I had something that I have been struggling with for a lifetime now and I am still looking for an answer. Does anyone believe that dreams come true? I mean the romantic ones? I have always wanted a beautiful woman to be with me. Throughout time, there were women that I loved but there was always another man to have the favor over me. I have a best friend now, she said that I was family to her. She is practically the woman of my dreams but I'm afraid that it will fall apart to another man. Our friendship has been awesome and I thank God that she is in my life. I don't want to lose her but these men are different from me. I have a pigment disorder called Vitiligo where the pigment of the skin fades away. None of these men have what I have, They are fine like wine and very talented. I try to live with a pure heart. I try my best to be there but it doesn't seem like it is enough. Does any believe dreams can come true? I'm still trying to hold on.
I'll put it this way. From my experience dreams can only come true if you make then come true.
Sitting back and hoping that something will happen one day will never result in your dream coming true.
You have to do something about it. You have to be in charge. You have to make it happen yourself. Don't be afraid of rejection. Don't make excuses.
There are people with missing body parts who still find love.
There are midgets and dwarfs who find love as well.
You can't let a disorder stop you from trying. If you sit back there and feel sorry for yourself, nothing is going to happen. Believe me. You just gotta take life by the balls, and try yourself. Let yourself fail a million times, but keep going. Everyone makes mistakes, so don't be afraid.
Just keep looking, keep making acquaintance. Keep meeting women. Sooner or later you will find someone right for you. Even if they aren't right for you, once you get into the habit of dating, sooner or later it won't even be a big deal to you. You might even take it for granted lol.
She is the fairies’ midwife, and she comes
In shape no bigger than an agate-stone
On the fore-finger of an alderman,
Drawn with a team of little atomies
Over men’s noses as they lie asleep;
Her wagon-spokes made of long spinners’ legs,
The cover of the wings of grasshoppers,
The traces of the smallest spider’s web,
The collars of the moonshine’s watery beams,
Her whip of cricket’s bone, the lash of film,
Her wagoner a small grey-coated gnat,
Not so big as a round little worm
Prick’d from the lazy finger of a maid;
Her chariot is an empty hazel-nut
Made by the joiner squirrel or old grub,
Time out o’ mind the fairies’ coachmakers.
And in this state she gallops night by night
Through lovers’ brains, and then they dream of love;
O’er courtiers’ knees, that dream on court’sies straight,
O’er lawyers’ fingers, who straight dream on fees,
O’er ladies ‘ lips, who straight on kisses dream,
Which oft the angry Mab with blisters plagues,
Because their breaths with sweetmeats tainted are:
Sometime she gallops o’er a courtier’s nose,
And then dreams he of smelling out a suit;
And sometime comes she with a tithe-pig’s tail
Tickling a parson’s nose as a’ lies asleep,
Then dreams, he of another benefice:
Sometime she driveth o’er a soldier’s neck,
And then dreams he of cutting foreign throats,
Of breaches, ambuscadoes, Spanish blades,
Of healths five-fathom deep; and then anon
Drums in his ear, at which he starts and wakes,
And being thus frighted swears a prayer or two
And sleeps again. This is that very Mab
That plaits the manes of horses in the night,
And bakes the elflocks in foul sluttish hairs,
Which once untangled, much misfortune bodes:
This is the hag, when maids lie on their backs,
That presses them and learns them first to bear,
Making them women of good carriage:
This is she—
Gender: Male Location: Southern Oregon,
Looking at you.
It all depends on what kind of dream you are talking about.
The type you have that drives you to do something is the type of dream that can come true. However, the type of dream you have when you are asleep is what I was talking about. Sure there is a lot we don't know about why we dream, but I don't believe in seeing into the future.
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Yes, I know what kind of dream you were talking about.
There are various theories as to why we dream: to deal with life stressors, problem solving, letting our mind recuperate, a random and useless continuation of waking thought, a representation of unconscious desires etc. Every one of those theories has case studies to back them up, the fact that you support one of them is fine, but don't try and pass it off as fact, nothing has been conclusively proven as of yet.
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"All morons hate it when you call them a moron." - Holden Caulfield
If you ask me I would say they will not come true. It is too beautiful and nice saying they will, but it never happened that way. Not to me at least.
But since you're asking and since I like to be logical, I won't say that it is impossible. It is too difficult to support such a statement that "Dreams are impossible to become true".
Dreams may come true but not because you can dream about them. You have to do something.
Another thing is that you must not force yourself to be someone you are not just because you want your dream to be true, even if the only way to get your dream to come true is for you to be that way.
So DO NOT FORCE YOURSELF.... if too much effort is being required from you and it is being to hard... do not try to meet the requirements. We only do that when we are pretending to be someone we are not.
If you something in you is being an obstacle, do not try to eliminate that.
It will not disappear just because you wish it to be gone. You will have to learn to live with that want it or not my friend.
The important thing is... you don't need to eliminate all the "obstacles" to get your dream fulfilled. If you needed, then it would be really impossible to fulfill them.
PS: You can trust what I said above, but do not trust me to giving you any advices about how to do it. I am really not good at it, with a lot of emphasis on the "not".
Gender: Male Location: Southern Oregon,
Looking at you.
It maybe a little of all of those. I was focusing on the "come true" part, like telling the future. It's not that I'm in favor of one of these things you said over another, but the one I said was the only one I know anything about. Any of those could be true, but not seeing into the future.
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Looking for certainty out in the world is not the place to begin. The place to look is in your own heart. Choose to believe in your dream, then take action. Rejection is better than regret.
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I am not driven by people’ s praise and I am not slowed down by people’ s criticism.
You only live once. But if you live it right, once is enough.
Make poverty history.
Stop aids, keep the promise.
I had a dream in which I was having a mushroom pizza with canadian bacon.
Two days later...it became true.
So whoever tells you that dreams don't come true...is an idiot.
Trust me.
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"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when my fear is gone I will turn and face fears path, and only I will remain."
-Paul Atreides
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