to be able to make tonight. something's come up. sorry."

i get the usual text of concern asking what's wrong and whether it's because she'd invited her new boyfriend and telling me that he couldn't make it anyway

i said "can't be helped. can't really talk about. hope you can get someone else to go"

she then said it was ok and that she'd cancelled the reservations at the restaraunt because she didn't want to go just with our other friend who happens to be married because going out alone with a married man is a gray area

i said that was understandable and that we'd get something else organised soon.

so...i went straight from work to deal with the issue i mentioned...it took about an hour...so now i'm home and low and behold i'm online...she sees i'm online and i get a message through bebo saying this..

Gary what;s going on with you? I'm pretty pissed off after sitting like a plum phoning round places and booking a table with you not even wanting to suggest a place to eat?? Then you cancel at the eleventh hour - the restaurant was pissy with me on the phone and now you're sitting on Bebo????? What the ****???? Why don't you and Bradley just head out cause I've had enough of the shitey treatment off men this year....why are you making me feel like I've done something wrong?

seriously people...how the **** to do even respond to a total self centered attitude like that?

I can see why she's pissed off. She obviously thinks you blew her off for no reason when she saw you on Bebo. Most people would react the same.

Originally posted by Robtard
While I think you didn't do anything wrong, see it from her POV, you cancelled abruptly, you were very vague as to why and not long after she sees you online chatting (or thinking you were). I wouldn't tell her to ****-off just yet. Explain that you had a serious family issue (don't have to give details) and that you took care of it right after work, then went home to cool off.

Tell her it was nothing against her and if she likes, you'd love to take her out soon. If she still acts pissy, then boot her to the curb.

How did the ass-kicking go? Can't stand women-beaters.



This guy has the best advice.





I would later confront her about her treating you like a back-up boyfriend. If I were you, I would have kicked her to the curb before this situation as it sounds like there was probably other signs that she would be difficult.



If you need a date, just pull up your pant leg and flex those massive manly calves.

just a question, but if you didn't want to share it with her because it was none of her business, why are you putting it publicly on the internetz? :/

Originally posted by Lord Knightfa11
just a question, but if you didn't want to share it with her because it was none of her business, why are you putting it publicly on the internetz? :/ He answered that, should really read beyond the first post, dude.

Originally posted by Robtard


How did the ass-kicking go? Can't stand women-beaters.

Neither can i....and it's not the 1st time she's shacked up with an ******* who puts his hands to women like that...the 1st one got the shoeing of his life...so did this one...and he'll be getting another 1 soon for turning up at my aunt and uncles house last night after he got his 1st shoeing.



most people i know would ask if i got the issue sorted instead of making the whole thing about them.

Originally posted by Lord Knightfa11
just a question, but if you didn't want to share it with her because it was none of her business, why are you putting it publicly on the internetz? :/

All women are factually cretinous.

Ok, not all. Some.

-AC

Men don't get boob jobs to make their boob's look bigger, then complain when someone stare at them.

Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
All women are factually cretinous.

Ok, not all. Some.

-AC

You were closer to being correct in the first line.

There's a saying I live by: "They're all whores but you, Ma."

Men don't wear high heels and complain their feet hurt.

Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
Men don't wear high heels and complain their feet hurt.

Women eh!

Boob jobs,
nose jobs,
teeth bleaching,
tummy tucks,
liposuction,
colonic irrigation,
botox,
pierced ears, nipples, bellys and clits,
eyebrows plucked,
bikini wax,
armpits shaved,
lips tattooed,
legs waxed,
diets,
exercise


but they won't take it up the arse cause it 'hurts'.

roflmao

Originally posted by Robtard
You were closer to being correct in the first line.

There's a saying I live by: "They're all whores but you, Ma." My experiences begs to differ.


Especially about your ma.

Shoulda just said a family emergency came up. When someone says 'something came up can't make it' it's so vague that it sounds like a lazy lie that someone is using to get out of something. Especially to dramatic women, which is about 90% of them.

Originally posted by GCG


but they won't take it up the arse cause it 'hurts'.

You're obviously doing it wrong, rookie, or you're dating uptight ones, na, you're doing it wrong, I bet.

Originally posted by Bardock42
My experiences begs to differ.


Especially about your ma.

She's a saint, unlike your goosestepping grand-mama.

Originally posted by Robtard
She's a saint, unlike your goosestepping grand-mama.

Well, that really depends on whether you think that the Concentration Camps were justified or not.

Originally posted by GCG
Women eh!

Boob jobs,
nose jobs,
teeth bleaching,
tummy tucks,
liposuction,
colonic irrigation,
botox,
pierced ears, nipples, bellys and clits,
eyebrows plucked,
bikini wax,
armpits shaved,
lips tattooed,
legs waxed,
diets,
exercise


but they won't take it up the arse cause it 'hurts'.

And women do all that stupid shit because men are immature assholes who can't keep their eyes and thoughts to themselves.

I love generalizing, it's so fun.

hey!! not all of us are that way!!

It does seem like viable advice.

On both accounts.

The title speaks for itself. LOL!

Originally posted by gefallen_engel
hey!! not all of us are that way!! same for men?

Originally posted by Robtard
You're obviously doing it wrong, rookie, or you're dating uptight ones, na, you're doing it wrong, I bet.

I'll teach you somet: Donkey Punch

Batkick pwns donkey punch.

http://icanhascheezburger.files.wordpress.com/2007/07/otter-no-bucket.jpg

Originally posted by Mairuzu
Both of you should calm down, she just jumped the gun and thought you were flat out lying, should have been more clear to her and she shouldn't be assuming.

She was probably upset that it was cancelled in the first plac which is why she reacted that way

Originally posted by GCG
Women eh!

Boob jobs,
nose jobs,
teeth bleaching,
tummy tucks,
liposuction,
colonic irrigation,
botox,
pierced ears, nipples, bellys and clits,
eyebrows plucked,
bikini wax,
armpits shaved,
lips tattooed,
legs waxed,
diets,
exercise


but they won't take it up the arse cause it 'hurts'.

Nonsense

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Originally posted by Mywi
Nonsense I pluck my eyebrows....