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My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.

My mom smokes, my sister's boyfriend smokes, my grandmother smokes.

They smoke in the bathroom of all places, and we have one bathroom so the smell is always there.

Thoughts and advice? (They ignore my suggestions to smoke outside, and making a bigger deal out of it will start an argument, I've done it before and no change has happened)

Legit laughed. You have a sister that is pregnant who smokes and drinks while pregnant and you're worried about people smoking in the house.

Man up move in with Surtur and let his brother take care of you like Surt.

Move out. That's my advice. Or get a space in house that's all your own.

Also, smack your sister over the head with a baseball bat.

Burn the House Down. Use their booze and ciggies to do it.

Move On Out Brother


If you haven't already done it

In your room install a draught excluder around your door

D profile soft rubber draught excluder
E profile soft rubber draught excluder
V profile - This ones for finer crevices

Then theres the rolls or foam pads which slide neatly under the door and stay with it whether its open or closed

If your door frame is even and your door is even and all the surfaces are smooth clean and dry, you should be able to put a seal that works great in under a couple of hours tops.

best to measure the gaps around the door before you go buying draught excluders.

If you can afford it check out the classifieds for a handyman who is good at this.

In your room keep your window ajar and your radiator at a much lower temperature than the rest of the house.

This will keep the (clean) air in your room at a higher pressure than the air in the rest of the property.

Air Filters

If you can afford a hospital grade air filter you can afford to move out

If you can't okay. Get a good one. Replacing Filters probably won't be cheap.

If you have a well constructed air tight eal you won't need to run the filter so much.

Cook. Cooking is an inclusive, positive way to fill the property with good smells.

Bake some wholewheat bread (ridiculously easy) The smell of fresh bread is a great smell. Cook / Bake things with cumin rosemary chicken lemon and don't burn it.

Increase your vitamin c intake - and your vitamin b intake - and the amount of veg you take in.

Talk to your mom about electronic ciggarettes - buy her one for christmas - although... be prepared to duck and roll

You're gonna have your family in your life for a long time make it clear that you like them.

Bro. Your Sister. You Know What You Have To Do Bruv.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.

My mom smokes, my sister's boyfriend smokes, my grandmother smokes.

They smoke in the bathroom of all places, and we have one bathroom so the smell is always there.

Thoughts and advice? (They ignore my suggestions to smoke outside, and making a bigger deal out of it will start an argument, I've done it before and no change has happened)


Work hard and smart at a decent paying, stable job.

Move out.

Until you move out start cooking food they hate the smell of.

Smoke weed in the house. It smells better than cigs.

Better then that incense they burn to try and cover it up with...

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.


Brilliant

Originally posted by shiv


Talk to your mom about electronic ciggarettes - buy her one for christmas - although... be prepared to duck and roll


Those are worse for your health then reg ciggies.

Anti-smoking campaigns were created by women and liberals as a ploy to emasculate white men in the 80's and 90's. The truth is that smoking cigarettes is perfectly healthy for you; it even increases your T-levels, which is responsible for your libido and muscle gain.

The problem isn't that you're surrounded by smokers, the problem is that you haven't joined them.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.

My mom smokes, my sister's boyfriend smokes, my grandmother smokes.

They smoke in the bathroom of all places, and we have one bathroom so the smell is always there.

Thoughts and advice? (They ignore my suggestions to smoke outside, and making a bigger deal out of it will start an argument, I've done it before and no change has happened)

This sounds horrible, how do you even breathe indoors? No offense, but you are all going to have lung cancer if you keep this up.

someone with your level of anxiety should probably gtfo of there. if you can't afford your own place, look for a roommate.

You have to smoke more than them to show them you're the alpha smoker of the house.
They don't respect your weak lungs

Originally posted by Tzeentch
Anti-smoking campaigns were created by women and liberals as a ploy to emasculate white men in the 80's and 90's. The truth is that smoking cigarettes is perfectly healthy for you; it even increases your T-levels, which is responsible for your libido and muscle gain.

The problem isn't that you're surrounded by smokers, the problem is that you haven't joined them. preach it brotha

Originally posted by BrolyBlack
This sounds horrible, how do you even breathe indoors? No offense, but you are all going to have lung cancer if you keep this up. I keep my door closed majority of the time.

I don't have the income for a job and can't get one because I'm on Social Security money. Talked with a vocational expert who couldn't find anything I could really do for long enough that I'd get paid enough.

Idk what to really do.

Yeah my sister is a problem but I tried talking to her about it. Not only did I get yelled at by my grandmother AND mother for trying to tell her to stop, but she got pissed as well. There is absolutely nothing I can do that isn't illegal, and taking the cigarettes away from her would just start a huge argument and they'd just take em back anyway.

They are very set in their ways and refuse to change at all. Even little things like "Hey it's hot in here, can I open a window?"

"DON'T OPEN THE WINDOWS!"

Then if I open the windows I get screamed at by everyone in the house.

So I asked them to please spray disinfectant in the ONE room they smoke, they can't even do that.

I don't have an income high enough, nor can I get a job that pays well enough for me to afford a living space.

There has been smoking in this house for decades and decades.

Quick question out of curiousity:

How old are your grandparents and has any smoker in your family actually died young or young-ish from cancer?

Originally posted by Nibedicus
Quick question out of curiousity:

How old are your grandparents and has any smoker in your family actually died young or young-ish from cancer? No, youngest my great grandfather died was in his 70's.

Great grandmother who smoked for over 40 years quit, lived till she was 92.

*window open

Try to get a whole home energy recovery system installed to get fresh air inside without opening windows.

Just shoot your family into space. In space You can't Smoke.

We've gotten into incredibly loud, intense, and curse-worthy arguments just on forgetting to spray the bathroom after they were finished.

It's crazy.

Your family has issues.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
We've gotten into incredibly loud, intense, and curse-worthy arguments just on forgetting to spray the bathroom after they were finished.

It's crazy.

Invite the local news over. Things would change fast.

Granny didn't die in her 70's, that was great-grandfather, who passed a few years before I was born.

Great-grandfather did die of lung cancer, great-grandmother who was alive till I was 15, passed from Skin Cancer.

Grandmother is 65 and doesn't have cancer, in fact, shes pretty healthy, has been smoking from a very young age, I think since she was a teenager.

Father and Uncle passed away young, but it wasn't due to smoking.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
Granny didn't die in her 70's, that was great-grandfather, who passed a few years before I was born.

Great-grandfather did die of lung cancer, great-grandmother who was alive till I was 15, passed from Skin Cancer.

Grandmother is 65 and doesn't have cancer, in fact, shes pretty healthy, has been smoking from a very young age, I think since she was a teenager.

Father and Uncle passed away young, but it wasn't due to smoking. Your family has some strange things going on with their Immune Systems.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.

My mom smokes, my sister's boyfriend smokes, my grandmother smokes.

They smoke in the bathroom of all places, and we have one bathroom so the smell is always there.

Thoughts and advice? (They ignore my suggestions to smoke outside, and making a bigger deal out of it will start an argument, I've done it before and no change has happened)
Sorry to hear this.

My advice is to construct a new bathroom for your personal use, if your home has space. You should try to raise funds for this end.

I also dislike smoking at personal capacity, but I have come to terms with the fact that it is not easy to dissuade loved ones from smoking - not my immediate family (no smokers in my home). Best course of action is to inform them that smoking is affecting you (your eyes in particular), and they should not smoke when very close to you. Mine listen.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.

My mom smokes, my sister's boyfriend smokes, my grandmother smokes.

They smoke in the bathroom of all places, and we have one bathroom so the smell is always there.

Thoughts and advice? (They ignore my suggestions to smoke outside, and making a bigger deal out of it will start an argument, I've done it before and no change has happened)

How long has your sister been pregnant, guy?

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=633190&highlight=Sister+forumid%3A61+userid%3A144381

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=631343&highlight=Sister+forumid%3A61+userid%3A144381

You were bringing up this same stuff like 2 years ago, not really lookng for advice, but being all woe is me, and trying to get ppl to feel bad for you.

Stop it, you.

Originally posted by riv6672
How long has your sister been pregnant, guy?

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=633190&highlight=Sister+forumid%3A61+userid%3A144381

http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=631343&highlight=Sister+forumid%3A61+userid%3A144381

You were bringing up this same stuff like 2 years ago, not really lookng for advice, but being all woe is me, and trying to get ppl to feel bad for you.

Stop it, you. She got pregnant again.

First kid's name is PJ after his dad, second kid's name is gonna be Mason, he's due in March.

I'm not trying to get people to feel bad for me. You just aren't sympathetic to others' situations lol.

What I want, is a solution to be made, without A. Spending money that I barely have. B. Trying to force them to stop, which won't work.

Either he is trolling or his sister can't keep her legs shut.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
She got pregnant again.

First kid's name is PJ after his dad, second kid's name is gonna be Mason, he's due in March.

I'm not trying to get people to feel bad for me. You just aren't sympathetic to others' situations lol.

What I want, is a solution to be made, without A. Spending money that I barely have. B. Trying to force them to stop, which won't work.
Meh.

You have a pattern dude. You present these situations, ask for advice, get it, then shoot it down because you basically cant get off your ass and do anything (you said you needed a job and needed to move out of your house; i gave you a list of jobs that provide room & board and dont require shit in experience. Your reply was along the lines of oh no i couldnt possibly do that). And then you ask for more advice.
Its why i stopped replying to those threads in the OTF.

The whole 2 year pregnancy thing got my attention, however.

Enjoy your thread.

Didn't you tell Jman about the magical pixie dust committee who show up at your house, suck your dick, deposit $100k into your bank account and give you six pack abs for literally nothing, providing you just act like a little *****? It seems like something he would be very interested in.

Originally posted by BestDebaterEver
Didn't you tell Jman about the magical pixie dust committee who show up at your house, suck your dick, deposit $100k into your bank account and give you six pack abs for literally nothing, providing you just act like a little *****? It seems like something he would be very interested in.

I like the cut of your jib, son

Originally posted by Bashar Teg
I like the cut of your jib, son That might mean something if it wasn't coming from some slack-jawed boomer.

Originally posted by MythLord
Move out. That's my advice. Or get a space in house that's all your own.

Also, smack your sister over the head with a baseball bat.

I have a bat I'd be willing to loan him...he just needs to promise to swing for a homerun when he uses it.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
She got pregnant again.

First kid's name is PJ after his dad, second kid's name is gonna be Mason, he's due in March.

I'm not trying to get people to feel bad for me. You just aren't sympathetic to others' situations lol.

What I want, is a solution to be made, without A. Spending money that I barely have. B. Trying to force them to stop, which won't work.

Idea: hold an intervention for her and show her what a condom is.

Now BE SENSITIVE! This new invention might shock her. Imagine showing a caveman a comptuer.

Go to your local social services office.


Say everything you've said in this thread.


I had dinner yesterday with a lady who is a health visitor who does home visits and referrals.


Her advice is to go to your local social services office and speak to some one.

Originally posted by BestDebaterEver
That might mean something if it wasn't coming from some slack-jawed boomer.

the term 'boomer' refers to the american baby boomer generation, the absolute youngest of which are mid-late 50's.

the only 'boomer' here, to the best of my knowledge, is flyattractor.

J, this would solve a lot of the problem in your home, smoking indoors is still God awful but this would at least bring fresh air in, condition it with the outgoing and get the stale smoky air out. This can be done DIY or hire someone to install it for about $300-500

https://www.amazon.com/Soler-Palau-TR300-Energy-Recovery/dp/B007ICRL14/ref=asc_df_B007ICRL14/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=198093463189&hvpos=1o4&hvnetw=g&hvrand=13870280259286111156&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9028088&hvtargid=pla-321270381555&psc=1

Originally posted by Bashar Teg
the term 'boomer' refers to the american baby boomer generation, the absolute youngest of which are mid-late 50's.

the only 'boomer' here, to the best of my knowledge, is flyattractor.

If Only Bashy's Parents had been bigger on the Pro Abortion Side of things...

Originally posted by S_W_LeGenD
My advice is to construct a new bathroom for your personal use, if your home has space. You should try to raise funds for this end.
Legit probably the best advice in this thread. Make sure you put a window in there in case some of the smoke gets through the bathroom door.

I always knew Riv was like 79.

Originally posted by Jmanghan
She got pregnant again.

First kid's name is PJ after his dad, second kid's name is gonna be Mason, he's due in March.

I'm not trying to get people to feel bad for me. You just aren't sympathetic to others' situations lol.

What I want, is a solution to be made, without A. Spending money that I barely have. B. Trying to force them to stop, which won't work.


Why don't you go to college and study hard while working at a good job fulltime?


And move out?

It's not hard to find a decent paying job to survive on your own as long as you are not an idiot (you're not), show up on time, and do a good job.


Go to a Vo-Tech school, get some IT certs, and get a 9-5 IT job that pays 50k a year. Go to evening classes at school. In 3 years, you'll have a bachelors and can get an even higher paying job.



All this takes is just simply making efforts. That's it. There's no magic required. You just have to break the cycle of laziness and un-success that your family taught you (this is what my grandfather had to do).

^ That or a trade school, plumbers and especially electricians earn decent in most areas.

Reality is, they're not going to stop smoking. If they smoke around a pregnant woman, they're not going to stop for you.

Originally posted by Flyattractor
If Only Bashy's Parents had been bigger on the Pro Abortion Side of things... but you don't deny you're a bloomer... bloomer!

Originally posted by Jmanghan
My sister is pregnant, smokes, probably drinks.
... why I muse over parent licensing.

We need an update Jman. Did they stop? Did you make them stop by asserting your complete and unquestioned dominance over the bathroom? Did you build a second private bathroom? Did you move out? Or?

I want to lock Surt into a smoke filled room for six months to accelerate his pitiful life.

And our Leftist Posters claim to be the ones that CARE More...


HAHAH!!!!

Originally posted by Putinbot1
but you don't deny you're a bloomer... bloomer!

I aint never wore a pair.

Originally posted by Flyattractor
And our Leftist Posters claim to be the ones that CARE More...


HAHAH!!!!



I aint never wore a pair. Triggered morning, noon, and night.

Originally posted by quanchi112
Triggered morning, noon, and night.
Yes. You are, but then all of angry rant posts were a really big clue for everyone.

Originally posted by Flyattractor
Yes. You are, but then all of angry rant posts were a really big clue for everyone.

Classic projection on your end.

The smoke detectors must go off all the time...

But that's too much of passive smoking.

It's nice in doors, get on a nice couch, blaze it up.