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I met this girl I go to school with two months back the 22th of November, we hit it of really well. We liked talking to eachother felt like we could share almost everything. We had a lot of the same friends. So we graduately became closer friends. We spent a lot of time with eachother in the X-mas holidays. But lately she was acting a bit strange. So I phoned her after she had cancelled on me (we were going to watch a movie) and she told me: I feel cornered by you, I went What the hell? she said: I am trying to create some distance between the two of us, because when we are together we look like a couple, and I don't want that, because I only feel friendship. so we have to change this thing between us to normal friends again.

So I agreed, was a bit upset by this but still that's life. Now the thing is that we had agreed with another friend of mine to go and have a drink, we still did that, and she acted like not much had happened. But ever since monday she is kinda ignoring me. She never speaks to me unless it is really necessairy and even then it is pretty short, she almost never seeks Eye-contact and whenever I do catch her looking in my direction she turns away real fast.

According to my sisters boyfriend and a mate we both know, she is trying to figure out what she exactly feels for me and I should let her be for a while.

well I am planning to but I still think men (atleast my friends and myself) are easier about that, I just tell someone straight up what I feel I don't play games like this

well,let's think of the best.this sounds like the low low ush thread
Valantine's Day is comming....

sorry, well no I just want other ppl their opinions I can accept the fact and dont really mind that much

But your way assumes that you always know what you feel, and it is cruel to expect people to always know that.

yea that's a fact ppl dont always know what they fell, but I think they can atleast admit that they don't know what they are feeling

and then, there's the 'expressing yourself' problem wich is encountered

Have you ever tried to call someone up and explain you do not know how you feel?

not really, but I can assume it is hard, well atleast I would think it is a bit more of an honnest and fair treatment then the silent treatment

*scared tone*
she....she's messing with your mind man!

Nah, you are very lucky if you find someone who can try and talk about their confused feelings so.

well I try to, but maybe the silence is a better idea, atleast ppl cant get the wrong idea by your words

but they might get the wrong idea by your actions

BUT, if it holds for more than let's say 2 weeks...intervention from you could be needed again.

lol dexx we will see, it looked a bit better today already

it's on the good way.....

I sure hope so fitch

do good in classes.....try to make it look like you're actually studying....oh, wait, maybe you really are..

don't give him ideeas from our experience,he needs to learn...

lol we will see

so,what's new in u're story ?

yesterday we celebrated our 100 days
that means that we only have 100 school days left untill we graduate it is celebrated pretty big, doing some class activities, having a reception at school and a very big party afterwards
and well atleast we did have some small conversations again
but I don't really mind that much anymore we will see how things evolve

I wouldn't worry about one girl at your age, you should just have fun n-joi yourself and if anything happens with someone then so be it, otherwise Rave and mis-behave.

lol that's an idea

It's not just an idea, it's a way of life.

It's the future, no more Buddism instead we will have corranism.

yea that'd be an idea

don't you have a big exam or something..for graduation?
cuz studying reaaaally sux!

it might suck but you still need studying

yeah.Unfortunatly......

studying doesnt really suck
not yet alteast it will probably start at uni

Mmm...mental crisis...

just at some domains.
Yes, i do need it finiti. But unfortunatley it's not always paying off in the end.

true, but you might do better than you expected in the end, but on the other hand.......

it's boring?

....you could do worse!

ooh! well true that.

humn..........?

the infamous humn!
true that you can also do worse than you expected.

:P

never happened

Why ? (stupid question....awaits stupid answer...)

because it never happened

here's the stupid answer

...yup...completley satisfied...
BTW Finti , notice how I manipulated u into saying something stupid...

are you a russian spy,rusky ?

I'm repeating myself.. U should know Fitch!
Actually I'm a double agent for the KGB and FBI, working part-time with the CIA as a snitch... OH yeah.. in the holydays I visit my sister in the Mosad!

(yeah I know,but I still have to act as I don't,just as other ppl will understand what are we talking about)
nice family....

or to put it this way rusky the bear, I manipulated you to wait dfor a stupid reply

"..the bear,.. " ?

Russians are sometimes refered to as ruskys and bear is also a russian tnick thingie

Ohh... yeah... "I'm the russian.. uh...<beer> ... machine!"

not beer........vodka

Then I should also add.. not machine , drinking machine !

you could.....

who cares

The vodka distillery...

russian communist bastard....

Excuuse me.... u Capitalist PIG!!

let's get back to the topic.....at least closer

funny to see two goulash boys argue about capitalism vs comunism

Ok! That's it... what's the deal with "goulash boys" !?!?

hey,norsy boy

Vlad Goulash how are you

....mess with us and we'll send u flying to wallhalla to meet the valkyries !

it is Vallhall

Oh...I alway thought it was with an a in the end...

in english yes not in Norwegian it is Vall hal in Norwegian Val is old norse for battle field and hall is hall

So it's like the batle field hall... nice...

more or less.

why is that ?

that is the place where every norse worrior wanted to go.They were glad to die in battle so they could go in VallHall and wait the moment when that God,I don't remember the name,took them to the battle against evil where they should lose.At least that's what I know....

*hits the deck* hey! watch out for that axe!

No fitch in Vallhall all good norse men could battle during the day and feast at night, and when morning came it was doing it all over again.
To go to Vallhall you had to have died of a wound, thats why many who where sick let themself be stabbed to death so that they could enter Vallhall.

*yawn* Oops, sorry finti, did I just yawn!?

yep, seems so

And the god was Thor right ?

I think so.anyway I was pretty close to the truth .
the truth is the norse and asian cultures are my favorits.....

Oh .... I'm sure Finti will like u more now...

I don't think so.I told him that many times....so it's not something new....

...doesn't matter..he'll be happy to see u r persistent in u'r belief....

I always am....

...uh....then move over in my class....

Topic alert! Topic alert!

This one is straying badly. We want to keep the topics a bit more on the ball than they have been lately; if you see a good idea to talk about in a topic, it would be preferable if you opened a seperate thread about it, thanks.

np...

one of my brothers friends keeps ringing me and he's asked me out, I told him I had a BF but he still hasnt got the message. I'm trying not to be rude to him. but it really is F*****g me off! any ideas lads?

I think I have posted the mens unwritten rules on here somewhere, rule 5 applies, I think you should quote this.

5. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever, unless you actually marry her.

Lara tell him you are a lesbian

That wouldn't necessarily put me off, might make me more determined.

Tell you BF so he can 'have a word'

or your brother

I dont actually have a BF I just thought it would get him off my back, and I'm not going to tell my brother coz I dont want to reck they friendship.
and I will most sertainly not tell this guy I'm a lesbian, the word will spread like wild fire! and its not true.

kick his ass then

Yes, plan B - Violence is always a good option.

always

I'd love to, but he's not really worth it!
dont get me wrong he's a nice guy, but as far as looks go I think he fell out of the ugly tree from the top and climbed it again for fun!

Hitting every branch on the way down, both time too?

Ooooo! yes!

How unfortunate.

for him yes. for me, its just revoltion!

just tell it to him, face to face "Sorry mate, you're a nice and all that, but with a face that reminds me more of minced sewer waste than anything else, it just won't work." ..or not.

or sorry girl but...............

sorry! what do you mean by that Finti?

I suggest doing what mah said... I'll say that worked 4 me... a girl told me that once and a lot changed about me in the following years... so Lara , be an angel and do tell him that, although (from my own experience) I tell u he'll probably hate u 4 it , if he gets the point, a few years later u won't recognize him...

Cruel to be kind.

Life's a ***** ! I know!

and then you marry one.

!

.... sorry...can't help it....

can help what? *looks curiosly at rusky*

laughing...
What were u thinking Lara ?

your a difficult one to crack!
i dont know, I'm CONFUSED you see!

who's merrying who ?

rusky -- Life's a ***** !
Corran -- And then you marry one (a *****)

Still confused ?

It's just a stupid joke saying like lifes a ***** and then you die.
You will appreciate it when you are older young padawan learner.

have you just removed u're sig with:spoiled kid under 12 ?

Ignore him master for he has not yet learned the true ways of the Force !

Rusky,most experinced of all,......just shut up

U see ? U can't help admitting !

your sig looks like goulash Rusky

10x Finti.... the same 2 u

his.....like lutefish I think....

mine is cool, fitch you got a black and white copy off ruskys

What's this then? One Romanian sig for them all?

yes

Nice and cheap.

Actually I have a coloured version of Fitch's
And yeah queeq, that's how we like it, nice and cheap, as oposed to ugly and expensive *points finger..*

okie guys, try to keep this one on topic

here's a bit of info things are going very good between me and my female friend actualy I think everything could become normal again within a few weeks

Yeah....good going Fire.... I'm on the hunt again...

and today something else happened LOL
I got this txt msg from her "hey, don't focus on 'us'. just let it go its own way" and now I am very confused

Soo, go ask her what she meant...

maybe that's idea
maybe not

At least I make a living. And have a life.

Okay then back on topic, the answer to this is ME. In fact I managed to pick up 2 girls this weekend, not a bad weekends work if I do say so myself.

lol
corran the succes of your weekend is not measured by the amount of girls you picked up

Everton won, England beat Wales in the Rugby and Pakistan in the Cricket. All in all a good weekend.

What did you to to the girls after you picked them up?

Are there children on this site?

You're here.

OK, I meant minors, which means I am unable to disclose any of the 'events' of the weekend.

as queeq said, U're here !

yeah and .......

hmmmm......I wonder who.....

Please don't.

if you say so.....ok!

Nicely off topic this. Second warning.

lol I know those guys keep screwing up my thread

wait.it's a big diffrence beetween going a bit off-topic like here(as we ALL DO) and going completly off-topic like some time ago(and for that I'm very sorry).

THere's also a big difference between an open thread and a closed one.

and this thread will soon have experienced them both

Yup. Right now actually.