If someone fell in love, like really in love with someone of the opposite sex and later found out that they had a sex change would you break up with them or not.
No. I love that person. My defintion of love extends beyond purely physical charactersitics. Pregnancy would be an issue though, as I don't believe a man has ever given birth after a sex change.
Why does this have to be a heterosecual relationship?[SPOILER - highlight to read]: It doesn't
I'd like to pretend and be all noble and say it wouldn't matter it's all just love, but knowing myself and being completely honest it would matter to me. I don't know if to the point of breaking up with that person, but the relationship would never be the same again.
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Well it wouldnt matter since I wouldnt love them anymore once I find out they have lied to me for the past (how ever long weve been together) so i wouldnt be with "it" anymore.
Why would they be inclined to tell me then?
I mean if the whole point is to change sexes and if there's no way of telling either way then I see no point in them telling me.
I mean there's the whole idea about it being dishonest etc, but in my opinion it's not them being dishonest, they see themselves as the opposite sex so they should be considered that opposite sex and it's no one's business but their own.
I guess personally I'd rather not know if there's no difference, because I think even if there was no difference, if I knew I might treat that person differently even if it is subconsciously.
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thats a really hard question. i would like to say that love conquers all, but this is an extreme situation.
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Do I look like a guy with a plan? You know what I am? I’m a dog chasing cars. I wouldn’t know what to do with one if I caught it. You know, I just do things.
Then make a thread that specifies so. In your first post you can dictate the course of thread.
If a thread was made about peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and their effects on the goat population and someone chimed in complaining that goats who liked peanut butter and Butterfinger sandwiches were being neglected in the thread, then it's their own fault for not coming up with the topic themselves.
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Do I look like a guy with a plan? You know what I am? I’m a dog chasing cars. I wouldn’t know what to do with one if I caught it. You know, I just do things.
Do I look like a guy with a plan? You know what I am? I’m a dog chasing cars. I wouldn’t know what to do with one if I caught it. You know, I just do things.
I'd feel detrayed and a bit disgusted that I had been lied to by this person that supposedly loves me. That and I also had been tricked into having sex with a man. So yea, the relationship would be over.
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That was wrong too... Not saying she should have been killed over it, but wrong.
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