parent child divorce.

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rox
does anyone know how you go about getting a parent child divorce. in other words how do you divorce your parents legally from being related to you.

chomperx9
Originally posted by rox
does anyone know how you go about getting a parent child divorce. in other words how do you divorce your parents legally from being related to you. tell CPS your parents abuse you and sexually molest you. from there they will find you new parents.

good luck

Ms.Marvel
you have to go to court and convince the court that youre either extremely unhappy living with them or theyre sucky parents in which case theyll either give you new ones or theyll put you in like an orphan type of deal.

rox
Originally posted by chomperx9
tell CPS your parents abuse you and sexually molest you. from there they will find you new parents.

good luck


i'm being serious dude. no joking around

Wild Shadow
make sure ur parents have high income in the 6 digits and find a money grubby divorce lawyer that will want to take ur case making ur parents pay for ur legal bills...

try to proof that they are unable to provide basic care supervision...

BruceSkywalker
its called being an emancipated minor

chomperx9
Originally posted by Ms.Marvel
you have to go to court and convince the court that youre either extremely unhappy living with them or theyre sucky parents in which case theyll either give you new ones or theyll put you in like an orphan type of deal. but they wont do that for you just because mommy and daddy didnt buy your GI Joe collection for christmas or you didnt get your pony when you turned sweet 16

rox
Originally posted by Ms.Marvel
you have to go to court and convince the court that youre either extremely unhappy living with them or theyre sucky parents in which case theyll either give you new ones or theyll put you in like an orphan type of deal.

damn you have to go to court. btw i don't need new parents i am 25.

but thank you very much for the info.

WhiskeyGirl
you're 25 and want to "divorce" your parents....I don't really see a point...

Wild Shadow
if i had the time i do it too.. also maybe he has some kind of disability, u never know

Symmetric Chaos
Originally posted by Wild Shadow
if i had the time i do it too.. also maybe he has some kind of disability, u never know

Or maybe he's a really incompetent law student.

Wild Shadow
i paid a lawyer 10 grand for a case that lasted a full yr and 10 minutes of court time and charges dropped just so he could say exactly what i had bn saying from the minute of my arrest... 5 yrs later i found out i could have actually filled out my own paper work and looked up my charges at a public law library in one of the court buildings....

doh

rox
Originally posted by WhiskeyGirl
you're 25 and want to "divorce" your parents....I don't really see a point...


because i still take care of one and they still want to act like i am a child and yell scream and fight(physically). i am to a point where i just don't care anymore.

rox
Originally posted by Symmetric Chaos
Or maybe he's a really incompetent law student.


i am neither of what you two say

Bardock42
You can't stop being related to them, just as much as you can't change your birthday. It is just a fact of your life. You have however no obligation to take care of them or ever see them as far as I know. You can basically cut them out of your life and never see them or talk to them again.

Wild Shadow
but if they die woouldnt the state want you to take care of their debt or funerals?

Bardock42
Originally posted by Wild Shadow
but if they die woouldnt the state want you to take care of their debt or funerals?

No, you don't have to take care of a debt that you have not created or don't have a stake in, as far as I know.

They may however ask the closest relative to pay for the funeral, however I think even that you can refuse depending on the laws.

chomperx9
Originally posted by Bardock42
No, you don't have to take care of a debt that you have not created or don't have a stake in, as far as I know.

They may however ask the closest relative to pay for the funeral, however I think even that you can refuse depending on the laws. wrong. after my dad died only money i got was $500 bucks left over cause the rest of the money had to go towards money he owed. his car payments credit cards , the house. i got nothing in the end

Ms.Marvel
Originally posted by chomperx9
but they wont do that for you just because mommy and daddy didnt buy your GI Joe collection for christmas or you didnt get your pony when you turned sweet 16

im giving the information with the assumption that the reason for this person wanting to be separated from their parents is because said parents are abusive/incompetent douchebags. no expression

if theyre not... well... why go through the trouble of trying to get away from them.

Bardock42
Originally posted by chomperx9
wrong. after my dad died only money i got was $500 bucks left over cause the rest of the money had to go towards money he owed. his car payments credit cards , the house. i got nothing in the end

...how is that wrong? You got 500$, not any debt. I never said that his debt wouldn't be paid with his assets. I said you wouldn't have to pay it.

Robtard
Originally posted by rox
because i still take care of one and they still want to act like i am a child and yell scream and fight(physically). i am to a point where i just don't care anymore.

Move out on your own, if your conscious allows it. That simple.

rox
Originally posted by Robtard
Move out on your own, if your conscious allows it. That simple.

thats just it. i feel like i would be abandoning them. but at the same time i want my own place and i am tired of being treated like pure shit and always avoiding physical confrontation.

Scythe
Depending on their age (gently take them/dump them - your choice) in a retirement home and have the place to yourself. That way, you're alone and someone will take care of them. Though that may be stressful in the financial area.

Bardock42
Originally posted by rox
thats just it. i feel like i would be abandoning them. but at the same time i want my own place and i am tired of being treated like pure shit and always avoiding physical confrontation.

But then the issue is just with your emotional connection to it. That's something you will have to figure out for yourself.

One Free Man
Originally posted by rox
thats just it. i feel like i would be abandoning them. but at the same time i want my own place and i am tired of being treated like pure shit and always avoiding physical confrontation. If you're 25 you can leave.

How old are your parents?

Divorce is pointless, and why? You want to divorce them, but leaving them makes you feel like you are abandoning them? what's up with that?

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by rox
does anyone know how you go about getting a parent child divorce. in other words how do you divorce your parents legally from being related to you.

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Bardock42
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
http://tinyurl.com/yao877d

Nice

Scythe
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
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Ahaha, neat.

Q'Anilia
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
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Victory

WhiskeyGirl
Nice.

Rox- You emancipating them isn't going to make you leaving them any easier, it's just going to require time and money, both of which you could be spending on finding your own place.

If it's really as bad as you say it is, leave. Plain and simple.

rox
Originally posted by WhiskeyGirl
Nice.

Rox- You emancipating them isn't going to make you leaving them any easier, it's just going to require time and money, both of which you could be spending on finding your own place.

If it's really as bad as you say it is, leave. Plain and simple.


i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)

Robtard
Originally posted by rox
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)

If you really want to leave and can let go of the emotional aspect of it, involve the police if you have to and prepare ahead, have a place to go, a place to store your things if need be, your finances in order etc.

Mom/Dad goes to stop you with a spinning back-kick when you're on the way out, have the cops there to intervene, it's what we pay them for.

chomperx9
Originally posted by Bardock42
...how is that wrong? You got 500$, not any debt. I never said that his debt wouldn't be paid with his assets. I said you wouldn't have to pay it. yes you do have to pay. my dad left me 1000s of $ but he was in debt all the money he left we had to pay off his credit cards he owed the bank alot of money. had to pay the dealership some major bucks. all that was left was $500 and thats nothing. usually when someone dies in your family you get a little more than that

chomperx9
Originally posted by rox
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part) do you have any relatives that you get along with and enjoy being with ? any uncles or aunts ? if yes move in with them. if they love you they would understand whats going on and they wouldnt let you mind staying for awhile till u got your own permenant place.

Bardock42
Originally posted by chomperx9
yes you do have to pay. my dad left me 1000s of $ but he was in debt all the money he left we had to pay off his credit cards he owed the bank alot of money. had to pay the dealership some major bucks. all that was left was $500 and thats nothing. usually when someone dies in your family you get a little more than that

That's only if you accept the inheritence though. In theory that should be done by the executor of the inheritence anyways. But again, it is not possible to have to pay the debt of a parent unless you consented to it.

So my point, again, is that you did not inherit the debt, you inherited all your dad's assets, which, after paying off debt were 500$. Which is not much, but it's a positive amount.

chomperx9
Originally posted by Bardock42
That's only if you accept the inheritence though. In theory that should be done by the executor of the inheritence anyways. But again, it is not possible to have to pay the debt of a parent unless you consented to it.

if they leave you a will your good you dont have to pay any of the crap they owe. my dad didnt leave me a will

WhiskeyGirl
Originally posted by rox
i tried to leave once and lets just say things got physical(not on my part)


and lets just say, you haven't tried hard enough.

If you REALLY want to leave, call the police and have them escort you out.

They're free and will be there in a matter of minutes.

There is NO EXCUSE not to.


But, if you're just on here doing this for attention...shrug

Bardock42
Originally posted by chomperx9
if they leave you a will your good you dont have to pay any of the crap they owe. my dad didnt leave me a will

That doesn't change the fact really. You are not responsible for their debt, unless you consent to it.

Shakyamunison
Originally posted by rox
because i still take care of one and they still want to act like i am a child and yell scream and fight(physically). i am to a point where i just don't care anymore.

Leave. You are an adult. However, my real advice: take care of your parents, but if they become physically abusive, call the police. Do not put up with that, and let them know that fact.

Your parents helped you into the world and it is your responsibility to help them. However, there is a limit. At that point, pack your bags and go.

WhiskeyGirl
Originally posted by Shakyamunison
Leave. You are an adult. However, my real advice: take care of your parents, but if they become physically abusive, call the police. Do not put up with that, and let them know that fact.

Your parents helped you into the world and it is your responsibility to help them. However, there is a limit. At that point, pack your bags and go.

I agree

rox
Originally posted by WhiskeyGirl
and lets just say, you haven't tried hard enough.

If you REALLY want to leave, call the police and have them escort you out.

They're free and will be there in a matter of minutes.

There is NO EXCUSE not to.


But, if you're just on here doing this for attention...shrug

not doing this for attention. i got my answer thanks.

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by Bardock42
Nice

Originally posted by Scythe
Ahaha, neat.

Originally posted by Q'Anilia
Victory

One would think that the most expedient and reliable way to get an answer to a question would be to type the query into the appropriate field and press the search button, rather than pose the question to members on a message board.

rox
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
One would think that the most expedient and reliable way to get an answer to a question would be to type the query into the appropriate field and press the search button, rather than pose the question to members on a message board.

post it on a message board where your parents who are tech savy don't look at because they aren't interested is the best place to post it rather than type it in a search engine where they can easily look at the drop down button that tell where a person has been or the address they have typed.

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by rox
post it on a message board where your parents who are tech savy don't look at because they aren't interested is the best place to post it rather than type it in a search engine where they can easily look at the drop down button that tell where a person has been or the address they have typed.

Are we to believe that you are 25-years-old, and do not know how to browse the internet privately?

Shey Tapani
Oh gosh,you cant divorce from your parents you have to try to understand them.

I remember my parents abused me verbally so bad i litteraly to take a
beating insted.

I should had the right to choose a different guardianbut i live in Romania.

kangyu
edit

WhiskeyGirl
Originally posted by rox
post it on a message board where your parents who are tech savy don't look at because they aren't interested is the best place to post it rather than type it in a search engine where they can easily look at the drop down button that tell where a person has been or the address they have typed.


There is no way you're 25.

All you do is hit CLEAR History roll eyes (sarcastic)

Jack Daniels
isnt she friggin gorgeous

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