evolutionary significance of LESBIAN fetishes/sexual attraction by men
seriouosly, this is one thing i have never understood. men generally seem to instinctively{saying it cause of what i generally see in the world and even with myself} be turned on by lesbian pornography/sex etc. even to the point that it seems hotter to fantasize about it for most men than hetrosexual fantasies. what gives? how does lesbian fetishism help us biologically or evolutionary wise? why arent most girls{sum i know, ARE, but most cringe just like men wud} turned on by the thought of gay fantasies? why oh why does such an instinct survive when it leads to no children and hence no evolutionary importance{ and survive BETTER than hetro which DOES lead to children}?
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^oh you poor POOR man. actualy normal PORN, of any kind other than maybe sum soft hentai does nuthing for me, cause its usually just fake and disgusting. better to watch an average sex scene acted out with taste in a movie, if you really are that frustrated. but that isnt what this thread is about. most men find the concept of lesbians hot, but not of gays. it seems like instinct, i just wanna know why that is?
Gay erotica is produced for gay men, there is no effort made to portray women playing any role in the sexual activities depicted, so it lacks any power to arouse us. Women also almost never get turned on by gay erotica because it includes sexual acts we feel uncertain about such as oral and anal sex.
Lesbian porn is most often produced for men. Its portrayal of sexual activities is frequently shown as an introduction to heterosexual sex. Hence, it is seen as being a stimulant to male passion.
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^ but you are forgetting the rather large shouju/seinen manga/anime/soft picture industry in japan. practically every girl i know who is into gay erotica is into that kinda of stuff. apparently many are nuts over it.
and maybe i understand being uncertain about anal sex{seeing as it can hurt and that most guys can be inconsiderate assholes when it come to taking care of their female partner in that area-- not all but most. } although sum i know r confy there too, but really, why wud any woman{or any man for that matter} be unconfortable with any type of oral sex?
also, i am not just saying that much of lesbian porn isnt made for men.{althoug that is a relevant point}
im asking why men get turned on by lesbians in the first place?
poor man? because I share different tastes than you?
sure. why not.
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^ no. actually, i just think lesbians are cute, in an adoreable sort of way{i mean REAL lesbians, not those pornstars faking it, eurgh}. not really cause of the sex but just because. girls are gentler like that and it seems sweet.
n ur a lil sad if u cant see that. like a person who doesnt ever find teddy bears cute.
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Re: Re: evolutionary significance of LESBIAN fetishes/sexual attraction by men
well, honestly, if it is two hot asian chicks..........yeah.
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Re: Re: Re: Re: evolutionary significance of LESBIAN fetishes/sexual attraction by men
think about it, how often do you see a lesbian scene with two gorgeous asian women?
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^ i just MENTIONED porn. and isnt the preference for porn based on your genes{i.e. u probably wont be loving gay porn soon}. it is relevant because we seem to instinctively find lesbianism hot.
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1) I have some stored on my comp.
2) What Bardock said, though not "Google" necessarily.
3) Asian girl-girl porn isn't rare, ever since white guys had a fetish for the stereotypical 'submissive asian woman', porn companies have been pumping (excuse the pun) it out.
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