My advice to you if you're incel

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Zucc
This is especially if u are older than, lets say, 23, cause alot of your personality is already set in stone now, if not all of it. Maybe ure just naturally introverted or somewhat "shy", highly inhibited. Or you're simply and ugly duckling.

1. forget about pursuing women for sex that much

2. Make as much money as you can, focus on your career/job, get skilled in something people really need who will give you good money for your services. Feeling ure good at something is super important, having a purpose is super important for male well being.

3. Get validation/love from family/relatives, this is very important, we all need a strong emotional support. Help them and let them help you, be a good member of the family.

4. Get a good group of GUY friends, this is more difficult than it sounds, but I truly do believe this will bring alot of happiness and I also believe its important for a man to be a member of a group of guys, with similar goals and values.

5. The money you earn, take some of it and just buy high quality escorts. No matter how much of a slayer u are, Its extremely difficult to consistently **** VERY hot girls, as those girls are usually reserved for super high status men, celebrities etc. 2-3 times a month, **** a super hot escort.

6. When u become older and start thinking about getting a family/kids, lets say when u reach 30 or 35, find a girl from a good culture with strong family values, and marry her. If ure a white-cel, getting a girl from asia is super super easy. Ive heard some eastern european countries are pretty easy too, but not as much.

This will take care of your sexual needs, your emotional/validation needs and its way less stressful than putting alot of time and energy into ****ing different women.

Zucc
On point six about white men having an easier time dating Asian women (curry or noodles/either way), realise that Putinbot(whirly) did exactly this.

So he now gets to come on the forum bragging about how much better he is than all the 20 something incels of this board at 50 years old himself.

Robtard
Whirly has absolutely and unconditionally ruined you, kid. He owns every cell in that head of yours. /thread

NemeBro
Isn't Whirly's wife black/arab?

Robtard
Originally posted by NemeBro
Isn't Whirly's wife black/arab?

Black African and Arab mix, he's said.

cdtm
Originally posted by NemeBro
Isn't Whirly's wife black/arab?

Are you implying a Russian/Muslim conspiracy to influence KMC?

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by Robtard
Whirly has absolutely and unconditionally ruined you, kid. He owns every cell in that head of yours. /thread

Pretty sure I ruined you, you literally cant take it.

Zucc
Originally posted by Robtard
Whirly has absolutely and unconditionally ruined you, kid. He owns every cell in that head of yours. /thread

Ruined?

I know you two like to think yourselves as such, but It's really not the case.

To me, you and whirly are just two old dudes who preached about how Trump colluded with Russia for the last couple of years

Bashar Teg
wow! whirly broke ziggy's mind, heart, and soul

TempAccount
1. Agree

2. Also Agree. Strongly agree that you should pursue something with market value and not fall for the college scam.

3. Importance of this varies by person. Some have no family or have a shitty family life that causes their problems.

4. Sure, but don't hang around the wrong types and fall into a crowd mentality

5. Ford escort is a very old car now; why would you want to buy one? JK, has to google what escort means. So basically a Geisha? I'm down for Geisha being a man of culture but this piece of advise is entirely unnecessary.

6. It's easy to get a girl from those countries because they're all after a green card. I can think of 4 guys off the top of my head who were cucked by such decisions. Not a very good piece of advice tbh. No one should think that a man's primary goal in life is to start a family.


Also it's kinda strange for all this to be coming from you, Ziggy, of all people.

Robtard
Thread should be renamed: "The Incel Whisperer"

Surtur
Originally posted by Zucc
This is especially if u are older than, lets say, 23, cause alot of your personality is already set in stone now, if not all of it. Maybe ure just naturally introverted or somewhat "shy", highly inhibited. Or you're simply and ugly duckling.

1. forget about pursuing women for sex that much

2. Make as much money as you can, focus on your career/job, get skilled in something people really need who will give you good money for your services. Feeling ure good at something is super important, having a purpose is super important for male well being.

3. Get validation/love from family/relatives, this is very important, we all need a strong emotional support. Help them and let them help you, be a good member of the family.

4. Get a good group of GUY friends, this is more difficult than it sounds, but I truly do believe this will bring alot of happiness and I also believe its important for a man to be a member of a group of guys, with similar goals and values.

5. The money you earn, take some of it and just buy high quality escorts. No matter how much of a slayer u are, Its extremely difficult to consistently **** VERY hot girls, as those girls are usually reserved for super high status men, celebrities etc. 2-3 times a month, **** a super hot escort.

6. When u become older and start thinking about getting a family/kids, lets say when u reach 30 or 35, find a girl from a good culture with strong family values, and marry her. If ure a white-cel, getting a girl from asia is super super easy. Ive heard some eastern european countries are pretty easy too, but not as much.

This will take care of your sexual needs, your emotional/validation needs and its way less stressful than putting alot of time and energy into ****ing different women.

My advice is settle down, peoples obsession with incels on this board is crazy lol. They have made it seem like there is some epidemic of these people in this country when it's not the case.

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by Robtard
Thread should be renamed: "The Incel Whisperer"

Sure Gonz

Robtard
Originally posted by Surtur
My advice is settle down, peoples obsession with incels on this board is crazy lol. They have made it seem like there is some epidemic of these people in this country when it's not the case.

Between the scare of all the millions of Mexicans coming over to rape and murder and the millions of Islamist coming to blow up everything everyday, can you blame them.

Surtur
Originally posted by Robtard
Between the scare of all the millions of Mexicans coming over to rape and murder and the millions of Islamist coming to blow up everything everyday, can you blame them.

Yes I can blame them, they should be used to tragedy. They saw billions die over the tax cuts and net neutrality and that should have toughened them up.

carthage
Someone buy me a geisha

eThneoLgrRnae
Originally posted by Surtur
Yes I can blame them, they should be used to tragedy. They saw billions die over the tax cuts and net neutrality and that should have toughened them up.




Net neutrality. LOL That was yet another freak out from the lefties over something that was completely harmless. They thought the sky was falling and yet no one has died from it. Can't speak for anyone else but the quality of my internet performance has not declined in the slightest since net neutrality was done away with. No doubt someone will say now "just give it time! Eventually it will!" and will still probably be saying that 2 more years from now.

gold slorg
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Adam_PoE
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dadudemon
Generally, pretty sound advice.


I would replace your marriage thing with health and fitness, though. Let relationships happen naturally. If you have a preference, though, pursue your preferences.

TempAccount
Originally posted by carthage
Someone buy me a geisha You have to be a successful businessman first; then visit Japan, preferably with a group of colleagues, to split the several thousand dollar bill for a few hours of their time.

Putinbot1
Originally posted by Robtard
Whirly has absolutely and unconditionally ruined you, kid. He owns every cell in that head of yours. /thread Yeah, she has two African and a French Passport so yeah, she has a first world country and only needs the visa's anyone with an EU passport needs. Her ethnic backfrond is French, Arabic and African. No Indian or Asian there not that either would be a problem to me. Her dad was a Judge and mum is a medic.

samhain
Originally posted by Zucc
5. The money you earn, take some of it and just buy high quality escorts. No matter how much of a slayer u are, Its extremely difficult to consistently **** VERY hot girls, as those girls are usually reserved for super high status men, celebrities etc. 2-3 times a month, **** a super hot escort.


I don't doubt this could work for some but I think there are a lot of people whose attitudes towards sex and women wouldn't be helped by this. For those types I'd suggest getting a job and learning how to converse and generally interact with women. They'll stop putting women on a pedestal and see them for the flawed, wonderful creatures that they are, which in turn would make them feel better about themselves.

Instead of trying to bed women, first make them laugh, then make them think, then make them laugh again and ultimately, make them feel comfortable in your company, women will enjoy your company and wish to spend more time with you and you will eventually need to designate a pocket just for condoms.

Surtur
You gotta wonder if it's something more. If they were just desperate for sex...well, fatties need love too.

Impediment

BrolyBlack
How is it not obvious? It’s made so Rob, Bash and Putin can poke Ziggy, Surtur, Kurk in the eyes while masquerading as a real discussion.

PB is just a troll coward who’s got Surtur on ignore while trolling him behind the ignore.

Surtur

Robtard
People who make threads to troll, complaining about people making threads to troll. Too funny; too bad they'll never see it.

Surtur
The point is if you're going to be passive aggressive and troll over the same topic over and over it is best you just get a single thread to do it in.

https://media.giphy.com/media/l0IyhKF1MNYjKSVs4/giphy.gif

Putinbot1
Broly and Surt living up to being triggered by topical news.

Bashar Teg

Putinbot1

Surtur
^I have 3 magic beans to sell to anyone who buys into that, anyone interested PM me.

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by Putinbot1
basically incels are often linked to the far right, and many recent murders and crimes are Incel linked. Incels are growing in number and MGTOW boards are seen as recruiting grounds for the far right. Many also see the online misogyny as a direct result of these sites and in a broader context the Incel movement. The Overton window has been shifted against women online.

Odd the soyboys liberals here have been engaging in much more misogynistic behavior then any person here you have accused of being an incel.

eThneoLgrRnae
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
Odd the soyboys liberals here have been engaging in much more misogynistic behavior then any person here you have accused of being an incel.




Little pooty bot is obviously trolling again. We all know that incels, cucks, and especially fragile little snowflakes all tend to be very left-leaning (so are fascists). Pooty is just projecting again as leftists like to do.

Robtard
Originally posted by Putinbot1
basically incels are often linked to the far right, and many recent murders and crimes are Incel linked. Incels are growing in number and MGTOW boards are seen as recruiting grounds for the far right. Many also see the online misogyny as a direct result of these sites and in a broader context the Incel movement. The Overton window has been shifted against women online.


'Nope and don't you dare mention something relevant like the Christchurch massacre because facts will hurt my feelings.'

Surtur
Originally posted by Robtard
'Nope and don't you dare mention something relevant like the Christchurch massacre because facts will hurt my feelings.'

If you want to exploit a tragedy to cry about incels I say...please do so smile

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Robtard
'Nope and don't you dare mention something relevant like the Christchurch massacre because facts will hurt my feelings.'

Bingo

Surtur
Mention it please lol. In fact, perhaps you should make an entirely new topic about it?

Robtard
Originally posted by Surtur
If you want to exploit a tragedy to cry about incels I say...please do so smile


^ Has used 9/11* on multiple occasions to cry about Islam


*any Islamic based attack, really

Bashar Teg
"me happy, you mad, duuuuuuuuuh"

Great argument surt thumb up

Surtur
Originally posted by Robtard
^ Has used 9/11* on multiple occasions to cry about Islam


*any Islamic based attack, really

So you admit you're exploiting a tragedy? Baby steps.

Make the thread lol, please. Make a christchurch incel thread. Do it.

Surtur
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
"me happy, you mad, duuuuuuuuuh"

Great argument surt thumb up

^Has legitimately used the same argument before, good stuff

Bashar Teg
You're obviously deflecting from valid points (because your little fee-fees hurt) and dutifully derailing the thread like a baby, so have fun with that.

Surtur
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
You're obviously deflecting from valid points (because your little fee-fees hurt) and dutifully derailing the thread like a baby, so have fun with that.

Not really, I'm encouraging you to flesh out your ideas. Why so scared?

Robtard
Originally posted by Surtur
So you admit you're exploiting a tragedy? Baby steps.

Make the thread lol, please. Make a christchurch incel thread. Do it.

Your strawman argument is weak.

There's already a Christchurch thread, the incel issue was part of it, you already cried. Did you forget?

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Surtur
Not really, I'm encouraging you to flesh out your ideas. Why so scared?

Oh go suck on a milky nipple, whiny manbaby.

Robtard
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
You're obviously deflecting from valid points (because your little fee-fees hurt) and dutifully derailing the thread like a baby, so have fun with that.

Par for the course

Surtur
Did you two need a room or are you context to 69 in public?

eThneoLgrRnae
Originally posted by Surtur
Did you two need a room or are you context to 69 in public?



laughing laughing

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
Odd the soyboys

Originally posted by rudester
What a small little dick. You cant even see it.
For context see thread.
laughing

Rage.Of.Olympus

Bashar Teg
Incel is the self-identified name of an online hate group responsible for terrorism and murder, and anyone who deliberately derails a topic concerning them in an obvious attempt to defend them, deserves the moniker

TempAccount

gold slorg
@Rage.Of.Olympus

I honestly wholeheartedly agree. Right now, though, it seems, people use "incel" to describe this specific type of an online group of people with shared, severely hindered mindset that's beyond pathetic. Not just those that struggle to find partners, but respond to that in a specific, psychotic way.

Overall, yes, there are lots of people who just struggle to connect with people, and their "involuntary celibate" extends usually into various other social problems. It's normal for people to have problems; some have problems finding partners, others have problems finding a job, others have problem with controlling their emotions. All are completely natural struggles with life, sometimes complicated, sometimes huge.

Rage.Of.Olympus
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
Incel is the self-identified name of an online hate group responsible for terrorism and murder, and anyone who deliberately derails a topic concerning them in an obvious attempt to defend them, deserves the moniker

.....Are.....are you calling me an incel?

"Islam is the self-identified name of a religious hate group responsible for terrorism and murder, and anyone who deliberately derails a topic concerning them in an obvious attempt to defend them, deserves the moniker"

Your thought process is illogical, allows for no subtlety, and leaves little room for negotiation. You are dealing in absolutes in a multivariate problem involving human beings. It is lazy.

As I understand it, incel literally means Involuntary Celibate. I.e. people who, through no choice of their own, are unable to have sex with the opposite sex. When did it become an association only for a hate group? I have seen it thrown around so much and so freely. Has there been some new development? You're treating the name as synonymous to terrorism. I'm treating it as a description of a human condition afflicting many people who have no association with any violence.

There was a recent thread by Putinbot, where 25% of American males were not having sex. TWENTY-FIVE. A large number of that would fit the definition of incel (Involuntary celibate). If even half that number were violent terrorists, America would be a goddamn warzone taken straight out of Mad Max. But they're not. They are also not living up their full potential as citizens. This is a problem. It also leads to a variety of medical conditions, as consistent access to human interaction is necessary for a healthy body/mind balance.

I'm curious how much of the female population would qualify as incel. They should do another survey.

TempAccount
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
.....Are.....are you calling me an incel?

"Islam is the self-identified name of a religious hate group responsible for terrorism and murder, and anyone who deliberately derails a topic concerning them in an obvious attempt to defend them, deserves the moniker"

Your thought process is illogical, allows for no subtlety, and leaves little room for negotiation. You are dealing in absolutes in a multivariate problem involving human beings. It is lazy.

As I understand it, incel literally means Involuntary Celibate. I.e. people who, through no choice of their own, are unable to have sex with the opposite sex. When did it become an association only for a hate group? I have seen it thrown around so much and so freely. Has there been some new development? You're treating the name as synonymous to terrorism. I'm treating it as a description of a human condition afflicting many people who have no association with any violence.

There was a recent thread by Putinbot, where 25% of American males were not having sex. TWENTY-FIVE. A large number of that would fit the definition of incel (Involuntary celibate). If even half that number were violent terrorists, America would be a goddamn warzone taken straight out of Mad Max. But they're not. They are also not living up their full potential as citizens. This is a problem. It also leads to a variety of medical conditions, as consistent access to human interaction is necessary for a healthy body/mind balance.

I'm curious how much of the female population would qualify as incel. They should do another survey. I made a thread recently about Japan having 50% of people between 24 and 40 ish being incels; both men and women. Clearly they're not killing each other. This is a problem unique to individualist societies in the West.

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
Your thought process is illogical, allows for no subtlety, and leaves little room for negotiation. You are dealing in absolutes in a multivariate problem involving human beings. It is lazy.

The issue requires no subtlety, because attraction is not a negotiation, and incels are lazy:

Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
As I understand it, incel literally means Involuntary Celibate. I.e. people who, through no choice of their own, are unable to have sex with the opposite sex.

The premise that their celibacy is involuntary is false. In life, when you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. By not choosing to make themselves more appealing to the people whom they wish to attract, incels are choosing to not get laid.

Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
When did it become an association only for a hate group?

When they started murdering people.

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
.....Are.....are you calling me an incel?


Whoa nice stunt.

Robtard
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
Incel is the self-identified name of an online hate group responsible for terrorism and murder, and anyone who deliberately derails a topic concerning them in an obvious attempt to defend them, deserves the moniker

Bingo.

To rehash: There are plenty of people both men and women who would like to have sex but don't for one reason or another, this does not make them incels by default. Incel is a specific mindset one takes in for themselves.

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Robtard
Bingo.

To rehash: There are plenty of people both men and women who would like to have sex but don't for one reason or another, this does not make them incels by default. Incel is a specific mindset one takes in for themselves.

It's a simple concept, just as being white does not make me a white supremacist. But good luck explaining it to these dingbats

Rage.Of.Olympus
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
The issue requires no subtlety, because attraction is not a negotiation, and incels are lazy:

I agree, attraction is not a negotiation, and I to use to consider incels to just be a by-product of lazy behaviour.

But this is clearly not true and a gross oversimplification of a growing problem.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
The premise that their celibacy is involuntary is false. In life, when you choose the behavior, you choose the consequences. By not choosing to make themselves more appealing to the people whom they wish to attract, incels are choosing to not get laid.

This is an archaic way of thinking. I do not blame you for this. It is a tendency we in the West have, to blame people for their failings. Which I guess is understandable. This, however, is exactly the same reasoning that leads to the jailing of addicts, or the "pull yourself by the bootstraps" mentality.

I had this same perspective up until very recently. As I began to examine the data from Switzerland vs. U.S. on progress in addiction and mental health, I've come to realize that most people are unable to get themselves out of a hole, without significant support.

Celibacy is involuntary to an extent because it is a symptom of other issues, such as lack of ambition, poor hygiene, bad mental health, past abuse leading to poor social skills.

It can also lead an otherwise successful person by all accounts, to retreat from society.

Originally posted by Adam_PoE
When they started murdering people.

Are you a sith? Why are you dealing with absolutes? Incels as a term cover a HUGE amount of people. If a vocal minority of those are hateful, it does not mean that all incels are hateful. Or even most of them.

It's not a political party you become a member of.

My main POINT, is that yes, a part of being an incel is an incapability of taking responsibility of your own failings BUT it is more than that. It can be a symptom of other issues. You need to ask yourself, and we as a society, what our goal is here?

Is it to point fingers and shame people? What purpose does that serve? My goal is to integrate as many people as possible into being productive, and economically viable members of society. All scientific data and research points that to do so, when a certain subset of a population has a problem, it is a reflection of a broader symptom, and the best way to help people overcome their issues is through support.

This can mean better education in physical activity, classes on social interaction and how to start a conversation with strangers, proper etiquette on social settings, access to mental health services etc.

Rage.Of.Olympus
Originally posted by Bashar Teg
It's a simple concept, just as being white does not make me a white supremacist. But good luck explaining it to these dingbats
Originally posted by Robtard
Bingo.

To rehash: There are plenty of people both men and women who would like to have sex but don't for one reason or another, this does not make them incels by default. Incel is a specific mindset one takes in for themselves.

Incel = involuntary celibate as far as I'm concerned. And the term is being thrown around SO MUCH that, trying to use it as a narrow label for a certain subset of involuntary celibates is an exercise in futility.

People who hurt others, regardless of the underlying reasons, are assholes. We can agree with that and just move on with the semantics.

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
Incel = involuntary celibate as far as I'm concerned.

Your factually incorrect conclusion has been noted thumb up

Robtard
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
Incel = involuntary celibate as far as I'm concerned. And the term is being thrown around SO MUCH that, trying to use it as a narrow label for a certain subset of involuntary celibates is an exercise in futility.

People who hurt others, regardless of the underlying reasons, are assholes. We can agree with that and just move on with the semantics. You're ignoring reality with that broad stroke, friend. Not everyone who is unfortunate in sex holds these hateful misogynistic, often bigoted to outright racist views sometimes and feelings that they're someone "owed" sex just because they want it. In the big picture,

eg I was a late bloomer, I didn't get laid until shortly after my 18th birthday, but I was not an "Incel" as they describe themselves and the beliefs they hold. I did not feel I was owed sex just because I wanted it, I did not hate and feel resentment towards women because of my virginity.

An "Incel" in today's reality is someone who in indeed an involuntary celibate + subscribes to a certain belief system

Putinbot1
Originally posted by Robtard
You're ignoring reality with that broad stroke, friend. Not everyone who is unfortunate in sex holds these hateful misogynistic, often bigoted to outright racist views sometimes and feelings that they're someone "owed" sex just because they want it. In the big picture,

eg I was a late bloomer, I didn't get laid until shortly after my 18th birthday, but I was not an "Incel" as they describe themselves and the beliefs they hold. I did not feel I was owed sex just because I wanted it, I did not hate and feel resentment towards women because of my virginity.

An "Incel" in today's reality is someone who in indeed an involuntary celibate + subscribes to a certain belief system Bingo!

Zucc
Incel = Involuntary celibate.

Anyway, I def think Robard, PB and Teg's approach to just berating incels on threads everyday and vying for their restricted speech is just more likely to send one of these desperate souls over the edge. Whether as the advice found here could potentially save a mass shooting here and there if utilised correctly.

Robtard
Did laugh at the haughty self importance, as usual, ziggy.

But if you're legitimately trying to reinvent yourself and not be the Alt-Right racist edgelord as you've been in the past. Cool and I genuinely support it.

TempAccount
Again,

Japan literally has a negative birth rate crisis, 1 in 7 homes are vacant, 1/3 of the population will be elderly by 2040, 40% of the population between 18-34 are virgins.

Why don't they have the same "incel" crisis? Because they are a collectivist society. The individual's needs are not prioritized. It is far more important to prioritize being a productive member of society than getting laid, focusing on shallow materialistic pursuits, etc.

Of course the incel criers here are never going to accept this because they have benefited from the individualistic society in the West.

Robtard
There's just high levels of men jerking off next to women or outright groping them on trains and buses. That's all. Go Godzilla Go!

Putinbot1
Originally posted by Robtard
There's just high levels of men jerking off next to women or outright groping them on trains and buses. That's all. Go Godzilla Go! Sadly more common than people think. Being a young woman is much darker than being a young guy.

dadudemon
Originally posted by Putinbot1
Sadly more common than people think. Being a young woman is much darker than being a young guy.

If they passed a law that made it legal for women to punch the d*cks of the public baters, I think there'd be less of this? Except for the ones who want exactly that?

"Perhaps I shouldn't do this or else I may have a high risk of getting a rupture and require surgery from the punches..."

Putinbot1
Originally posted by dadudemon
If they passed a law that made it legal for women to punch the d*cks of the public baters, I think there'd be less of this? Except for the ones who want exactly that?

"Perhaps I shouldn't do this or else I may have a high risk of getting a rupture and require surgery from the punches..."

It's more than that though, teen boys often don't know where the line is.

BrolyBlack

Putinbot1

BrolyBlack

TempAccount
Originally posted by Robtard
There's just high levels of men jerking off next to women or outright groping them on trains and buses. That's all. Go Godzilla Go! Well at least they have enough self-discipline not to become serial rapists like in the dump USA and other third would countries smile

Putinbot1

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by Putinbot1
haha you're such a small cocked *****.

LOOL, triggered bad!!

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
LOOL, triggered bad!! by your cowardice, no, i know what you are.

BrolyBlack
Thanks for giving me such a good laugh PB, I needed the humor.

TempAccount
Broly please go easy on PB. His steroid-induced, over-sized heart can't take the stress of panic-attacks at his age.

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by TempAccount
Broly please go easy on PB. His steroid-induced, over-sized heart can't take the stress of panic-attacks at his age.

laughing out loudlaughing out loud

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
Thanks for giving me such a good laugh PB, I needed the humor. pee wee, you've already backed out again. Third person you called out, third person you ran from. You are what you are, a small cocked *****.

BrolyBlack
Hahahahahah, I trolled you so bad. You ain’t ever going to show up to get beat down old man!!

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
Hahahahahah, I trolled you so bad. You ain’t ever going to show up to get beat down old man!! No, you ran away. I'll be there little guy.

BrolyBlack
So mad right nowlaughing out loud

I bet you feel foolishlaughing out loudlaughing out loud

Your so mad right now!!! laughing out loud

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
So mad right nowlaughing out loud

I bet you feel foolishlaughing out loudlaughing out loud

Your so mad right now!!! laughing out loud no i bet you feel the coward you are.

BackFire
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
I agree, attraction is not a negotiation, and I to use to consider incels to just be a by-product of lazy behaviour.

But this is clearly not true and a gross oversimplification of a growing problem.



This is an archaic way of thinking. I do not blame you for this. It is a tendency we in the West have, to blame people for their failings. Which I guess is understandable. This, however, is exactly the same reasoning that leads to the jailing of addicts, or the "pull yourself by the bootstraps" mentality.

I had this same perspective up until very recently. As I began to examine the data from Switzerland vs. U.S. on progress in addiction and mental health, I've come to realize that most people are unable to get themselves out of a hole, without significant support.

Celibacy is involuntary to an extent because it is a symptom of other issues, such as lack of ambition, poor hygiene, bad mental health, past abuse leading to poor social skills.

It can also lead an otherwise successful person by all accounts, to retreat from society.



Are you a sith? Why are you dealing with absolutes? Incels as a term cover a HUGE amount of people. If a vocal minority of those are hateful, it does not mean that all incels are hateful. Or even most of them.

It's not a political party you become a member of.

My main POINT, is that yes, a part of being an incel is an incapability of taking responsibility of your own failings BUT it is more than that. It can be a symptom of other issues. You need to ask yourself, and we as a society, what our goal is here?

Is it to point fingers and shame people? What purpose does that serve? My goal is to integrate as many people as possible into being productive, and economically viable members of society. All scientific data and research points that to do so, when a certain subset of a population has a problem, it is a reflection of a broader symptom, and the best way to help people overcome their issues is through support.

This can mean better education in physical activity, classes on social interaction and how to start a conversation with strangers, proper etiquette on social settings, access to mental health services etc.

The thing about a lot of incels, at least the ones posting on various "support" websites is that they almost seem to take pride in being an incel. They talk about how they did this or that to a woman in public, calling them a name, slamming a door in their face, being rude and unpleasant, it's a group some seem to want to be a part of for some reason. At the same time, they are filled with self pity and self loathing. Adam's point is accurate, while they may be involuntary in that they'd like to have sex, the attitutde and behavior they choose to exhibit is what causes them to be unable to have sex or relationships with women. They essentially want to have sex without making any kind of effort or change to themselves, and while I agree with you as well in that I think many probably have mental health problems, it is still unfortunately their responsibility to get help for those mental health problems if they do have them. If they instead decide to wallow in their own pathetic self inflicted misery and pity among others like them, who often continue to pressure them to stay as they are so as to not lose a member of their "community", then that is ultimately a choice.

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BackFire
The thing about a lot of incels, at least the ones posting on various "support" websites is that they almost seem to take pride in being an incel. They talk about how they did this or that to a woman in public, calling them a name, slamming a door in their face, being rude and unpleasant, it's a group some seem to want to be a part of for some reason. At the same time, they are filled with self pity and self loathing. Adam's point is accurate, while they may be involuntary in that they'd like to have sex, the attitutde and behavior they choose to exhibit is what causes them to be unable to have sex or relationships with women. They essentially want to have sex without making any kind of effort or change to themselves, and while I agree with you as well in that I think many probably have mental health problems, it is still unfortunately their responsibility to get help for those mental health problems if they do have them. If they instead decide to wallow in their own pathetic self inflicted misery and pity among others like them, who often continue to pressure them to stay as they are so as to not lose a member of their "community", then that is ultimately a choice. thumb up Good post.

BrolyBlack

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BrolyBlack
Bro I would break you in one hit, no elbows needed.

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BrolyBlack
Bro I would break you in one hit, no elbows needed. Dude you have never won a fight in your life, you can givevitblargevand back out, but it's the third time.

Lord Lucien
Originally posted by BackFire
The thing about a lot of incels, at least the ones posting on various "support" websites is that they almost seem to take pride in being an incel. They talk about how they did this or that to a woman in public, calling them a name, slamming a door in their face, being rude and unpleasant, it's a group some seem to want to be a part of for some reason. At the same time, they are filled with self pity and self loathing. Adam's point is accurate, while they may be involuntary in that they'd like to have sex, the attitutde and behavior they choose to exhibit is what causes them to be unable to have sex or relationships with women. They essentially want to have sex without making any kind of effort or change to themselves, and while I agree with you as well in that I think many probably have mental health problems, it is still unfortunately their responsibility to get help for those mental health problems if they do have them. If they instead decide to wallow in their own pathetic self inflicted misery and pity among others like them, who often continue to pressure them to stay as they are so as to not lose a member of their "community", then that is ultimately a choice. thumb up

There was a Cracked article a little while ago about a former Incel. He mentioned how, despite their desire to finally have sex, once any of them actually did, the rest of the community sorta ignored or turned their back on them, as if they'd betrayed the cult.

BackFire
I'd beat you both at arm wrestling.

Putinbot1
And I bet you'd turn up Bf

BackFire
Originally posted by Lord Lucien
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There was a Cracked article a little while ago about a former Incel. He mentioned how, despite their desire to finally have sex, once any of them actually did, the rest of the community sorta ignored or turned their back on them, as if they'd betrayed the cult.

Yeah. "Cult" is a good word for their communities. The one on reddit used to be really unsettling to read through until it got banned.

Putinbot1
Originally posted by BackFire
Yeah. "Cult" is a good word for their communities. The one on reddit used to be really unsettling to read through until it got banned. I can imagine, I've only ever read about them. I don't think I want to get that close and actually read the shit.

BrolyBlack
Originally posted by Putinbot1
Dude you have never won a fight in your life, you can givevitblargevand back out, but it's the third time.

Hahaha you would never show up, I know you

Robtard
Originally posted by Putinbot1
I can imagine, I've only ever read about them. I don't think I want to get that close and actually read the shit. I've seen forwarded posts. The usual open hatred towards women for being "whores" who reject them and the funny/weird comments how they'll brag about purposely not holding a door for a woman with a stroller and how that's them striking back at the "matriarchy!" and similar nonsense.

Bashar Teg
They were all self-described "nice guys" I'm sure hat

Robtard
99~% of them are overall harmless in of themselves, they'll just circle-rage on whatever forum (Reddit, MGTOW, Chateau Heartiste etc), it's the ones that get spun into violent action by other Incels that society has to worry about.

Putinbot1
So a bit like what we see from some guys here sometimes.

dadudemon
How do you dudes know so much about them?

TempAccount
Originally posted by dadudemon
How do you dudes know so much about them? PB is a flat-out cyberstalker period.

Bashar Teg
Originally posted by Putinbot1
So a bit like what we see from some guys here sometimes.

Same herd-triggering and scapegoating

Putinbot1
Newspaper reports, I looked into it when hate speak on here seemed to be not just racially orientaed but sexually also. It confused me why the sudden misogyny.

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by Rage.Of.Olympus
Celibacy is involuntary to an extent because it is a symptom of other issues, such as lack of ambition, poor hygiene, bad mental health, past abuse leading to poor social skills.

All things they could change if they wanted to get laid more than they want to feel sorry for themselves. But why do the hard work of improving yourself when you can just blame others for your shortcomings?

dadudemon
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
All things they could change if they wanted to get laid more than they want to feel sorry for themselves. But why do the hard work of improving yourself when you can just blame others for your shortcomings?

Sounds just like an American leftist.

Adam_PoE
Weak trolling.

Surtur
Originally posted by dadudemon
Sounds just like an American leftist.

Spot on fact thumb up

Putinbot1
Originally posted by TempAccount
PB is a flat-out cyberstalker period. Says the guy who offered with no solicitation to provide me with details of another member here and got banned for it when #i reported them for it. Let it go Kurk.

TempAccount
Originally posted by Putinbot1
Says the guy who offered with no solicitation to provide me with details of another member here and got banned for it when #i reported them for it. Let it go Kurk. Was anyone actually doxxed? No? Then stfu

Putinbot1
Originally posted by TempAccount
Was anyone actually doxxed? No? Then stfu Sorry you are triggered by the truth mate. Move on.

dadudemon
Originally posted by Adam_PoE
Weak trolling.


What's wrong, did the characterization hit a bit too close to home? But you're not one of those leftists, why would you get defensive?

Adam_PoE
Originally posted by dadudemon
What's wrong, did the characterization hit a bit too close to home? But you're not one of those leftists, why would you get defensive?

Just calling a spade a spade.

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