Sex addict test.

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StarCraft2
smokin' You need to get tested. smokin'

laughing I scored 12 pts laughing
http://www.sexhelp.com/sast.cfm

Dave_97
whats sex?

the ninjak
I'm a 9.

Kaibs
I scored a 12. Well damn.

steverules_2
I'm an 8

iKinneas
I scored a 2.

StarCraft2

StarCraft2
Originally posted by Dave_97
whats sex?
what is virginity?

Dave_97
Originally posted by StarCraft2
what is virginity? what is love?....baby don't hurt me.. don't hurt me.. no more...

Ax3l
Got a 6

King Castle
i got a 3 not even meeting the sex abuse criteria

§P0oONY
Dos

Rogue Jedi
5

StarCraft2
took it 3 times and answered honestly
first attempt 11. (since some questions i misread or didnt understand)
2nd and 3rd attempt 12.

Kharhmah
Originally posted by Dave_97
what is love?....baby don't hurt me.. don't hurt me.. no more...
<3 that song.

Dave_97
Originally posted by Kharhmah
<3 that song. <3 bewbies

Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Dave_97
<3 bewbies yes

Dave_97
oh god... ive become john... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Dave_97
oh god... ive become john... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! A heterosexual male who likes womens breasts? K.

§P0oONY
Originally posted by Dave_97
what is love?....baby don't hurt me.. don't hurt me.. no more... Hahaha, classic.

Is this the rhythm of the night? Oh yeah.....

(Wait, that's a different song)

Dave_97

§P0oONY
Originally posted by Dave_97
i once listened to it for 2 hours straight on repeat while playing GTA vice city.

it was a fun night. I'm guessing you were on drugs... And I'm guessing ecstasy would be best suited to that song.

Dave_97

BackFire
14

§P0oONY
Originally posted by Dave_97
i wasnt on drugs.

haddaway is awesome.
petpet

Sure...

Dave_97

StarCraft2
Originally posted by Dave_97
i once listened to boston's "More than a feeling" for 4 hours straight.

there is a story behind why, and again, nothing to do with drugs.

I will do this later today/nite

AND ROFL AT 14 LOL you are a true sex addict

i knew i am not the only one who is addicted to women's kitty

jaden101
Originally posted by BackFire
14

Superb. I only got an 11...I need to buck up my ideas and start letting my sexual "stuff" adversely affect my family.

RE: Blaxican

dadudemon
4.


I put down that sometimes, my appetite affects the family because I'll try to make-out/feel-up with my wife and one her sisters will catch me or something. I certainly think about teh lovins a lot, too.

Rogue Jedi
I cant believe I only got a 5.

AbnormalButSane
7

dadudemon
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
I cant believe I only got a 5.

I can't believe it's not butter.

Bardock42
I got an 8

Though a lot of things were a lot more negatively phrased than I would.

~Bun Bun~
5 yes

Sancty
4

Kharhmah
Five.

mikeydude
Originally posted by Rogue Jedi
5
Hey buddy. I gotta 5 too!

Leo.M
10 ermm in my defense and others... I would like to say that millions of people would kill to be as sexually active as myself and all the others that scored higher. *cough*

I'm addicted to sex. weep

amnesia
"Addicted to sex" laughing out loud

Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by mikeydude
Hey buddy. I gotta 5 too! haermm

§P0oONY
Originally posted by Bardock42
I got an 8

Though a lot of things were a lot more negatively phrased than I would. That's why I tended to say "no"... A lot of the questions were marginal, simply because of the way they werephrased.

Rogue Jedi
Originally posted by Kharhmah
Five. shifty

Originally posted by ~Bun Bun~
5 yes naughty

StarCraft2
guess what sex position is this?
w00tt00w

YankeeWhaler
10, with some of the same reasons as Starcraft2, the one that wants to shut down my threads. Sorry snookums, I won't report you to anyone.

StarCraft2
yea but this test is actually to test people's horniness

Robtard
18, did I win?

StarCraft2

YankeeWhaler
Originally posted by StarCraft2
yea but this test is actually to test people's horniness

ThAt all depends on who you are with, if with a girl that looks pale and sickly and not wearing make up and is rather plain looking to boot and not in the best shape body wise to say the least, the infatuation and lust will wear off in a short while. At least for me.

Although I suppose some people like BBW for a fling and one night stand, that gets old, I seem to attract the BBW and the attention is nice but for me the BBW turns off the horny switch. Sad but true..

So training my mind to delete that type of person and focus normal HWP or skinny instead.

Yeah, it does rule out a huge (no pun intended) segment as bed pals, but I have been there done that with the BBW TYPE thousands of times over the years and want something different. Hope that doesn;t make me a jerk for knowing what I want AND don't want.

StarCraft2
Originally posted by YankeeWhaler
ThAt all depends on who you are with, if with a girl that looks pale and sickly and not wearing make up and is rather plain looking to boot and not in the best shape body wise to say the least, the infatuation and lust will wear off in a short while. At least for me.

Although I suppose some people like BBW for a fling and one night stand, that gets old, I seem to attract the BBW and the attention is nice but for me the BBW turns off the horny switch. Sad but true..

So training my mind to delete that type of person and focus normal HWP or skinny instead.

Yeah, it does rule out a huge (no pun intended) segment as bed pals, but I have been there done that with the BBW TYPE thousands of times over the years and want something different. Hope that doesn;t make me a jerk for knowing what I want AND don't want.

rule 1 KISS keep it simple stupid

rule 2 http://www.linenoiz.com/pics/funny/i_aint_reading_all_that.jpg

rule 3 straight to the pt.

AsbestosFlaygon
Most of the questions are redundant.

Anyways, I got a 17.

Thoren
I scored a 7. ermmnone

immaturerainbow
18 -__-

dadudemon
I took it again and got a 20. awesome Took it a third time and got a 21. estahuh

Kharhmah
I took it again as well.

Got an eight. Up from Five. >_>

Mr. Rhythmic
Got a 5

Barker
>the year of our lord 2011
>not scoring 11

I seriously hope you guys don't do this. noneermm

Mr. Rhythmic
Originally posted by Dave_97
i wasnt on drugs.

haddaway is awesome.

You, sir, are the best of all people.

NeoGills
Server not found! what can i do?
I'm curious.

rudester
nevermind...'yikes"...

siriuswriter
A frikkin' 3.

Robtard
Originally posted by siriuswriter
A frikkin' 3.

Prude.

rudester
Why am I always so horny.. embarrasment

Patient_Leech
I got a 10. Damn, most addicts are above 6? That's crazy low... :/

What did you score, rudester?


Originally posted by jaden101
Superb. I only got an 11...I need to buck up my ideas and start letting my sexual "stuff" adversely affect my family.

laughing

juggernaut94
3. Wow. Was expecting a higher figure.

Scarlett88
15 big grin

Digi
I got a 1. I was like "Surf pornography online? Yes. Everything else? No."

Seriously, I'm a romantically/sexually active 20-something male, with liberal sensibilities, yet I scored a 1. I feel like 90% of that list was about letting sex become a destructive force in your life. And despite enjoying it as much as the next guy, it really isn't hard to keep it in check to the point that it doesn't take over other aspects of my life.

People are messed up.

Polish
3

dadudemon
Originally posted by Digi
I got a 1. I was like "Surf pornography online? Yes. Everything else? No."

Seriously, I'm a romantically/sexually active 20-something male, with liberal sensibilities, yet I scored a 1. I feel like 90% of that list was about letting sex become a destructive force in your life. And despite enjoying it as much as the next guy, it really isn't hard to keep it in check to the point that it doesn't take over other aspects of my life.

People are messed up.

It is difficult to imagine that you scored a 1 because some of those questions are worded in a way to make you think a no is correct but a yes is actually correct for the majority of the population.


For instance, you have NEVER tried to quit a particular sexual behavior before? It is extremely likely that you have because that is so broad that pretty much anyone would count in that area.

Another one was the question about whether or not you hide SOME of your sexual behavior from others. Unless you want to become a registered sex offender, you do hide some of your behaviors from others.

The "sexual with minors" question would be almost universally answered with a "yes" because that's when we all discover our sexuality. It is a trick question. Sure, there may be some asexual children out there, but...pretty much everyone would have to answer yes because it is extremely likely that they sexually interacted with their peers at one point...while being a minor.

And you've never ever had unprotected lovins? Ever? Hard to believe. But most likely, you have. That would be risky, but there's another yes.


So I guess a minimum of 4 to 5 yeses for anyone, if they are being honest.

Digi
Originally posted by dadudemon
It is difficult to imagine that you scored a 1 because some of those questions are worded in a way to make you think a no is correct but a yes is actually correct for the majority of the population.


For instance, you have NEVER tried to quit a particular sexual behavior before? It is extremely likely that you have because that is so broad that pretty much anyone would count in that area.

Another one was the question about whether or not you hide SOME of your sexual behavior from others. Unless you want to become a registered sex offender, you do hide some of your behaviors from others.

The "sexual with minors" question would be almost universally answered with a "yes" because that's when we all discover our sexuality. It is a trick question. Sure, there may be some asexual children out there, but...pretty much everyone would have to answer yes because it is extremely likely that they sexually interacted with their peers at one point...while being a minor.

And you've never ever had unprotected lovins? Ever? Hard to believe. But most likely, you have. That would be risky, but there's another yes.


So I guess a minimum of 4 to 5 yeses for anyone, if they are being honest.

Some of those are just a difference in interpretation. I wouldn't hide the fact that I masturbate or watch porn, but is the very act of performing those alone in my apartment "hiding" it? Do I "hide" showering too? Eating breakfast?

As for quitting, does it mean like quitting it as a habit? Again, if you take 19-year-old Christian Digi, the answer's yes. If you take current Digi, it's no. Or is it quitting a specific instance for some reason (mom calls)?

Unprotected lovins? Not deliberately (cheap condoms are cheap).

Same with the minors thing. Are we to be absolutist about it, or take it as the illegal kind? Obviously we all had hormones as teens. I don't think that should count toward adult sexual addiction though.

Obviously I'm higher than a 1 if I take your view. And because it's ambiguous, there's not a right or wrong answer.

dadudemon
Originally posted by Digi
Some of those are just a difference in interpretation. I wouldn't hide the fact that I masturbate or watch porn, but is the very act of performing those alone in my apartment "hiding" it? Do I "hide" showering too? Eating breakfast?


You wouldn't hide eating breakfast. Nor would you hide taking a shower. You do hide teh bates, though. By hide, I mean...not revealing the fact.

Originally posted by Digi
As for quitting, does it mean like quitting it as a habit? Again, if you take 19-year-old Christian Digi, the answer's yes. If you take current Digi, it's no. Or is it quitting a specific instance for some reason (mom calls)?

You tell me. Question says anything. You could have stopped a particular habit like smelling your fingers afterwards...or using your left instead of your right. The question is so vague that there is always something you probably quit.

Originally posted by Digi
Unprotected lovins? Not deliberately (cheap condoms are cheap).

Heh.

Originally posted by Digi
Same with the minors thing. Are we to be absolutist about it, or take it as the illegal kind? Obviously we all had hormones as teens. I don't think that should count toward adult sexual addiction though.

The question does not specify. If you are to be fully honest, you must say yes. You'd think the question would be more specific but it doesn't when it should or think it should.


Originally posted by Digi
Obviously I'm higher than a 1 if I take your view. And because it's ambiguous, there's not a right or wrong answer.

Well, if you were to answer it with some severe absolute statements, yeah, you'd be higher than a 1. That's why the test cannot possibly rate anyone a 1 if you are to be absolutely honest.

Placidity
I just got a monster score.

rudester
no...

Placidity
yea... I did, I scored a 0.

Digi
Originally posted by dadudemon
You wouldn't hide eating breakfast. Nor would you hide taking a shower. You do hide teh bates, though. By hide, I mean...not revealing the fact.



You tell me. Question says anything. You could have stopped a particular habit like smelling your fingers afterwards...or using your left instead of your right. The question is so vague that there is always something you probably quit.



Heh.



The question does not specify. If you are to be fully honest, you must say yes. You'd think the question would be more specific but it doesn't when it should or think it should.




Well, if you were to answer it with some severe absolute statements, yeah, you'd be higher than a 1. That's why the test cannot possibly rate anyone a 1 if you are to be absolutely honest.

Belated, but I still disagree. Like, if "hiding" masturbating is doing it alone, everyone on the planet is a "yes." But if asked if I masturbate, I'll answer "yes" to pretty much anyone. My boss, friends, family. It's normal and healthy. I wouldn't volunteer the information, but it's still no different than not volunteering that I shower naked. I don't "hide" it in that sense, and I think that's really the only reasonable interpretation. An interpretation that HAS to be yes for everyone is just silly. It tells us nothing and makes the question moot.

And no, honestly, I've never tried to quit a sexual behavior as an adult. Again, if we're counting the first pang of guilt as a teen after the first time you wank, then the question is retarded and meaningless in a sociological context.

Same with the minors thing. If it "has" to be a yes, why the hell would it be on there? I've never lusted after minors as an adult, so I think I can reasonably say I don't display sex addict tendencies in that area. I'm pretty sure an interpretation that includes us as 15-year-olds is, well, wrong. A 45-year-old who takes the test and had a crush on a girl when he was 14...is that guy displaying sex addict tendencies? Come on.

Vague questions with either stupid tautological "yes" answers, or many more nuanced "no" answers. I stand by my score.

rudester
Originally posted by Patient_Leech
I got a 10. Damn, most addicts are above 6? That's crazy low... :/

What did you score, rudester?




laughing

Im not telling. Im off sex till I meet someone special.

I dont want to go through what I went through again. Sex should be special.. im going to lay low till I meet someone that I feel a spark with...

dadudemon
Originally posted by Digi
Like, if "hiding" masturbating is doing it alone, everyone on the planet is a "yes."

Yeaaah...that's just plain wrong.


Tons of people masturbate in front of other people. Some do it to the point of getting thrown into jail.

Originally posted by Digi
An interpretation that HAS to be yes for everyone is just silly. It tells us nothing and makes the question moot.

Either that or it is a baseline question to see how much of a liar the test taker is being.

Originally posted by Digi
And no, honestly, I've never tried to quit a sexual behavior as an adult. Again, if we're counting the first pang of guilt as a teen after the first time you wank, then the question is retarded and meaningless in a sociological context.

Again, it is not meaningless in that interpretation. You're adding context to the question that is not there. No where does it say, "hey, if you think this question should be twisted in a way that makes you feel more comfortable or appear more favorable to what you think others would like, answer it that way."

Originally posted by Digi
Same with the minors thing. If it "has" to be a yes, why the hell would it be on there?

Because the question could easily be (to make it your interpretation), "Have you ever had illegal or taboo relations with a minor?" Similarly with the bates question.

Originally posted by Digi
I've never lusted after minors as an adult,

That's an interpretation that you're adding but is not present in the questionnaire.

Originally posted by Digi
so I think I can reasonably say I don't display sex addict tendencies in that area. I'm pretty sure an interpretation that includes us as 15-year-olds is, well, wrong. A 45-year-old who takes the test and had a crush on a girl when he was 14...is that guy displaying sex addict tendencies? Come on.

If you answered the questions honestly and directly, you'd still end up in the normal range. no expression So I don't see your rebuttal as being of substance or even convincing.

Originally posted by Digi
Vague questions with either stupid tautological "yes" answers, or many more nuanced "no" answers.

There is nothing tautological about anything we have discussed. And the "nuances" are your own addition. You've take some liberties in sliding around how the questions could be answered just to eke out a "no."

Originally posted by Digi
I stand by my score.

I don't: if you were going to answer the questions directly, it'd probably be a 3 or 4.


Edit - And your parents don't have a problem with your sexual behavior?

And you aren't reoccupied with sexual thoughts (that's so ambiguous as to be meaningless...statistically, men are reoccupied with sexual thoughts...absurdly so. You would definitely fall into that category based off of some of the things you post.)

Can you honestly say that your sexuality has created no problems, ever, for you and your family? I mean...not even a single problem? If you're a human and have parents, it has created a problem at one time or another.

Has anyone been emotionally hurt because of your sexual behavior? Did you ask for a BJ and get rejected by someone you didn't know was feminist? no expression That's just one of thousand of examples I can think of that could cause emotional hurt.


And you've never used the internet for romantic purposes? That's..pretty much a yes for any person (that's not poor poor) born after 1980.

Basically, I think you're quite the example of social desirability bias. You did not answer the questions correctly if you got a 1...and are sexually normal.

Double edit - Took the test again and got a 3. I answered the questions as seriously and directly as possible. Since I grew up in a conservative background and did not "rebel and act out" after leaving the nest, that's probably about as low as it can get. A real professional would ask other questions and they would be more direct, with context.

Astner
http://i.imgur.com/MzEo5.png

Originally posted by Robtard
Prude.
They asked you questions like: "Are your fetishes legal?" "Have bought hookers?" "Payed for online dating services?" "Have you bought a fleshlight?"

People who got scores over 4 scare me.

Digi
Here's the bottom line. If you go absolute, several questions say absolutely nothing about disposition toward sexual addiction. Nothing at all. That 45-year-old that you think should say yes to the minors question...what in **** does that tell us that's useful about that guy? Nothing. That he had a crush when he was 16? Is that a medically or sociologically relevant point? Why should we include that?

They should disambiguate. But I think your interpretations are needlessly literal, to the point that the test becomes meaningless. More than anything, I think we're just talking about a deeply flawed test. Because if we start breaking down the questions linguistically, we'd be forced to take some of your interpretations. But that's the whole point.

Digi
...

dadudemon
Originally posted by Digi
Here's the bottom line. If you go absolute, several questions say absolutely nothing about disposition toward sexual addiction. Nothing at all.

Here's the problem: you think they should when maybe they shouldn't. Maybe it can also show you that you're asexual. Who knows? Don't add context and interpretation and answer directly. You'll get a 3, probably.

Originally posted by Digi
That 45-year-old that you think should say yes to the minors question...what in **** does that tell us that's useful about that guy? Nothing.

Answering yes may tell you that you're normal. Answering no may tell you that you're obviously lying unless you hit puberty at 22. There are more interpretations than just the one you want it to be.

Originally posted by Digi
That he had a crush when he was 16? Is that a medically or sociologically relevant point? Why should we include that?


16 is not a "minor", even in some US States. I'd use a younger number to fit within the "spirit" of what you think the question is really (or not really) asking.

Originally posted by Digi
They should disambiguate.

I agree.

Originally posted by Digi
But I think your interpretations are needlessly literal,

Not true. I came out "normal" when taking them as literally as possible.

Originally posted by Digi
to the point that the test becomes meaningless.

Again, not true at all. Some questions may carry more weight (but the algorithm used to tally your results and to a real trained professional) and there is no way they can be interpreted as being "okay" with any twist of words.


Originally posted by Digi
More than anything, I think we're just talking about a deeply flawed test.

It is not a deeply flawed test. Flawed in some ways, yes. It would not help a person in denial: that's obvious. It would not help a person that thinks their sexual behavior is perfectly normal or is unashamed of it when they clearly should stop.

Originally posted by Digi
Because if we start breaking down the questions linguistically, we'd be forced to take some of your interpretations.

No, just 3-5 of them, you'd have to answer yes instead of no.

Digi
Bumping this, it may have gotten lost on the last page as you replied.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Can you honestly say that your sexuality has created no problems, ever, for you and your family? I mean...not even a single problem? If you're a human and have parents, it has created a problem at one time or another.

Like, having the sex talk? It was awkward. But no, not problems. I wouldn't spank it in front of my mom, but it's never been an issue or "problem" in the family. My sex life isn't dinner conversation, of course, but again, I don't see that as a problem, just normal behavior.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Has anyone been emotionally hurt because of your sexual behavior? Did you ask for a BJ and get rejected by someone you didn't know was feminist? no expression That's just one of thousand of examples I can think of that could cause emotional hurt.

I'm friends with most of my ex's, including a feminist.

Originally posted by dadudemon
And you've never used the internet for romantic purposes? That's..pretty much a yes for any person (that's not poor poor) born after 1980.

Oh sure, I look at porn on the internet. It's the only thing that put me at a 1 last time.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Basically, I think you're quite the example of social desirability bias. You did not answer the questions correctly if you got a 1...and are sexually normal.

Double edit - Took the test again and got a 3. I answered the questions as seriously and directly as possible. Since I grew up in a conservative background and did not "rebel and act out" after leaving the nest, that's probably about as low as it can get. A real professional would ask other questions and they would be more direct, with context.

Maybe they would provide context of how I'm supposed to answer them, or what constitutes the boundaries of each question.

I took it again as well, being as serious as I could. I got a 0 (even though I thought I had 1 more "yes" than last time, which is weird...not sure what changed). And I had sex as recently as yesterday.

srug

Digi
Originally posted by dadudemon
There are more interpretations than just the one you want it to be.

...our debate in a nutshell, because the same is true in reverse. Just way too much ambiguity. Though I dislike the implication of "the one you want it to be." It implies that I'm searching for a particular outcome. I'm not. I'm just trying to answer truthfully.

dadudemon
Originally posted by Digi
...our debate in a nutshell, because the same is true in reverse.

The same is not true in reverse because I offered multiple interpretations and I still continue to never claim one absolute interpretation. Just simply answering "yes" is not absolute: there are multiple reasons to answer yes and I've fleshed some of those out.

Originally posted by Digi
Though I dislike the implication of "the one you want it to be." It implies that I'm searching for a particular outcome. I'm not.


I don't understand how that's an "implication": I've very directly stated that and even gave it a label. I did not beat around the bush about it.


Originally posted by Digi
I'm just trying to answer truthfully.

Is it really "truthfully", though? You yourself admit there are multiple ways to interpret and answer the questions. So we are back to what I said: "Basically, I think you're quite the example of social desirability bias."


Originally posted by Digi
Bumping this, it may have gotten lost on the last page as you replied.

I wasn't given a chance to reply: I had to go to work.

Originally posted by Digi
Like, having the sex talk? It was awkward. But no, not problems.

No...that's not what I was talking about, at all. That's a strange way to interpret what I said. It is any "problem" at all.

Originally posted by Digi
I wouldn't spank it in front of my mom, but it's never been an issue or "problem" in the family.

Why even bring something like that up? sick

Originally posted by Digi
My sex life isn't dinner conversation, of course, but again, I don't see that as a problem, just normal behavior.

Why would it be? But you don't have to talk about it in order for them to have some sort of knowledge.

You may have been born in a family that very rarely talks about personal stuff/interacts: there are tons of those families out there. But the chances of your parents or any family not having a single problem with anything sexual you did or are doing are pretty much 0. I think the question is a dummy question designed to illicit a response to the guilty minded or could function as a baseline question.

Originally posted by Digi
I'm friends with most of my ex's, including a feminist..

This is what I read from the above: "My response is anything that makes it so I can be right."

But I don't feel comfortable talking about your exes and I did not want to talk about that either. My point was rather rhetorical.

Originally posted by Digi
Oh sure, I look at porn on the internet. It's the only thing that put me at a 1 last time.

That's non sequitur to the section you quoted. But, if you cannot separate pronz from romantic internet relationships, your score is probably much more comfortable at 11. uhuh

Originally posted by Digi
Maybe they would provide context of how I'm supposed to answer them, or what constitutes the boundaries of each question.

They definitely would. However, they don't all agree on every point.

Originally posted by Digi
I took it again as well, being as serious as I could. I got a 0 (even though I thought I had 1 more "yes" than last time, which is weird...not sure what changed). And I had sex as recently as yesterday.

srug

There are at least 3 questions that should have been a yes that you definitely answered no to. no expression I've listed them already. How did I get a 3 when I have never done anything "bad" in my life?

Also, good job. big grin

Digi
Originally posted by dadudemon
The same is not true in reverse because I offered multiple interpretations and I still continue to never claim one absolute interpretation. Just simply answering "yes" is not absolute: there are multiple reasons to answer yes and I've fleshed some of those out.

And I disagree. Ambiguity is ambiguity. I don't consider myself to have many of the problems you mentioned.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I don't understand how that's an "implication": I've very directly stated that and even gave it a label. I did not beat around the bush about it.

Well, it's wrong. I can tell you straight-up that I have no compulsion to be socially acceptable on an anonymous internet test. It's an odd accusation, especially when you're repeatedly being told the opposite by the person you're accusing.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Is it really "truthfully", though? You yourself admit there are multiple ways to interpret and answer the questions. So we are back to what I said: "Basically, I think you're quite the example of social desirability bias."

See, but I'm not basing my answers on what is socially acceptable. I'm basing them off of what I believe is the truest representation of a tendency toward sexual addiction.

Originally posted by dadudemon
I wasn't given a chance to reply: I had to go to work.

Ok. I wasn't accusing anything, I just didn't want the response lost.

Originally posted by dadudemon
No...that's not what I was talking about, at all. That's a strange way to interpret what I said. It is any "problem" at all.

I'm not sure how else to take it. I don't automatically know what problems you're speaking of outside the examples you've given, and I perceive none on my own.

Originally posted by dadudemon
Why even bring something like that up? sick

Hey, someone's junk probably wiggled at that sentence. Incest porn is bizarrely popular.

Originally posted by dadudemon
You may have been born in a family that very rarely talks about personal stuff/interacts: there are tons of those families out there. But the chances of your parents or any family not having a single problem with anything sexual you did or are doing are pretty much 0. I think the question is a dummy question designed to illicit a response to the guilty minded or could function as a baseline question.

Again, would my mom be uncomfortable talking about my sexual habits? Sure. If pressed, would she label any of the practices as problems? I don't think so.

Originally posted by dadudemon
This is what I read from the above: "My response is anything that makes it so I can be right."

Jesus. I'm not trying to be "right" in some lame internet-victory way. You're really trying to project all sorts of motivations onto me.

Originally posted by dadudemon
But I don't feel comfortable talking about your exes and I did not want to talk about that either. My point was rather rhetorical.

Again, I don't know of any problems that I've encountered, so I'm really only working with your examples.

Originally posted by dadudemon
That's non sequitur to the section you quoted. But, if you cannot separate pronz from romantic internet relationships, your score is probably much more comfortable at 11. uhuh

Oops. It gets tricky remembering what quotes are referring to what original point, especially when the discussion is protracted over several months.

Originally posted by dadudemon
There are at least 3 questions that should have been a yes that you definitely answered no to. no expression I've listed them already. How did I get a 3 when I have never done anything "bad" in my life?

Again, I'd question the validity of a test where certain answers are preordained. Saying something like "maybe it shows you're being truthful" is problematic. It's presupposing a point to the test other than what is stated. Thus, the test is inherently misleading, withholding information on the nature and purpose of the questions. While this might be acceptable for an in-person test where the tester could disambiguate, we're talking about an anonymous internet test that doesn't disambiguate. So, do you really think the test is testing us to see if we're lying based on a vague question? Or do you think it's testing for sexual tendencies (my view)? I find the former to be the FAR bigger assumption or interpretation. For an example, I still don't think you've providing a compelling reason why a well-adjusted 45-year-old man should say yes to the minors question. Don't you think his current sexual state is more important to dissect than his state from half a lifetime ago? It tells us nothing about his sexual state, and if he's not being truthful the whole test is moot anyway. There's literally no reasonable way he should answer yes, unless he wants to get erroneously put on a government watch list.

ThorinWoofer
I scored a 4.

What happened to me?

Toby831
n. Your answers HAVE MET a score on a basis of six criteria that indicate sex addiction is present. SCORE IS 12 embarrasment

Genesis-Soldier
13

not a shocker

Flyattractor
Ya all Fuged Up!

Gotta 5.

Daedalus
I got a 3.wink

Surtur
I got a 2. Some of the questions were vague, like "Have you engaged in unsafe or "risky" sex even though you knew it could cause you harm? "

I don't know what kind of harm they meant, but if they were talking about sleeping with a girl without protection then I would fall under a "yes" so I put yes.

Though to be fair..I've been medicated for like a decade so it tends to kill your sex drive when you are taking certain meds. Actually though, it's quite a weird experience because sometimes the medications I am on do not hinder but help, there is one where if I take it...well you can have sex for like 45 minutes straight without stopping, and I'm talking...even if before you were the type who'd cream your pants before you even got the chance to bang a chick..these pills would let you last long. So I take back saying the meds kill the sex drive, they just drastically alter it sometimes.

Scribble
I got 8, but yeah a lot of the questions are too vaguely defined

Stringer
Only a 4.

That's disappointing

Piggle Humsy
I got 11

but I think it would have been higher, if like Scribs said, the questions weren't so vaguely defined mmm

NewLanceWindu
10

walshy
i got 0...ZERO awesrug i also blame the questions. i answered no to most of them.

Genesis-Soldier
I am unsure about you lot but a lot of those questions went that vague

Genesis-Soldier
Guys i am not going to lie

i could blow out a total 20 right here and now

walshy
when i did it, i even tried to get 20 but i could only get 18

Clovie
they said i need to see a therapist, but i haven't seen the test blink

SugrFrostdFreak
I got a 12. I guess I'm a bit of an addict.

Genesis-Soldier
you and me both sister
although i seem to have the highest so far so thats kind of a worry for me

Jmanghan
I got a 17. I lied on some questions, too. :/

rudester
I use to be a sex addict but now I'm vanilla

Jmanghan
I'm like an addict times a billion

Genesis-Soldier
Originally posted by Jmanghan
I got a 17. I lied on some questions, too. :/

do it right

Jmanghan
Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
do it right Dont tell me what to do, ****.

Genesis-Soldier
you cant say that to me

i am a proud 12 year old with no common sense, how dare you

wink

It's xyz!
Saw no test, just adverts sponsors and other ******* logos.

Jmanghan
Originally posted by Genesis-Soldier
you cant say that to me

i am a proud 12 year old with no common sense, how dare you

wink That excuse doesn't count!...

Ok, maybe it does...


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