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Felt like asking guys a few questions, because obiviously I don't understand them in the least bit. I was online last night chatting with two friends of mine, both of the male gender, when one decides to accuse me of liking the other one. Telling me I was leading him on! Well I have to keep telling this guy that I just had my heart broken and I don't like his friend, but still he persist. This is after he dumped his g/f who is a freshman to ask me to Prom, to which I declined and I found out he had a girlfriend last night. Hmm, meanwhile he has been calling me asking me out on a date and I have declined many times. So why are men so silly? Or perhaps it is only American guys? Or maybe it is just the men attracted to me.

It's all guys. It's girls as well, they are just silly in another way.

Guys always like to fantasise about a life where everything has worked out just the way they wanted it to and when talking to a nice girl certain possibilities go through their heads. If they even SUSPECT that anything is getting in the way of that, it is possible to feel betrayed even though the whole thing was unreal.

I see...I keep wondering if there is even a gentleman left in the world

Plenty! That's just a general trend, it doesn;t mean every single boy in the world ever is going to get narked just because you are talking to another boy. Not everyone will explode like that.

(Offers hand to Padme)

Thanks Ush. I thought the last one was a gentleman, and look how bad my perception was of it

Things go wrong, Padme. As far as you being in a great relationship that has gone horrible for reasons you cannot understand, that is just you, me, and just about everyone else on the planet that has felt that at some point.

(Holds Padme's hand)

Of course, you understand that if you talk to any other men around here I will have to kill, you, yeah?

(puts on Gentleman's Hat)

Want one, Corran?

I have one at home thank you all the same. It is with my cloak and cane.

(Puts on two hats)

Padme it would also appear that this guy seems to be completely besotted with you, you may need to treat him with kid gloves to let him down nicely.

Hey, no need to talk about me as if I am not here... oh... wait... I see...

hey padmeS..
would you go out on a date with me??

Why didn't *I* think of saying that?

foiled again.

Curses...

hmm what am I going to do?

about what??????

Want a hug whilst you decide?

Any other things you find silly about guys, whilst you are at it?

whats wrong wit boyz? is it becuz they're so immature?, i think im a good guy eh?

Well prom is coming up and I am dateless....yet again...yes this has happened before.

Gah! We seem to have the same trouble, Padme!

hm...

once again I must go dateless to something, and next month I have an awaeds banquet to which I have no date once more.

I'd get out there if I COULD...

yes I know you would Ush

Stupid Atlantic... why couldn't they have just put a swimming pool between the countries, or something?

I don't know.....the ocean is pretty...most of the time

Could be pretty but not quite so big.

oh well, I still stand by that guys are strange

Tell us more

perhaps you are right my dear, but then again ...girls are strange too....I'll stand by you though

Padme I would also offer my services if you are dateless, but I do not come cheap Deuce Bigalow: Male Gigolo.

big laugh

I don't need a duece. See Julie is in agreeance with me.

Okay, ex called yeasterday and wanted me to go to dinner with him, so I went to dinner. And the whole time he kept complimenting me and that night he hugged me and said, "I love you." Does anyone else see something strange about all of that?

Nope.

Padme no-one NEEDS a Deuce, but it doesn't stop ladies wanting one.

haha, maybe Corran

People want everything to be ok, see, Padme? So it is not weird for him to be so friendly to you at all.

but I feel like he's leading me on

Well, he MIGHT be. It is difficult to say. But I don't think he is being strange.

Well I'm new to this thread and all I will say at this point in time is that:

Guys look at us women the same way.... silly.

So all of this breeds disrespect from both sides that spill over on the kids and that is why the world is the way it is. Humans are silly and dangerous.

Hmmm, it's just a joke thread.

Oops sorry.

Only goes to show there is nothing funny about real life.

oh well.

nothing funny about life....I find life's circumstances to be quite humorous at times

"Baby, if you're feeling good
And baby if you're feeling nice
You know your man is workin' hard
He's worth a deuce" - Kiss`s Deuce

I don't get it..........

it is a responding post to corrans use of the word deuce, so I threw in a song dealing with that word

Our man finti here is very gifted at such things. As for why we guys are silly, I would hazzard a guess it's something to do with hormones.

I hate it when whores moan.

Probably not just american guys I can assure you that. Meanwhile even though some can be stupid asses some are really cool and nice.

yeah, that'll be me.

Modest too, eh, Corran?

what do you excpect from a toffee

life's funny when ur young.

Life is odd at any age though. As for the original topic I stand by my previous remarks about why I believe guys are so silly......

lol, im sorry, i must have missed that

Not to worry friend. I simply said it had to do with hormones.

LOLOLOLOLOL, hormones, man u should be king fo the universe, thats quite true, my hormones talking to me like midi-chlorians

Yes I can imagine how it must feel. In fact I don't have to imagine. I am in the same boat as you.

Balls for brains.

you guys...*lol* crack me up. i can't remember who said it earlier, but guys think girls are silly as well. we're all silly when it comes to relationships, ne?

But YOU think girls are silly as well, don't you?

they are

Girls can be as silly as guys can, in my humble opinion. I ain't too sure we will ever understand each other.

My point being that Narcil is a girl. I think she just thinks everyone is silly, full stop...

Ahhh!

haha....definately probably hormones Gordon

Yes they are the downfall of even the best of men!

too bad there is not one man that can resist his hormones a bit

downfall.......I think saving grace better describe's women

I can after years of studying the discipline.

hormones win...................in men...and women

yeah probably Julie

All right you're correct. I just wanted to say something that sounded cool!

well...it did sound cool

nah it was dull

ok...you try and deny it...and make the statement sound cool:-)

haha, wasn't finti the one that said Women love to do laundry yesterday?......just kidding

I'm still waiting....:-)

Waiting for what?

waiting for him to retract his comment

or change it.....I challenged him to say that men can resist hormones in a cool way

hahah

I said something cool? FOR REAL???

need to take shower, so I must run

Very well. Later.

hm...no one likes doing laundry.

Laundry is a necessity these days. Clean laundry that is.

ah well, i'll learn when i grow up.

Plenty of time for that. So how are you friend?

good, i had this piano test hting yesterday and i was so nervous. but i htink i pulled through and did alright. i hope so anyway.

I tired, might not be back till tomorrow, I'll see everyone here laterz

See ya soon...

Take another shower, it'll feel good when your tired.

Anyway, so have we all agreed that both sexes are silly? Especially girls, they laugh at everything and do stupid things...er...girls are the best.

Yes they are! I agree with the illustrious Captain here!

I came back...but only to write to everyone I'll be on early tomorrow

cool...I wont but I may check in later in the day....*waves to Padme*

*waves back* I back now.

Wow get your boards dudes lets go catch some waves, but no wipeouts.

So... any more thoughts on guy silliness?

yeah ush you are nice but silly:-)

Oooooh

I thought i was just being silly.

yes you are silly too Corran...now do you not feel left out?

sorry I should reword that, I meant I thought I had been silly, just.

"Guys are silly this is true ever feel like no one understands you?"-Another one of my attempts at stating the obvious. Girls think us guys are silly while we think most girls are unattainable or something. It is a vicious cycle.

I must agree...

unattainable......what's that mean.....most guys just don't ask the ques on their mind....

I assume anyway

Unattainable means when a guy likes a girl(or a girl likes a guy) he(or she) finds desirable but not available for any sort of relationship. This is my definition of the word anyway.

oh I see.....yeah I don't pay attention to such details...

well it justs means, "out of one's reach" basicallly

People usually stay silly until they figure out what it is they really want (from life, friends, etc.).

Darn, I must be getting old to say something like that. *g*

The Scruffman speaks the truth!

hmmm

Hi Padme! I should probably explain that me and Scruffy are old friends- we use to play in the same garage band together. He is new to the Forums as I only showed it to him the other afternoon.

oh cool Gordon, hey scruffy. are you?

Padme I think guys are silly when it comes to girls because they might be afraid of losing them. What do you think?

making them over react to things, good point Gordon

Thanks. Scruffy is probably not online at the moment but he has only been here for three days now. I talked it up to him and he went for it.

did ya tell him to go start a welcome thread???????????

That was the first thing he did after he registered. Check the Welcome page.

hm...

So Member do you think guys are silly?

Leo's....we don't know what to do during May

Ah! I have an idea. Holidays to England!

guys are not silly.

shoot, and I was really sure of this

I maintain that they are as I am one myself.

In that case t must be true.

Look at it logically. Shouldn't us guys know if we are silly or not? I have my moments I tell you that!

*thinks *
welll mentor's have a way of seeing more of our faults.....

You just lost me. I haven't the foggiest why you said that just now.....

Padme said it.....you were speaking of faults it came to mind....don't try to keep up with the strange twists of my mind....esp during finals week!

I don't think I even said anything about faults but ok!

yep Padme says it in Episode II

All right then I must bow to your female wisdom! ( Another example of a guy being silly!)

yes of course, we are women, fear us...and don't forget to stand when a lady enters the room.

That is something I always try to do!

awww, a gentleman

I once belonged to The Gentleman's Gang, basically a bunch of guys from school a long time ago. I think I still got my honorary badge somewhere around here..........

awww

I am your gentleman. Remember that.

whereas I am your worst nightmare.

And I am beyond it all

Corran. my worest nightmare....nah....

Oooh! Oooh! What is?

that they find out that I am right about most things