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Kurk
I'm not sure if this is because I'm approaching the age where my testosterone naturally peaks or for some other reason, but I've found that I've been increasingly distracted by girls in my day-to-day life.

Although I've actually been masturbating less frequently than I was 3 years ago, I'm having recurring, invasive thoughts of performing sexual acts on my classmates that I've never really had until now.

Even when I was a horny teenager, at most I would see some exposed skin, tight leggings, whatever, and have a brief happy thought about it. It usually wouldn't reoccur again on the same person.

Now I'm finding that these invasive thoughts are occurring multiple times throughout the day involving the same 5 or so women who I see around campus, in class, etc. I can't even say with 100% certainty that these are unpleasant thoughts. The rational, logical half of me cringes and tries to eject these thoughts the moment they occur. I try to meditate when I can, but my tight schedule means that it offers limited relief from these images. But then there is the animal side of me; The neanderthal behaviors stemming from the hypothalamus and amygdala that I've been managing to suppress just barely through intense self-discipline and meditation for the past few years. That part of me enjoys these lascivious visions, and it's a constant struggle as my rational being fights against it.

I'm somewhat indecisive about how to approach this entire situation. I really would like these occurrences to end as they're starting to affect my well being.

Perhaps one of you can counsel me with some philosophical sayings or something.


I'm fine with companionship but, these lewd thoughts need to end.

FreshestSlice
"I want to have sex. How do I fix this?"

See how short that was? It'll be like this when you finally get there, not this long drawn out nonsense and rambling that's basically you wanking about wanking.

MythLord
Try and get a girlfriend. Until then, control the "wild animal" inside you(lol).

NemeBro
Rape one of them.

Robtard
Kurk's balls finally dropped all the way it seems. Bout time.

Kurk, ask one of them out for coffee/tea/something and go from there.

Nephthys
****ing Christ dude stop being such a goddamn loser

BackFire
laughing out loud at this thread and the responses.

You need to go get laid, dude. Simple as that.

Robtard
Originally posted by Nephthys
****ing Christ dude stop being such a goddamn loser

He's never going to find his way out of the closet with responses like that sad

Lord Lucien
Originally posted by Kurk
I'm fine with companionship but, these lewd thoughts need to end. Holy f*ck... You're living in the wrong era, kid. The Victorian age is back thattaway.

Robtard
He's more a Puritan. Victorians were into threeways, orgies, ass gangbangs, sadism etc. and they liked to think about it all the time, if rarely expressed outwardly not behind closed doors.

The Ellimist
Well, the easy way out is to go to a place where prostitution is legal and get a hooker.

BackFire
Or just do that despite it being illegal.

Go to a stripclub with a few hundred bucks and you'll probably leave a happy man.

Kurk

Robtard
Being "horny" doesn't amount to deterioration of the brain, Kurky.

Look at Stephen Hawkins, one of the greatest modern day minds and that guy thought about sex 24/7.

Nephthys
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurgh so much cringe

Kurk
I will need to explore this topic (not the sex) in depth before I can determine my stance.

While testosterone does have its "side effects", it's also responsible for cognitive abilities:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17132744

https://www.health.harvard.edu/press_releases/testosterone-and-memory

Kurk
Bingo. Found what I was looking for. This is why I will never marry or "settle down":


https://personal.lse.ac.uk/kanazawa/pdfs/JRP2003.pdf

Robtard
TIL: Competitiveness "turns off" after men get married.

Bill Gates - Married during the height of his career/expansion
Michael Jordan - Married during the height of his career
List goes on and on...

BackFire
Originally posted by Nephthys
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurgh so much cringe

BackFire
Kurk reminds me of that crazy general in Dr Strangelove that starts a nuclear holocaust and starts ranting about how he hates ejaculating because it represents a loss of essence.

samhain
It seems like you think having sex will somehow diminish your intelligence, as though you will turn into an Hanna Barbera character complete with wolf whistling and twisting, exploding eyeballs every time you see something in lipstick. If so, you're either overestimating sex or overestimating your intelligence. You'll likely find (especially seeing as you don't seem to be interested in one night stands/casual sex) that having sex with a girlfriend/stable, trustworthy sexual partner is at worst a rigorous workout with a happy ending but usually a very intense, pleasurable experience, particularly at half 2 on a Sunday afternoon. Bottom line I guess is try not to hype it up so much, it's only sex.

The Ellimist
Kurk is likely trolling, but to address him seriously:

There's plenty of evidence that a healthy sex life makes you happier and more productive. Even if it didn't, in your context the lack of it is weighing on your mind enough that getting laid to ease your anxiety is almost certainly worth whatever negative side effects you think would come along with it.

SSJGGogeta
Kurk is finally going through puberty. Lmao

Lord Lucien
Originally posted by BackFire
Kurk reminds me of that crazy general in Dr Strangelove that starts a nuclear holocaust and starts ranting about how he hates ejaculating because it represents a loss of essence. thumb up

ArtificialGlory
Originally posted by NemeBro
Rape one of them. /thread

Kurk
Originally posted by Robtard
TIL: Competitiveness "turns off" after men get married.

Bill Gates - Married during the height of his career/expansion
Michael Jordan - Married during the height of his career
List goes on and on... Outliers exist as with everything, but the trend is there.

Kurk

YousufKhan1212
I have kind of have a similar problem, except the difference is that I have control freaks of parents that are holding me back from getting laid, and it's pissing me off more and more as time goes on because I can't find a way to remove them as a barrier to having sex. They're the barrier to almost every problem I face.

Flyattractor
Originally posted by YousufKhan1212
I have kind of have a similar problem, except the difference is that I have control freaks of parents that are holding me back from getting laid, and it's pissing me off more and more as time goes on because I can't find a way to remove them as a barrier to having sex. They're the barrier to almost every problem I face.

They got bars on your bedroom window or do you keep taking them along on your dates?

YousufKhan1212
Originally posted by Flyattractor
They got bars on your bedroom window or do you keep taking them along on your dates?

My parents are massive cock blocks. They've not got any bars on my bedroom window, but that's not their way of stopping me, if I sneaked out of a window I'd have no way to get back in without knocking and trying to bullshit my way out of getting some stupid punishment for sneaking out. And I've never had a date in my life because I've never tried - it'd be pointless even having a date with someone who I would have to conceal from my home life, so relationships have no chance of working. Having a **** buddy could work but it's hard to find one these days, especially one of my type. But sex with a **** buddy would have to be planned so that it can be covered up.

MythLord
Kurk, best solution: cut your d!ck off. Pull a good ol' Nikola Tesla and just remove all ability to have sex. Become asexual by force.

Kurk
Originally posted by MythLord
Kurk, best solution: cut your d!ck off. Pull a good ol' Nikola Tesla and just remove all ability to have sex. Become asexual by force. No joke I've seriously considered becoming a eunuch, but I probably wouldn't be in favor of that anymore given testosterone's contribution to cognitive ability.

I don't remember Tesla mutilating himself; just that he was celibate.


I've stopped fapping since I made this thread and I already feel better. I'm less distracted, and I can feel myself returning to usual. The key is to fap the right amount. Too frequently and I turn into Quagmire. Not enough and I also become Quagmire lol. I think studies show that not fapping for like a week raises test levels, but they then drop if you go longer than that. Once a week fapping it is then!

JKBart
chemical castration is a thing, i plan to do it when i get enough money, if applied properly, it doesn't affect your testosterone, only the libido, go for it

Stigma
Originally posted by samhain
you're either overestimating sex or overestimating your intelligence.
hehe

But seriously, women are great and having a great, fulfilling romantic relationship with a girl you fancy and who fancies you is da bomb.

Nephthys
It's probably best if he doesn't breed tbh.

Kurk
Originally posted by JKBart
chemical castration is a thing, i plan to do it when i get enough money, if applied properly, it doesn't affect your testosterone, only the libido, go for it Yeah show me proof for that. Sounds like hogwash. Also, why would you care about castration if you're going to die soon anyway?

Originally posted by Stigma
hehe

But seriously, women are great and having a great, fulfilling romantic relationship with a girl you fancy and who fancies you is da bomb.

Sometimes I think about what it would be like to play a round of golf with this one chick I've been eyeing; but I know better than to get too dedicated. Women are like German cars; they're sleek, sexy, amazing performance when new, but once they're old they turn into endless money pits.

The only woman I would every seriously consider pursuing a long-term companionship with would be Raven or someone who demonstrates masculine qualities (dark triad personalities in particular). I accept that this is very unlikely though in the real world.

Originally posted by Nephthys
It's probably best if he doesn't breed tbh.
Oh yeah, I'd never want my lineage to continue. As a eugenicist, I have an obligation to "practice what I preach", so to speak. That being said, I have crappy aspects of my genetics that I don't want to reintroduce into the gene pool.

I may consider adopting an orphan at some point to raise as my sith apprentice, but as of now it's kinda unfeasible. I actually always wanted to be like Professor Utonium when I was younger smile .

JKBart
shit, sry, i've just read it's actually affecting testo, just lesser than before

and if i'm about to die i may just as well try what it is to live without libido before i'm going eternal offline smile

ESB -1138
...I was not prepared for this thread. Wow.

Wonder Man
Women's feelings just like Storm's control of the Weather. Here's so advice for you. Help Women make choices and you'll find the feeling later on. They do it for Men. Even Jesus acknowledged Mother and sons. Just be big enough to let the light enter you and you'll have done more than you ever would hope for.

Flyattractor
Originally posted by YousufKhan1212
My parents are massive cock blocks. They've not got any bars on my bedroom window, but that's not their way of stopping me, if I sneaked out of a window I'd have no way to get back in without knocking and trying to bullshit my way out of getting some stupid punishment for sneaking out. And I've never had a date in my life because I've never tried - it'd be pointless even having a date with someone who I would have to conceal from my home life, so relationships have no chance of working. Having a **** buddy could work but it's hard to find one these days, especially one of my type. But sex with a **** buddy would have to be planned so that it can be covered up.

Oh just save up your allowance and pay some girl to give you a BJ behind the Gym when you are at school. Or are you home schooled? If so...You got a sister?

She is probably just as horny as you...so....


rolling on floor laughing

Putinbot1
Starts reading the thread... stops reading the thread... Backs out of thread...

Beniboybling
make this thread a sticky pls

Kurk
Update:

It's getting worse. I've committed myself to #NoFap, but memories/images of my high-school crush who I came close to, but never took the opportunity to, have a relationship with are flooding my mind.

I honestly just want to cut my dick off. I hate masturbating as it's akin to addictive drug use, and I'm above that. On the positive side I've been able to harness my energy and put it to better use through the teachings of the sith.

rudester
I'm in the same boat Kurt.

rudester
Eyes don't lie, sometimes we're afraid to act cus we're afraid of rejection. But I'll tell you a secret, sometimes we as humans are so afraid of the unknown that we ignore the truth. We know when someone likes us, we feel it inside and see it with our eyes. If you look at her and she looks directly at you and smiles with her eyes not just her mouth she likes you. Just kiss her if you get the chance then you will know.

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