SnakeEyes
Or rather, some would be interesting to hear. Can't promise I'll actually follow any of KMC's advice.
Basically I became interested in this girl at the college I attend. After getting to know her decently well over the course of like 3 weeks, I asked her out to dinner. She responded strangely and I found out that she already has a love interest in her life, not a boyfriend, but she has an existing interest in someone else. Naturally, I was disappointed, but she basically told me she was extremely confused because now she has an interest in me as well.
So she's somewhat torn. I can't do much it seems like.
She told me: "Can't we just have fun?" -- Which I took to mean: "Can't we just have fun... UNTIL this other guy is ready to date me?"
She said herself there's a chance of me getting ****ed over in this whole situation if I pursue her further, but she does indeed want me to pursue her.
So I'm kind of just like "well, balls."
Anyway, what'd you do?
Ditch her?
Pursue her whilst risking the chance of getting brushed aside for this other dude?
Keep in mind, I've known her for a month. She's known this guy since she was 12...
Basically I became interested in this girl at the college I attend. After getting to know her decently well over the course of like 3 weeks, I asked her out to dinner. She responded strangely and I found out that she already has a love interest in her life, not a boyfriend, but she has an existing interest in someone else. Naturally, I was disappointed, but she basically told me she was extremely confused because now she has an interest in me as well.
So she's somewhat torn. I can't do much it seems like.
She told me: "Can't we just have fun?" -- Which I took to mean: "Can't we just have fun... UNTIL this other guy is ready to date me?"
She said herself there's a chance of me getting ****ed over in this whole situation if I pursue her further, but she does indeed want me to pursue her.
So I'm kind of just like "well, balls."
Anyway, what'd you do?
Ditch her?
Pursue her whilst risking the chance of getting brushed aside for this other dude?
Keep in mind, I've known her for a month. She's known this guy since she was 12...