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Who here actualy has a girlfriend or boyfriend?

too cool for a b/f.

Been a while for me...

I used to but I got dumped *sadness*

got dumped? sucky...what was his reason?

He said that he didn't want a girlfriend at the moment. The real reason was that he wanted to go steel cars and do drugs and he knew that it pissed me off so he just got rid of me.

But it's ok now, because he got sent to a boarding school in Mexico.

meh...sounds like he was a good guy to be rid of.

besides, boys suck, who needs em'!

Yeah seriously, I hate guys.

Sadly, I loved that guy very much though.

I had a g/f, but I dumped her cuz she only wanted my chedar

Hey! No need to hate guys, girls can be pretty cruel too! Narcil knows, I tell her my stories all the time...

*lol* true true...i have heard of some very cruel girls. (i occasionally count myself among them. j/k)

Every guy in my life has hurt me, so I have given up on them for now.

Ushgarak, I'm sorry that you have had some bad expierences, I'm not evil like most girls. I don't want to hurt anyone anymore then I want them to hurt me.

ObieTrice26 - hehe, your chedar, hehehe

Anyway, been a year since I was spoken for and I have not met a girl who was both single and nice ever since.

Yeah meeting a girl who is both single and nice can be hard, since the majority of both males and females in this world are cruel hearted.~

i say relationships are doooooomed!!!! and whoever SEEMS to be a happy couple is just faking it.

It's my belief that the happy couples that are out there, are actually ruined by the unhappy couples, thus making everyone unhappy, miserable, hateful, etc...

Not to mention, nothing good lasts forever anyways, so what do you expect........

Well, NOW I am cheery!

Well sometimes you just beed to accept the reality of things, and as far as I'm concerned, that is the reality of things. Happy doesn't exist.~

awww...but it does!!!! *glomp* i'm happy!! no guys!! (see? this is the secret ...no relationships => happpppyyyy!!! )

my ex dumped me so she could be with the guy she was cheating on me with. dont plan on having another relationship for a long time.

I aim to steal some of Narcil's happiness...

So that's why you are so bitter and negative huh??? It's ok, because I am exactly the same way. Once you get your heart broken it changes everything..........

there's plenty to go around. ^_^ *packages some up and gives to ush*

stuff like that is just a part of life, everyone goes through it at one point or another. at least next time ill be prepared and not quite so naive.

im not bitter or negative. im just cynical. always have been. i can be playful at times, ask ush, ive made his ass sore on numerous occasions.

Break-ups are hard. You love the person so much and then all the sudden they are just gone..............

hmm...that could be true...i've never had my heart broken. but i don't ever plan to. ^_^ i've taken too many precautionary measures.

um..i had a girlfriend, but i guess i was too nice to her, and she was used to assholes, so she couldnt take it..and broke up with me..sad really

how long were you going out, linds?

yeah, but its a part of growing up. im glad i went through it looking back. its nice not having to worry about stuff like that.

We were together at first for three months, then we broke up for a month, then we got back together for about a year and 5 months. Then it ended...............

It sucs wen U like sum1 and dont hav the heart 2 tell them

Well I made that mistake once before, and I really regretted it, so I always tell the person now.~

(Narcil's precautionary measures are to seal her heart off from the outside world)

Well that isn't always healthy, but I can understand why she would.~

thats what i plan on doing for awhile.

That sort of thing only lasts until you see a genuine opportunity come your way.

Well I haven't seen any genuine oppurtunities quite yet, so I am still closing out the world.~

well im not gonna close out the world, im just gonna stay out of a relatinoship till i feel im ready again.

I'm scared that I am gonna get hurt again so I don't want to be in a relationship again.~

heh...i have a good method. :P

and yeah, i like someone, don't have the heart to tell them---but i think having a crush is fun. (as opposed to having a b/f)

I have a girlfriend...but don't tell my wife!

That isn't cool at all you dirty sleezebag!!!!!

*lol* i think he was kidding...

u ppl r funny

50% of all american men cheat on their wives, what makes you think he was kidding????

It would be pretty stupid 2 post the fact that u r cheating 2 every1

and he had that little evil-looking emoticon... *lol* i'm pretty sure he was kidding

Well I didn't think it was a very funny joke

(shrugs) Oh well.

Portuguese are the most faithful!

Well if that is true, then I am going to make a plan of moving there when I turn 18, but I'm sure you were kidding............

I doubt she was kidding.

No. Statistics show that portuguese are the most faithful. And cant remember if its Italians or french that are the less!

kidding?that requires a sence of humor!

I think I'm just gonna become "A" sexual and be alone for the rest of my life.~

Thats what I do. But not by choice!

Awwwwww, no need to be like that, Linds!

No, dont do that Linds I.....(gulps) ugh Im gonna hate typing this but....never mind

Lol, well it seems to me that you spend just as much time on the forums as I do and so you probly don't ever get out to give yourself a chance to meet anyone.~

Oh well, wouldn't have a chance ayway... may as well be here...

Whatever you want to say, why don't you just go ahead and say it????

I seem to meet nothing BUT nice girls here, actually.

I red yor profile and u sound...well u know

No I don't know

(looks at watch)

Are you going to give a compliment or not, Obie?

WELL I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE REST OF YOU, BUT I AM REALLY QUITE CONFUSED RIGHT NOW.~

u sound sexy.

Right, Linds, look, you seem like a lovely girl, you are very friendly, and we men would all be heartbroken if someone like you withdrew yourself from all possible relationships forever.

I am sexy, doesn't it say that under my name? I wouldn't lie about something like that~

AND a Virgo. Are we virgos all sexy. Linds?

I've already had my heart broken once before, I don't want it to happen again.

Rawr, Virgos are the sexiest ever. It's our perfecionism that makes us that way. We would never leave the house lookin anything but perfect. ~

Good Lord, well, I hope you don't live like that forever. I've had my heart broken too but ruling myself out of any future relationships isn't going to bring me happiness now, is it?

No point trying to live THAT cautiously, in my opinion, and I have no intention of being in enforced loneliness because I was not prepared to risk things. And I hate loneliness.

Ooooh, very true Linds... the two of us can front the ideal of the sexy Virgo around here!

Linds, if I were yo b/f , I would never leave u. U sound very Kind

I'm still not over the person I was in love with. I don't want to let them go yet. I'm not ready........

Whoa there boyo, you don't know that... I would never tell a girl I have never met that I would never leave her, only that I would give things my best shot. None of us can tell how things will work out.

Then by all means wait until you are ready, Linds, but keep an open mind.

My x promised me that he would never leave me LOL *tears, tears, tears* In a way he is still with me, it's hard to explain. I spend a lot of time with his family. He's currently in Mexico in a boarding school as I am sure you guys already know.~

Yeah, and I know how you feel. One should never say never, for you cannot know for sure and it makes things worse if it happens. All you can do is try your best!

Things will improve, Linds. I still hate my break-up but I am much better than I was a year ago. And I have plenty of fun flirting here!

BTW, I am not expecting this from everyone, but can you guys start calling me Lindsay, I'm tired of everyone callin me Linds, and yeah I expect that, but I think I will start telling people my full first name, not just a portion of it~

Lindsay it is, we just had to know!

No problem And yeah I know that I need to give it some more time, it's been nine months and I am starting to get better but my god, it's defnitely taking long enough~

Yeah, 12 for me and it still hurts, that is the way of things.

Do you want a hug?

No hugs, I don't like people hugging me, especially when I'm in my "crappy, sad, happy, everything" mood. I like to be left alone at that time~

I could poke you with one of Lily's poking sticks instead...

(Brain: I doubt that will help...)

I don't want to be a Forum Junkie anymore, I want to move up in the ranks

Keep going, you'll get there

No poking, I'm ticklish

A-HAAAAAA! A weakness exposed!!! (notes down that Lindsay is ticklish)

Ok, any way I can cheer yopu up? I warn you, I am in a gloomy Virgo mood myself!

I want to be a Forum Councillor, but my god it will take me years to get that far. Do I ever get any special privelages as I move up???

Deity is actually the thing you get by posting lots; Councillor means you are a mod.

You don't get built-in privileges but veteran posters get more respect and trust.

What is a mod?

Moderator. We run things around here.

Hopefully I will work up to being a moderator one day in a couple of years, but anyways, back on the social track. Boyfriends and Girlfriends.

Anyone have any sob stories???

hmm...i have a SOB story. ^_~ you know, a story about a s.o.b. (*ducks* kidding...dah!! sorry...i'm all about the corny, bad jokes.)

hmmmm...........

lol I do spend lots of time here! but i'm also very shy so meeting people is difficult!

Edit:

Are you faithful G.P.?

I must confess that I've never had a girlfriend ...
I was in a boy school... So all these years I've worked & not went out.
(We'll see next year...the preparing class where I'm admitted is mixed)

But my nature is to be faithful...

Good.

45% of all women cheat on thier husbands as well, that door swings both ways there virgo

Well I am not one of those 45% who will cheat on their husbands so I'm not worried about that.~

Why do you put ~ at the end of your frase?

Oh Ok...

I think I just use it as a kinda trademark thing. I don't put it on all my posts, but I do on most of them. I think it's just a trademark thing for me. I do it with everything, not just on the forums.~

You know that little thing actually as a purppose!

Yeah I know that it does, but I use it for my own personal purpose.~

Good for you! Surprising that an american keyboard has it though!

Well to be honest, I don't know what it even means in America. What does it mean in Portugal???

Because American keyboards are???

OHHH yeah duh, but I don't know how to get that little thing over the letter. I don't think you can do that on an American keyboard~

well basacly you press on the little thing and then on the letter. It doesn't go on top of all the letters though.

ok I just tried that and it didn't work for me. I tried putting it over the n but it was a no go~

yeah it doesnt work, because in order for me to use ~ I have to push shift first so when i try doing it all at the same time I get-
~~AA~A~A~A etc................

~
a

Nice!

HAHAHA.........

a~ ^ ` ok I really have no idea what I am doing, let me try this again.........

wow thats complicated!!!

Wow I am incredibly blonde............ None of this stuff is working for me.
ok now when I push all these keys at different times nothing shows up. What the hell? I am not very keyboard smart..........

yup

Hold the "alt" key down while at the same time keying in the numbers...

thats what I was just doing and nothing is showing up, my keyboard just spazzes out. Maybe my settings are making it to where I can't do that or something.

i cant get it 2 work iether

Thank you Obie, not I don't feel so dumb

Hey JamesBond, I just read your profile and you are a virgo too. Welcome, there are many of us here.~

LOL!

What's so funny Kes???

you guys trying all this codes to use the accent marks!(is that what you call it?)

Yeah I think so. I took spanish, I should really know that

I really like the way American language is, don't have to worry about all those weird markings..........~

yeh its a very easy language.

Spanish sucks! LOL j/k

Well spanish was a lot easier to learn then french

Probably because you here it more.

yeah maybe, I can't speak either language though so I dunno..........

If you only care about easiness, you will miss a lot a things...

LOL Well my french isn't very good either.I understand a bit and speak a bit but writing is a no no!
As for spanish I understand very well and can make myself understood.Our language is very similar but when it comes to writing I make a lot of blopers!

Oh G.P is hurt!
Face it G.P., now its spanish and german!

Actually, at the time all I cared about was learning my two years worth of foreign language so I could get into college.~

I do know French isn't easy...
Only two years of foreign language learning ?

I only need two years to get into a college, but for most things that you want to major in you need to take more........